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By *izzy69 OP   Man 10 weeks ago

London

Why do some find the word offensive?

If it's used offensively, I can understand. I use it in extreme cases to demonstrate my degree of hatred of someone or level of nuisance. It is meant to be insulting in that situation.

I like it used (by anyone) during sex because it ratchets up the heat. (Yes I like talking dirty while fucking, lol).

So it has its uses but some people have a natural aversion to it, especially the ladies.

Discuss...

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By (user no longer on site) 10 weeks ago

It's just a word. The offence is not in the word itself, it's in the intent, I maintain.

For example, one could be extremely offensive without using any swear words.

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By *ellhungvweMan 10 weeks ago

Cheltenham

It is offensively effective. I dislike it as a word but it can be used really well if you need to express that level of anger about someone.

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By *izzy69 OP   Man 10 weeks ago

London


"It's just a word. The offence is not in the word itself, it's in the intent, I maintain.

For example, one could be extremely offensive without using any swear words."

I agree, totally. But I've heard many women say they hate the word.

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By *oralltherightreasonsCouple 10 weeks ago

WELLINGBOROUGH

No offensive, but we find it aggressive mainly because that's the context in which we use it.

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By *bi HaiveMan 10 weeks ago
Forum Mod

Cheeseville, Somerset

All words are just words.

Context and intention are key.

You can make pretty much any word an insult, offensive or a compliment depending on how you use it and who you're saying it to and why. 🤷‍♂️

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By *oo..Woman 10 weeks ago

Boo's World

Can't stand the word one bit.

Whether it's used to describe someone acting like a dickhead or to refer to a woman's genitals.

It's not needed, and would be the biggest turn off in the world.

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By *izzy69 OP   Man 10 weeks ago

London


"Can't stand the word one bit.

Whether it's used to describe someone acting like a dickhead or to refer to a woman's genitals.

It's not needed, and would be the biggest turn off in the world.

"

Ah that's the view pint I'm talking about. Right so please explain why it offends you so much. As others have said, it's a word and used like any other - it's the intent that colours it.

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By *vana_SweetnessWoman 10 weeks ago

Derby

Personally I don't find the word offensive. Words are words. It's up to the recipient to choose to be offended or not 🤷🏻‍♀️

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By *oo..Woman 10 weeks ago

Boo's World


"Can't stand the word one bit.

Whether it's used to describe someone acting like a dickhead or to refer to a woman's genitals.

It's not needed, and would be the biggest turn off in the world.

Ah that's the view pint I'm talking about. Right so please explain why it offends you so much. As others have said, it's a word and used like any other - it's the intent that colours it.

"

I don't need to explain why it offends me and I'd not be around people sexually that referred to a body part of mine using a vulgar slang word.

That is what the word is at the end of the day when being used towards a womans body part.

I don't like it - simple as that.

So many men are quick to use the word in conversation or in the bedroom as well, as it's become something "normal" to do. How many have actually asked the woman first if its okay to use?

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By *avexxMan 10 weeks ago

cheshire

its not a word i use,, but each to their own

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By *izzy69 OP   Man 10 weeks ago

London


"Can't stand the word one bit.

Whether it's used to describe someone acting like a dickhead or to refer to a woman's genitals.

It's not needed, and would be the biggest turn off in the world.

Ah that's the view pint I'm talking about. Right so please explain why it offends you so much. As others have said, it's a word and used like any other - it's the intent that colours it.

I don't need to explain why it offends me and I'd not be around people sexually that referred to a body part of mine using a vulgar slang word.

That is what the word is at the end of the day when being used towards a womans body part.

I don't like it - simple as that.

So many men are quick to use the word in conversation or in the bedroom as well, as it's become something "normal" to do. How many have actually asked the woman first if its okay to use? "

I agree, as I said, I use it for effect in particular scenarios. But I do agree that you shouldn't be free and easy with it.

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By *uckingFutzMan 10 weeks ago

Plymouth

How many times has anybody heard a bloke say " I'm sorry madame but I'm afraid that your cunt offends my me".

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By *izzy69 OP   Man 10 weeks ago

London


"How many times has anybody heard a bloke say " I'm sorry madame but I'm afraid that your cunt offends my me"."

Well....when I had to complain to someone about her husband. Lol

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman 10 weeks ago

Carlisle usually


"Imagine if other words caused the same visceral reaction from people. You and I are having a lovely conversation in a café. You casually mention the word yogurt in an anecdote and I stop you, mid-sentence, saying I find your use of that word “pathetic.” I’m genuinely upset by your use of the word yogurt. I’ve never said “yogurt.” Not even when I stub my toe. How could you possibly say that? There are children here. Children who now, thanks to me, know a word that gets a reaction. A word that has power because I gave it power. Deep down, the only reason I hate the word yogurt is because I know that everyone calls me a “whiny little yogurt” behind my back."

It's just a word. I quite like it as a word 💜

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By (user no longer on site) 10 weeks ago


"Imagine if other words caused the same visceral reaction from people. You and I are having a lovely conversation in a café. You casually mention the word yogurt in an anecdote and I stop you, mid-sentence, saying I find your use of that word “pathetic.” I’m genuinely upset by your use of the word yogurt. I’ve never said “yogurt.” Not even when I stub my toe. How could you possibly say that? There are children here. Children who now, thanks to me, know a word that gets a reaction. A word that has power because I gave it power. Deep down, the only reason I hate the word yogurt is because I know that everyone calls me a “whiny little yogurt” behind my back.

It's just a word. I quite like it as a word 💜"

It does roll particularly well off the tongue, so to speak.

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By *icolerobbieCouple 10 weeks ago

walsall

I don’t like it. But then again I don’t like any profanity really. These words are part of language and have uses, but they are over used by the hard of thinking usually.

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By *cnugatugMan 10 weeks ago

Chatham

I used to only reserve this for the harshest insults but now it seems like it's lost its harshness and I hear it in every day conversation in town maybe that's just Chatham though

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By *izzy69 OP   Man 10 weeks ago

London


"Imagine if other words caused the same visceral reaction from people. You and I are having a lovely conversation in a café. You casually mention the word yogurt in an anecdote and I stop you, mid-sentence, saying I find your use of that word “pathetic.” I’m genuinely upset by your use of the word yogurt. I’ve never said “yogurt.” Not even when I stub my toe. How could you possibly say that? There are children here. Children who now, thanks to me, know a word that gets a reaction. A word that has power because I gave it power. Deep down, the only reason I hate the word yogurt is because I know that everyone calls me a “whiny little yogurt” behind my back.

It's just a word. I quite like it as a word 💜

It does roll particularly well off the tongue, so to speak."

The word or the actual thing itself? Lol

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By *icolerobbieCouple 10 weeks ago

walsall


"All words are just words.

Context and intention are key.

You can make pretty much any word an insult, offensive or a compliment depending on how you use it and who you're saying it to and why. 🤷‍♂️"

I wouldn’t ever accept a compliment that used gutter language. Id never be compatible with that person.

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By *izzy69 OP   Man 10 weeks ago

London


"I don’t like it. But then again I don’t like any profanity really. These words are part of language and have uses, but they are over used by the hard of thinking usually. "

Aw, you sound like my kind of people.

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By *izzy69 OP   Man 10 weeks ago

London


"All words are just words.

Context and intention are key.

You can make pretty much any word an insult, offensive or a compliment depending on how you use it and who you're saying it to and why. 🤷‍♂️

I wouldn’t ever accept a compliment that used gutter language. Id never be compatible with that person. "

Not even if someone said "you're fucking gorgeous"?

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By *heelerMan 10 weeks ago

Northants

I hate the word and very seldom use it.

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By *olfandtazCouple 10 weeks ago

Bristol

It's a word I use rarely but when I do use it you can bet I am extremely pissed off and the person I direct it at really does deserve it

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By *issmorganWoman 10 weeks ago

Calderdale innit

It doesn't bother me in the slightest, but if it's used to be malicious against someone, I can see why they wouldn't like it.

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By *allySlinkyWoman 10 weeks ago

Leeds


"Why do some find the word offensive?

If it's used offensively, I can understand. I use it in extreme cases to demonstrate my degree of hatred of someone or level of nuisance. It is meant to be insulting in that situation.

"

Exactly. So you are using the word to be offensive. Why should female genitalia be the biggest insult you can think of ?

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By *eaSlutsCouple 10 weeks ago

Glasgow

Don't forget it can also be used as a term of endearment in regional dialects!

C x

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By *izzy69 OP   Man 10 weeks ago

London


"Why do some find the word offensive?

If it's used offensively, I can understand. I use it in extreme cases to demonstrate my degree of hatred of someone or level of nuisance. It is meant to be insulting in that situation.

Exactly. So you are using the word to be offensive. Why should female genitalia be the biggest insult you can think of ?"

Some people are called dicks too.

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By *ophieslutTV/TS 10 weeks ago

Central

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By *ophieslutTV/TS 10 weeks ago

Central

We're probably only just scratching the surface of the extensive benefits of swearing. It helps pain tolerance, physical strength and mood. So, you're a cunt? Us telling you that may really help us all

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By *izzy69 OP   Man 10 weeks ago

London

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By *izzy69 OP   Man 10 weeks ago

London

Changing the focus, so we've established its use as a word of derogation.

What about as a means of spicing up sexual atmosphere. I love hearing a woman say the word in heat of passion. Really gets my blood flowing to the right places, know what I mean? Lol

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By *eordieJeansCouple 10 weeks ago

Newcastle upon Tyne

Great word. It wouldn’t turn me on though.

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By *abtastic Mr FoxMan 10 weeks ago

A den in the Glen

It's a term of endearment up here.

"He's a good cunt"

Personally I prefer "fucking Jesus Christ, if I eat another Battered Haggis supper I'm gonna turn into a right fat cunt"

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By *lueLotusWoman 10 weeks ago

the wilderness

I love the word cunt and if someone tries to insult me with it I just laugh and laugh.

Love how rupaul reframed it and says to her girls I want to see your Charisma Uniqueness Nerve and Talent.

But I'm careful with my use of it as its a sensitive area 🌹💖

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By *izzy69 OP   Man 10 weeks ago

London


"I love the word cunt and if someone tries to insult me with it I just laugh and laugh.

Love how rupaul reframed it and says to her girls I want to see your Charisma Uniqueness Nerve and Talent.

But I'm careful with my use of it as its a sensitive area 🌹💖

"

Sensitive area metaphorically and literally

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By *izzy69 OP   Man 10 weeks ago

London


"It's a term of endearment up here.

"He's a good cunt"

Personally I prefer "fucking Jesus Christ, if I eat another Battered Haggis supper I'm gonna turn into a right fat cunt""

Can't believe it's actually a term of endearment. Ha

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By *andynecklaceWoman 10 weeks ago

West Brom

Love the word, it's so versatile

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By *abtastic Mr FoxMan 10 weeks ago

A den in the Glen


"Love the word, it's so versatile "

What the cuntin' hell is going on?

Oi, you y'cunt!

Don't be a cunt!

Smelly cunt!

Etc etc

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By *ittle Miss TinkerbellWoman 10 weeks ago

your head

I use it as a term of affection mostly. My favorite people are called cunts quite regularly. There's also wenches, bitches and twats.

It's used in a different tone if deserved for a grade A Cunt.

I never use it during sex.

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By *arlot o scaraWoman 10 weeks ago

Hell

It’s one of my favourites and reminds me of a dear friend who no longer posts

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By *unner6969Man 10 weeks ago

Bucks/London/Oxford


"Why do some find the word offensive?

If it's used offensively, I can understand. I use it in extreme cases to demonstrate my degree of hatred of someone or level of nuisance. It is meant to be insulting in that situation.

I like it used (by anyone) during sex because it ratchets up the heat. (Yes I like talking dirty while fucking, lol).

So it has its uses but some people have a natural aversion to it, especially the ladies.

Discuss..."

I only find it offensive if someone calls me it. I like using it when I think someone is one, or is behaving like one.

I dislike it (I don’t find it offensive though consider it degrading for women) when it is used to refer to female sexual organs (God, I sound such a prude )

No rationale to any of that, just my thoughts.

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By *929Man 10 weeks ago

newcastle

It’s probably my favourite insult but never use it in its own it’s always paired with another,most used are stinking cunt and useless cunt

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By *ase4122Man 10 weeks ago

Lancashire

Being Scottish, it's a term of endearment amongst friends but equally can be used in an offensive way

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By *parkle1974Woman 10 weeks ago

Leeds

I'm Scottish and I absolutely hate the word.

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By *ase4122Man 10 weeks ago

Lancashire


"I'm Scottish and I absolutely hate the word."

Oh well

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By *hilmeup85Man 10 weeks ago

Glasgow


"Being Scottish, it's a term of endearment amongst friends but equally can be used in an offensive way"

It's pretty much an everyday word up here compared to down south.

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By *opman121Man 10 weeks ago

stoke on trent

To a lady it is offensive to a man useful lol

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By *aren_nylonsWoman 10 weeks ago

Great Dunmow

I used to find it offensive but have become accustomed to using it to please the guys I meet, they seem to enjoy it

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By (user no longer on site) 10 weeks ago

When I was vanilla i found it offensive

Now I'm a swinger i find it hot as fuck 😈😈

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By *weetiepie99Woman 10 weeks ago

cardiff

Hate it, the sound, the connotations. Horrible word. Not sexy.

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By *rgasmatron1970Man 10 weeks ago

Bromley

It's in the Oxford English dictionary. Derived from an old analog saxon word and can be used in scrabble. Can also be used offensively and also be used as a term of endearment sometime

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By *rgasmatron1970Man 10 weeks ago

Bromley


"Being Scottish, it's a term of endearment amongst friends but equally can be used in an offensive way

It's pretty much an everyday word up here compared to down south. "

Down south especially in south east London its used every single minute

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By *iss_Juicy79Woman 10 weeks ago

Edinburgh

It's one of my favourite words it's very versatile and I'm sure it used to be used as a surname in victorian times

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By *rispyDuckMan 10 weeks ago

Chinese Takeaway near you

Not a word I’m fond of 😬 find it ‘vulgar’

But then I loveeee dirty talk 😈 & if the lady calls her 🐱 a ‘c_nt’ then ‘c_nt’ it shall be called during that ‘fuckathon’

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By *rgasmatron1970Man 10 weeks ago

Bromley


"It's one of my favourite words it's very versatile and I'm sure it used to be used as a surname in victorian times "

There was a little side street in old London town (14th century) that was actually called grope cunt lane, it was where the ladies of the night congregated

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By *ansoffateMan 10 weeks ago

Sagittarius A

It's not intrinsically offensive. It's more effective when used sparingly and delivered icy cold, I find.

Like, let them rant till they run out of steam, little pause as they glare at you till that air of expectancy and entitlement stagnates into a thick cloud of tension.

Then casually give them a 'cunt'.

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By *rgasmatron1970Man 10 weeks ago

Bromley


"It's not intrinsically offensive. It's more effective when used sparingly and delivered icy cold, I find.

Like, let them rant till they run out of steam, little pause as they glare at you till that air of expectancy and entitlement stagnates into a thick cloud of tension.

Then casually give them a 'cunt'."

Ah, but you have to say it with a long pause (2 seconds) till you put the T on the end

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By *hrista BellendWoman 10 weeks ago

surrounded by twinkly lights

It's a fabulous word with a really interesting history. Originating in ancient India with the Hindu Goddess Kunti. Known as " Yoni of the the universe"

Of course western culture made it vulgar, starting with the "Gropecunt Lane" In london's red-light district.

Words are not offensive, they are descriptors. We choose which words we find/make offensive to ourselves, and then pass that judgement onto others and so the cycle continues

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By *exycarlashane181Couple 10 weeks ago

Leamington Spa


"Why do some find the word offensive?

If it's used offensively, I can understand. I use it in extreme cases to demonstrate my degree of hatred of someone or level of nuisance. It is meant to be insulting in that situation.

I like it used (by anyone) during sex because it ratchets up the heat. (Yes I like talking dirty while fucking, lol).

So it has its uses but some people have a natural aversion to it, especially the ladies.

Discuss..."

I save it for using when someone acts particularly badly.. Reserved to save it's full impact... I hate my pussy being called a cunt though.. Instant turn off

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By *offandTimCouple 10 weeks ago

Glasgow


"It's a term of endearment up here.

"He's a good cunt"

Personally I prefer "fucking Jesus Christ, if I eat another Battered Haggis supper I'm gonna turn into a right fat cunt"

Can't believe it's actually a term of endearment. Ha"

Think Gerry Cinnamon put it best in his song Diamonds in the Mud. When singing about Glasgow, he sings the immortal line "there's no other place where a cunt might not be a put down".

People are often referred to round here as "good cunts". Don't get me wrong, some are also referred to as other variations, but it's not as vicious a word here as in some other places.

Don't get me wrong, it's still not dinner party talk

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By *undayGirl 69Woman 10 weeks ago

Coalville

I love the word in both contexts.

I especially find it a turn on in the bedroom. Both if I use it to request something or if he uses whilst talking dirty to me.

There’s no other word comes close in the heat of the moment.

“Fill my vagina” doesn’t quite have the same ring to it.

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By *tlanshiaWoman 10 weeks ago

Chatham

I use it to describe my pussy. Personally I don't have an issue with the word.

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By (user no longer on site) 10 weeks ago

One of my fave words covers so much

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By * aime la biteWoman 10 weeks ago

wonderland

My favourite saying is "offence is never given, it is only ever taken".

The correct use of language to express one's self shows a good deal of intelligence. It doesn't matter what the words are and wether someone deems them to be offensive, it's the correct use of them that is important.

My mum is extremely offended by the word because it's using a word associated with the female anatomy as a put down, but has no problem calling someone a dickhead! But she is old and any form of profanity is deemed unnecessary!!

I use the word in many different ways to express myself. I'm not a keen lover of using it in the bedroom but then again, it's about context. "I love your tight little cunt" hot as hell. "You can lay in the wet patch, you cunt" definitely not good

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By *ase4122Man 10 weeks ago

Lancashire


"My favourite saying is "offence is never given, it is only ever taken".

The correct use of language to express one's self shows a good deal of intelligence. It doesn't matter what the words are and wether someone deems them to be offensive, it's the correct use of them that is important.

My mum is extremely offended by the word because it's using a word associated with the female anatomy as a put down, but has no problem calling someone a dickhead! But she is old and any form of profanity is deemed unnecessary!!

I use the word in many different ways to express myself. I'm not a keen lover of using it in the bedroom but then again, it's about context. "I love your tight little cunt" hot as hell. "You can lay in the wet patch, you cunt" definitely not good "

Very well put

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By *ase4122Man 10 weeks ago

Lancashire


"I love the word in both contexts.

I especially find it a turn on in the bedroom. Both if I use it to request something or if he uses whilst talking dirty to me.

There’s no other word comes close in the heat of the moment.

“Fill my vagina” doesn’t quite have the same ring to it. "

Fill my vag

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By *ase4122Man 10 weeks ago

Lancashire


"Being Scottish, it's a term of endearment amongst friends but equally can be used in an offensive way

It's pretty much an everyday word up here compared to down south. "

Aye, like good cunt/ bad cunt lol

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By *atandjayCouple 10 weeks ago

Brighton

Offensive

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By *atandjayCouple 10 weeks ago

Brighton

But hot in the heat of the moment

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By *ibblepilotMan 10 weeks ago

Preston

A great word when used appropriately. Subjective, obviously. Find myself using it more and more as I get older!

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By *iltsTSgirlTV/TS 10 weeks ago

chichester

I like a good cunt. If I had one I’d be using all the time

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By *ornucopiaMan 10 weeks ago

Bexley

One of my favourite examples of compound rhyming slang is a 'Barclay James Hunt'..

..or should it be Berkely, as in 'berk'? However that doesn't flow seamlessly, spelling wise, with the 'James' element..

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By *rgasmatron1970Man 10 weeks ago

Bromley


"It's a fabulous word with a really interesting history. Originating in ancient India with the Hindu Goddess Kunti. Known as " Yoni of the the universe"

Of course western culture made it vulgar, starting with the "Gropecunt Lane" In london's red-light district.

Words are not offensive, they are descriptors. We choose which words we find/make offensive to ourselves, and then pass that judgement onto others and so the cycle continues

"

🤘🤘

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By *icolerobbieCouple 10 weeks ago

walsall


"It's a fabulous word with a really interesting history. Originating in ancient India with the Hindu Goddess Kunti. Known as " Yoni of the the universe"

Of course western culture made it vulgar, starting with the "Gropecunt Lane" In london's red-light district.

Words are not offensive, they are descriptors. We choose which words we find/make offensive to ourselves, and then pass that judgement onto others and so the cycle continues

🤘🤘"

There are many words that are so offensive that most people wouldn’t dare use them.

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By *ell GwynnWoman 10 weeks ago

North Yorkshire

I have mixed feelings about it. I never call a person a cunt because I was called that on occasion by a parent as a child, and not as a term of endearment.

I dislike the fact that a woman's vulva was considered so offensive that a slang term for it came to considered the very worst swear word. Francis Grose's 1785 A Classical Dictionary of The Vulgar Tongue listed the word as "C**T: a nasty name for a nasty thing.

I love how women have reclaimed it, and I much prefer to say "cunt" than "pussy".

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By *moothstaffspeepsCouple 10 weeks ago

Stafford

It’s my favourite word

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By *inceIlkestonMan 10 weeks ago

Ilkeston


"Why do some find the word offensive?

If it's used offensively, I can understand. I use it in extreme cases to demonstrate my degree of hatred of someone or level of nuisance. It is meant to be insulting in that situation.

I like it used (by anyone) during sex because it ratchets up the heat. (Yes I like talking dirty while fucking, lol).

So it has its uses but some people have a natural aversion to it, especially the ladies.

Discuss..."

A boy has a willy, a girl has a wee wee

A woman has a pussy. A man has a dick

A man has a cock and she has a cunt.

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By *izzy69 OP   Man 10 weeks ago

London


"I love the word in both contexts.

I especially find it a turn on in the bedroom. Both if I use it to request something or if he uses whilst talking dirty to me.

There’s no other word comes close in the heat of the moment.

“Fill my vagina” doesn’t quite have the same ring to it. "

This! My kinda girl. Lol

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By *izzy69 OP   Man 10 weeks ago

London


"I use it to describe my pussy. Personally I don't have an issue with the word.

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By *eyond PurityCouple 10 weeks ago

Lincolnshire

One of our play friends used it during play once and it didn’t really work. It sounded quite vulgar.

It’s not a word I use so if I ever did it would be in extreme circumstances and not for play situations.

K

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By *erfHerder74Man 10 weeks ago

Greenock

I’m Scottish I hear it everyday I’m out

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By (user no longer on site) 10 weeks ago

Effective for sure

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By *isexualStagMan 10 weeks ago

Lanarkshire

To us Scots and the Australians, it is a term of endearment.

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By *oiluvfunMan 10 weeks ago

Penrith

"Think I'm a cunt? You cunt".......one of the best lines in 'Gangster No.1' film......

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By *ife NinjaMan 10 weeks ago

Dunfermline

Bastard is actually a more versatile word. Ask Sean Bean

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By *oandstephCouple 10 weeks ago

Bradford

Its my favourite word at work lately and even better most find it offensive

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By *ornucopiaMan 10 weeks ago

Bexley


"Bastard is actually a more versatile word. Ask Sean Bean "

Try the extremely useful, use anywhere, 'Custard'.

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By *zeroMan 10 weeks ago

Glasgow


"To us Scots and the Australians, it is a term of endearment. "

Yup. My mum told me she'd be more offended at being called a cow over being called a cunt.

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By *ee-LiteWoman 10 weeks ago

northampton

An Anglo Saxon word that was utilised expressively by the greatest authors, aka, D H Lawrence, whose novels were banned as he was ahead of the bi game in the sixties, a particular hero of mine and I based my dissertation on him x

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By *elvet RopeMan 10 weeks ago

by the big field


"Bastard is actually a more versatile word. Ask Sean Bean "

Or for anyone that works on cars and machinery- usually a few seconds after skinning your knuckles 'you cunting bastard piece of shit!'

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By *entleman of GirthMan 10 weeks ago

Forest Row

We have a rich language, and many words that have come and gone. The word cunt features in Chaucer and Shakespeare. It is a versatile word and has many many meanings. I’m certainly not with those who would edit such a word from our vocabulary. The word itself isn’t offensive, but the way in which it is used can be. However, calling Boris Johnson a complete vulva, really doesn’t have the same impact, does it?

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By *ife NinjaMan 10 weeks ago

Dunfermline


"Bastard is actually a more versatile word. Ask Sean Bean

Or for anyone that works on cars and machinery- usually a few seconds after skinning your knuckles 'you cunting bastard piece of shit!' "

Or DIY. It's versatility knows no bounds

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By *mashingPumpkinMan 10 weeks ago

Carmarthen

I have a very well spoken lady friend but she makes such good use of the word. When she says “come and slide your dick into my juicy cunt” it drives me wild.

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By *izzy69 OP   Man 9 weeks ago

London


"I have a very well spoken lady friend but she makes such good use of the word. When she says “come and slide your dick into my juicy cunt” it drives me wild. "

This I love it when that happens.

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By *ogerroger69Man 9 weeks ago

West Yorks

I love a well articulated Cunt x

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By *mf123Man 9 weeks ago

with one foot out the door

I like it when it means you cant do a thing i just cunt do it boss

Sneaky sneaky

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By *amantha_JadeWoman 9 weeks ago

Newcastle

I quite like it. It wouldnt turn me on hearing it used in a sexy way, but I do appreciate it when it’s used as an insult and even better if it’s said with a Scottish accent.

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By *ltcouple40Couple 9 weeks ago

Gwent

One of my favourite words!

Although don't find it 'sexy'

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By *icknmix500Man 9 weeks ago

South Gloucestershire

Both Very descriptive of an unsavory person !

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By *isterMushroomMan 9 weeks ago

Warrington

It’s a term of endearment in Australia.

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By *olfandtazCouple 9 weeks ago

Bristol

It's a word I only use when I'm extremely pissed off with someone

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By *moothdickMan 9 weeks ago

stoke

Great word .. to express quite a few feelings

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By *unner6969Man 9 weeks ago

Bucks/London/Oxford


"Hate it, the sound, the connotations. Horrible word. Not sexy."

Definitely not sexy, off-putting if the woman uses it to refer to her bits… hate the imitation of seedy porn that goes with its use.

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By (user no longer on site) 9 weeks ago

I think it's mainly women who don't like the word.

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By *herry delightWoman 9 weeks ago

Ilfracombe

I absolutely hated when people use the word cunt as an insult you are saying that a women's reproductive organs are an insult in society.

Or are you saying that you want to fuck that person you have called a cunt, as lots of men enjoy fucking cunts.

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By *odrigoRomeroMan 9 weeks ago

Twixt Purgatory & Palookaville

Did somebody order a cunt?

Because one's just showed up.

🙋‍♂️

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By *odrigoRomeroMan 9 weeks ago

Twixt Purgatory & Palookaville

South London gangster? Look at ya,

Cardboard cut out cunt!

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By *aveing funCouple 9 weeks ago

Wolverhampton

Offensive

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