Just because they looked at you, doesn’t mean they’re interested.
Winks are very informal, and most people are polarised between hate, or indifference to them.
Think of it as a bonus if you get some contact from them, but don’t hand your hopes on them. |
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"Why is it that for me as a start especially when they have looked at me and I find them of interest I send a wink yet nothing carrys forward do winks mean not anymore or is it just me ???"
OP if someone looks at you in a bar and then looks away, do you wink at or prod her and expect her to immediately sashay on over and start chatting? |
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It's a pointless action in my opinion; I don't send winks. Indeed I haven't sent one for over three years, other than those which are part of a forum game or a challenge (an equally pointless exercise). I've sat next to women at socials who have shown me their 'wink tally', with the number varying between 350 and 600++ winks (from men) sitting in their 'winkbox' like forgotten orphans.
I suspect winks are more useful to/for couples. |
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) and I find it easier if the other person starts.