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…had a couple of these messages lately. At first I thought “that’s nice to ask” but then I thought actually that’s a bit odd, because what if I say no? You’ll do it anyway? What do you guys think, and do you reply? |
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If your photos are on here, they're here to be seen, and if people want to get off on what they see, they will! Someone who asks that question isn't really asking that question, they're trying to get into your mind ("look at me, I'm wanking over your photo"). A bit manipulative, maybe?
P.S. Love that photo... |
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We block people who message to say they are doing it. They could have easily knocked one out and not told us.
It’s not sexy at all when it’s a randomer - someone we know and C fancies would be a turn on.
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By (user no longer on site) 19 weeks ago
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If I'm thinking of a specific real life friend when alone I often ask. I find it hotter if they are into both whatever I'm imagining and also the fact that I'm imagining them...
I generally find their reactions positive 
Sadly ( ) for Fabbers I don't use images in those moments. |
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"…had a couple of these messages lately. At first I thought “that’s nice to ask” but then I thought actually that’s a bit odd, because what if I say no? You’ll do it anyway? What do you guys think, and do you reply? "
Yeah seems silly to ask as they will do it either way
My pics are here if people wank over them hope they have fun |
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By *ib.Man 19 weeks ago
Hampshire |
I've told people. I say it because I'm clearly interested and there's a possibility it's a compliment.
If you're putting sexually alluring pictures on the internet, it's pretty fair that someone who is attracted to them may get aroused by them. Bit bizarre to think otherwise. |
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"…had a couple of these messages lately. At first I thought “that’s nice to ask” but then I thought actually that’s a bit odd, because what if I say no? You’ll do it anyway? What do you guys think, and do you reply? "
Probably just trying to break the ice, maybe |
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"I keep blocking them midwank 🤷🏻♀️
Sorry.
😂😂😂😂😂
But do you have to guestimate as to whether to hit the block button after 30 minutes or 30 seconds? 🤔🤷♂️"
Usually the latter. I’m applying the scientific approach and my long time knowledge and I estimate they are on it already and they don’t last long. |
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"I've told people. I say it because I'm clearly interested and there's a possibility it's a compliment.
If you're putting sexually alluring pictures on the internet, it's pretty fair that someone who is attracted to them may get aroused by them. Bit bizarre to think otherwise."
Bizarre indeed. I take it as a compliment. I wouldn’t actually say no. |
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I think people might be over thinking this. There's an awful lot of people on here, singles and couples who make it known that they love tributes of their pics. As it's a stonking hot photo maybe he just wants to see if you want it tributed. |
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I’m thinking maybe I’m weird
It doesn’t turn me on. People I know and fancy, yes. Randoms, no.
But whatever the kink - permission, getting replied to…. It doesn’t hurt me. As people have said - I have knowingly & willingly put my images out there.
I’ll reply. They’re happy. I’m happy. No harm done.
I actually quite like indulging a kink that doesn’t affect me.
And I have never received any kind of negative backlash from it.
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By *bi HaiveMan 19 weeks ago
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"I think people might be over thinking this. There's an awful lot of people on here, singles and couples who make it known that they love tributes of their pics. As it's a stonking hot photo maybe he just wants to see if you want it tributed. "
On that basis, unless it's stated in a profile, status update or forum post shouldnt it be assumed otherwise, because 'consent'? 🤔 |
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By *ib.Man 19 weeks ago
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"I think people might be over thinking this. There's an awful lot of people on here, singles and couples who make it known that they love tributes of their pics. As it's a stonking hot photo maybe he just wants to see if you want it tributed.
On that basis, unless it's stated in a profile, status update or forum post shouldnt it be assumed otherwise, because 'consent'? 🤔"
Consent to wank over a lude photo, publicly uploaded?
I've heard it all now.
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"I think people might be over thinking this. There's an awful lot of people on here, singles and couples who make it known that they love tributes of their pics. As it's a stonking hot photo maybe he just wants to see if you want it tributed.
On that basis, unless it's stated in a profile, status update or forum post shouldnt it be assumed otherwise, because 'consent'? 🤔"
I'm a bit confused, are you saying that people shouldn't wank over publicly uploaded pictures because consent isn't given or are you saying they shouldn't send an unsolicited tribute to someone (which I totally agree with)? If so, isn't he asking for consent? |
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By *bi HaiveMan 19 weeks ago
Forum Mod Cheeseville, Somerset |
"I think people might be over thinking this. There's an awful lot of people on here, singles and couples who make it known that they love tributes of their pics. As it's a stonking hot photo maybe he just wants to see if you want it tributed.
On that basis, unless it's stated in a profile, status update or forum post shouldnt it be assumed otherwise, because 'consent'? 🤔
Consent to wank over a lude photo, publicly uploaded?
I've heard it all now.
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Not what I said.
"maybe he just wants to see if you want it tributed."
The sheer volume of single men asking to do this, and offering up photos of gf's, wives and partners who aren't on the site is actually quite sickening. |
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By *ib.Man 19 weeks ago
Hampshire |
"I think people might be over thinking this. There's an awful lot of people on here, singles and couples who make it known that they love tributes of their pics. As it's a stonking hot photo maybe he just wants to see if you want it tributed.
On that basis, unless it's stated in a profile, status update or forum post shouldnt it be assumed otherwise, because 'consent'? 🤔
Consent to wank over a lude photo, publicly uploaded?
I've heard it all now.
Not what I said.
"maybe he just wants to see if you want it tributed."
The sheer volume of single men asking to do this, and offering up photos of gf's, wives and partners who aren't on the site is actually quite sickening. "
That's... quite a different kettle of fish. |
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"I think people might be over thinking this. There's an awful lot of people on here, singles and couples who make it known that they love tributes of their pics. As it's a stonking hot photo maybe he just wants to see if you want it tributed.
On that basis, unless it's stated in a profile, status update or forum post shouldnt it be assumed otherwise, because 'consent'? 🤔
Consent to wank over a lude photo, publicly uploaded?
I've heard it all now.
Not what I said.
"maybe he just wants to see if you want it tributed."
The sheer volume of single men asking to do this, and offering up photos of gf's, wives and partners who aren't on the site is actually quite sickening. "
Yeah. It's one of those things that's difficult to prove, but you see "wife chat" pop up a bit where the only people who seem to be participating and sharing stories and pictures are men. Some might have permission. I'd bet decent money that not all of them do |
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By *essTTWoman 19 weeks ago
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"…had a couple of these messages lately. At first I thought “that’s nice to ask” but then I thought actually that’s a bit odd, because what if I say no? You’ll do it anyway? What do you guys think, and do you reply? "
Block and delete
I find it really really weird |
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By (user no longer on site) 19 weeks ago
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I have had a few too… usually delete, but recently I told one guy he could do what he wanted, the photos are public so knock your socks off!
Then he message saying could he send me a ‘tribute’, I told him I didn’t need to see him wanking over my photos!
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By (user no longer on site) 19 weeks ago
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"…had a couple of these messages lately. At first I thought “that’s nice to ask” but then I thought actually that’s a bit odd, because what if I say no? You’ll do it anyway? What do you guys think, and do you reply? "
They want you to say yes, then they'll ask can they send you a pic/vid of them doing it. Then it will be, will you send one back |
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"…had a couple of these messages lately. At first I thought “that’s nice to ask” but then I thought actually that’s a bit odd, because what if I say no? You’ll do it anyway? What do you guys think, and do you reply?
They want you to say yes, then they'll ask can they send you a pic/vid of them doing it. Then it will be, will you send one back"
Ok that makes sense! |
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Asking to do something they’re going to do anyway, this falls in to the same newly-developed pet hate bucket as “can I ask a question?” 🤦🏼♂️
As you asked OP, what would the sender do if you just replied “No”?
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"I think people might be over thinking this. There's an awful lot of people on here, singles and couples who make it known that they love tributes of their pics. As it's a stonking hot photo maybe he just wants to see if you want it tributed.
On that basis, unless it's stated in a profile, status update or forum post shouldnt it be assumed otherwise, because 'consent'? 🤔
Consent to wank over a lude photo, publicly uploaded?
I've heard it all now.
Not what I said.
"maybe he just wants to see if you want it tributed."
The sheer volume of single men asking to do this, and offering up photos of gf's, wives and partners who aren't on the site is actually quite sickening. "
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"Asking to do something they’re going to do anyway, this falls in to the same newly-developed pet hate bucket as “can I ask a question?” 🤦🏼♂️
As you asked OP, what would the sender do if you just replied “No”?
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"Can I ask you a question" is so often a softener for "I'm going to ask you something extremely fucked up" |
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