"Furniture play, human toilet/ashtray etc, puke, feet, I mean I can’t judge people as some of the ones people have listed here I have as a kink so each to there own"
The thread wasn't about judging more finding out the ones people don't get x |
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By *vaRose43Woman 19 weeks ago
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I’m not about to yuk someone else’s yum, but if anyone would like to share what about these kinks they love, I’d love to understand.
Yes I’m aware that the nature of kink and fetish doesn’t always have an explanation |
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My problem with the whole "getting thing" is that it's a trope for acceptability and othering. Kink/Fetish/BDSM are not for other people to get.
Provided the acts are consensual, and the people taking part are enjoying themselves, there is no need for others to think about it. There is nothing to get. It's different strokes for different folks. |
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Poop. I understand the degradation side of being pooped on but just the thought makes me heave 🤮
A long time ago I never imagined that I would be enjoying some of the kinks that made me recoil at the time, but now they're part of who I am 🤷🏼♀️
Cherry x  |
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"My problem with the whole "getting thing" is that it's a trope for acceptability and othering. Kink/Fetish/BDSM are not for other people to get.
Provided the acts are consensual, and the people taking part are enjoying themselves, there is no need for others to think about it. There is nothing to get. It's different strokes for different folks."
In hindsight, I think that was the whole point. Just my opinion. |
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"Poop. I understand the degradation side of being pooped on but just the thought makes me heave 🤮
A long time ago I never imagined that I would be enjoying some of the kinks that made me recoil at the time, but now they're part of who I am 🤷🏼♀️
Cherry x "
*but I wouldn't, couldn't poop play 🤢 |
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"My problem with the whole "getting thing" is that it's a trope for acceptability and othering. Kink/Fetish/BDSM are not for other people to get.
Provided the acts are consensual, and the people taking part are enjoying themselves, there is no need for others to think about it. There is nothing to get. It's different strokes for different folks."
Maybe instead if get I should have used the word "understand" |
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Quite a few.
For me, pain. I don't mind a bit of spanking, but some people I had seen. My days, drawing blood. I just don't get it.
Should be about pleasure, not pain.
I guess it is a big world and we are all different. |
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I don't think there is any kink I "don't get". Because a kink is a desire, and in some cases also a need. And I understand that people desire things and sometimes need them.
Everything is underpinned. It has a driver.
I find the "why" educational and informative and it helps me grow.
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"Quite a few.
For me, pain. I don't mind a bit of spanking, but some people I had seen. My days, drawing blood. I just don't get it.
Should be about pleasure, not pain.
I guess it is a big world and we are all different. "
There's a very deep and well understood reason behind this.
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When the human body is subjected to pain, it releases endorphins to quell the pain.
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We all have a little bit stored on "standby", ready in case we hurt ourselves.
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As soon as that is used, the body will slowly make more endorphins to replenish its supply.
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If the body encounters more duress very shortly in this period, the brain thinks "Uh Oh, better more more endorphins quickly"
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We can then stimulate the brain to release this larger pool once it accumulates. More feel good chemicals are released, and the tolerance threshold is raised.
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Keep doing this over say 30-60 mins and the person will be so flooded with endorphins they will enter an altered state, approaching euphoria.
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There's a lot more it than that, but essentially the pain is a means unto an end. It gets a person from A to B, and B is what they are after.
It just needs considerable skill and care to do safely. |
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