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By *aven. OP Woman 9 weeks ago
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Do you change if you're getting it regularly? Or not getting it at all?
Are you moody if you don't have it for a while? Indifferent?
Do you become happier if you are getting it more often? Or do you become a bit annoying and cocky?
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By (user no longer on site) 9 weeks ago
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"I’m not sure I can get any more annoying. I am happier with regular (good) sex. "
This is me ^
I know this wasn’t replying to me but it was relevant.
A*sideward glance to the camera 😏 |
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By *eliWoman 9 weeks ago
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The longer I go without sex the less of an issue it is for me. There's a point where it just becomes a non-thing for me. If it's a bit less frequent I might crave someone a bit more but don't get grumpier.
I'm happier if I'm getting it semi regularly with someone I quite like. I don't become cocky, just want it more. There's a dance in 500 Days of Summer when he's just had sex. That's how I feel. Am. Possibly a bit annoying to others.  |
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For me, I am much more smiley patient tolerant and much better in company. It certainly has changed my demeanour. When there are long periods of time without I drift. Become more insular.. It’s an interesting point you make. OP ! |
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By (user no longer on site) 9 weeks ago
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My mood doesn’t change because of my sex life, my answers to questions do 
My sex actually changes to my mood. If I’m happy it will be a certain thing, if I’m stressed…. Look out!!!
No, I don’t think I change my moods or how I am related to how much I get it. Other things do that.  |
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By *ndrew CareyMan 9 weeks ago
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I'm generally not a moody person and I'm upbeat most of the time. Whether I'm getting any or not.
However, when I'm getting it frequently, I'm usually more relaxed about life in general. Even in extremely stressful situations. |
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By (user no longer on site) 9 weeks ago
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"The more I get sex the more I crave it.
Not having it for a while does make me a little uptight but after so long it becomes the norm and it doesn't phase me.
Mrs "
Without sex - It makes me sexually frustrates and I can get rid of that in the shower.
Regular sex - I’m less likely to shower… 😏 |
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Having had sex on a yearly basis for the last two decades, it doesn’t really make a difference if I do or if I don’t. Probably better without it though, unless I want a yearly reminder of a feeling like a failure, then I might just have some more next year, who knows. |
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I have got to the point where I am a little worried about how I get when I'm not having sex.
I'm in a relationship where sex at least once a day has been the norm for years and obviously that is not sustainable so once life started getting in the way it dropped to every few days which had no affect at all.
Then hubby started working away, is on meds that affect his sex drive etc and if we haven't had sex for about a week my mood was horrendous. Took me a long time to realise what was causing it but the minute we had sex everything changed for me and life felt good again.
Now that I'm aware of it I seem to be able to handle it better but it still worries me. |
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It's a chicken and egg situation. If I'm stressed my sex drive drops off and if I don't have the opportunity to have it I eventually stop thinking about it. If I'm not stressed and I don't have it for a while, I get a bit highly strung. When sex eventually happens my mood lifts and I'm annoyingly perky and upbeat for a couple of days. |
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By *aven. OP Woman 9 weeks ago
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"Having had sex on a yearly basis for the last two decades, it doesn’t really make a difference if I do or if I don’t. Probably better without it though, unless I want a yearly reminder of a feeling like a failure, then I might just have some more next year, who knows."
I can really relate to this! |
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I am definitely happier when I am having regular good sex. The amount of endorphine running about my body can keep me high for hours after sex.
I guess that's one of the few joys of being a woman.
I will admit that I can get fed up with bed sex it can put a downr on the rest of my day. |
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I am terminally single and don’t get much action so I have grown accustomed to that. It’s become my rhythm of life and so my mood doesn’t change from having none.
When I do have sex it’s not so much about the act itself or having an organism, it’s more that someone wanted to spend time and be intimate with me. That’s what makes me happy, especially if it’s more than one occasion.
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I tend to get it fairly regularly overall but do enjoy going a week or two without and cracking on with work or a project without sex distraction.
I’m not moody or cocky based on sex life , sex exists in the moment it’s happening & then when they are gone real life kicked back in and it doesn’t get much thought |
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When I'm not getting sex, I settle quite happily into not having sex.
Having sex tends to make me want to have more sex. Not in a never enough kind of way, more of an I'm recovered from the last round, let's fucking go kind of way.
When the amount of sex I can have is less than I want I probably do get a touch moody. But once I've not had sex for a few days if there's none on the horizon I seem to chill out easily enough 💜 |
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Love having regular sex. It certainly makes more happier.
If I go through a dry spell, my imagination becomes more free so when I do get it, these thoughts come to my head and the world is a better place again ha ha |
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I'm not grumpy if I haven't had it in a while, I have just come to the thought that it is highly unlikely that I will. Good sex is really difficult to come by, but sometimes it happens but very infrequently. |
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"Do you change if you're getting it regularly? Or not getting it at all?
Are you moody if you don't have it for a while? Indifferent?
Do you become happier if you are getting it more often? Or do you become a bit annoying and cocky?
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I'm just moody. 🙄 |
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