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By (user no longer on site) OP 19 weeks ago
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What sort of maximum and minimum age rules do people go with for partners/fun? I know there’s no catch all or rule as such and it will depend on your age and what your into.
I’m 40 and would go upto 50 and down to 18, that’s a big difference isn’t it? However I couldn’t see me having a relationship with an 18 year old. Does that make me bad?  |
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Bugger it ...... I'd read that wrong and thought you were 50.
My answer was NO you are not bad , but good luck finding an 18 year old who is looking for a 40 year old.
Interesting that you will go 22 years younger but only 10 years older....... why don't you want a 62 year old ?
And if you say cos she's too old - would you consider it when you are 52?
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I don't particularly care for engaging with people below 25 at all. Below 30 in most cases. I hate to feel like I'm taking advantage.
Older I don't really care as long as I find them attractive. Everyone involved is old enough to have enough life experience for me to feel fine about it. I usually end up with a handful of years older than me 💜 |
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When I was 50ish I had several meets with a 24 year old woman, and that worked well for both of us. She was mature enough to know what she wanted (and to make sure she got the right kind of guy to deliver it!) The age difference is less important than the mindset. |
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By *eliWoman 19 weeks ago
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As for me...
Thirties or so plus I'm fine with. Mid twenties, it's rare but it happens. That's in terms of women.
Men I tend to prefer older, I thought exclusively 10yrs+ at first. Now I've realised it's more based on the man. |
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By *eliWoman 19 weeks ago
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"I couldn't see an 18 year old wanting to have a relationship with a 40 year old so no, it doesn't.
But he doesn't want a relationship Meli - just a roll in the sack.. "
Maybe some really horny 18 year old has strong daddy issues and wants to meet an older man for casual sex... could happen.
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By *9alMan 19 weeks ago
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"I couldn't see an 18 year old wanting to have a relationship with a 40 year old so no, it doesn't.
But he doesn't want a relationship Meli - just a roll in the sack.. "
that sums it up as long as they are legal & still breathing why worry |
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I think for me I'm at a stage and age where lower than mid-30s seems highly unlikely for either a relationship or casual fun, and I'm fine with that. I did not long ago go on a date with someone a few years younger than that and felt very odd about it (yes, they knew how old I was). If I'm being honest it's flattering to be attractive to someone well over a decade younger than me, but they'd have to be either very mature for anything more than fun.
But mid-30s upwards is fine - I'd definitely meet someone over 50 on here if I found them attractive. |
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By *agic.MMan 19 weeks ago
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"Bugger it ...... I'd read that wrong and thought you were 50.
My answer was NO you are not bad , but good luck finding an 18 year old who is looking for a 40 year old.
Interesting that you will go 22 years younger but only 10 years older....... why don't you want a 62 year old ?
And if you say cos she's too old - would you consider it when you are 52?
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Why not just accept it as his preference and not look too much into it... |
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"Bugger it ...... I'd read that wrong and thought you were 50.
My answer was NO you are not bad , but good luck finding an 18 year old who is looking for a 40 year old.
Interesting that you will go 22 years younger but only 10 years older....... why don't you want a 62 year old ?
And if you say cos she's too old - would you consider it when you are 52?
Why not just accept it as his preference and not look too much into it..."
Why vet my contribution ? Vet your own. |
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By *.hrisMan 19 weeks ago
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I'm not sure what the oldest I would sleep with would be. If they were still attractive, I wouldn't rule anyone out.
But if I were to be in a relationship with someone, maybe a couple of years older than me and 7 years younger than me. |
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"those looking at the 18/19 year olds needs to give their heads a wobble there is no age check process on this site so no proof ...
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why , 18/19year olds visit clubs for those that aren't over 21s entry ..
I have met some pretty cool 19 year olds in clubs/ events / socials
all clubs check ages with ID as far as I am aware
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I don't have maximum upper age limit because I've never been with a woman older than me at any stage in my life.
My lower age limit is flexible only in that I raise it every single year in line with my eldest child's age. There will always be a 10 gap and I will never meet anyone below that limit. |
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By *oxy jWoman 19 weeks ago
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"those looking at the 18/19 year olds needs to give their heads a wobble there is no age check process on this site so no proof ...
why , 18/19year olds visit clubs for those that aren't over 21s entry ..
I have met some pretty cool 19 year olds in clubs/ events / socials
all clubs check ages with ID as far as I am aware
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and as i said no age check on fab ..i said nothing about clubs / socials  |
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"those looking at the 18/19 year olds needs to give their heads a wobble there is no age check process on this site so no proof ...
why , 18/19year olds visit clubs for those that aren't over 21s entry ..
I have met some pretty cool 19 year olds in clubs/ events / socials
all clubs check ages with ID as far as I am aware
and as i said no age check on fab ..i said nothing about clubs / socials "
you can just ask to see ID at a social / meet before hand ..
mean on fab anyone and everyone can lie about ages older . younger regardless .. we base things visually generally .
if someone looked very young I would ask for ID . . fab does remove people that look very young I have noticed over the years though . |
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"I've always preferred older women, however as I edge towards my mid 50's on Thursday, I've lowered the lower age to 25, but thinking about putting that up to 30."
When your Perusing on here and checking out profile and the pictures stop you and you say wow wow it’s about what we find attractive and age don’t make much difference but would they be thinking the same ? That’s the million euros question probably not but we can all get lucky a few Times in life , Nice accent by the way  |
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This century I've preferred women my age or older, especially now. I'd have no issues regularly seeing a woman in her 70s. Having said that, I currently have a FWB who is 25 years younger than me. I really don't understand what is going on in my head 🤷🏾♂️ |
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