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By *viatrixĀ OPĀ Ā Ā WomanĀ 3 weeks ago
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Not really- Iāve just woken up, and look scary and my voice is hoarse from snoring, most likely.  itās just that the song Too Funky popped in my head and also a friend and I were chatting a couple of days ago about seductionā¦
Someone once said they wanted to seduce me āfor hoursā. How does that happen? Who has the attention span for that? Haha!
For me itās very simple- and that is why I like socials. I smile a lot, but well, that is kinda built inā¦ I make a point of sitting across my date and my killer move is a Sharon Stone like crossing of legs that will show my underwear. I have NEVER done it in public without knickers on- something to work towards! šš
Once weāve moved on- words, words, lots of deliciously sexy and tender words give me goosebumps. As well as kissing my neck, gently stroking my arms, shoukders, holding my hair while we kissā¦. But I am finding seduction is becoming a lost art. š„²
Do you like being seduced? How?
Do -you- like to seduce? How do you do it?
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Ā Ā Ā Ā I have literally never been properly seduced and itās one of my fantasies. The funny thing is, if it happened I probably wouldnāt recognise it! And, if I did, I probably wouldnāt know what to do š¤¦āāļø |
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Ā Ā Ā Yes but Iām not gonna give away my game. Friends on the person mostly anyway. Some people Iām more confident in my attraction and I can be more physics teasing. Other people I have to engage their mind more. Just basically about making people want you but not completely giving yourself until they cannot cope unless they have you. |
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Ā Iām also fairly blind to flirting. On the occasions when Iāve wondered if someone is flirting, Iāve convinced myself that Iām imagining it/wishful thinking. So I guess the level of flirting would need to rise up until itās pretty blatantā¦ then the penny would drop and Iād be very responsive |
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"Yes but Iām not gonna give away my game. Friends on the person mostly anyway. Some people Iām more confident in my attraction and I can be more physics teasing. Other people I have to engage their mind more. Just basically about making people want you but not completely giving yourself until they cannot cope unless they have you. "
Also the biggest secret- I ask lots of questions about them and I am interested in their reply and ask more. Rather than taking an opportunity to reply about my experiences. Women seem to find that sexy on dates. So imma keep doing that. |
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Ā Iām a consummate seductress. Various techniques are deployed, according to my target.
āThe excited chipmunkā
āThe needs a boost to get on the bar stoolā
āThe gets down from the bar stool 4 times quicker than I got upā
āThe fuck it, Iāll just take my dress offā
Iām not sure seducing is my strongest suit. I just engage with who Iām with. There may be flirting. There will probably be touching. There will definitely be a lot of laughing.
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Ā Ā Ā I'm not sure I have ever been seduced or that I would notice if I was/had been.
I mean, I'd probably perk up at a "shock-and-awe" tactic like the woman who comes back from the toilet to the dinner table to announce that she's just removed her underwear. Not sure that happens in real life though.*
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By *viatrixĀ OPĀ Ā Ā WomanĀ 3 weeks ago
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"Iām a consummate seductress. Various techniques are deployed, according to my target.
āThe excited chipmunkā
āThe needs a boost to get on the bar stoolā
āThe gets down from the bar stool 4 times quicker than I got upā
āThe fuck it, Iāll just take my dress offā
Iām not sure seducing is my strongest suit. I just engage with who Iām with. There may be flirting. There will probably be touching. There will definitely be a lot of laughing.
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By *viatrixĀ OPĀ Ā Ā WomanĀ 3 weeks ago
Redhill |
"I have literally never been properly seduced and itās one of my fantasies. The funny thing is, if it happened I probably wouldnāt recognise it! And, if I did, I probably wouldnāt know what to do š¤¦āāļø"
I may have been a couple of times- in my 20s. I was so naive and insecure that exactly! I didnāt know what to do or how to react! Hahaha! ššš |
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By *viatrixĀ OPĀ Ā Ā WomanĀ 3 weeks ago
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"Yes but Iām not gonna give away my game. Friends on the person mostly anyway. Some people Iām more confident in my attraction and I can be more physics teasing. Other people I have to engage their mind more. Just basically about making people want you but not completely giving yourself until they cannot cope unless they have you. "
Tell us more, guapoā¦ you say make people want you. How? I feel people get more and more put off the more I blabber! ššš come on, share a secret or twoā¦ |
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"Iām a consummate seductress. Various techniques are deployed, according to my target.
āThe excited chipmunkā
āThe needs a boost to get on the bar stoolā
āThe gets down from the bar stool 4 times quicker than I got upā
āThe fuck it, Iāll just take my dress offā
Iām not sure seducing is my strongest suit. I just engage with who Iām with. There may be flirting. There will probably be touching. There will definitely be a lot of laughing.
Iāll happily lift you up to a bar stoolā¦ "
Thereās an offer Iām unlikely to refuse |
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"Yes but Iām not gonna give away my game. Friends on the person mostly anyway. Some people Iām more confident in my attraction and I can be more physics teasing. Other people I have to engage their mind more. Just basically about making people want you but not completely giving yourself until they cannot cope unless they have you.
Tell us more, guapoā¦ you say make people want you. How? I feel people get more and more put off the more I blabber! ššš come on, share a secret or twoā¦ "
I donāt talk much when I want to seduce someone. Usually just listen more. Look into their eyes more intensely so they do that smile and then say āwhat?ā Throw in a compliment. Ask more questions. Just show that Iām interested but also give the eyes of- I would take you right here right now.
Dunno. Talking less is my secret. But also Iām only going to seduce people that find me attractive. So itās easier. |
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By *viatrixĀ OPĀ Ā Ā WomanĀ 3 weeks ago
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"Iām way past of my seduction stage but itās one of my favourite George Michael songs, and the video is š„"
Ah, Dee- you have good taste, my gorgeous, fellow George fan! ššš imagine being seduced by him- looking like he does on the video? š
I am now getting visions of being with George and all the girls- I always had a crush on Tyra Banks and Linda Evangelista  |
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"Iām a consummate seductress. Various techniques are deployed, according to my target.
āThe excited chipmunkā
āThe needs a boost to get on the bar stoolā
āThe gets down from the bar stool 4 times quicker than I got upā
āThe fuck it, Iāll just take my dress offā
Iām not sure seducing is my strongest suit. I just engage with who Iām with. There may be flirting. There will probably be touching. There will definitely be a lot of laughing.
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I can see that all of those might work  |
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Ā Are you talking about seduction or just more arousal, possibly flirtation and lust.
This dead eye, talking to eyes-lips-eyes, you have a good dress, whisper it in my ear chat, isn't seduction to me. It's just a means to an end or way to show interest. Seduction's more subtle that you don't notice you're caught up in, it's when you do things you wouldn't ordinarily, when you get ahead of yourselves as you have trust, not really that one of you is commanding a scene.
Yes there's smooth talkers, which probably comes from confidence but one would have to be trusting what they were saying.
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"Iām way past of my seduction stage but itās one of my favourite George Michael songs, and the video is š„
Ah, Dee- you have good taste, my gorgeous, fellow George fan! ššš imagine being seduced by him- looking like he does on the video? š
I am now getting visions of being with George and all the girls- I always had a crush on Tyra Banks and Linda Evangelista "
Now when you put it this wayā¦ Tyra Banks is definitely one that makes me question my sexual preference |
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Ā Dating/meeting via the Internet is killing the art of seduction. It's all dominated by the direct approach which hardly/never works. Best to get to a nice bar and rekindle your flirting technique at the bar. Probably not with the bar staff. |
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By *viatrixĀ OPĀ Ā Ā WomanĀ 3 weeks ago
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"I am now getting visions of being with George and all the girls- I always had a crush on Tyra Banks and Linda Evangelista
I think anybody from that video could seduce me with just a glance. Even George. And I say that as a straight man."
He was the most beautiful human that ever set foot on this earth. A true Greek god. šš |
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By *viatrixĀ OPĀ Ā Ā WomanĀ 3 weeks ago
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"Would you like me to seduce you? š
How does one entice you into sexual activity OP?"
Hmmmā¦
A cute smile gets me going. Someone who is into the same stuff I am, or has a similar outlook of life.
I tend to be frivolous and I have a weakness for powerful career-driven men. Think looking for a man in finance, trust fund, 6ā5ā, blue eyesā¦(I bet you read it singing haha!) The latter 2 do not always happen and itās okā¦ I was getting wet earlier this week by hearing about Solvency II! ššš
So if I am fascinated, physically and mentally, I am putty in their hands. Still, I love lots of good, good kissing, caressing my hair while it happens, stroking my neck, my shouldersā¦ the inside of my legs like being caressed too. I also like being whispered in my ear how much they desire meā¦
ā¦but as I said, it rarely happens nowadays. And I am keen to learn if there are other ways of seduction. š |
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By *viatrixĀ OPĀ Ā Ā WomanĀ 3 weeks ago
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"Dating/meeting via the Internet is killing the art of seduction. It's all dominated by the direct approach which hardly/never works. Best to get to a nice bar and rekindle your flirting technique at the bar. Probably not with the bar staff. "
I spend many nights at nice hotels with nice bars. I will try this sometime soon.. maybe in San Diego next week. I will report back.  |
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"Not really- Iāve just woken up, and look scary and my voice is hoarse from snoring, most likely. itās just that the song Too Funky popped in my head and also a friend and I were chatting a couple of days ago about seductionā¦
Someone once said they wanted to seduce me āfor hoursā. How does that happen? Who has the attention span for that? Haha!
For me itās very simple- and that is why I like socials. I smile a lot, but well, that is kinda built inā¦ I make a point of sitting across my date and my killer move is a Sharon Stone like crossing of legs that will show my underwear. I have NEVER done it in public without knickers on- something to work towards! šš
Once weāve moved on- words, words, lots of deliciously sexy and tender words give me goosebumps. As well as kissing my neck, gently stroking my arms, shoukders, holding my hair while we kissā¦. But I am finding seduction is becoming a lost art. š„²
Do you like being seduced? How?
Do -you- like to seduce? How do you do it?
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Do you mean in a swinging scenario or a real meet? |
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"Dating/meeting via the Internet is killing the art of seduction. It's all dominated by the direct approach which hardly/never works. Best to get to a nice bar and rekindle your flirting technique at the bar. Probably not with the bar staff.
I spend many nights at nice hotels with nice bars. I will try this sometime soon.. maybe in San Diego next week. I will report back. "
There's something very pleasant about talking to a gorgeous lady in a bar |
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By *viatrixĀ OPĀ Ā Ā WomanĀ 3 weeks ago
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"Dating/meeting via the Internet is killing the art of seduction. It's all dominated by the direct approach which hardly/never works. Best to get to a nice bar and rekindle your flirting technique at the bar. Probably not with the bar staff.
I spend many nights at nice hotels with nice bars. I will try this sometime soon.. maybe in San Diego next week. I will report back.
There's something very pleasant about talking to a gorgeous lady in a bar "
Does it happen nowadays though? I find people rarely leave the group theyāre with and everyone is on their phones all the time! But I shall try ā¦ I am actually going to the Top Gun bar š āļø |
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"Dating/meeting via the Internet is killing the art of seduction. It's all dominated by the direct approach which hardly/never works. Best to get to a nice bar and rekindle your flirting technique at the bar. Probably not with the bar staff.
I spend many nights at nice hotels with nice bars. I will try this sometime soon.. maybe in San Diego next week. I will report back.
There's something very pleasant about talking to a gorgeous lady in a bar
Does it happen nowadays though? I find people rarely leave the group theyāre with and everyone is on their phones all the time! But I shall try ā¦ I am actually going to the Top Gun bar š āļø "
I totally agree. Mobile devices are killers. I'll have to join you at a social again. It's been a while since we tested our seduction skills on one another. |
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By *heBelladonnaWomanĀ 3 weeks ago
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"Dating/meeting via the Internet is killing the art of seduction. It's all dominated by the direct approach which hardly/never works. Best to get to a nice bar and rekindle your flirting technique at the bar. Probably not with the bar staff.
I spend many nights at nice hotels with nice bars. I will try this sometime soon.. maybe in San Diego next week. I will report back.
There's something very pleasant about talking to a gorgeous lady in a bar
Does it happen nowadays though? I find people rarely leave the group theyāre with and everyone is on their phones all the time! But I shall try ā¦ I am actually going to the Top Gun bar š āļø "
I spend a lot of time in hotels. In my experience, if Iām in a hotel bar and not looking at my mobile or reading a book, men will most definitely approach me. It doesnāt mean it always leads somewhere. |
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"Dating/meeting via the Internet is killing the art of seduction. It's all dominated by the direct approach which hardly/never works. Best to get to a nice bar and rekindle your flirting technique at the bar. Probably not with the bar staff.
I spend many nights at nice hotels with nice bars. I will try this sometime soon.. maybe in San Diego next week. I will report back.
There's something very pleasant about talking to a gorgeous lady in a bar
Does it happen nowadays though? I find people rarely leave the group theyāre with and everyone is on their phones all the time! But I shall try ā¦ I am actually going to the Top Gun bar š āļø
I spend a lot of time in hotels. In my experience, if Iām in a hotel bar and not looking at my mobile or reading a book, men will most definitely approach me. It doesnāt mean it always leads somewhere. "
You are leaving yourself open to being approached which is good and hopefully the guys are using their seduction skills. But most importantly respecting your decision not to take things further. |
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"Not really- Iāve just woken up, and look scary and my voice is hoarse from snoring, most likely. itās just that the song Too Funky popped in my head and also a friend and I were chatting a couple of days ago about seductionā¦
Someone once said they wanted to seduce me āfor hoursā. How does that happen? Who has the attention span for that? Haha!
For me itās very simple- and that is why I like socials. I smile a lot, but well, that is kinda built inā¦ I make a point of sitting across my date and my killer move is a Sharon Stone like crossing of legs that will show my underwear. I have NEVER done it in public without knickers on- something to work towards! šš
Once weāve moved on- words, words, lots of deliciously sexy and tender words give me goosebumps. As well as kissing my neck, gently stroking my arms, shoukders, holding my hair while we kissā¦. But I am finding seduction is becoming a lost art. š„²
Do you like being seduced? How?
Do -you- like to seduce? How do you do it?
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Exactly how you described would be perfect added with your gorgeous smile |
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By *agatoXXXManĀ 3 weeks ago
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Do you like being seduced? How?
Do -you- like to seduce? How do you do it? "
Just bring me tea, toast and thick cut marmalade (Reduced Sugar), and I'm yours. No sex until after I've have the tea, etc, though. |
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