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By *agnar73 OP Man 10 weeks ago
glasgow-ish |
Not so much wishing to get too philosophical, but sort of thinking the following.
‘I’m too old for some age filters, whilst at same time, not feeling my age and enjoying company of younger people’
So I’m too old in some ways and too young to say pass the slippers and the remote control.
As ever, I’m sure there’s erudite and other sorts of contributions in your brain cages.
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This is why I like the clubs and approaching the old fashioned way.
No one filters me by my age, just my looks, behavior and personality. I do alright there.
You'd be shocked how many put filters for age on herr but it goes out the window at clubs. |
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By *agnar73 OP Man 10 weeks ago
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"This is why I like the clubs and approaching the old fashioned way.
No one filters me by my age, just my looks, behavior and personality. I do alright there.
You'd be shocked how many put filters for age on herr but it goes out the window at clubs. "
I’ve been to clubs and things and that’s true.
Just sometimes look on here and think what’s the point especially when the updates thing can feed you profiles the right age but not seeking your age. |
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"Not so much wishing to get too philosophical, but sort of thinking the following.
‘I’m too old for some age filters, whilst at same time, not feeling my age and enjoying company of younger people’
So I’m too old in some ways and too young to say pass the slippers and the remote control.
As ever, I’m sure there’s erudite and other sorts of contributions in your brain cages.
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Just have to be older than my oldest child for me to meet them. |
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I recently went to a nightclub on my own. At the end the lights came on, the DJ stopped. A youngster said to me "oh wow you're a DILF". I had no idea what a DILF was, so I asked her to clarify.
Her answer horrified me! I went home alone - my decision.
I didn't think of myself that way.
And then I look at profiles on here, and I don't match their age requirements. They want 55+ etc.
And I think to myself, to each their own.
To each, their own. |
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By *agnar73 OP Man 10 weeks ago
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"I recently went to a nightclub on my own. At the end the lights came on, the DJ stopped. A youngster said to me "oh wow you're a DILF". I had no idea what a DILF was, so I asked her to clarify.
Her answer horrified me! I went home alone - my decision.
I didn't think of myself that way.
And then I look at profiles on here, and I don't match their age requirements. They want 55+ etc.
And I think to myself, to each their own.
To each, their own. "
Possibly the DILF thing a compliment in a way?
I must admit, I wouldn’t find younger women an issue, but the ‘daddy’ thing is a no.
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"I must admit, I wouldn’t find younger women an issue, but the ‘daddy’ thing is a no.
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I wouldn't have thought there's any Daddy fetish in calling you a DILF.
In the same way I'm not being Oedipus if I call an older woman a MILF.
It just means you're not a spring chicken and that person likes you being a little mature like that. |
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Age is just a number you only as old as u feel filters are to try n get exactly what u looking for and to get rid of the imature but in reality it doesn’t work as you can be young with mature head on u or old and I mature really it about personality and how someone speaks to us either on fab or at clubs xx |
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My dad who is 97 went out for coffee today but it was in his words "full of old people" . There's much to be said for mixing with people of all ages, younger friends keep you challenged and fresh in your outlook, older mates will have similar cultural references |
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"Age is just a number you only as old as u feel filters are to try n get exactly what u looking for and to get rid of the imature but in reality it doesn’t work as you can be young with mature head on u or old and I mature really it about personality and how someone speaks to us either on fab or at clubs xx"
See I think point proven as within seconds we just revived a private message responding to our post saying he wanking looking at our pics he 37 maturity does not come with age. If he spoke to someone in a club like that he’d get a slap. Good job there a block button
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By *agnar73 OP Man 10 weeks ago
glasgow-ish |
"Age is just a number you only as old as u feel filters are to try n get exactly what u looking for and to get rid of the imature but in reality it doesn’t work as you can be young with mature head on u or old and I mature really it about personality and how someone speaks to us either on fab or at clubs xx
See I think point proven as within seconds we just revived a private message responding to our post saying he wanking looking at our pics he 37 maturity does not come with age. If he spoke to someone in a club like that he’d get a slap. Good job there a block button
Xx"
Hmm, I think maturity is perhaps being able to be on fab without having cock in hand. And there’s not necessarily a number with that. |
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By *agnar73 OP Man 10 weeks ago
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"I must admit, I wouldn’t find younger women an issue, but the ‘daddy’ thing is a no.
I wouldn't have thought there's any Daddy fetish in calling you a DILF.
In the same way I'm not being Oedipus if I call an older woman a MILF.
It just means you're not a spring chicken and that person likes you being a little mature like that."
I think DILF/MILF are accepted phrases or anachronisms and not directly the association with original coining and that’s fine, we can all like someone younger/older.
The daddy fetish is, urgh no, as far as I’m concerned. |
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'I'm not a regular Mom, I'm a cool Mom'... Well, so I say!  My 26yr old may well disagree. But that sets my age limit older, as I do hang out with the (old) teens. And it'd be creepy to meet someone their age for me  |
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"Too old to live, to young to get my old age pension. 🙄"
In the words of Jethro Tull, "Now he's too old to rock and roll, But he's too young to die". That's kind of how I feel every other day, that I'm too old for the fab rock'n'roll, but I'm too young to get the hell out of here... |
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I put a 10 up and 10 down on my messages cos mostly i personally dont like the idea of seing someone who i am old enougj to be there parent, or vice versa. I've had friends who had kids straight put of school and for me it would be weird to see soemone of a similar age to a friends child.
So my fap puts me mid 30's to mid 40's although i do seem to prefer tje 40+ as often 30 something giys still come across as more needy. (Not all but some) |
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"I recently went to a nightclub on my own. At the end the lights came on, the DJ stopped. A youngster said to me "oh wow you're a DILF". I had no idea what a DILF was, so I asked her to clarify.
Her answer horrified me! I went home alone - my decision.
I didn't think of myself that way.
And then I look at profiles on here, and I don't match their age requirements. They want 55+ etc.
And I think to myself, to each their own.
To each, their own. "
Your experience seems to sum up the discrepancies that always arise in age related threads.
You say that many of the profiles you look at want 55s and above while many people, mostly men it has to be said, often claim on here that most people have cut off points at 45 or 50.
The op is saying he is outside many peoples filters and I know that I am well outside many also but the strange thing is that in all the years I've been here I've never once had a conversation about my age and it has never once been an issue.
I was 52 when I first joined but maybe because my own filters are very narrow and I don't meet or chat to anyone on fab within 10 years of my eldest child I've never thought that I was missing out on anything.
I'm more than capable of having a conversation with much younger people and often do but not on fab.
When my filters were more relaxed I had numerous messages from young women wanting to "try" an older man and even the fact they used the word "try" was off-putting in itself.
I'm one of those who doesn't agree that age is just a number. It's a biological fact and while I'm still scaling mountains and hiking long distances every week and generally don't act my age, the reality is that by my own choice I'm too old for some people and too young to sit around doing nothing. |
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"My dad who is 97 went out for coffee today but it was in his words "full of old people" .
I love your dad (no homo)
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I used to enjoy winding Mum up when I took her shopping
Picking old fashioned cardigans up and saying 'you'd look lovely in this'
"I'm not wearing that, it's summat an old woman would wear"
I have a photo of her on my phone in head to foot leopard print
She was 83  |
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"My dad who is 97 went out for coffee today but it was in his words "full of old people" .
I love your dad (no homo)
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I used to enjoy winding Mum up when I took her shopping
Picking old fashioned cardigans up and saying 'you'd look lovely in this'
"I'm not wearing that, it's summat an old woman would wear"
I have a photo of her on my phone in head to foot leopard print
She was 83 "
She sent that to me as well |
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"My dad who is 97 went out for coffee today but it was in his words "full of old people" .
I love your dad (no homo)
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I used to enjoy winding Mum up when I took her shopping
Picking old fashioned cardigans up and saying 'you'd look lovely in this'
"I'm not wearing that, it's summat an old woman would wear"
I have a photo of her on my phone in head to foot leopard print
She was 83 "
I bet she looked fabulous |
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"My dad who is 97 went out for coffee today but it was in his words "full of old people" . There's much to be said for mixing with people of all ages, younger friends keep you challenged and fresh in your outlook, older mates will have similar cultural references "
He could still find an older woman on fab! |
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"My dad who is 97 went out for coffee today but it was in his words "full of old people" .
I love your dad (no homo)
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I used to enjoy winding Mum up when I took her shopping
Picking old fashioned cardigans up and saying 'you'd look lovely in this'
"I'm not wearing that, it's summat an old woman would wear"
I have a photo of her on my phone in head to foot leopard print
She was 83
She sent that to me as well"
I could believe that if I thought for one second she knew how to send photos on a phone  |
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"My dad who is 97 went out for coffee today but it was in his words "full of old people" . There's much to be said for mixing with people of all ages, younger friends keep you challenged and fresh in your outlook, older mates will have similar cultural references
He could still find an older woman on fab!"
Only just.
His lady friends are in their sixties and seventies with one or two in their eighties. This though is because in his words, all the others are dead |
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"My dad who is 97 went out for coffee today but it was in his words "full of old people" .
I love your dad (no homo)
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I used to enjoy winding Mum up when I took her shopping
Picking old fashioned cardigans up and saying 'you'd look lovely in this'
"I'm not wearing that, it's summat an old woman would wear"
I have a photo of her on my phone in head to foot leopard print
She was 83
She sent that to me as well
I could believe that if I thought for one second she knew how to send photos on a phone "
we tried to show my dad how to use a smart phone... |
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Personally I think if you're older you should accept it with grace.
Great if you have a youthful outlook and fresh ideas. Lovely if you can run a marathon etc don't look your age and know how to use chatgpt. None if this means younger people should have sex with you though. |
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By *essTTWoman 10 weeks ago
Birmingham |
"Not so much wishing to get too philosophical, but sort of thinking the following.
‘I’m too old for some age filters, whilst at same time, not feeling my age and enjoying company of younger people’
So I’m too old in some ways and too young to say pass the slippers and the remote control.
As ever, I’m sure there’s erudite and other sorts of contributions in your brain cages.
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Why wouldn't you meet a 70 year old? |
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By *essTTWoman 10 weeks ago
Birmingham |
"Personally I think if you're older you should accept it with grace.
Great if you have a youthful outlook and fresh ideas. Lovely if you can run a marathon etc don't look your age and know how to use chatgpt. None if this means younger people should have sex with you though. "
This!
Why is it so difficult for people to understand |
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"Wife says I'm past it
Nobody is ever past it.
I am.
Turn around you can get back to it
My body is too wrecked for that. "
Oh dear. Well if you find out what 'it' is do let us all know I'm dying to see where it's kept |
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By *agnar73 OP Man 10 weeks ago
glasgow-ish |
"Not so much wishing to get too philosophical, but sort of thinking the following.
‘I’m too old for some age filters, whilst at same time, not feeling my age and enjoying company of younger people’
So I’m too old in some ways and too young to say pass the slippers and the remote control.
As ever, I’m sure there’s erudite and other sorts of contributions in your brain cages.
Why wouldn't you meet a 70 year old?"
Why were you looking at my profile rather than reading the thread? |
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By *agnar73 OP Man 10 weeks ago
glasgow-ish |
"Personally I think if you're older you should accept it with grace.
Great if you have a youthful outlook and fresh ideas. Lovely if you can run a marathon etc don't look your age and know how to use chatgpt. None if this means younger people should have sex with you though. "
Hmm. Perhaps the way to go, probably what I already do.
What’s ChatGPT? |
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By *agnar73 OP Man 10 weeks ago
glasgow-ish |
"I recently went to a nightclub on my own. At the end the lights came on, the DJ stopped. A youngster said to me "oh wow you're a DILF". I had no idea what a DILF was, so I asked her to clarify.
Her answer horrified me! I went home alone - my decision.
I didn't think of myself that way.
And then I look at profiles on here, and I don't match their age requirements. They want 55+ etc.
And I think to myself, to each their own.
To each, their own.
Your experience seems to sum up the discrepancies that always arise in age related threads.
You say that many of the profiles you look at want 55s and above while many people, mostly men it has to be said, often claim on here that most people have cut off points at 45 or 50.
The op is saying he is outside many peoples filters and I know that I am well outside many also but the strange thing is that in all the years I've been here I've never once had a conversation about my age and it has never once been an issue.
I was 52 when I first joined but maybe because my own filters are very narrow and I don't meet or chat to anyone on fab within 10 years of my eldest child I've never thought that I was missing out on anything.
I'm more than capable of having a conversation with much younger people and often do but not on fab.
When my filters were more relaxed I had numerous messages from young women wanting to "try" an older man and even the fact they used the word "try" was off-putting in itself.
I'm one of those who doesn't agree that age is just a number. It's a biological fact and while I'm still scaling mountains and hiking long distances every week and generally don't act my age, the reality is that by my own choice I'm too old for some people and too young to sit around doing nothing. "
This.
I respect people’s choices it can be a bit meh and things have happened in my life where I feel I’ve wasted time in past 5 or 10 years, but I guess there’s no makeweight for that and it is what it is.
Hence the starting post. Can’t change perceptions and can’t change facts
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"Personally I think if you're older you should accept it with grace.
Great if you have a youthful outlook and fresh ideas. Lovely if you can run a marathon etc don't look your age and know how to use chatgpt. None if this means younger people should have sex with you though.
Hmm. Perhaps the way to go, probably what I already do.
What’s ChatGPT?"
It an AI app that creates dialogue. |
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My age range is just a filter to avoid a certain group of guys that are normally over 40+ that i have zero interest in.
I find that group don't handle rejection well, so saves all the abuse or having to block them.
I do and have met guys over 40 the oldest was 80+ .I just prefer it to be me who makes first contact. |
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By *agnar73 OP Man 10 weeks ago
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"Personally I think if you're older you should accept it with grace.
Great if you have a youthful outlook and fresh ideas. Lovely if you can run a marathon etc don't look your age and know how to use chatgpt. None if this means younger people should have sex with you though.
Hmm. Perhaps the way to go, probably what I already do.
What’s ChatGPT?
It an AI app that creates dialogue. "
Ah no thanks. |
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By (user no longer on site) 10 weeks ago
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"I recently went from MILF to GILF! (1st grandchild born😁)
Took me a while to adjust to the new mnemonic... But I'm owning it now! 🙌🏼
Can't stop time & life moving on.. "
Like the song " 🎵never wait or hesitate, get in kid before it's too late , you may never get another chance 🎵 " |
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I think when it comes to age we are too strict, it’s about attraction, I been with a 70 year old and a 23 year old, sometimes a connection happens
It’s not always possible to fancy someone just by chat or pictures |
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By (user no longer on site) 10 weeks ago
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A small joke as this is the topic that's floating around..This young guy was in a pub talking to another customer.." l was sick to the teeth of it all tbh , every wedding my aunt's used to say to me .." you're next ... you're next " & it really was something that got to me but l finished it fairly fast .." how did you do that ? " said the other customer ...l said the exact same thing to them ...at funeral's " 🤣🤣🤣 |
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By *essTTWoman 10 weeks ago
Birmingham |
"Not so much wishing to get too philosophical, but sort of thinking the following.
‘I’m too old for some age filters, whilst at same time, not feeling my age and enjoying company of younger people’
So I’m too old in some ways and too young to say pass the slippers and the remote control.
As ever, I’m sure there’s erudite and other sorts of contributions in your brain cages.
Why wouldn't you meet a 70 year old?
Why were you looking at my profile rather than reading the thread? "
I can do both  |
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