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By (user no longer on site) OP    9 weeks ago

In these past months I’ve felt some disconnect between me and my religion. It’s my own fault, really; life happened and I stopped reading my bible and I became too absorbed in other things in my life; stupid things I shouldn’t have bothered with.

But I saw a beautiful Cathedral yesterday and instantly I was awash with peace.

So here is my bible quote of the day:

Timothy 1:12

For the which cause I also suffer these things: nevertheless I am not ashamed: for I know whom I have believed, and am persuaded that he is able to keep that which I have committed unto him against that day

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By *agatoXXXMan 9 weeks ago

Gone and completely forgotten.

Save it for church.

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By *aughty driverMan 9 weeks ago

Romford

I feel like im on and off with religion. There are times when im so focused and other days when i havent even given it a thought. I struggle with this alot

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By *opinovMan 9 weeks ago

Point Nemo, Cumbria

This is a joke... right?

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By (user no longer on site) 9 weeks ago

I've never been religious or had any interest in it. But what other people do is up to them, so long as it doesn't hurt anybody.

If it helps you get out of bed in the morning and feel better about your life and the world, then fair play really.

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By *eroLondonMan 9 weeks ago

Covent Garden


"In these past months I’ve felt some disconnect between me and my religion. It’s my own fault, really; life happened and I stopped reading my bible and I became too absorbed in other things in my life; stupid things I shouldn’t have bothered with.

But I saw a beautiful Cathedral yesterday and instantly I was awash with peace.

So here is my bible quote of the day:

Timothy 1:12

For the which cause I also suffer these things: nevertheless I am not ashamed: for I know whom I have believed, and am persuaded that he is able to keep that which I have committed unto him against that day

"

Good for you, OP. 🩶 †

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By *exycarlashane181Couple 9 weeks ago

Leamington Spa

I'm pagan, nature, the sun, the moon, the stars, the trees, the oceans,,, everything in nature is what I hold sacred

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By *UGGYBEAR2015Man 9 weeks ago

BRIDPORT

I think it’s appropriate that we have a religious angle on the site, after all , Jesus was a swinger, all be it briefly, until they got the nail back in.

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By *arlequin_tearsMan 9 weeks ago

Sheffield

Happy to here you feel more at peace.

Being Christian, gay and hanging out on a swinging site. That's something you'll need to come to terms with in your own time.

Although there is a huge amount of irony in a lesbian being a fan of the works of Paul

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By *opinovMan 9 weeks ago

Point Nemo, Cumbria

Finding Santa Again

In these past months I’ve felt some disconnect between me and last year's Christmas presents. It’s my own fault, really; my birthday happened and I stopped writing my new Christmas list and I became too obsessed in other nibbly snacks in my cupboard; perishable things I shouldn’t have swallowed.

But I saw a beautiful hamper yesterday and instantly my trousers were awash with semen.

So here is my Santa quote of the day:

Rudolph 1:12

Oh, ye better watch out: ye better not cry: ye better not pout, I'm tellin' ye why: Santa Claus doth cometh to town: He maketh a list, checketh it twice: gonna find out who's naughty and nice: Santa Claus doth cometh to town: He see-eth ye when you're sleepin': He knoweth when you're awake: He knoweth if you've been bad or good: So be good, for fucks' sake.

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By *arakiss12TV/TS 9 weeks ago

Bedford

It's not surprising religion gets lost in the mele of life, so it's commendable that you have re connected.

It's like anything you have to reach a balance so you don't go to any extremes, being obsessed with religion can be just as destructive as losing it totally.

Remember it's a spiritual thing not a doctrine, what you feel in your soul matters.

If I listen to gospel music it lifts me when I'm down. If I hear a sermon that I relate too, it adds a logic to my life.

The Bible is an instruction manual. It works for some and not for others.

God created nature, nature gave us sex.

Sex gave us fabswingers, it all makes sense.

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By *vaRose43Woman 9 weeks ago

Forest of Dean

I’m glad it brings you comfort and that you found some peace

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By *aven.Woman 9 weeks ago

Not the North West...

I don't get why people have to mock it. It isn't doing you any harm. Grow up.

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By *ouple in LancashireCouple 9 weeks ago

in Lancashire

I don't get it, religion that is but there's things we all do that others don't and if something brings comfort for others then that's fine by me..

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By *eedsmale36Man 9 weeks ago

Leeds

That’s me in the corner, that’s me in the spotlight……..

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By (user no longer on site) 9 weeks ago


"In these past months I’ve felt some disconnect between me and my religion. It’s my own fault, really; life happened and I stopped reading my bible and I became too absorbed in other things in my life; stupid things I shouldn’t have bothered with.

But I saw a beautiful Cathedral yesterday and instantly I was awash with peace.

So here is my bible quote of the day:

Timothy 1:12

For the which cause I also suffer these things: nevertheless I am not ashamed: for I know whom I have believed, and am persuaded that he is able to keep that which I have committed unto him against that day

"

A lovely happening. I'm glad it brings you solace. 🤍

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By (user no longer on site) 9 weeks ago

For some reason reminded me of Pulp Fiction

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By *he Silver FuxMan 9 weeks ago

Uttoxeter


"I think it’s appropriate that we have a religious angle on the site, after all , Jesus was a swinger, all be it briefly, until they got the nail back in. "

😂🤣

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By *mileyculturebelfastMan 9 weeks ago

belfast


"I don't get why people have to mock it. It isn't doing you any harm. Grow up.

"

Of course it causes harm. Sooner all religion dies out the better.

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By (user no longer on site) 9 weeks ago


"I don't get why people have to mock it. It isn't doing you any harm. Grow up.

Of course it causes harm. Sooner all religion dies out the better. "

And so you have to take a shit on someone who seems to genuinely enjoy it?

You're the problem, not religion.

For the record I'm not a believer or follower of any religion.

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By *oinerbillMan 9 weeks ago

warrington


"I don't get why people have to mock it. It isn't doing you any harm. Grow up.

"

very true.

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By *he turned me GreyCouple 9 weeks ago

Warwick and Coventry

Can't you people let someone have there faith, without ripping the shit out of it.

Obviously it brings some comfort into life for Op....fucking shame on youse.....

Mr

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By *oinerbillMan 9 weeks ago

warrington


"Can't you people let someone have there faith, without ripping the shit out of it.

Obviously it brings some comfort into life for Op....fucking shame on youse.....

Mr "

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By *r TriomanMan 9 weeks ago

Chippenham Malmesbury area


"Finding Santa Again

In these past months I’ve felt some disconnect between me and last year's Christmas presents. It’s my own fault, really; my birthday happened and I stopped writing my new Christmas list and I became too obsessed in other nibbly snacks in my cupboard; perishable things I shouldn’t have swallowed.

But I saw a beautiful hamper yesterday and instantly my trousers were awash with semen.

So here is my Santa quote of the day:

Rudolph 1:12

Oh, ye better watch out: ye better not cry: ye better not pout, I'm tellin' ye why: Santa Claus doth cometh to town: He maketh a list, checketh it twice: gonna find out who's naughty and nice: Santa Claus doth cometh to town: He see-eth ye when you're sleepin': He knoweth when you're awake: He knoweth if you've been bad or good: So be good, for fucks' sake.

"

Very funny; it made me smile and laugh on dull day... maybe this is God's work???

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By *he Silver FuxMan 9 weeks ago

Uttoxeter


"I don't get why people have to mock it. It isn't doing you any harm. Grow up.

"

I’d never mock someone for their spirituality but religions… 🤨

There are religions based on similar ‘desert prophet’ style worship where every single woman on this site would be punished by death for their behaviour…

Religions that would stone a woman for showing her hair in public let alone appearing unclothed in a Fab profile picture…

When I stand in a cathedral I am in awe… but of the skills and abilities of the generations of craftsman, artisans and stonemasons that built them, and how the architects managed to persuade rock to span such distances and support unimaginable weight on delicate columns…

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By *he turned me GreyCouple 9 weeks ago

Warwick and Coventry


"I don't get why people have to mock it. It isn't doing you any harm. Grow up.

I’d never mock someone for their spirituality but religions… 🤨

There are religions based on similar ‘desert prophet’ style worship where every single woman on this site would be punished by death for their behaviour…

Religions that would stone a woman for showing her hair in public let alone appearing unclothed in a Fab profile picture…

When I stand in a cathedral I am in awe… but of the skills and abilities of the generations of craftsman, artisans and stonemasons that built them, and how the architects managed to persuade rock to span such distances and support unimaginable weight on delicate columns…

"

But yet you had to reply to Raven calling this out, and defend yourself....🤷‍♂️🤷‍♂️ why is that I wonder?.

Mr

Mr

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By *illy IdolMan 9 weeks ago

Midlands

Good for you, OP

I also like Timothy 1:7

For God gave us a spirit not of fear but of power and love self control.

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By *an1978Woman 9 weeks ago

GONE/TIMEOUT (No DMs please)

Do what you need.

Meditation on the bible is a good discipline if nothing else.

"Back to Church Sunday" is Sep 29th in a lot of CofE churches, where people are actively encouraged to return.

Whether there is a big man in the sky or not, I can't bring myself to be two faced to "repent" in public and accept communion while still being on here.

But each to their own.

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By *osey WalesMan 9 weeks ago

Surrey

Fabswingers. That open minded, tolerent community.

I dont follow religion/cults (same thing to me) but if the OP finds comfort within it, good luck to him.

Live and let live, OP, you do you and be proud about it 👍

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By *aven.Woman 9 weeks ago

Not the North West...


"I don't get why people have to mock it. It isn't doing you any harm. Grow up.

Of course it causes harm. Sooner all religion dies out the better. "

Correction.

Sooner mankind dies out the better.

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By *aven.Woman 9 weeks ago

Not the North West...


"I don't get why people have to mock it. It isn't doing you any harm. Grow up.

I’d never mock someone for their spirituality but religions… 🤨

There are religions based on similar ‘desert prophet’ style worship where every single woman on this site would be punished by death for their behaviour…

Religions that would stone a woman for showing her hair in public let alone appearing unclothed in a Fab profile picture…

When I stand in a cathedral I am in awe… but of the skills and abilities of the generations of craftsman, artisans and stonemasons that built them, and how the architects managed to persuade rock to span such distances and support unimaginable weight on delicate columns…

"

Have we proved we're more intelligent?

Super.

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By *hilloutMan 9 weeks ago

All over the place! Northwesr, , Southwest


"I don't get why people have to mock it. It isn't doing you any harm. Grow up.

"

Exactly this. Allow people to appreciate what they appreciate and to share that love with others. You can just ignore it if it means nothing to you.

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By *ouple in LancashireCouple 9 weeks ago

in Lancashire


"I don't get why people have to mock it. It isn't doing you any harm. Grow up.

Of course it causes harm. Sooner all religion dies out the better. "

The bad people will only then move to whatever replaces it as surely that will happen, it's never going to go away despite it's flaws and the bad within..

None religious gatherings or organisations throughout history have also had wrongdoers ..

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By *he Silver FuxMan 9 weeks ago

Uttoxeter


"I don't get why people have to mock it. It isn't doing you any harm. Grow up.

I’d never mock someone for their spirituality but religions… 🤨

There are religions based on similar ‘desert prophet’ style worship where every single woman on this site would be punished by death for their behaviour…

Religions that would stone a woman for showing her hair in public let alone appearing unclothed in a Fab profile picture…

When I stand in a cathedral I am in awe… but of the skills and abilities of the generations of craftsman, artisans and stonemasons that built them, and how the architects managed to persuade rock to span such distances and support unimaginable weight on delicate columns…

But yet you had to reply to Raven calling this out, and defend yourself....🤷‍♂️🤷‍♂️ why is that I wonder?.

Mr

Mr "

Don’t be ridiculous, I’m not ‘calling out’ Raven, I’m not defending myself, I’m not mocking OP,

We are having a discussion. I am communicating a point of view…

I’m calling out ‘Religion’. Your damn right I’m mocking 2000 year old doctrines created at a time human beings thought lightning was the result of a mysterious being in the sky that was angry with them. As Raven said above, we’ve moved on a bit… but these religions are still responsible for evil cruel behaviour in our modern age.

So yes I am mocking ‘religion’… and for the fucking individual in the religious police (Mutaween) that was about to whip my 14 year old daughter for showing her wrists.. (it was hot in the shop, she had rolled up her sleeves a little, forgot as she went outside) empowered because of a stupid fucking book of made up stories and rules from two thousand years ago.

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By *8on33Man 9 weeks ago

winfrith

Praised be the lord for thine is the kingdom ,Amen

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By *andj4fungamesCouple 9 weeks ago

Los Alcazares

I am looking for a religion, I'm not sure which one, but open to suggestions. There must be a God, as the alternative Dawin has been peddling has proven to be a pack of lies. Evolution of the species my arse! One just needs to hear the dribble Trump says, and half the country nodding in agreement is proof enough for me. May your cats and dogs remain safe and bless you all.

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By *he turned me GreyCouple 9 weeks ago

Warwick and Coventry


"I don't get why people have to mock it. It isn't doing you any harm. Grow up.

I’d never mock someone for their spirituality but religions… 🤨

There are religions based on similar ‘desert prophet’ style worship where every single woman on this site would be punished by death for their behaviour…

Religions that would stone a woman for showing her hair in public let alone appearing unclothed in a Fab profile picture…

When I stand in a cathedral I am in awe… but of the skills and abilities of the generations of craftsman, artisans and stonemasons that built them, and how the architects managed to persuade rock to span such distances and support unimaginable weight on delicate columns…

But yet you had to reply to Raven calling this out, and defend yourself....🤷‍♂️🤷‍♂️ why is that I wonder?.

Mr

Mr

Don’t be ridiculous, I’m not ‘calling out’ Raven, I’m not defending myself, I’m not mocking OP,

We are having a discussion. I am communicating a point of view…

I’m calling out ‘Religion’. Your damn right I’m mocking 2000 year old doctrines created at a time human beings thought lightning was the result of a mysterious being in the sky that was angry with them. As Raven said above, we’ve moved on a bit… but these religions are still responsible for evil cruel behaviour in our modern age.

So yes I am mocking ‘religion’… and for the fucking individual in the religious police (Mutaween) that was about to whip my 14 year old daughter for showing her wrists.. (it was hot in the shop, she had rolled up her sleeves a little, forgot as she went outside) empowered because of a stupid fucking book of made up stories and rules from two thousand years ago.

"

Firstly I didnt say you were calling out Raven. What I said was, I'm curious as to why you felt the need to defend yourself. By stating I dont mock spirituality, but religon! After Raven made her statement.

I'd argue you do mock....with the laughing emogis you commented with on the back of someone else's comment previously. If that's not joining in mockery, I don't know what is.

I'm sorry that your daughter had to face that, and go through it. That's not right in any stretch of the imagination. Unfortunately religion and zeolites come hand in hand....

Mr

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By *he Silver FuxMan 9 weeks ago

Uttoxeter


"I am looking for a religion, I'm not sure which one, but open to suggestions. There must be a God, as the alternative Dawin has been peddling has proven to be a pack of lies. Evolution of the species my arse! One just needs to hear the dribble Trump says, and half the country nodding in agreement is proof enough for me. May your cats and dogs remain safe and bless you all. "

😊 Humanism maybe? Although it might be a bit of a stretch if you don’t believe in Evolution..

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By *ries AngelWoman 9 weeks ago

poole

Glad you found a little reminder xxx

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By *MisschiefxTV/TS 9 weeks ago

London

When I lose something I have to retrace my steps and figure out where my ADHD brain decided to put it down.

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By *olfandtazCouple 9 weeks ago

Bristol

When I was younger I read the bible, it's fully of hypocrisy and lots of back and forth.

Now a days I take the Stephen fry view on God, Google it, it's worth a watch.

I'm not trying to bash anyone that does have faith, I know it's not for me

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By *he Silver FuxMan 9 weeks ago

Uttoxeter


"I don't get why people have to mock it. It isn't doing you any harm. Grow up.

I’d never mock someone for their spirituality but religions… 🤨

There are religions based on similar ‘desert prophet’ style worship where every single woman on this site would be punished by death for their behaviour…

Religions that would stone a woman for showing her hair in public let alone appearing unclothed in a Fab profile picture…

When I stand in a cathedral I am in awe… but of the skills and abilities of the generations of craftsman, artisans and stonemasons that built them, and how the architects managed to persuade rock to span such distances and support unimaginable weight on delicate columns…

But yet you had to reply to Raven calling this out, and defend yourself....🤷‍♂️🤷‍♂️ why is that I wonder?.

Mr

Mr

Don’t be ridiculous, I’m not ‘calling out’ Raven, I’m not defending myself, I’m not mocking OP,

We are having a discussion. I am communicating a point of view…

I’m calling out ‘Religion’. Your damn right I’m mocking 2000 year old doctrines created at a time human beings thought lightning was the result of a mysterious being in the sky that was angry with them. As Raven said above, we’ve moved on a bit… but these religions are still responsible for evil cruel behaviour in our modern age.

So yes I am mocking ‘religion’… and for the fucking individual in the religious police (Mutaween) that was about to whip my 14 year old daughter for showing her wrists.. (it was hot in the shop, she had rolled up her sleeves a little, forgot as she went outside) empowered because of a stupid fucking book of made up stories and rules from two thousand years ago.

Firstly I didnt say you were calling out Raven. What I said was, I'm curious as to why you felt the need to defend yourself. By stating I dont mock spirituality, but religon! After Raven made her statement.

I'd argue you do mock....with the laughing emogis you commented with on the back of someone else's comment previously. If that's not joining in mockery, I don't know what is.

I'm sorry that your daughter had to face that, and go through it. That's not right in any stretch of the imagination. Unfortunately religion and zeolites come hand in hand....

Mr "

It wasn’t a laughing emoji 🤨, I’m not mocking and I’m still struggling with the notion I’m defending myself.

This forum thread has the title ‘Finding Religion’ OP went to a Cathedral and felt spiritual, quoted a biblical verse.. made a post on a sex site dedicated to non-monogamy.

We are discussing ’Religion’. I was struck by the notion that someone quoting a bible was a member of this website, someone who is actively seeking sex, out of wedlock and with other men’s wives.. sex specifically condemned by the ‘rules’ of the book he quoted from, a book from 2000 years ago that has characters in it called Peter, Matthew, Mark, Luke and John… born and working in the Middle East? A main character who in all the iconography appears as a white Caucasian man but who clearly couldn’t have been…

I am simply pointing out the dichotomy of bible quotes and Fab..

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By *he turned me GreyCouple 9 weeks ago

Warwick and Coventry


"I don't get why people have to mock it. It isn't doing you any harm. Grow up.

I’d never mock someone for their spirituality but religions… 🤨

There are religions based on similar ‘desert prophet’ style worship where every single woman on this site would be punished by death for their behaviour…

Religions that would stone a woman for showing her hair in public let alone appearing unclothed in a Fab profile picture…

When I stand in a cathedral I am in awe… but of the skills and abilities of the generations of craftsman, artisans and stonemasons that built them, and how the architects managed to persuade rock to span such distances and support unimaginable weight on delicate columns…

But yet you had to reply to Raven calling this out, and defend yourself....🤷‍♂️🤷‍♂️ why is that I wonder?.

Mr

Mr

Don’t be ridiculous, I’m not ‘calling out’ Raven, I’m not defending myself, I’m not mocking OP,

We are having a discussion. I am communicating a point of view…

I’m calling out ‘Religion’. Your damn right I’m mocking 2000 year old doctrines created at a time human beings thought lightning was the result of a mysterious being in the sky that was angry with them. As Raven said above, we’ve moved on a bit… but these religions are still responsible for evil cruel behaviour in our modern age.

So yes I am mocking ‘religion’… and for the fucking individual in the religious police (Mutaween) that was about to whip my 14 year old daughter for showing her wrists.. (it was hot in the shop, she had rolled up her sleeves a little, forgot as she went outside) empowered because of a stupid fucking book of made up stories and rules from two thousand years ago.

Firstly I didnt say you were calling out Raven. What I said was, I'm curious as to why you felt the need to defend yourself. By stating I dont mock spirituality, but religon! After Raven made her statement.

I'd argue you do mock....with the laughing emogis you commented with on the back of someone else's comment previously. If that's not joining in mockery, I don't know what is.

I'm sorry that your daughter had to face that, and go through it. That's not right in any stretch of the imagination. Unfortunately religion and zeolites come hand in hand....

Mr

It wasn’t a laughing emoji 🤨, I’m not mocking and I’m still struggling with the notion I’m defending myself.

This forum thread has the title ‘Finding Religion’ OP went to a Cathedral and felt spiritual, quoted a biblical verse.. made a post on a sex site dedicated to non-monogamy.

We are discussing ’Religion’. I was struck by the notion that someone quoting a bible was a member of this website, someone who is actively seeking sex, out of wedlock and with other men’s wives.. sex specifically condemned by the ‘rules’ of the book he quoted from, a book from 2000 years ago that has characters in it called Peter, Matthew, Mark, Luke and John… born and working in the Middle East? A main character who in all the iconography appears as a white Caucasian man but who clearly couldn’t have been…

I am simply pointing out the dichotomy of bible quotes and Fab..

"

So I was referring to the two "🤣🤣" made on the back of someone mocking Jesus being nailed to a cross....

"I don't mock" is a clear defensive stance, on the back of a generalised statement, made by someone else.

So when ever someone responds to a statement that is calling out the collective hate, and no-one in particular it always raises my curiosity, as to why.....

And the OP is about feeling a disconnect feom religon in the recent past, and coming back to it, through the experinece of being in a cathedral....

And fair play for the op starting this thread. Despite it being a non-monogoumous sex seeking site.

Mr

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By *tephTV67TV/TS 9 weeks ago

Cheshire

A friend of mine is deeply religious and recently had a bereavement. She said her faith has given her comfort to get through this difficult period.

Good

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By *he Silver FuxMan 9 weeks ago

Uttoxeter


"I don't get why people have to mock it. It isn't doing you any harm. Grow up.

I’d never mock someone for their spirituality but religions… 🤨

There are religions based on similar ‘desert prophet’ style worship where every single woman on this site would be punished by death for their behaviour…

Religions that would stone a woman for showing her hair in public let alone appearing unclothed in a Fab profile picture…

When I stand in a cathedral I am in awe… but of the skills and abilities of the generations of craftsman, artisans and stonemasons that built them, and how the architects managed to persuade rock to span such distances and support unimaginable weight on delicate columns…

But yet you had to reply to Raven calling this out, and defend yourself....🤷‍♂️🤷‍♂️ why is that I wonder?.

Mr

Mr

Don’t be ridiculous, I’m not ‘calling out’ Raven, I’m not defending myself, I’m not mocking OP,

We are having a discussion. I am communicating a point of view…

I’m calling out ‘Religion’. Your damn right I’m mocking 2000 year old doctrines created at a time human beings thought lightning was the result of a mysterious being in the sky that was angry with them. As Raven said above, we’ve moved on a bit… but these religions are still responsible for evil cruel behaviour in our modern age.

So yes I am mocking ‘religion’… and for the fucking individual in the religious police (Mutaween) that was about to whip my 14 year old daughter for showing her wrists.. (it was hot in the shop, she had rolled up her sleeves a little, forgot as she went outside) empowered because of a stupid fucking book of made up stories and rules from two thousand years ago.

Firstly I didnt say you were calling out Raven. What I said was, I'm curious as to why you felt the need to defend yourself. By stating I dont mock spirituality, but religon! After Raven made her statement.

I'd argue you do mock....with the laughing emogis you commented with on the back of someone else's comment previously. If that's not joining in mockery, I don't know what is.

I'm sorry that your daughter had to face that, and go through it. That's not right in any stretch of the imagination. Unfortunately religion and zeolites come hand in hand....

Mr

It wasn’t a laughing emoji 🤨, I’m not mocking and I’m still struggling with the notion I’m defending myself.

This forum thread has the title ‘Finding Religion’ OP went to a Cathedral and felt spiritual, quoted a biblical verse.. made a post on a sex site dedicated to non-monogamy.

We are discussing ’Religion’. I was struck by the notion that someone quoting a bible was a member of this website, someone who is actively seeking sex, out of wedlock and with other men’s wives.. sex specifically condemned by the ‘rules’ of the book he quoted from, a book from 2000 years ago that has characters in it called Peter, Matthew, Mark, Luke and John… born and working in the Middle East? A main character who in all the iconography appears as a white Caucasian man but who clearly couldn’t have been…

I am simply pointing out the dichotomy of bible quotes and Fab..

So I was referring to the two "🤣🤣" made on the back of someone mocking Jesus being nailed to a cross....

"I don't mock" is a clear defensive stance, on the back of a generalised statement, made by someone else.

So when ever someone responds to a statement that is calling out the collective hate, and no-one in particular it always raises my curiosity, as to why.....

And the OP is about feeling a disconnect feom religon in the recent past, and coming back to it, through the experinece of being in a cathedral....

And fair play for the op starting this thread. Despite it being a non-monogoumous sex seeking site.

Mr

"

That was a very funny joke, and if you have a problem with it, there’s also a very, very funny film called the Life Of Brian which you might want to watch and get in a froth about… whilst actively participating in non-monogamy.

This has been fun.

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By *he turned me GreyCouple 9 weeks ago

Warwick and Coventry


"I don't get why people have to mock it. It isn't doing you any harm. Grow up.

I’d never mock someone for their spirituality but religions… 🤨

There are religions based on similar ‘desert prophet’ style worship where every single woman on this site would be punished by death for their behaviour…

Religions that would stone a woman for showing her hair in public let alone appearing unclothed in a Fab profile picture…

When I stand in a cathedral I am in awe… but of the skills and abilities of the generations of craftsman, artisans and stonemasons that built them, and how the architects managed to persuade rock to span such distances and support unimaginable weight on delicate columns…

But yet you had to reply to Raven calling this out, and defend yourself....🤷‍♂️🤷‍♂️ why is that I wonder?.

Mr

Mr

Don’t be ridiculous, I’m not ‘calling out’ Raven, I’m not defending myself, I’m not mocking OP,

We are having a discussion. I am communicating a point of view…

I’m calling out ‘Religion’. Your damn right I’m mocking 2000 year old doctrines created at a time human beings thought lightning was the result of a mysterious being in the sky that was angry with them. As Raven said above, we’ve moved on a bit… but these religions are still responsible for evil cruel behaviour in our modern age.

So yes I am mocking ‘religion’… and for the fucking individual in the religious police (Mutaween) that was about to whip my 14 year old daughter for showing her wrists.. (it was hot in the shop, she had rolled up her sleeves a little, forgot as she went outside) empowered because of a stupid fucking book of made up stories and rules from two thousand years ago.

Firstly I didnt say you were calling out Raven. What I said was, I'm curious as to why you felt the need to defend yourself. By stating I dont mock spirituality, but religon! After Raven made her statement.

I'd argue you do mock....with the laughing emogis you commented with on the back of someone else's comment previously. If that's not joining in mockery, I don't know what is.

I'm sorry that your daughter had to face that, and go through it. That's not right in any stretch of the imagination. Unfortunately religion and zeolites come hand in hand....

Mr

It wasn’t a laughing emoji 🤨, I’m not mocking and I’m still struggling with the notion I’m defending myself.

This forum thread has the title ‘Finding Religion’ OP went to a Cathedral and felt spiritual, quoted a biblical verse.. made a post on a sex site dedicated to non-monogamy.

We are discussing ’Religion’. I was struck by the notion that someone quoting a bible was a member of this website, someone who is actively seeking sex, out of wedlock and with other men’s wives.. sex specifically condemned by the ‘rules’ of the book he quoted from, a book from 2000 years ago that has characters in it called Peter, Matthew, Mark, Luke and John… born and working in the Middle East? A main character who in all the iconography appears as a white Caucasian man but who clearly couldn’t have been…

I am simply pointing out the dichotomy of bible quotes and Fab..

So I was referring to the two "🤣🤣" made on the back of someone mocking Jesus being nailed to a cross....

"I don't mock" is a clear defensive stance, on the back of a generalised statement, made by someone else.

So when ever someone responds to a statement that is calling out the collective hate, and no-one in particular it always raises my curiosity, as to why.....

And the OP is about feeling a disconnect feom religon in the recent past, and coming back to it, through the experinece of being in a cathedral....

And fair play for the op starting this thread. Despite it being a non-monogoumous sex seeking site.

Mr

That was a very funny joke, and if you have a problem with it, there’s also a very, very funny film called the Life Of Brian which you might want to watch and get in a froth about… whilst actively participating in non-monogamy.

This has been fun."

Does somebody need a consensual hug....🫂🫂🫂🫂

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By *ennifertvayrshireTV/TS 9 weeks ago

Kilmarnock

I thought this was a religious website because everyone does missionary work and constantly say oh god!!

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By (user no longer on site) 9 weeks ago


"I thought this was a religious website because everyone does missionary work and constantly say oh god!! "

I mean, look at the pictures, so many people on their knees, too!

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By *eedsmale36Man 9 weeks ago

Leeds

I think Kelly Jones of the stereophonics sums it up perfectly.

You can find yourself a god, believe in which one you want.

It means nothing, if I haven’t got you

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By (user no longer on site) 9 weeks ago

No religion here.

Im an atheist, swear to God I am

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By *ea monkeyMan 9 weeks ago

Manchester (he/him)

I’m not quite sure how religion sits with non monogamy, especially when I know how bad the church is in regards to LGBTQ+ folks.

I personally have a big problem with organised religion but I also know that faith and the church are two different things.

If you can reconcile your faith with ENM and sexuality, then that’s a positive thing

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By *ny1localMan 9 weeks ago

READING

Religion interests me, not so much the modern ones, but all the old ones. It's surprising how so many from all over the world have very similar teachings and stories. The best quote for me is the one that Dave Allen ( late Irish comedian) used to make at the end of his shows..'may your God go with you '.

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By *inceIlkestonMan 9 weeks ago

Ilkeston

I'm a fully devoted pussy worshipper. The church is her vagina waiting to be entered.

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By *he Silver FuxMan 9 weeks ago

Uttoxeter


"I don't get why people have to mock it. It isn't doing you any harm. Grow up.

I’d never mock someone for their spirituality but religions… 🤨

There are religions based on similar ‘desert prophet’ style worship where every single woman on this site would be punished by death for their behaviour…

Religions that would stone a woman for showing her hair in public let alone appearing unclothed in a Fab profile picture…

When I stand in a cathedral I am in awe… but of the skills and abilities of the generations of craftsman, artisans and stonemasons that built them, and how the architects managed to persuade rock to span such distances and support unimaginable weight on delicate columns…

But yet you had to reply to Raven calling this out, and defend yourself....🤷‍♂️🤷‍♂️ why is that I wonder?.

Mr

Mr

Don’t be ridiculous, I’m not ‘calling out’ Raven, I’m not defending myself, I’m not mocking OP,

We are having a discussion. I am communicating a point of view…

I’m calling out ‘Religion’. Your damn right I’m mocking 2000 year old doctrines created at a time human beings thought lightning was the result of a mysterious being in the sky that was angry with them. As Raven said above, we’ve moved on a bit… but these religions are still responsible for evil cruel behaviour in our modern age.

So yes I am mocking ‘religion’… and for the fucking individual in the religious police (Mutaween) that was about to whip my 14 year old daughter for showing her wrists.. (it was hot in the shop, she had rolled up her sleeves a little, forgot as she went outside) empowered because of a stupid fucking book of made up stories and rules from two thousand years ago.

Firstly I didnt say you were calling out Raven. What I said was, I'm curious as to why you felt the need to defend yourself. By stating I dont mock spirituality, but religon! After Raven made her statement.

I'd argue you do mock....with the laughing emogis you commented with on the back of someone else's comment previously. If that's not joining in mockery, I don't know what is.

I'm sorry that your daughter had to face that, and go through it. That's not right in any stretch of the imagination. Unfortunately religion and zeolites come hand in hand....

Mr

It wasn’t a laughing emoji 🤨, I’m not mocking and I’m still struggling with the notion I’m defending myself.

This forum thread has the title ‘Finding Religion’ OP went to a Cathedral and felt spiritual, quoted a biblical verse.. made a post on a sex site dedicated to non-monogamy.

We are discussing ’Religion’. I was struck by the notion that someone quoting a bible was a member of this website, someone who is actively seeking sex, out of wedlock and with other men’s wives.. sex specifically condemned by the ‘rules’ of the book he quoted from, a book from 2000 years ago that has characters in it called Peter, Matthew, Mark, Luke and John… born and working in the Middle East? A main character who in all the iconography appears as a white Caucasian man but who clearly couldn’t have been…

I am simply pointing out the dichotomy of bible quotes and Fab..

So I was referring to the two "🤣🤣" made on the back of someone mocking Jesus being nailed to a cross....

"I don't mock" is a clear defensive stance, on the back of a generalised statement, made by someone else.

So when ever someone responds to a statement that is calling out the collective hate, and no-one in particular it always raises my curiosity, as to why.....

And the OP is about feeling a disconnect feom religon in the recent past, and coming back to it, through the experinece of being in a cathedral....

And fair play for the op starting this thread. Despite it being a non-monogoumous sex seeking site.

Mr

That was a very funny joke, and if you have a problem with it, there’s also a very, very funny film called the Life Of Brian which you might want to watch and get in a froth about… whilst actively participating in non-monogamy.

This has been fun.

Does somebody need a consensual hug....🫂🫂🫂🫂"

N’ah, not from a hypocritical god-botherer. Thanks anyway. I’d fuck your wife though 😂

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By *AYENCouple 9 weeks ago

Lincolnshire


"I'm pagan, nature, the sun, the moon, the stars, the trees, the oceans,,, everything in nature is what I hold sacred"

I'm not a Pagan, but I do agree - we ALL share one sun and it's the only thing that truly creates life. K.

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By *ools and the brainCouple 9 weeks ago

couple, us we him her.

I don't believe in the idea of religion,god , Jesus or whoever you want to follow I'm not going to knock anyone who does as long as it's not fanaticism I've no problem.

I do however believe in the notion of faith, not in the religious sense but personally I have faith in love, family,honesty and peace,some may find a faith/comfort in a certain lifestyle or creed . Or following a code that gives them comfort and guidance on how they live their lives whatever it may be, could be music, art gardening I don't mean a hobby either.

So having faith in something can help you when you are troubled.

I don't think it's right to mock someone based on their religious beliefs but I don't want to be preached at by anyone either.

Btw nothing in human history has caused more bloodshed and death than religion.

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By *inaTitzTV/TS 9 weeks ago

Titz Towers, North Notts

I'm not keen on someone's imaginary being giving them licence to judge others and decide how they should live their life, or for their imaginary being being better than someone else's imaginary being.

Judging should be left to us Trans when it comes to looking at what other people have decided to wear

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By *hesblokeMan 9 weeks ago

Derbyshire village

If it gives you a way to get through life without bothering anyone else, go for it.

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By *he turned me GreyCouple 9 weeks ago

Warwick and Coventry


"I don't get why people have to mock it. It isn't doing you any harm. Grow up.

I’d never mock someone for their spirituality but religions… 🤨

There are religions based on similar ‘desert prophet’ style worship where every single woman on this site would be punished by death for their behaviour…

Religions that would stone a woman for showing her hair in public let alone appearing unclothed in a Fab profile picture…

When I stand in a cathedral I am in awe… but of the skills and abilities of the generations of craftsman, artisans and stonemasons that built them, and how the architects managed to persuade rock to span such distances and support unimaginable weight on delicate columns…

But yet you had to reply to Raven calling this out, and defend yourself....🤷‍♂️🤷‍♂️ why is that I wonder?.

Mr

Mr

Don’t be ridiculous, I’m not ‘calling out’ Raven, I’m not defending myself, I’m not mocking OP,

We are having a discussion. I am communicating a point of view…

I’m calling out ‘Religion’. Your damn right I’m mocking 2000 year old doctrines created at a time human beings thought lightning was the result of a mysterious being in the sky that was angry with them. As Raven said above, we’ve moved on a bit… but these religions are still responsible for evil cruel behaviour in our modern age.

So yes I am mocking ‘religion’… and for the fucking individual in the religious police (Mutaween) that was about to whip my 14 year old daughter for showing her wrists.. (it was hot in the shop, she had rolled up her sleeves a little, forgot as she went outside) empowered because of a stupid fucking book of made up stories and rules from two thousand years ago.

Firstly I didnt say you were calling out Raven. What I said was, I'm curious as to why you felt the need to defend yourself. By stating I dont mock spirituality, but religon! After Raven made her statement.

I'd argue you do mock....with the laughing emogis you commented with on the back of someone else's comment previously. If that's not joining in mockery, I don't know what is.

I'm sorry that your daughter had to face that, and go through it. That's not right in any stretch of the imagination. Unfortunately religion and zeolites come hand in hand....

Mr

It wasn’t a laughing emoji 🤨, I’m not mocking and I’m still struggling with the notion I’m defending myself.

This forum thread has the title ‘Finding Religion’ OP went to a Cathedral and felt spiritual, quoted a biblical verse.. made a post on a sex site dedicated to non-monogamy.

We are discussing ’Religion’. I was struck by the notion that someone quoting a bible was a member of this website, someone who is actively seeking sex, out of wedlock and with other men’s wives.. sex specifically condemned by the ‘rules’ of the book he quoted from, a book from 2000 years ago that has characters in it called Peter, Matthew, Mark, Luke and John… born and working in the Middle East? A main character who in all the iconography appears as a white Caucasian man but who clearly couldn’t have been…

I am simply pointing out the dichotomy of bible quotes and Fab..

So I was referring to the two "🤣🤣" made on the back of someone mocking Jesus being nailed to a cross....

"I don't mock" is a clear defensive stance, on the back of a generalised statement, made by someone else.

So when ever someone responds to a statement that is calling out the collective hate, and no-one in particular it always raises my curiosity, as to why.....

And the OP is about feeling a disconnect feom religon in the recent past, and coming back to it, through the experinece of being in a cathedral....

And fair play for the op starting this thread. Despite it being a non-monogoumous sex seeking site.

Mr

That was a very funny joke, and if you have a problem with it, there’s also a very, very funny film called the Life Of Brian which you might want to watch and get in a froth about… whilst actively participating in non-monogamy.

This has been fun.

Does somebody need a consensual hug....🫂🫂🫂🫂

N’ah, not from a hypocritical god-botherer. Thanks anyway. I’d fuck your wife though 😂"

Not sure where you derive hypocrisy from, but then there's no accounting for bollocks is there 🤣🤣

Now now don't covert what others have. It's one of the 10 commandments don't ya know, you need some bible study in your life 🤣🤣🤣

Anyways hugs 🫂🫂🫂🫂🫂

Mr

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By *osey WalesMan 9 weeks ago

Surrey

What if god was one of us,

Just a slob like one of us...

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By *ittlemiss Hal O weenCouple 9 weeks ago

Southampton

Well done everyone for completely derailing the thread... 👏👏👏 if having a faith helps a person then that's wonderful... it's no one's business but theirs... anyway OP hope you're doing ok

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By *r Mrs FuckableCouple 9 weeks ago

Stoke

Which one of the 3000 Gods are we talking about here? Asking for a another God who asked me to ask to make sure he's included.

Mr F.

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By *UGGYBEAR2015Man 9 weeks ago

BRIDPORT


"Well done everyone for completely derailing the thread... 👏👏👏 if having a faith helps a person then that's wonderful... it's no one's business but theirs... anyway OP hope you're doing ok"

I would absolutely agree.

The point where…….it’s no one’s business but theirs….. falls down, is when you post it on an open forum, then it ceases to become……. no one’s business but theirs.

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By *ittlemiss Hal O weenCouple 9 weeks ago

Southampton


"Well done everyone for completely derailing the thread... 👏👏👏 if having a faith helps a person then that's wonderful... it's no one's business but theirs... anyway OP hope you're doing ok

I would absolutely agree.

The point where…….it’s no one’s business but theirs….. falls down, is when you post it on an open forum, then it ceases to become……. no one’s business but theirs. "

Fair point. . I think what i was try to say is people shouldn't mock people's beliefs just because they don't agree with them....

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By *tew008Man 9 weeks ago

edinburgh


"Well done everyone for completely derailing the thread... 👏👏👏 if having a faith helps a person then that's wonderful... it's no one's business but theirs... anyway OP hope you're doing ok"

Everyone is still talking about religion though

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By *he Silver FuxMan 9 weeks ago

Uttoxeter


"I don't get why people have to mock it. It isn't doing you any harm. Grow up.

I’d never mock someone for their spirituality but religions… 🤨

There are religions based on similar ‘desert prophet’ style worship where every single woman on this site would be punished by death for their behaviour…

Religions that would stone a woman for showing her hair in public let alone appearing unclothed in a Fab profile picture…

When I stand in a cathedral I am in awe… but of the skills and abilities of the generations of craftsman, artisans and stonemasons that built them, and how the architects managed to persuade rock to span such distances and support unimaginable weight on delicate columns…

But yet you had to reply to Raven calling this out, and defend yourself....🤷‍♂️🤷‍♂️ why is that I wonder?.

Mr

Mr

Don’t be ridiculous, I’m not ‘calling out’ Raven, I’m not defending myself, I’m not mocking OP,

We are having a discussion. I am communicating a point of view…

I’m calling out ‘Religion’. Your damn right I’m mocking 2000 year old doctrines created at a time human beings thought lightning was the result of a mysterious being in the sky that was angry with them. As Raven said above, we’ve moved on a bit… but these religions are still responsible for evil cruel behaviour in our modern age.

So yes I am mocking ‘religion’… and for the fucking individual in the religious police (Mutaween) that was about to whip my 14 year old daughter for showing her wrists.. (it was hot in the shop, she had rolled up her sleeves a little, forgot as she went outside) empowered because of a stupid fucking book of made up stories and rules from two thousand years ago.

Firstly I didnt say you were calling out Raven. What I said was, I'm curious as to why you felt the need to defend yourself. By stating I dont mock spirituality, but religon! After Raven made her statement.

I'd argue you do mock....with the laughing emogis you commented with on the back of someone else's comment previously. If that's not joining in mockery, I don't know what is.

I'm sorry that your daughter had to face that, and go through it. That's not right in any stretch of the imagination. Unfortunately religion and zeolites come hand in hand....

Mr

It wasn’t a laughing emoji 🤨, I’m not mocking and I’m still struggling with the notion I’m defending myself.

This forum thread has the title ‘Finding Religion’ OP went to a Cathedral and felt spiritual, quoted a biblical verse.. made a post on a sex site dedicated to non-monogamy.

We are discussing ’Religion’. I was struck by the notion that someone quoting a bible was a member of this website, someone who is actively seeking sex, out of wedlock and with other men’s wives.. sex specifically condemned by the ‘rules’ of the book he quoted from, a book from 2000 years ago that has characters in it called Peter, Matthew, Mark, Luke and John… born and working in the Middle East? A main character who in all the iconography appears as a white Caucasian man but who clearly couldn’t have been…

I am simply pointing out the dichotomy of bible quotes and Fab..

So I was referring to the two "🤣🤣" made on the back of someone mocking Jesus being nailed to a cross....

"I don't mock" is a clear defensive stance, on the back of a generalised statement, made by someone else.

So when ever someone responds to a statement that is calling out the collective hate, and no-one in particular it always raises my curiosity, as to why.....

And the OP is about feeling a disconnect feom religon in the recent past, and coming back to it, through the experinece of being in a cathedral....

And fair play for the op starting this thread. Despite it being a non-monogoumous sex seeking site.

Mr

That was a very funny joke, and if you have a problem with it, there’s also a very, very funny film called the Life Of Brian which you might want to watch and get in a froth about… whilst actively participating in non-monogamy.

This has been fun.

Does somebody need a consensual hug....🫂🫂🫂🫂

N’ah, not from a hypocritical god-botherer. Thanks anyway. I’d fuck your wife though 😂

Not sure where you derive hypocrisy from, but then there's no accounting for bollocks is there 🤣🤣

Now now don't covert what others have. It's one of the 10 commandments don't ya know, you need some bible study in your life 🤣🤣🤣

Anyways hugs 🫂🫂🫂🫂🫂

Mr "

Honestly, it’s been great sparring with you 😄 great bit of back and forth - Forums can be so dull sometimes. Your profile does indeed warn everyone about you 😂

Manly hugs back mate, hope you’re having fun and continue to do so

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By *he turned me GreyCouple 9 weeks ago

Warwick and Coventry


"I don't get why people have to mock it. It isn't doing you any harm. Grow up.

I’d never mock someone for their spirituality but religions… 🤨

There are religions based on similar ‘desert prophet’ style worship where every single woman on this site would be punished by death for their behaviour…

Religions that would stone a woman for showing her hair in public let alone appearing unclothed in a Fab profile picture…

When I stand in a cathedral I am in awe… but of the skills and abilities of the generations of craftsman, artisans and stonemasons that built them, and how the architects managed to persuade rock to span such distances and support unimaginable weight on delicate columns…

But yet you had to reply to Raven calling this out, and defend yourself....🤷‍♂️🤷‍♂️ why is that I wonder?.

Mr

Mr

Don’t be ridiculous, I’m not ‘calling out’ Raven, I’m not defending myself, I’m not mocking OP,

We are having a discussion. I am communicating a point of view…

I’m calling out ‘Religion’. Your damn right I’m mocking 2000 year old doctrines created at a time human beings thought lightning was the result of a mysterious being in the sky that was angry with them. As Raven said above, we’ve moved on a bit… but these religions are still responsible for evil cruel behaviour in our modern age.

So yes I am mocking ‘religion’… and for the fucking individual in the religious police (Mutaween) that was about to whip my 14 year old daughter for showing her wrists.. (it was hot in the shop, she had rolled up her sleeves a little, forgot as she went outside) empowered because of a stupid fucking book of made up stories and rules from two thousand years ago.

Firstly I didnt say you were calling out Raven. What I said was, I'm curious as to why you felt the need to defend yourself. By stating I dont mock spirituality, but religon! After Raven made her statement.

I'd argue you do mock....with the laughing emogis you commented with on the back of someone else's comment previously. If that's not joining in mockery, I don't know what is.

I'm sorry that your daughter had to face that, and go through it. That's not right in any stretch of the imagination. Unfortunately religion and zeolites come hand in hand....

Mr

It wasn’t a laughing emoji 🤨, I’m not mocking and I’m still struggling with the notion I’m defending myself.

This forum thread has the title ‘Finding Religion’ OP went to a Cathedral and felt spiritual, quoted a biblical verse.. made a post on a sex site dedicated to non-monogamy.

We are discussing ’Religion’. I was struck by the notion that someone quoting a bible was a member of this website, someone who is actively seeking sex, out of wedlock and with other men’s wives.. sex specifically condemned by the ‘rules’ of the book he quoted from, a book from 2000 years ago that has characters in it called Peter, Matthew, Mark, Luke and John… born and working in the Middle East? A main character who in all the iconography appears as a white Caucasian man but who clearly couldn’t have been…

I am simply pointing out the dichotomy of bible quotes and Fab..

So I was referring to the two "🤣🤣" made on the back of someone mocking Jesus being nailed to a cross....

"I don't mock" is a clear defensive stance, on the back of a generalised statement, made by someone else.

So when ever someone responds to a statement that is calling out the collective hate, and no-one in particular it always raises my curiosity, as to why.....

And the OP is about feeling a disconnect feom religon in the recent past, and coming back to it, through the experinece of being in a cathedral....

And fair play for the op starting this thread. Despite it being a non-monogoumous sex seeking site.

Mr

That was a very funny joke, and if you have a problem with it, there’s also a very, very funny film called the Life Of Brian which you might want to watch and get in a froth about… whilst actively participating in non-monogamy.

This has been fun.

Does somebody need a consensual hug....🫂🫂🫂🫂

N’ah, not from a hypocritical god-botherer. Thanks anyway. I’d fuck your wife though 😂

Not sure where you derive hypocrisy from, but then there's no accounting for bollocks is there 🤣🤣

Now now don't covert what others have. It's one of the 10 commandments don't ya know, you need some bible study in your life 🤣🤣🤣

Anyways hugs 🫂🫂🫂🫂🫂

Mr

Honestly, it’s been great sparring with you 😄 great bit of back and forth - Forums can be so dull sometimes. Your profile does indeed warn everyone about you 😂

Manly hugs back mate, hope you’re having fun and continue to do so"

Self-confessed nob my friend 🤣🤣🤣 I also listen to confessions 🙏🙏🤣

Have a gud un

Mr

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By *ackformore100Man 9 weeks ago

Tin town


"In these past months I’ve felt some disconnect between me and my religion. It’s my own fault, really; life happened and I stopped reading my bible and I became too absorbed in other things in my life; stupid things I shouldn’t have bothered with.

But I saw a beautiful Cathedral yesterday and instantly I was awash with peace.

So here is my bible quote of the day:

Timothy 1:12

For the which cause I also suffer these things: nevertheless I am not ashamed: for I know whom I have believed, and am persuaded that he is able to keep that which I have committed unto him against that day

"

Good that you found what works for you. I hope you don't get too much hassle for daring to suggest you have and take value from your religion

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By *rHotNottsMan 9 weeks ago

Dubai & Nottingham


"In these past months I’ve felt some disconnect between me and my religion. It’s my own fault, really; life happened and I stopped reading my bible and I became too absorbed in other things in my life; stupid things I shouldn’t have bothered with.

But I saw a beautiful Cathedral yesterday and instantly I was awash with peace.

So here is my bible quote of the day:

Timothy 1:12

For the which cause I also suffer these things: nevertheless I am not ashamed: for I know whom I have believed, and am persuaded that he is able to keep that which I have committed unto him against that day

"

We’ve talk on our wildcamps over the decades about this ….no one tells you how hard it is to be a Christian!

It’s phenomenal at first if you are born again or come to it as an adult, the support and adventures, new relationships etc but over time you face all kinds of tests! Although we’ all agree it is impossible to ever unbelieve!

Keep in regular contact , through small groups if not big church , reading isn’t enough

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By *aabmanMan 9 weeks ago

bognor regis

Wtf....hope this is a wind up

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By *he turned me GreyCouple 9 weeks ago

Warwick and Coventry


"Wtf....hope this is a wind up"

And if its not 🤣🤣

Mr

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By *ty31Man 9 weeks ago

NW London


"It's not surprising religion gets lost in the mele of life, so it's commendable that you have re connected.

It's like anything you have to reach a balance so you don't go to any extremes, being obsessed with religion can be just as destructive as losing it totally.

Remember it's a spiritual thing not a doctrine, what you feel in your soul matters.

If I listen to gospel music it lifts me when I'm down. If I hear a sermon that I relate too, it adds a logic to my life.

The Bible is an instruction manual. It works for some and not for others.

"

And nobody ever said being a Christian (or any person of faith) was easy, especially in the modern world.

John 16:33

I have said these things to you, that in Me you may have peace. In the world you will have tribulation. But take heart; I have overcome the world.

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By *eordieJeansCouple 9 weeks ago

Newcastle upon Tyne

I’m am not religious at all but I don’t get why people are mocking. If religion gives someone comfort or helps keep them on the straight and narrow how can that be a bad thing?

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By *tew008Man 9 weeks ago

edinburgh


"I’m am not religious at all but I don’t get why people are mocking. If religion gives someone comfort or helps keep them on the straight and narrow how can that be a bad thing?"

Could also mean death and destruction to someone else

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By *eordieJeansCouple 9 weeks ago

Newcastle upon Tyne


"I’m am not religious at all but I don’t get why people are mocking. If religion gives someone comfort or helps keep them on the straight and narrow how can that be a bad thing?

Could also mean death and destruction to someone else "

Yes because the OP seeing a cathedral means exactly that

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By *AJMLKTV/TS 9 weeks ago

Burley

I don't really have a problem with religion - some of the art works and music created over the centuries on that theme are truly magnificent, and we would be poorer culturally without them. The problem I do have is when zealots believe that the wishes and needs of their chosen deity have more validity than those of real human beings.

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By *partharmonyCouple 9 weeks ago

Ruislip

I find Christianity completely nonsensical and I have never found any evidence for it being true. Luke

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By *idssissyTV/TS 9 weeks ago

Birmingham

I know religion means a lot to some and not much to others.

I used to be religious but lost it. Each to their own but hate it when some tell me all my life problems would be solved if I let god back in my life.

Good luck to those who do believe

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By *tew008Man 9 weeks ago

edinburgh


"I’m am not religious at all but I don’t get why people are mocking. If religion gives someone comfort or helps keep them on the straight and narrow how can that be a bad thing?

Could also mean death and destruction to someone else

Yes because the OP seeing a cathedral means exactly that "

note that I said someone else

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By *ackformore100Man 9 weeks ago

Tin town


"Wtf....hope this is a wind up"

Why?

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By *ackformore100Man 9 weeks ago

Tin town


"I’m am not religious at all but I don’t get why people are mocking. If religion gives someone comfort or helps keep them on the straight and narrow how can that be a bad thing?"

Well exactly. Guess it's because people are all so friendly tolerant and open minded. They can take it up the arse from complete strangers but don't like others personal beliefs.

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By *eordieJeansCouple 9 weeks ago

Newcastle upon Tyne


"I’m am not religious at all but I don’t get why people are mocking. If religion gives someone comfort or helps keep them on the straight and narrow how can that be a bad thing?

Well exactly. Guess it's because people are all so friendly tolerant and open minded. They can take it up the arse from complete strangers but don't like others personal beliefs. "

I have my feelings on religion having grown up around it but I would never mock someone for their beliefs.

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By *ty31Man 9 weeks ago

NW London


"I don't really have a problem with religion - some of the art works and music created over the centuries on that theme are truly magnificent, and we would be poorer culturally without them. The problem I do have is when zealots believe that the wishes and needs of their chosen deity have more validity than those of real human beings."

The issue isn't worth religion itself. The core message of faiths such as Christianity and Islam is looking after the poor and treating your neighbour right. There's numerous people who have been influenced by these teachings to devote their life to good causes and there are numerous people who have overcome difficulties in their life (crime, addiction etc) thru faith.

The issue is with greedy people taking and twisting the holy books to their own interests.

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By (user no longer on site) OP    9 weeks ago

I’ve just come back to this thread lol.

I don’t know why people are so surprised ? I’ve been pretty open about my religion before. I’ve posted scriptures before.

For those who say, ‘but you’re on a swingers site!’ ‘But you’re a lesbian!’

Yes, thanks for your observations. I’m still discovering myself and my religion. I only become religious a year or so ago at a very low point in my life.

For those that mock me, (looking at Santa), I hope you find peace in yourself. Mocking people ain’t gonna fill the void.

To everyone else, be good and do good to others ❤️

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By (user no longer on site) OP    9 weeks ago

Side note; I think it’s silly for anyone ti think that I’m the ideal Christian because I’m not, and I’ve never proclaimed to be.

I’m a transmasc batemanmaxxed delarge lesbian for goodness sake. You really think I’m the image of Christianity?

I also have spiritual ties that I don’t forgo because of my recent discovery of religion.

It was just a nice post guys. Can y’all not have some fun?

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By (user no longer on site) 9 weeks ago

I hope you manage to find what you're looking for OP. I'm not religious at all but can appreciate the structure it can provide in person's life if they need it and I really hope it can help you in that regard. I like to think you don't have to have to completely be all in on it, but take the parts you find relevant and helpful to assist you on your journey

Also, no one should mock others for their beliefs. It doesn't make you any bigger or more clever, it just makes you look like the intolerant hypocrites you claim religious people to be.

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By (user no longer on site) OP    9 weeks ago


"I hope you manage to find what you're looking for OP. I'm not religious at all but can appreciate the structure it can provide in person's life if they need it and I really hope it can help you in that regard. I like to think you don't have to have to completely be all in on it, but take the parts you find relevant and helpful to assist you on your journey

Also, no one should mock others for their beliefs. It doesn't make you any bigger or more clever, it just makes you look like the intolerant hypocrites you claim religious people to be."

Yes, you’re completely right about taking parts you find relevant and helpful because that’s exactly what I do

Thank you 3

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