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How long do you like to have a chat with someone before meeting them in person?
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"I try to budget around 2 weeks with a social meet .. after that I find the interesting fizzles out usually .. unless something really has in way like a holiday etc "
Yeah I understand, there is only so much you can talk about, then it gets a bit repetitive |
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"I try to budget around 2 weeks with a social meet .. after that I find the interesting fizzles out usually .. unless something really has in way like a holiday etc
Yeah I understand, there is only so much you can talk about, then it gets a bit repetitive "
I am not a huge one for talking day on day in messages , it's all rather pointless .. ultimately I am on this site to meet and have sex with like minded people . I get that you need some minor banter to feel comfortable / relax/maybe some flirt perhaps .. but I am not really one for spilling my life story to randoms .. that I will probably only meet the once anyway .
I just find momentum dies off after a couple of weeks historically .... I have around 11 women on my fab phone WhatsApp over the last year that wanted to arrange to meet . but it's never happened and pretty much no messages anymore ...I find this 2 week window a fairly accurate threshold ..
outside of that I will just say cool message me when you nearer time of wanting to arrange something |
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With my last FWB, it was like 90 mins of chat before we met in person. We saw each other for 4 years and he is one of the most delightful people I’ve met and a great friend. 
With other people, I’ve been chatting for years and never met in person. 🤷♀️ |
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"No time frame. With work and other life priorities I find in most instances I end up meeting people at larger socials first and then having follow ups based off those interactions  "
Ah seems like the most sensible way to be honest. Been wanting to attend a large social gathering for a bit |
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