There are plenty of differently abled swingers. I have often encountered people in wheelchairs or with prosthetic or just missing limbs at clubs and events. And I'm sure there are plenty more with less visible disabilities too.
Making it a kink or fetish issue feels distasteful for me.
But if someone is attractive to me I'm unlikely to be fazed by an obvious disability. |
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"What are your thoughts on disability and kink/ fetish Ds and why aren't there any swinging disabled members? Equaility?"
My thoughts of disability are :- there are hundreds of kinds of different abilities from needing full support to being a little neurospicy.
As a kink - that depends on the individual(s) being fetishised - if they are fully consensual then have at it….
There are many swinging members with disabilities/different abilities (language to suit any individual) clubs etc aren’t generally physically very accommodating though.
I have a lot more answers - those are the ones that don’t call people out for being quite rude  |
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By *bxanfCouple 8 weeks ago
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There are plenty of disabled swingers and plenty of disabled kinksters. We know a few personally and one of us has invisible illnesses.
None of us put it at the forefront of our profiles because there is little need to. |
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"What are your thoughts on disability and kink/ fetish Ds and why aren't there any swinging disabled members? Equaility?
We are not on this earth to be fetishised. "
Some are.. But not for us either x |
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This is an interesting question.
People make a point how important it is to socialise which we get however there are those on the spectrum who might find interacting challenging but are great to have fun with.
We find those with certain disabilities are overlooked on account of their inability to interact.
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Most disabilities are invisible and so you wouldn't potentially know, unless someone disclosed this to you. There are many people here with disabilities, including physical. You'll likely find that a disability is a tiny facet of someone and they will want to be accepted and liked for all of who they are, including their sexual needs. And very likely not to be the subject of someone's fetish tastes. |
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By (user no longer on site) 8 weeks ago
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There's a club night advertised on here where they'll give you a wrist band if you want to publicly identify as neurodivergent. I haven't investigated. But apparently that's a thing... |
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