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What if you got winked by a person you knew outside of Fab???
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By *_Mr.K_x OP Man 9 weeks ago
North Worcestershire |
Just had a close call lol
Just got winked by a couple.. and for a split second, the guy from the couple looked familiar. A spitting image of someone I know, luckily... it wasn't him, just his doppelganger.
But then it got me thinking.. what if you got unknowingly winked, viewed or messaged by someone you know outside of Fab?
Could be an unsuspecting work colleague, boss, friend or even worse... family member?!?
What would you do.. would you ignore, block? Or would you come clean and message them with a title like 'I see you on here too you dirty little fucker 🤣'
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"No interaction. I’d delete whatever they sent, block them and never mention it in person. If they said something to me in person I’d be having words about discretion and my online privacy.
Same  "
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I’ve had this happen twice, once in 2017 when a single woman I winked at sent me some face pics. Wasn’t sure how to proceed, so replied saying I knew her in male mode and didn’t want to complicate things. Said I wouldn’t mention it if I saw her in public. Wished her well…
She worked behind a bar at a local venue, then I was in there about 6 months later, my friends were saying she was flirting with me but I thought she was just being her friendly self. At the end of the night, she asked if I wanted a lift home. When I got home, she asked if I like role play and dressing up???
I asked why she thought that, she said that she thought she recognised my garden/ hedge from some pictures she had seen on a website she was on! I asked what website? She said she wouldn’t say but it was a “fab” website to be on. I opened up to her, she came in and we had a great night. One of the best.
Then she said thanks on here, but said she wasn’t a one trick pony and never saw anyone twice. Never mentioned it again, but she always gives me a free drink when I go in there and says “I owe you that”. Xx |
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I received a message from a woman, and I saw she was from the same town as me, after a few messages she sent a face pic and then i recognised her from 5 doors away from my house. Infact I had walked past her earlier that morning.
She hardly ever smiled or said as much as a hello, yet here she was sending me naked pictures telling me what she would do with my cock.
I politley declined her as i was too busy with work, after a couple of weeks she left this site, but I still see her in the street and she still doesn't know it was me.
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I'd block
I don't have any interest in meeting people I know in real life.
I've seen a few people I know, some from school and one who I know was in a relationship, but was on as a single male.
I blocked them all. |
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I have no unknown friends or acquaintances on Fab, therefore if someone 'greets' me outside of Fab then it's obviously a friend.
I have no problem with that because if it was ok for me to acknowledge them publicly in a bar/restaurant/café weeks or months ago then it's no different now if it happens to be in a supermarket.
If the friend encounters me in the supermarket with my son present then he/she will be mindful from the onset not to engage with me.
That's the benefit of having a carefully curated and handpicked retinue of friends from Fab, because they're not 'dickish' enough to engage in foolish manoeuvres.
However, the likelihood of RobTheClitLicker69½ to recognise me? ∅%. |
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By *_Mr.K_x OP Man 9 weeks ago
North Worcestershire |
I don't know what I would do in the situation...
I guess it depends who it is. Ironically, if it was the person I thought it was, I don't really have a problem with him knowing I was on here because then my argument would be.. well, you're on here too? So.. in socially acceptable circles your privacy is just as valid as mine do it goes both ways?
But if it was a family member, I'd probably block and move on, or if it was someone from work the same. |
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Block.
Someone from work saw me on here. Let me know in person that he was on here without being gross about it. So I took him to his first ever club.
That was fine. If he'd winked me on here or been lecherous about it it would have been a straight block 💜 |
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I had one of my staff recognize me in a previous job. She messaged me a proposition and a number of pretty vulgar photos featuring toys of various size
I said she must have confused me with someone else and blocked her. |
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