Is it hot and cold or is it our expectations? People communicate differently which can lead to misunderstandings and clashing, if their communication style doesn't match yours probably best to move on. |
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By *bi HaiveMan 6 weeks ago
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Nope. It's natural that some conversations fizzle out.
It's also natural that once you've met someone in person that your view on them may change.
It's just as realistic that people have things going on in their lives at different times and emergencies and unplanned events may take priority over a random bunk up with someone you met or have chatted to online.
If someone is seriously stalling and making promises/commitments and constantly backing out, then it probably just means they were never blowing 'hot'in the first place.
I wouldn't overthink it. |
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"Is it hot and cold or is it our expectations? People communicate differently which can lead to misunderstandings and clashing, if their communication style doesn't match yours probably best to move on."
Agree |
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"Nope. It's natural that some conversations fizzle out.
It's also natural that once you've met someone in person that your view on them may change.
It's just as realistic that people have things going on in their lives at different times and emergencies and unplanned events may take priority over a random bunk up with someone you met or have chatted to online.
If someone is seriously stalling and making promises/commitments and constantly backing out, then it probably just means they were never blowing 'hot'in the first place.
I wouldn't overthink it. "
Obi is spot on. |
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"Nope. It's natural that some conversations fizzle out.
It's also natural that once you've met someone in person that your view on them may change.
It's just as realistic that people have things going on in their lives at different times and emergencies and unplanned events may take priority over a random bunk up with someone you met or have chatted to online.
If someone is seriously stalling and making promises/commitments and constantly backing out, then it probably just means they were never blowing 'hot'in the first place.
I wouldn't overthink it. "
Agree with this |
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When you're offer the full package (willing woman and private residence in which to have your way with said willing woman) and they blow hot before blowing cold, you know that they've had a handy-shandy before reality sets in. |
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"Is it hot and cold or is it our expectations? People communicate differently which can lead to misunderstandings and clashing, if their communication style doesn't match yours probably best to move on."
I don't thonk it't that. I'm really trying to know be knee jerk about being disappointed but feeling your going 100mph with soneone expressong the same thoughts and feeling to literally 0 and left wondering what happened is getting a bit soul destroying.  |
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As a male you have to accept that there are 100 of us to every female, couple etc. If you opened fab to 200 messages every single time you'd be inconsistent. I had a couples profile on here and it was just overwhelming. My partner would talk to soneone and then the whole conversation would just get lost in a plethora of inbound cock pics. Nearly took my eye out.
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By (user no longer on site) 6 weeks ago
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Yeah, I married this lovely chap in County Durham. But now when I'm working evenings he's wanking on Fab cams with strange women. I feel like he's blown hot, cold, and his load all over the ipad.  |
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"Yeah, I married this lovely chap in County Durham. But now when I'm working evenings he's wanking on Fab cams with strange women. I feel like he's blown hot, cold, and his load all over the ipad. "
Omg. Lmaooo.  |
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By (user no longer on site) 6 weeks ago
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"Yeah, I married this lovely chap in County Durham. But now when I'm working evenings he's wanking on Fab cams with strange women. I feel like he's blown hot, cold, and his load all over the ipad.
Omg. Lmaooo. "
I mean, it's just not fay-er. I'm giving it 7 more days and them I'm outta that dump. Consistency is key! |
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