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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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We are an adventurous couple but are slowly coming to the conclusion that finding a bi woman is kinda like winning the lottery it seems to be a very unlikely prospect going to clubs to find playmates seems like a good idea but we'd like build confidence with a few meets & socials before taking the big step of going to clubs be honest we're losing faith in fs  |
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You are looking for a single bi female who meets couples within a fairly narrow age range.
Not many single femes meet couples, those that do tend to like to play with both the male and the female. Your profile insinuates that there would be little contact between the female and the male part of you. That may put a lot of women off.
I'm not suggesting you change your preferences, but you are fishing in a small pond that is already over crowded with rods. It is going to take time. |
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By *adybee77Woman
over a year ago
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Exactly what the sexy lady above said.
Small pond, and highly fished.
Don't take this a criticism, but your profile is pretty samey for many on here. Theres no personality, not much about you both, and no pictures - they don't need to be sexual, but I wouldn't even bother messaging you as there is nothing to catch my attention...
Also, it sounds a bit like you want the girls to perform like an warm up act and then disappear off with your own partners. Thats certainly not what most bi fems are looking for.
However, they are your preferences, and I'm not suggesting you do anything you feel uncomfortable with, but just be prepared for a longer wait to find that illusive lady! |
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"Exactly what the sexy lady above said.
Small pond, and highly fished.
Don't take this a criticism, but your profile is pretty samey for many on here. Theres no personality, not much about you both, and no pictures - they don't need to be sexual, but I wouldn't even bother messaging you as there is nothing to catch my attention...
Also, it sounds a bit like you want the girls to perform like an warm up act and then disappear off with your own partners. Thats certainly not what most bi fems are looking for.
However, they are your preferences, and I'm not suggesting you do anything you feel uncomfortable with, but just be prepared for a longer wait to find that illusive lady!"
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you have no real pictures of you on display bar a very small avatar, how are you standing out from the crowd there ? single females who are younger and meet couples and are REAL are incredibly rare on here, mostly inundated (look at their profiles they can pick up 2000 picture fabs in a day or two) so you need to make yourself stand out or be a bit more "pro" active.
Clubs are a far better bet on the whole for meeting single females though. At least you know they are real and meet couples which is half the battle at least |
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