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Fed up with men who just want to talk dirty
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By *bi HaiveMan 14 weeks ago
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I'm not looking for men.
But the same would apply to any couples or woman I was engaging with.
If the sole subject of conversation from the get go was sexual? I'd cut it dead after a message or two. |
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"I'm not looking for men.
But the same would apply to any couples or woman I was engaging with.
If the sole subject of conversation from the get go was sexual? I'd cut it dead after a message or two."
As soon as I get the dreaded "soooo what are you into?" message I roll my eyes and delete. Next! |
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"Fed up with men who just want to dirty. As soon as you mention about meeting up, they stop talking. Seems like more than half of the men here are like that. Do you feel the same?"
Definitely, but you soon can spot them. Just don't feed the filth talk. |
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"I'm not looking for men.
But the same would apply to any couples or woman I was engaging with.
If the sole subject of conversation from the get go was sexual? I'd cut it dead after a message or two.
As soon as I get the dreaded "soooo what are you into?" message I roll my eyes and delete. Next! "
Instant no from me too. |
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Do people really do that, I always try to find out about the person/ couple, just try to have a normal convo, which seems to.be quite difficult on here at times......
Who in the world would want to respond to a meet now request, especially in this day and age where they appears to be a resident crackpot in each city/ town and village |
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"It's the "meet now" type messages that annoy me. Obviously just looked at pics & not read the specifics on profile  "
Your right about those ones. You can right on your profile whatever you want and they still ask meet now.
But OP was talking about ones that don't seem to want to meet, just have wank talk. |
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"I'm not looking for men.
But the same would apply to any couples or woman I was engaging with.
If the sole subject of conversation from the get go was sexual? I'd cut it dead after a message or two.
As soon as I get the dreaded "soooo what are you into?" message I roll my eyes and delete. Next! "
I tell them I'm into getting to know men so we can connect and find compatibility.
Or, I say jigsaw puzzles. |
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I’m finding a lot just get off on chat for some reason .why after 30 chats between you do they say I’m not ready to meet !or show my face ??? I’m learning just to call it a day and move on I’m afraid |
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If I may I’d like to give you some advice I learned about controlling conversations in Army. When we talk we sub consciously monitor ourselves we try to balance what we want to say and what we think you want to hear then it’s a mashed up by ego trying to look superior and confident or the need to protect one’s self appearance and so on
So when you find your loosing pace with the conversation have a Quick Look back find something you want to relate too.
Then say I love that but I’d like to know what you’re thoughts are on this bit from our conversation but the key is add something that directs the conversation to where you want it to go.
This technique is also used by law enforcement to catch out liars or to see if they can keep to their story. I hope this helps you I love to hear any feedback from you all the best Lloyd xxx |
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I feel this website is declining, maybe even become a deceased status.
People can’t message without the fair that they’re saying something wrong, blocked instantly
It seems you can’t message, you either don’t receive a reply or well, there is no or
The forum is probably the only place you will get your message Red |
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"What about men who talk clean?
Oh yeah, I want you to watch me do the dishes. Mmm. Look at me vacuum, do you like that dusting action? Pass me the marigolds and I'll scrub the bathroom"
Same issue - unless you're actually going to DO it, shut up about it and stop wasting my time.  |
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They are doing this with one hand down thier trousers, as soon as the deed is done they should be left to their own guilt riddled day dreams, they know they are wasting your time but they don’t give a shit, they are here for themselves |
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