Yes, I was like that for most of this year to be honest. It wasn't great, healthy, or particularly pleasant for anyone around me.
Some life changes, routine, and getting back into exercising have massively helped though.
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By *YDB75Man 16 weeks ago
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"Yes, I was like that for most of this year to be honest. It wasn't great, healthy, or particularly pleasant for anyone around me.
Some life changes, routine, and getting back into exercising have massively helped though.
LvM 🖤"
Last year i was terrible to live with and pushed everyone away and thats when my own head jumped in and took over |
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I get it from time to time, partly a reflection of the world we have around us as well as how I'm living
. I try to stop engagement with the wrong people for me at that time, get extensive rest and good exercise. And monitor things, in case further changes are needed, including potentially bringing something new into my life. Rest, healthy eating and exercising largely help me to recover |
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Yes often unfortunately, the past couple of weeks have been very meh....
I don't have any solutions as mine probably aren't healthy but I stress clean (least I have something to show from my mehness).
Play music that makes me smile.
Get out as much as possible.
Hope you feel less meh soon op.
Mrs |
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By (user no longer on site) 16 weeks ago
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Thank god someone else has those times... I thought it was just me.
I've been feeling like it for about a week now and finding it hard to shit this time. Usually, I just tell myself to get a grip and carry on but it's not working atm |
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I’m feeling like I’m a spider at the bottom of a meh bath. Every time I get a few steps up I slide back down. But I’m going to keep looking for the shower hose and I shall summit this plastic bastard! |
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I guess we all have a tendency to want to withdraw and retreat when life gets meh. But we need to be enforcing our boundaries for the things which make life meh, and that means not retreating. We need to patrol our fences. Mend our boundaries and keep out the meh. |
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I'm generally on top and "not-meh", but a couple of very severe things have put me into "meh" the last two months.
I've had to use a lot of my wit to get the "meh" into its rightful place, but that brought a bit of its own "meh" in the process - sense of duty and friendship, so very conflicted.
But....the "meh" was someone else's rubbish dumped on me, so I've kicked it into touch and been clear about boundaries with them.
It's not over yet - it's the sort of thing that has successive waves - but I suspect the friendship may have run most of its 7 year course, now the line between supportive friendship and toxicity has been crossed.
So "meh" is uninvited chez Nick, after a very "meh" two months.
Short version - boundaries.
Give to those you care for, which does fuck boundaries, but get the boundaries back and let those who've crossed them know what they did.
If they can't deal with their responsibility towards you, put your efforts elsewhere. |
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Not like me but yeah! Last couple weeks or so! Allways bit down when summer comes to end plus my younger brother died end August his funeral in 3 weeks! First of us siblings to pass! Totally out of the blue! But will bounce back! Have 2 ! X |
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"Not like me but yeah! Last couple weeks or so! Allways bit down when summer comes to end plus my younger brother died end August his funeral in 3 weeks! First of us siblings to pass! Totally out of the blue! But will bounce back! Have 2 ! X"
So sorry for your loss x |
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By *andT2023Couple 13 weeks ago
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Ooo i am feeling a lot meh lately ... more work to be fair ..guess its a difficult problem to solve.
Music ..chilling and trying to switch off but that has generally lead to withdrawl from life this weekend. It will pass .
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"Not like me but yeah! Last couple weeks or so! Allways bit down when summer comes to end plus my younger brother died end August his funeral in 3 weeks! First of us siblings to pass! Totally out of the blue! But will bounce back! Have 2 ! X"
So sorry to hear that. My condolences. |
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"Not like me but yeah! Last couple weeks or so! Allways bit down when summer comes to end plus my younger brother died end August his funeral in 3 weeks! First of us siblings to pass! Totally out of the blue! But will bounce back! Have 2 ! X"
Sorry for your loss |
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By (user no longer on site) 13 weeks ago
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"Not like me but yeah! Last couple weeks or so! Allways bit down when summer comes to end plus my younger brother died end August his funeral in 3 weeks! First of us siblings to pass! Totally out of the blue! But will bounce back! Have 2 ! X"
🙏🌹...so so sorry to hear that . |
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