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By *_Mr.K_x OP Man 10 weeks ago
North Worcestershire |
Hi,
Has anyone done this or know in what context I might be referring to?
How did it make you feel? How did you approach the subject of doing it or does it just happen naturally?
If you have a partner/sub/fwb... whatever your dynamic... have you openly given them the 'green light' to see other people and then how do you feel about it afterwards?
Hence... 're-claiming' being a thing.
Just curious to know
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I dislike the term and thought behind reclaiming someone as it denotes ownership. Reunion though, the act of you both returning to each other and expressing your desire for each other, that’s very erotic |
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"I dislike the term and thought behind reclaiming someone as it denotes ownership. Reunion though, the act of you both returning to each other and expressing your desire for each other, that’s very erotic"
Not thought about this. You make a great point |
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On the rare occasion Sasha has fun without me, as soon as possible we jump into bed and fuck. She will wait until I am inside her, before she tells me everything she did. I always cum so hard.
I dont know if it's "reclaiming", but it's amazing for both of us. |
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By *_Mr.K_x OP Man 10 weeks ago
North Worcestershire |
"I dislike the term and thought behind reclaiming someone as it denotes ownership. Reunion though, the act of you both returning to each other and expressing your desire for each other, that’s very erotic"
Hence the ' - ' air quotes over the title 'Re-Claiming' but I understand your response.
I think I'm the Dom/sub sense, reclaiming of ownership is perhaps more understandable.
For a couple, yes.. I agree entirely with what you're saying as there's no sense of ownership.
All depends on the dynamic I suppose |
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"I dislike the term and thought behind reclaiming someone as it denotes ownership. Reunion though, the act of you both returning to each other and expressing your desire for each other, that’s very erotic
Hence the ' - ' air quotes over the title 'Re-Claiming' but I understand your response.
I think I'm the Dom/sub sense, reclaiming of ownership is perhaps more understandable.
For a couple, yes.. I agree entirely with what you're saying as there's no sense of ownership.
All depends on the dynamic I suppose"
I got you. It’s the term in general that I feel has connotations, not your use of it in this context |
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It’s not a term I have heard recently but it used to be used a lot in the past. From what I have been told by couples it is incredibly intense and is often the thing that drives them to play more. |
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By *_Mr.K_x OP Man 10 weeks ago
North Worcestershire |
"Nah I get that bud. The dynamic I'm involved with I think would benefit from this element of 're-claiming'
What does your partner think?"
She's of the same mentality. The flexibility to play together and with others, but also the freedom to play away.. AS LONG as at the earliest available opportunity we 're-claim' each other and reassure each other that the best times are with each other.
That's the sort of thing that has recently made it into our conversations |
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Reclaiming or reconnecting is the most important part of our swinging life.
There is something amazing about being back in each others arm being intimate while sharing everything one or the other of us has been up to. It's why I let my husband be with other women.
I have recently been surprised to find this dynamic with a second playmate so am now having to process the impact of that. Its always just been something between my husband and myself so this is a little strange for me atm. |
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