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What’s your sex drive like, & what is it?
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By (user no longer on site) OP 10 weeks ago
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Here is the time you can boast your sexiness and your inbox will hopefully blow up…
How do you describe what your sex drive is?
I got asked do I have a high sex drive, and I always thought it was just normal. But then I thought does it mean I want sex all the time or i can go for hours or I can go hard and fast. I’m now not sure how to answer mine. (Answers on a postcard if you know me 😏 )
And I don’t want to Google what a sex drive is and your answers are normally much more amusing… 
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By *aven.Woman 10 weeks ago
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I think I misplaced mine.
I can and am going months/years without it.
It's a bit like working out, I know I'll enjoy it once I start and I'll feel better afterwards. But just starting is so much effort.
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By *IXEN200Woman 10 weeks ago
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"I think I misplaced mine.
I can and am going months/years without it.
It's a bit like working out, I know I'll enjoy it once I start and I'll feel better afterwards. But just starting is so much effort.
I know this feeling only too well
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By *eliWoman 10 weeks ago
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A person's sex drive is their libido isn't it? How often the drive to have sex is there.
My libido is ridiculously high. I'm good at ignoring it most of the time. It has caused problems in relationships before - on paper it sounds great but the reality is somewhat different. Sex/desire, all of that is important to me. |
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For me, there appears to be an ever widening gap between how often I think about sex, and how often I actually want sex. When I was married, it was almost a chore at times, to prove that you still fancied each other. There was certainly no excitement in it. As a single again man, mid 40’s, I felt like the fox that got into the chicken house, but that soon felt shallow and pointless, and the break ups just made me feel so awful. It feels like I’ve made a subconscious decision not to trade my precious free time for what is usually pretty mundane, so I just tend to perv on here, amazing at all the incredible exhibitionists. Perhaps I’m just getting old 😱 |
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Sometimes it's crazy high, sometimes it's non-existent, depending on life circumstances and whether or not I actively desire someone.
Right now it's through the roof in the most distracting and inconvenient of ways. |
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"A person's sex drive is their libido isn't it? How often the drive to have sex is there.
My libido is ridiculously high. I'm good at ignoring it most of the time. It has caused problems in relationships before - on paper it sounds great but the reality is somewhat different. Sex/desire, all of that is important to me."
This…. Frustration equals poor decision making |
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By (user no longer on site) OP 10 weeks ago
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"I think I misplaced mine.
I can and am going months/years without it.
It's a bit like working out, I know I'll enjoy it once I start and I'll feel better afterwards. But just starting is so much effort.
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I’m good at finding things…😏
I also don’t like going to the gym, so i do t quite know what my point is! 😅 |
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By (user no longer on site) OP 10 weeks ago
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"I think sex drive is how much and how often you want to have sex. Your stamina is your ability to do it for hours.
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So it’s how much I want it?….
Lots….I’m writing a wish list as I type..😏😅 |
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By (user no longer on site) OP 10 weeks ago
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"A person's sex drive is their libido isn't it? How often the drive to have sex is there.
My libido is ridiculously high. I'm good at ignoring it most of the time. It has caused problems in relationships before - on paper it sounds great but the reality is somewhat different. Sex/desire, all of that is important to me."
Yeh, I think it is the libido. I think mines reflected with what I’m doing, who I’m doing it with etc. my moods. |
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Mine is incredibly high. It takes me quite a while to cum, usually at this point my partner has cum numerous times. Then when I do cum. Give me a ten minute break then im right back into the action.... |
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Mine is normally high, bit does take the occasional dip with work, or a bad hair day, or skipped the gym for a few days
However, there is a rhetorical question quote in my gym
"Feeling good? Of course you are. No one leaves thinking I really regret that workout."
Id put sex in the same bracket. May take some effort to initiate and get in the right head space, always worthwhile
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I am voracious in desire but probably not inexhaustible in stamina (I must try and find out) but I don’t get nearly enough sex, mainly because ordinary life gets in the way of my sex life.
It is only since I ‘became Lucy’ that I have been like this; before my sex drive was intermittent, and I have become much more sexually self-confident and adventurous (but still safe sex only, sadly!) which may be ridiculous at my age but I just love being a terrible old slut so much!
That doesn’t mean that I am entirely indiscriminate about who I have sex with, however! |
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Id say normal. I measure that by how quickly I want to go again after draining my balls.
low-mid- same day of ejaculation.
Mid- 24 hours
High- 48 hours
Realistically I'd be happy going 3 times in a week |
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