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By *heekyCharm OP   Man 11 weeks ago

Colne

I sometimes wonder what I'm looking at and who I'm talking to on here.

Is there a bit of a blur between porn and swinging?

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By *irldnCouple 11 weeks ago

Brighton

No

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By *irldnCouple 11 weeks ago

Brighton

That was blunt.

I think a lot of people on Fab are not actually swingers or really understand the dynamic. They just see this as a slightly kinkier swipe left right website

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By *nesCouple 11 weeks ago

Milton Keynes, city of dreams


"That was blunt.

I think a lot of people on Fab are not actually swingers or really understand the dynamic. They just see this as a slightly kinkier swipe left right website"

100%. T*nd*r but with added Wanking Dead.

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By *oodmessMan 11 weeks ago

yumsville

There was a reasonable consensus reached here. I think it's fair to say there's a lot of profiles where they are content creators or are on alt sites essentially nothing to do with swinging and everything to do with gaining traction and fans. Occasionally meeting with other creators, maybe the odd exceptional to look legit and unporny.

https://www.fabswingers.com/forum/lounge/1633110

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By *heekyCharm OP   Man 11 weeks ago

Colne


"That was blunt.

I think a lot of people on Fab are not actually swingers or really understand the dynamic. They just see this as a slightly kinkier swipe left right website"

What would you consider yourselves to be, if you don't mind me asking?

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By *heekyCharm OP   Man 11 weeks ago

Colne


"There was a reasonable consensus reached here. I think it's fair to say there's a lot of profiles where they are content creators or are on alt sites essentially nothing to do with swinging and everything to do with gaining traction and fans. Occasionally meeting with other creators, maybe the odd exceptional to look legit and unporny.

https://www.fabswingers.com/forum/lounge/1633110"

Interesting... I wonder if it was always like this? I bet it wasn't in the beginning.

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By *reative-mindMan 11 weeks ago

Exeter

No one is mostly smoke and mirrors filled with a number of people acting.... the other is porn.

Sorry couldn't help it.

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By *ir Toot of the frostMan 11 weeks ago

Burton-on-Trent

I just exist here, and it's nice to talk to people about i couldn't normally do with my irl friends.

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By *heekyCharm OP   Man 10 weeks ago

Colne


"I just exist here, and it's nice to talk to people about i couldn't normally do with my irl friends.

"

This is a good thing. This feels like the way.

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By *irldnCouple 10 weeks ago

Brighton


"That was blunt.

I think a lot of people on Fab are not actually swingers or really understand the dynamic. They just see this as a slightly kinkier swipe left right website

What would you consider yourselves to be, if you don't mind me asking? "

Over the last few years, “resting swingers” (not retired as hope to be more active again soon). Vanilla life hit us like a train the last few years and we got out of the habit of playing.

For avoidance of doubt that was not criticism. People can use this site how they want. If casual sex is your thing then good luck to you. But in our opinion (and yes definitions change over time) we think swinging has more nuance to it and only those who get it understand how to maximise their chances of having fun with swingers, recognising that to be invited into couple’s relationship to join then for sex (in whatever capacity) is, or should be, a big deal.

Clearly only our opinion though!

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By *irldnCouple 10 weeks ago

Brighton


"I just exist here, and it's nice to talk to people about i couldn't normally do with my irl friends.

"

I think that is great. To be able to discuss kinks or sexual topics that vanilla friends might not get is brilliant.

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By *heekyCharm OP   Man 10 weeks ago

Colne


"That was blunt.

I think a lot of people on Fab are not actually swingers or really understand the dynamic. They just see this as a slightly kinkier swipe left right website

What would you consider yourselves to be, if you don't mind me asking?

Over the last few years, “resting swingers” (not retired as hope to be more active again soon). Vanilla life hit us like a train the last few years and we got out of the habit of playing.

For avoidance of doubt that was not criticism. People can use this site how they want. If casual sex is your thing then good luck to you. But in our opinion (and yes definitions change over time) we think swinging has more nuance to it and only those who get it understand how to maximise their chances of having fun with swingers, recognising that to be invited into couple’s relationship to join then for sex (in whatever capacity) is, or should be, a big deal.

Clearly only our opinion though!"

I've been lucky to be invited in and it was a great experience. I think about it often!

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