Engage and answer the mundane messages with sarcasm or ever go a little further?
Had a message from a guy today who was passing by our area looking fo a quick Pit stop.
I Mr replied yes just give us 5 minutes and we'll be ready.
I then asked the straight guy if he likes a good pounding up the ass which he wasn't really into it.
I followed by saying can I just slip it in a bit?
He didn't message back  .
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I used to but honestly, I haven't the energy anymore. I'm quite ruthless with what I reply to now and bite back the occasional temptation to reply to gems such as hey both, how are you guys, do you meet married men and other such nonsense. |
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We used to open up our filters to guys occasionally, and I always enjoyed answering their messages. At no point correcting them on who they were talking to when they assumed it was K. For some reason, they always seemed confused when I asked to at least get a reach around 😉😁
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"I used to but honestly, I haven't the energy anymore. I'm quite ruthless with what I reply to now and bite back the occasional temptation to reply to gems such as hey both, how are you guys, do you meet married men and other such nonsense. "
Yes indeed, it's a rarity also but sometimes you can't help yourself.
The more pathetic the message the better chance of a response |
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"We used to open up our filters to guys occasionally, and I always enjoyed answering their messages. At no point correcting them on who they were talking to when they assumed it was K. For some reason, they always seemed confused when I asked to at least get a reach around 😉😁
LvM"
Another one that generally gets a response, always addressing the lady of the couple instead of both.
Come on guys...wtf? |
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"Engage and answer the mundane messages with sarcasm or ever go a little further?
Had a message from a guy today who was passing by our area looking fo a quick Pit stop.
I Mr replied yes just give us 5 minutes and we'll be ready.
I then asked the straight guy if he likes a good pounding up the ass which he wasn't really into it.
I followed by saying can I just slip it in a bit?
He didn't message back .
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Ooh I got a lonely response from a straight guy who was allegedly caught jerking off to me by his sister, she said I was nice down below.
I said awsome but can i have her number mate?
I got blocked, and I'm pretty sure it was fake but fuck it was funny |
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By *lan157Man 11 weeks ago
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I take a lot of care over the occasional messages I send and only once received a sarcastic reply to a follow up message when dialogue had started so no I wouldn't indulge in it. |
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"I used to but honestly, I haven't the energy anymore. I'm quite ruthless with what I reply to now and bite back the occasional temptation to reply to gems such as hey both, how are you guys, do you meet married men and other such nonsense.
Yes indeed, it's a rarity also but sometimes you can't help yourself.
The more pathetic the message the better chance of a response "
Sometimes you know they're doing it for a reaction and I'm very stubborn about refusing to bite 
One guy, who really didn't match my profile preferences, told me how I was ill mannered for not replying and should remember I won't be attractive enough to get attention forever. That one was hard to delete without replying to but the irritation that type must experience drives me on. |
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"I used to but honestly, I haven't the energy anymore. I'm quite ruthless with what I reply to now and bite back the occasional temptation to reply to gems such as hey both, how are you guys, do you meet married men and other such nonsense.
Yes indeed, it's a rarity also but sometimes you can't help yourself.
The more pathetic the message the better chance of a response
Sometimes you know they're doing it for a reaction and I'm very stubborn about refusing to bite
One guy, who really didn't match my profile preferences, told me how I was ill mannered for not replying and should remember I won't be attractive enough to get attention forever. That one was hard to delete without replying to but the irritation that type must experience drives me on. "
It's that type of message we generally reply to, that ick that slightly gets under your skin.
Really the point point of this post is hoping to educate the uneducated I guess
Oh and be careful on that pole |
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"No, it seems a bit unfair on someone who has sent a message, even if it's not a great one. Not everyone is adept at sending interesting messages  "
Mmmh possibly not and its not to insult in any way.
Probably more of an educational thread.
Let's see what happens, there might be alot less pathetic messages in folks inbox tomorrow.
Here's to hoping |
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By *aprica2Couple 11 weeks ago
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"We get some proper hideous messages almost like a sport now days, one message was probably 2000 words long 😂
How was his grammar?"
Dreadful he went off one some bizarre tangent on how nice he is and how great a job he'd do on the Mrs, he cried and got upset when I told him I couldn't be arse to read essay and blocked us, the cheek of it |
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"We get some proper hideous messages almost like a sport now days, one message was probably 2000 words long 😂
How was his grammar?
Dreadful he went off one some bizarre tangent on how nice he is and how great a job he'd do on the Mrs, he cried and got upset when I told him I couldn't be arse to read essay and blocked us, the cheek of it "
Kind of answers we're looking for |
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"No, it seems a bit unfair on someone who has sent a message, even if it's not a great one. Not everyone is adept at sending interesting messages "
For the people who are trying, even if they've hugely missed the mark, I think that's a fair point. But when dealing with the outright disrespectful and those who get nasty, sometimes it's really hard not to put them back in their box. |
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"No, it seems a bit unfair on someone who has sent a message, even if it's not a great one. Not everyone is adept at sending interesting messages
For the people who are trying, even if they've hugely missed the mark, I think that's a fair point. But when dealing with the outright disrespectful and those who get nasty, sometimes it's really hard not to put them back in their box. "
As you would do face to face.
It wouldn't happen 95 % of the time.
Point being it shouldn't happen on line or anywhere |
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By *aprica2Couple 11 weeks ago
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"No, it seems a bit unfair on someone who has sent a message, even if it's not a great one. Not everyone is adept at sending interesting messages
For the people who are trying, even if they've hugely missed the mark, I think that's a fair point. But when dealing with the outright disrespectful and those who get nasty, sometimes it's really hard not to put them back in their box. "
Agreed some are nice and simple, others just address the Mrs and pretty much tell me their dirty disgusting sexual fantasy even though I've told them it's the M talking, loved you on the podcast BTW |
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It depends - a lot of the time I’d reply but a lot I delete now if they’ve clearly not read our profile.
Guys sending a message only to C saying what they’d like to do to her, I always reply with saying that I’m not bi and point them to fab guys, which confuses them 😛
A guy the other day asked if we would go round and even when I said we had just finished a shift at the abattoir and didn’t have time to get cleaned up, he still wanted to meet 🤦🏻♂️
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"No, it seems a bit unfair on someone who has sent a message, even if it's not a great one. Not everyone is adept at sending interesting messages
For the people who are trying, even if they've hugely missed the mark, I think that's a fair point. But when dealing with the outright disrespectful and those who get nasty, sometimes it's really hard not to put them back in their box.
Agreed some are nice and simple, others just address the Mrs and pretty much tell me their dirty disgusting sexual fantasy even though I've told them it's the M talking, loved you on the podcast BTW "
Thank you 🙂 |
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I was very tempted when ingot a message from a giy saying he was balls deep in his wife while looking at my pictures.
I did just delete it but was very tempting to congratulate him on being a man who could actually multiask. |
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"We got asked a question that is answered in our profile, so replied "the answer to that is in our profile". "They" followed up with another question that's answered in our profile.... end of chat "
That sounds like literally every job interview where I get asked information that's BOTH on the CV AND the cover letter, and I'm thinking "you had ONE fucking job"... 😅 |
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By (user no longer on site) 10 weeks ago
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I try not to reply to messages unless it is with intent.. I'd hate to lead anyone on or waste their time - if I'm talking to someone about meeting, then I'm definitely hoping it is going to happen at some point
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"I was very tempted when ingot a message from a giy saying he was balls deep in his wife while looking at my pictures.
I did just delete it but was very tempting to congratulate him on being a man who could actually multiask. "
These are the kind of thing I struggle not to reply to! |
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"We had some guy messaging he didn't bother to check who & was a little upset when he realised he'd wanked to the Mr 😂
Mrs
That's the dream I never managed to achieve. Bravo sir 👏
LvM"
He was very angry, bless him 😂
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"Fancy that, a couple profile called blowloadandgo getting that kind of message.
It’s truly unfathomable."
Truly unfathomable that your ready for an "in the area" just because your browsing fab in-between chores on a Saturday morning?
Could have at least sent a pic |
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By *irthandgirthMan 10 weeks ago
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Had a friend round mine for a cup of tea and she got a message from a guy based at my old unit. Made up some shit, and he tried to invite himself round for a 3sum. Got a little info out of him then freaked him out by telling him the simplex code to his building amongst other things. |
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By *rPunxMan 10 weeks ago
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The only messages I tend to get are from the gay/bi and so called straight guys who clearly haven't read my profile or just picked out the parts they like and ask if we can meet,fuck,suck etc. I've politely declined. As I'm not interested in any of that. Until they I get sick of declining and ultimately ignore then block. |
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By (user no longer on site) 10 weeks ago
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"Engage and answer the mundane messages with sarcasm or ever go a little further?
Had a message from a guy today who was passing by our area looking fo a quick Pit stop.
I Mr replied yes just give us 5 minutes and we'll be ready.
I then asked the straight guy if he likes a good pounding up the ass which he wasn't really into it.
I followed by saying can I just slip it in a bit?
He didn't message back .
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This is the way |
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