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At what point are you committed to a meet ?
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Best way to be, if i have made room in my busy schedule for a meet and have a time and date only a family emergency would change it.
If you have met before perhaps a little more flexibility can be done.
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When I've agreed (except if emergencies happen*)
* In the many years I've been here I've no-showed on zero meets because of emergencies. I've cancelled one meet with discussion/ consent because of an emergency. I've had one no show because of an emergency (someone I was already friends with, I believed him and we rescheduled) |
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The moment a date is set then I am committed.
Pending any undesired behaviours or previously undisclosed info that doesn’t match what I’m looking for that may come up between setting a date and it actually happening.
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"The moment a date is set then I am committed.
Pending any undesired behaviours or previously undisclosed info that doesn’t match what I’m looking for that may come up between setting a date and it actually happening.
Life has got in the way a few times but rarely."
Absolutely this. I'll always turn up unless I get a feeling that something isn't right |
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If a time and date is set, I'm commited. I am quite flexible with my time.
If get vague times ,"ill be out in town on saturday night, we can meet for a drink" or "I'll let you know" I already know its not going anywhere. I don't even put faith in "I'll be at the club on x date if youre there" messages either. Often is someone fishing so they have attention or youre a back up plan.
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"I'm genuinely struggling to grasp the question. If I've agreed to the time, the place, the date and the intent...then I've committed."
Some people are flaky and don't respect other people's time. |
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"I'm genuinely struggling to grasp the question. If I've agreed to the time, the place, the date and the intent...then I've committed.
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Some people are flaky and don't respect other people's time. "
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Ah, I see. In that case when I've commenced the act of intromission then she can assume I'm commited. ✅ |
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I don't feel committed or obliged to meet someone although i'm very reliable and mean what I say and make great efforts to keep to my word but i'm not in any way bound fast by a simple agreement to meet a stranger
If I make arrangements to meet then I do stick by them but if I simply didn't feel like 'going out' or 'meeting' then I wouldn't. Of course I'd let the person know that i'd backed out.
I don't let people down but who goes to a meet if they don't want to ?
Also .. if the goalposts were changed after arrangements were made it's perfectly in order to decline.
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"When I've agreed (except if emergencies happen*)
* In the many years I've been here I've no-showed on zero meets because of emergencies. I've cancelled one meet with discussion/ consent because of an emergency. I've had one no show because of an emergency (someone I was already friends with, I believed him and we rescheduled)"
Agreed bit childish to just block but it happens sometimes
We're all adults just some don't act it do they 
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"As soon as we've agreed to time place "
Yep. I’d accept that as mine and their commitment, befor that it might not happen, and after that, someone has got to cancel if plans change.  |
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