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Is fantasy and dirty talk a thing of the past ?
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With the art of conversation being slowly lost it has affected these magical moments.
I used to write erotic stories just for bi women it was Great.
Along with that lovely dirty phone sex for an hour or more.
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"With someone I've connected with, absolutely! With a total stranger... Nah, that leaves me cold."
This is so very true. As you get to know someone it can be a natural evolution. Finding that common ground can be very inspiring |
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By (user no longer on site) 18 weeks ago
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I love to talk dirty a little, but typically only with people who I've gotten to know.
As for fantasy, sure that's okay if we never plan on meeting. I find the build up often doesn't play out the same in person. Partly due to me, being honest. ADHD doesn't always let me do exactly what I want, even fully in the moment. 😅
But I laugh about it these days. It's quite ridiculous at times lol. |
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Used to when we were younger, but not these days.
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I do occasionally with another (f) playmate (fwb), but it's more "scene direction" than steamy pre-scene chat in advance.
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I have done some pre-meet steamy chat (from a directed viewpoint) with another (m) playmate, and that was nice for both of us. |
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I like written messages back and too that escalate. Almost like a racket sport, each rally becomes more open, more revealing and more exciting.
But I’m not hugely comfortable with dirty talk. I feel self conscious and insincere, but I have experienced a moment, a single word from a woman who I knew well, and had never known her swear in any way, a rather loud, but semi suppressed “FUCK!!!” As she came, was genuinely wonderful. I suppose, as with most things in life, sincerity is the key. |
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"Just wondering if it's still a thing "
Most of the people in Fab are fantasists…. 
I talk dirty with established friends, it keeps the sexy pot simmering away, and builds anticipation to our next meet… |
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"‘This bag comes in 3 colours’
Oh stop it…
‘Inside pocket with a zip y’
Filthy bitc
‘30% off today..’
Sorry I just need to hsve a wank and I’ll be back.
I get it. I sooo get it. "
Fuck sake now I've got a semi.... |
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By *rPunxMan 18 weeks ago
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Absolutely love it. But I think face to face conversations are being killed off by mobile phones and the Internet. Also this fear of being labelled 'a creep' nowadays is limiting sexy chat whereas all this simping and self entitled princess mentally is taking over. |
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By (user no longer on site) 18 weeks ago
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I love exploring fantasies with others… love learning about what they fantasise about and what I can do to ‘fuel’ them.
I’ve learnt a lot about myself from talking to others about what they’re into, as it may open new kinks, new ideas etc…
Fantasy and dirty talk is most definitely still alive and well in my little corner of the world |
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"Never been anything wrong with harmless flirting. (It's meant to be a fucking compliment) maybe I'm just too old and remember a world where social interaction was OK and how people actually met"
Maybe I'm too old, but I see quite a big difference between harmless flirting and dirty/fantasy talk.
I also don't think conversation is being killed by mobile phones, but that's maybe a separate thread. |
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By *rPunxMan 18 weeks ago
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"Never been anything wrong with harmless flirting. (It's meant to be a fucking compliment) maybe I'm just too old and remember a world where social interaction was OK and how people actually met
Maybe I'm too old, but I see quite a big difference between harmless flirting and dirty/fantasy talk.
I also don't think conversation is being killed by mobile phones, but that's maybe a separate thread."
well your totally entitled to your opinion. But as a smoker I remember 20 years ago people used to have a smoke on their break and talk and discuss all sorts of topics, now they occasionally look up from their phones to show the person next to a meme or some porn. |
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"I love exploring fantasies with others… love learning about what they fantasise about and what I can do to ‘fuel’ them.
I’ve learnt a lot about myself from talking to others about what they’re into, as it may open new kinks, new ideas etc… Definitely a real woman who's in Tune body and mind x
Fantasy and dirty talk is most definitely still alive and well in my little corner of the world "
Definitely a real woman who in Tune body and mind |
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