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By *bi HaiveMan 18 weeks ago
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"Is it acceptable to message someone you recognise on here ? Or does it come across as weird?"
I'd rather people didn't.
If I bump into someone at an event or club that's different and I'll cross that bridge there and then.
But online? No. It's called discretion. |
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Most of my friends know I'm on here.
If I saw a real world acquaintance, I'd probably block them to save making anyone feel awkward if I knew that wasn't going to be something I wanted to get involved with.
Or I'd leave it alone and if I happened to see them somewhere suitable I'd mention fab in front of them, and if they panicked I'd go block them.
My workmate tried the casually mentioning fab in a conversation with me. He was attractive and not a weird creep about it. So I took him to his first club 💜 |
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I've read these threads a few times and it seems I am in the minority but I'd much rather know if someone recognises me.
But I take precautions with my profile so hopefully it's not obvious who I am.
I used to have face pics visible but then I got a public facing job and I can't think of anything worse than someone in rl knowing my secrets and me having no idea. |
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