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By (user no longer on site) OP 9 weeks ago
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Just been thinking, I'm not getting anywhere on this site. No one wants to meet me as I'm not verified etc etc.
One person person said to me that my body is a turn off! Therefore I thought I'd ask what turns people off others.
Is it the messages, the profile comments, the photos. What turns you off? |
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Quickest way to get verified is to pop into the chatrooms on camera and ask if someone can verify you, other than that get to a group social local to you and ask the host to verify you.
My biggest turn off is bad breath as kissing is important to me |
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If someone said that to me I’d tell them to fuck off!
Actually I’d probably just send the thumb emoji and feel if had a lucky escape
Biggest turn offs for me are arrogance, ignorance, a feeling of entitlement, game players and those that are constantly bemoaning how this place is crap. If it’s that crap just leave |
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Non existent profile text. Stilted, wooden messaging. Action shots - negative points if they mostly contain the people you’re playing with.
In essence - the turn off is lack of interesting conversation and connection. |
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By (user no longer on site) 9 weeks ago
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"Non existent profile text. Stilted, wooden messaging. Action shots - negative points if they mostly contain the people you’re playing with.
In essence - the turn off is lack of interesting conversation and connection. "
What she said, mostly.
Plus galleries exclusively consisting of close-ups of genitals.
And entitlement/arrogance.
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By *inaTitzTV/TS 9 weeks ago
Titz Towers, North Notts |
In a club, single guys who ignore me when other people are about, but who suddenly become amorous when it is just us.
Or guys who haven't pulled all night and want me as a consolation prize. |
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Getting verified is easy it just requires some effort.
No getting meets because your not verified is a load of crap, you'll see when your verified.
Get verified - pop on cam and ask, go to a local social event and ask, go to a local club and ask.
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Blank profiles,instant delete.
Anyone who says I don't bite unless asked or mmmmm.
Cock pics attached in first messages.
Those who send another quick message when you've deleted the first, get the hint.
Couple profiles that only show one of them, when they're both involved.
BTW op sorry you had that, there's just no need. |
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Scammed …. So I joined a forum post … there was a user with a black silhouette .. I had to choose a pic … 🙄 … half way through my bacon roll , I clicked to what was awaiting ! nothing more than a close up of a big fat hairy arsehole …. 🤢 ….. thanks pal …..
He’s about lurking around the forums ….
Click at your own risk 🫣 |
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By *as1098Man 9 weeks ago
Sevenoaks |
How fucking out of order to say that to you? Even if they thought it, they should keep it to themselves.
I can't stand the pouting, the fish lips, the ridiculous alterations they make to their faces in photoshop but my biggest turn off. In fact it really makes my shit itch.....
"Fab my pic to see more/if you like" etc.
Narcissistic pricks. More of a rant than a turn off! |
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I wouldn’t say turn off - would say questioning in meeting
Bareback sex on a single lady profile with no explanation
I know some single ladies do have a single profile and the picture is with partner but it would be good to read that |
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By *as1098Man 9 weeks ago
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"Scammed …. So I joined a forum post … there was a user with a black silhouette .. I had to choose a pic … 🙄 … half way through my bacon roll , I clicked to what was awaiting ! nothing more than a close up of a big fat hairy arsehole …. 🤢 ….. thanks pal …..
He’s about lurking around the forums ….
Click at your own risk 🫣"
I was just having a spot of lunch when I read that.
So that person has another victim to their name. |
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Treating people like a utility there to serve their needs (need ball draining etc)
Throwing shade to be popular with others
Treating gay/tv/ts as a silver medal option
Being rude to complete strangers in the forums or showing signs of a lack of temper control |
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"Just been thinking, I'm not getting anywhere on this site. No one wants to meet me as I'm not verified etc etc.
One person person said to me that my body is a turn off! Therefore I thought I'd ask what turns people off others.
Is it the messages, the profile comments, the photos. What turns you off?"
Sorry to hear that someone has been so rude to you, OP. They had no need to say that, they could have just said you weren’t their type. Messages, comments and photos can all be a turn on or turn off, it depends on the content. Think of your profile as your shop window - show off what you feel are your best bits, put some effort into your photos and bio (I haven’t looked at yours so don’t know how much effort you may have already made), be friendly, polite in messages. Good luck 🙂 |
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"Profiles that don't reply to a message particularly when it's obviously a genuine profile sending the message, and an effort has been made in the message.
Couples are the absolute worst for it!"
Fuck that. Why (if you are a woman(in particular)) would you write a reply to hundreds of chancing fuckwits amongst a few gems. |
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"Profiles that don't reply to a message particularly when it's obviously a genuine profile sending the message, and an effort has been made in the message.
Couples are the absolute worst for it!
Fuck that. Why (if you are a woman(in particular)) would you write a reply to hundreds of chancing fuckwits amongst a few gems. "
Agreed... and if u open a communication line it doesnt stop at one message! An sometimes they even get nasty! |
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"Profiles that don't reply to a message particularly when it's obviously a genuine profile sending the message, and an effort has been made in the message.
Couples are the absolute worst for it!
Fuck that. Why (if you are a woman(in particular)) would you write a reply to hundreds of chancing fuckwits amongst a few gems.
Agreed... and if u open a communication line it doesnt stop at one message! An sometimes they even get nasty!"
Yeah, no shit. People just take the piss, give them an inch and take a mile.
Anyway enough about that. Tell me a little bit about yourself 😏  |
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By (user no longer on site) 9 weeks ago
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"Profiles that don't reply to a message particularly when it's obviously a genuine profile sending the message, and an effort has been made in the message.
Couples are the absolute worst for it!
Fuck that. Why (if you are a woman(in particular)) would you write a reply to hundreds of chancing fuckwits amongst a few gems. "
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"Profiles that don't reply to a message particularly when it's obviously a genuine profile sending the message, and an effort has been made in the message.
Couples are the absolute worst for it!
Fuck that. Why (if you are a woman(in particular)) would you write a reply to hundreds of chancing fuckwits amongst a few gems.
Agreed... and if u open a communication line it doesnt stop at one message! An sometimes they even get nasty!
Yeah, no shit. People just take the piss, give them an inch and take a mile.
Anyway enough about that. Tell me a little bit about yourself 😏 "
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Dick profile pics with no other photos on their profile, it makes me feel like I’m talking to a cock and not a person 😂.
Asking to meet right this second in their initial message- like I’ve just been sat waiting for their message.
Any message that alludes to me skin colour/ race: caramel goddess, brown sugar, your hair makes me think you’re wild in bed etc. 🤢
Men calling me mature in terms of age… I’m 36 🤣😂
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"Dick profile pics with no other photos on their profile, it makes me feel like I’m talking to a cock and not a person 😂.
Asking to meet right this second in their initial message- like I’ve just been sat waiting for their message.
Any message that alludes to me skin colour/ race: caramel goddess, brown sugar, your hair makes me think you’re wild in bed etc. 🤢
Men calling me mature in terms of age… I’m 36 🤣😂
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Oh and people who ask for a million photos when they won’t even show one of them lol |
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"Profiles that don't reply to a message particularly when it's obviously a genuine profile sending the message, and an effort has been made in the message.
Couples are the absolute worst for it!
Fuck that. Why (if you are a woman(in particular)) would you write a reply to hundreds of chancing fuckwits amongst a few gems. "
Read my post again and you'll see that's exactly the opposite end of the stick than what you've got hold of |
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"Undercooking their toast. It’s most warm bread if you do that.
Weirdos.
😂😂 "
Not about it being undercooked, it's more about it not being burnt......
I have to watch the toaster as I believe that the moment my back is turned it will burn it, just because it can. |
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By *HUSH-Man 9 weeks ago
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Entitled.
I’m astonished at some of the standards people expect on here especially when they don’t have those same standards for themselves. Massive turnoff.
Sorry to hear about you getting insulted like that OP. That was a horrible thing for them to say. |
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"Profiles that don't reply to a message particularly when it's obviously a genuine profile sending the message, and an effort has been made in the message.
Couples are the absolute worst for it!
Fuck that. Why (if you are a woman(in particular)) would you write a reply to hundreds of chancing fuckwits amongst a few gems.
Read my post again and you'll see that's exactly the opposite end of the stick than what you've got hold of"
I did and I'm doubling down. It still reads the same to me. But it's small potatoes in the casserole of Fab. |
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"Undercooking their toast. It’s most warm bread if you do that.
Weirdos.
😂😂
Not about it being undercooked, it's more about it not being burnt......
I have to watch the toaster as I believe that the moment my back is turned it will burn it, just because it can."
Be nice to your toaster. If you let it share a bubble bath with you, you won’t have toast issues. |
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"Profiles that don't reply to a message particularly when it's obviously a genuine profile sending the message, and an effort has been made in the message.
Couples are the absolute worst for it!
Fuck that. Why (if you are a woman(in particular)) would you write a reply to hundreds of chancing fuckwits amongst a few gems.
Read my post again and you'll see that's exactly the opposite end of the stick than what you've got hold of
I did and I'm doubling down. It still reads the same to me. But it's small potatoes in the casserole of Fab. "
I’m with you on this, I read it twice and maybe I’m missing something too… |
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"Undercooking their toast. It’s most warm bread if you do that.
Weirdos.
😂😂
Not about it being undercooked, it's more about it not being burnt......
I have to watch the toaster as I believe that the moment my back is turned it will burn it, just because it can.
Be nice to your toaster. If you let it share a bubble bath with you, you won’t have toast issues. "
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"Lzy txt spk
Poor grammer
Penis alonside a lynx can haha what about penis hovering over a toilet lol "
Oh no that's sexy. Who wouldn't like that?
P.s surprised there was no callout over the (intentional) mis spelling of grammar. Most disappointing. Been waiting all day for that  |
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You could go on cams for a verification or try a club or an organised group social?
Bloody rude of them to say that, if I’m not interested in someone’s body type or figure I’d not say that to them in person or in a message. Sorry they were so rude OP
Socks kept on turns me off unless it’s Joe Beans, he can keep his socks & sandals on 
I also get turned off by cheats/liars because if you can’t be open about your lifestyle with your partner how can I trust you’ll not violate my boundaries or consent? |
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"Scammed …. So I joined a forum post … there was a user with a black silhouette .. I had to choose a pic … 🙄 … half way through my bacon roll , I clicked to what was awaiting ! nothing more than a close up of a big fat hairy arsehole …. 🤢 ….. thanks pal …..
He’s about lurking around the forums ….
Click at your own risk 🫣"
I wheezed 😂😂 |
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"Oh I thought of another....
The state of people's houses. Can't believe people can take a selfie with the mess in the background. "
I have one engrained in my head for life. A cat litter tray that definitely needed to be cleaned. |
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"Profiles that don't reply to a message particularly when it's obviously a genuine profile sending the message, and an effort has been made in the message.
Couples are the absolute worst for it!
Fuck that. Why (if you are a woman(in particular)) would you write a reply to hundreds of chancing fuckwits amongst a few gems.
Read my post again and you'll see that's exactly the opposite end of the stick than what you've got hold of
I did and I'm doubling down. It still reads the same to me. But it's small potatoes in the casserole of Fab.
I’m with you on this, I read it twice and maybe I’m missing something too…"
I read it 4 times but spared the quadrupling down. |
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"Undercooking their toast. It’s most warm bread if you do that.
Weirdos.
😂😂
Not about it being undercooked, it's more about it not being burnt......
I have to watch the toaster as I believe that the moment my back is turned it will burn it, just because it can."
I thought I was the only person who did that 🤣🤣 |
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For me it's attitude.
Not into anyone who misguidedly thinks they're above other people, usually based on the amount of attention they receive.
Also, zero tolerance for racism, homophobia etc.
That includes anyone who says they won't play with someone based on their prejudices (rather than preferences, which are usually easy to spot). |
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"People whining about not being verified like it's everyone else's fault.
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Do you feel the OP is "whining about not being verified like it's everyone else's fault."...?
Genuine question. 🌿"
Not particularly, I was just answering the question. Some people just repeatedly post the same old whine though. |
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"People who drive a fiat 500! It’s so annoying when you drive up towards, what you think is an empty space, but noooooo it’s a bloody tiny fiat 500!!! "
M is your nemesis. She actually does it on purpose, she reverses as far as possible and then takes pics from several angles to send to her mates who are annoyed by it.  |
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D*unk people are my biggest turn off.
Before I met M and was on the dating apps anyone with an excessive amount of holding a glass of wine or shots pictures on a night out would get instant swipe left. |
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"D*unk people are my biggest turn off.
Before I met M and was on the dating apps anyone with an excessive amount of holding a glass of wine or shots pictures on a night out would get instant swipe left."
Lol,I do that too. |
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