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Do you have to be hung and handsome l
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By (user no longer on site) OP 10 weeks ago
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Hi everyone before I get slated i know I'm a single guy thanks . My question is do you have to be hamsome with a big member to find fun on fab. I'm very genuine and respectful don't ask for meets straight up just chats and it never works . |
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You don’t have to be both. But as there’s like a billion blokes to one woman on this site, women, rightly, have the luxury of being selective with who they meet.
The best way to meet people is to go to clubs/socials. |
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In a nutshell…no.
Everyone has preferences or different reasons for using fab. But surely attraction is always key.
Been genuine and respectful should be a given anyway.
I don’t use fab for meeting people though, I prefer to attend clubs. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP 10 weeks ago
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Thanks again everyone ill stay me and I'll keep trying and to the guy that said end the threat the next question is why what's the problem with asking a question. |
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Fabs is not the be all and end all of this lifestyle. In fact I'd say as a single guy this would be the hardest place for you to find meets as your in a sea of thousands, head to a club / social and chat to people in real life. |
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By *hilloutMan 10 weeks ago
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It certainly helps if you are physically attractive but that only gets your foot in the door...and not with everyone.
People will take note of how your profile presents and the vibe it gives off. The way you conduct yourself in the forums may also help, particularly if your target audience uses them. |
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"Some people are only interested in hot guys with massive schlongs.
But also some people are only into midget contortionists.
Just find the right people for your market."
Midget contortionists are hard to find. Literally. |
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"Hi everyone before I get slated i know I'm a single guy thanks . My question is do you have to be hamsome with a big member to find fun on fab. I'm very genuine and respectful don't ask for meets straight up just chats and it never works ."
folks might have to be in the fab world, but not so much in my opinion in the real world.
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Hmm I don't know it seems to me its just as hard finding a connection on a dating app/site as it is here. I don't particularly think size should matter however it's quite common to see profiles who are mainly just looking for hung or BBC. This place does highlight that a lot. |
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Absolutely not!. My preferences is always one who approaches me in a respectful manner (to start with  )
Having said that I do personally need a physical attraction to play. We all have our own preferences. And there are so many men compared to women on here |
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I think fab women only have the pics to judge at first and there are so many blokes in really good shape to choose from they as spoilt for choice, most think I am to big a built, tbh alot do stat they would like a big dong too |
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By (user no longer on site) 10 weeks ago
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You have to be attractive to that person yes but dick size isn't important. For me, they also need to have something about them, only being pretty doesn't impress me. |
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"Hi everyone before I get slated i know I'm a single guy thanks . My question is do you have to be hamsome with a big member to find fun on fab. I'm very genuine and respectful don't ask for meets straight up just chats and it never works ."
Even hung and handsome struggle to get a meet judging by many topics on this forum  |
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Absolutely not, personally I don't like large cocks and neither do many women, I'm small they hurt.
Yes there are size queens out there just avoid them.
We all like different things OP being larger isn't a turn off for me, I'm more about the person, don't get me wrong I need attraction but that can come with personality too not just aesthetics.
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By (user no longer on site) 10 weeks ago
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"Absolutely not, personally I don't like large cocks and neither do many women, I'm small they hurt.
Yes there are size queens out there just avoid them.
We all like different things OP being larger isn't a turn off for me, I'm more about the person, don't get me wrong I need attraction but that can come with personality too not just aesthetics.
Mrs "
Good to hear… from a skinny, average size…just guy |
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"...I don't particularly think size should matter however it's quite common to see profiles who are mainly just looking for hung or BBC. This place does highlight that a lot. "
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That's expected for a site like this, rightly or wrongly.
If this was an Embroidery Site then you would have people asking for extra long knitting needles versus short thimbles. You can still create a great tapestry with shorter/smaller... |
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OP does it help? Yes. A lot of people use the site to get something that they don’t have at home. You can’t deny that.
That said, it isn’t enough on its own. If you look at the guys who do well here they invariably have good photos and a decent profile. That’s the key thing - it is within everyone’s reach but few seem to grasp it. |
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"Hi everyone before I get slated i know I'm a single guy thanks . My question is do you have to be hamsome with a big member to find fun on fab. I'm very genuine and respectful don't ask for meets straight up just chats and it never works ."
Absolutely not.
Your couple of verifications are excellent and put you in good stead.
Just keep getting out there.
Good luck. |
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"Hi everyone before I get slated i know I'm a single guy thanks . My question is do you have to be hamsome with a big member to find fun on fab. I'm very genuine and respectful don't ask for meets straight up just chats and it never works ."
Short answer, no you don't. |
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By *ony MannMan 10 weeks ago
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Some are looking for big and if you can get a photoshop showing your cock the size of a cucumber you may a message.
...but ladies normally say hi before thing of England.
Put some thought into your profile and be nice. |
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"Hi everyone before I get slated i know I'm a single guy thanks . My question is do you have to be hamsome with a big member to find fun on fab. I'm very genuine and respectful don't ask for meets straight up just chats and it never works ."
Nope, just be yourself. I'm neither handsome or hung, just unapologetically me. It doesn't work for everyone, but I don't want it to either.
Keep your chin up, OP. You'll find the right people.   |
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By (user no longer on site) 10 weeks ago
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"Hi everyone before I get slated i know I'm a single guy thanks . My question is do you have to be hamsome with a big member to find fun on fab. I'm very genuine and respectful don't ask for meets straight up just chats and it never works ."
Depends on your "target audience", really and on what you want to get out of fab. |
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By (user no longer on site) 10 weeks ago
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Nope. I may be hung but that doesn't guarantee my success. You have to be charismatic, honest and polite. Living anywhere that isn't the countryside probably boosts your chances too |
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By *equila89Man 10 weeks ago
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I’d say things like height and facial attractiveness are gonna be filters that determine whether a conversation is even gonna begin. If you tick those boxes, your personality will become more interesting. You can register interest in someone at a glance. Single male profiles tend to be about selling themselves, women’s are more about saying what they want.
If I wanted to meet women in this scene I’d go exclusively real world events over messaging here. The imbalance and how differently both sides experience this site is just too extreme in my mind. Being the 300th person in someone’s inbox that day in the hope of a hello is just surreal to me, and utterly demoralising. |
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"Hi everyone before I get slated i know I'm a single guy thanks . My question is do you have to be hamsome with a big member to find fun on fab. I'm very genuine and respectful don't ask for meets straight up just chats and it never works ."
If it doesn’t work, then try something else. Have you been to a social? That’s where your personality and character can be noticed whereas on here, it’s very visual and people will be looking at your face and body. A lot of guys say they are ‘genuine’, think about saying stuff that reflects who you are and don’t try to appeal to everyone. What sort of people are looking for? Be like Darwin and adapt and evolve. |
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"Nope. I may be hung but that doesn't guarantee my success. You have to be charismatic, honest and polite. Living anywhere that isn't the countryside probably boosts your chances too "
And now you’ve left the site. And can’t read this. Unless you come back. And if you do. Hello, again. |
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"Hi everyone before I get slated i know I'm a single guy thanks . My question is do you have to be hamsome with a big member to find fun on fab. I'm very genuine and respectful don't ask for meets straight up just chats and it never works ."
No. You don’t. You just have to find people who don’t block and ghost 😂😂 |
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By *agatoXXXMan 9 weeks ago
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"Hi everyone before I get slated i know I'm a single guy thanks . My question is do you have to be hamsome with a big member to find fun on fab. I'm very genuine and respectful don't ask for meets straight up just chats and it never works ."
Prob'ly |
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Dick size is very important.
But for different reasons for different people.
Some like big, some prefer small and some average.
Funnily enough there are some that don't care.
Debs prefers dicks that aren't too big (7-8" max) and not so small they can't do the job. |
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"Hi everyone before I get slated i know I'm a single guy thanks . My question is do you have to be hamsome with a big member to find fun on fab. I'm very genuine and respectful don't ask for meets straight up just chats and it never works ."
No, but it helps |
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"I have a small willy, only pickle size and I find fun. Tbf I am incredibly handsome to anyone with sense though so that helps. Obviously. "
If I ever catch the ghey you'd get it, you handsome bastard.
Being a decent human being helps your cause though. |
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"I have a small willy, only pickle size and I find fun. Tbf I am incredibly handsome to anyone with sense though so that helps. Obviously.
If I ever catch the ghey you'd get it, you handsome bastard.
Being a decent human being helps your cause though."
I think the being a decent human being is most of my appeal 
It’s so good to see you in the forums  |
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No but your face has to resemble their favourite actor, sportsman, musician or "him on the telly". 95% and above similarity is fine. Only joking op, just be yourself and join in with the forum/cam room chat. Make friends and good luck! |
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By *agic.MMan 9 weeks ago
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"Hi everyone before I get slated i know I'm a single guy thanks . My question is do you have to be hamsome with a big member to find fun on fab. I'm very genuine and respectful don't ask for meets straight up just chats and it never works ."
Depends what your objective is when you say "fun"...do you want to "get lucky" or do you want to have options and be desires by most women on fab? If you want to have options, than yes it helps to be hung and handsome and tall and fit and charming, and confident and financially capable to facilitate memorable experiences, and so on and so on...or just be yourself (what ever that means), like others have said, and if you're lucky, you'll "get lucky" . |
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"Hi everyone before I get slated i know I'm a single guy thanks . My question is do you have to be hamsome with a big member to find fun on fab. I'm very genuine and respectful don't ask for meets straight up just chats and it never works ."
You actually don't. Some women on here are attention seekers and time wasters but some are serious about meets |
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We've found not, although there has to be some chemistry and attraction! Unless you are trying to treat this site like some of the casual dating apps where it doesn't take much to "get lucky". Some people are very picky over what they want, and unfortunately for you you are one single male profile amongst thousands and if you have nothing to make you stand out or intriguing then it'll be a struggle. |
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