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Have you ever been blocked after showing your face ?
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By *essTTWoman 20 weeks ago
Birmingham |
No, but I have had 2 men say I wasn't for them, which they're perfectly within their right to
I think people block in that scenario because they're worried about saying the wrong thing and hurting the other person's feelings, if they don't find you attractive your feeling will be hurt either way |
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We have been blocked after chatting with the couple doing all the chasing we then arranged to meet them in a club chatted with a drink then Toyah went to the ladies and they vanished never had this before couldn't understand why they didn't just say no chemistry thanks for meeting us. |
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By *ir tootMan 20 weeks ago
Burton-on-Trent |
"Not blocked, but a noreply, gotta take it on the chin and move onto the next one, oh and I use the face pic delete after seen filter on here  "
Can't be the only one who'd rather get blocked then left on read. |
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"No but the conversation did drop once or twice. I think I have a fairly pretty face, but a face pic shows that I’m a speccy girl with a septum piercing not a Barbie doll type "
Though obviously men are totally within their rights to find me straight up ugly as a dog - that’s there prerogative  |
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By *ib.Man 20 weeks ago
Hampshire |
"This is a very weird forum post. What point is the op trying to make? If you’ve been blocked after showing your face this would only make you feel worse. "
From your perspective?
Lots of people don't actually care. |
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"I need to talk to someone before getting to the point of sending a pic and then getting blocked 😂😂
You lot are levels ahead of me!"
Nah, I've learnt from experience that you need the face pic up front. It's far worse saying you're not for me after you've been chatting a while. X |
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By *ascaIMan 20 weeks ago
Cheshire Liverpool Manchester |
"This is a very weird forum post. What point is the op trying to make? If you’ve been blocked after showing your face this would only make you feel worse. "
There’s much weirder. Not that this is even weird. |
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"This is a very weird forum post. What point is the op trying to make? If you’ve been blocked after showing your face this would only make you feel worse. "
If you think this is a weird one you need to open your eyes and see what else is posted !!!!
Actually I feel tonnes better after reading all the replies. |
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By *anae21Woman 20 weeks ago
Nearer than you think |
Yes, just recently.
After exchanging dozens of messages, I thought it was quite cowardly.
I'd always say, "sorry, you're not my type, but thanks for the concersation" or something similar. |
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By *anae21Woman 20 weeks ago
Nearer than you think |
"Yes, just recently.
After exchanging dozens of messages, I thought it was quite cowardly.
I'd always say, "sorry, you're not my type, but thanks for the concersation" or something similar. "
ConVersation.  |
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"Yes, just recently.
After exchanging dozens of messages, I thought it was quite cowardly.
I'd always say, "sorry, you're not my type, but thanks for the concersation" or something similar. "
You can put your face in my direction any time.  |
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By *riel13Woman 20 weeks ago
Northampton |
"Not blocked but the couple just stopped messaging. Why people can't just be an adult about these situations and just say "not for us thanks". "
Because some can't be an adult n say "oh, ok, not a problem" maybe? 
This is why there's, more often than not, no conversation without attraction, for me, tbh |
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Yes, though not really blocked per say. What mostly happens is they either stop talking or the convo fizzles out.
I hate the bullshit though, I'd have more respect if people were upfront and said "sorry, not my type" and then they can block later on if they like. |
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"I get blocked before messaging
So I guess so "
Haha its better that way bud , i block people all the time. Not because im a mean but just not interested , saves effort from both sides of the line  onwards and over it |
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I hit the remove pictures once they have been viewed button. You can if you are a paying member. I mostly send to verified and personal who have photos. I don't generally look to see if I have been blocked. If I am never going to meet with them anyway saves me time. |
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"I hit the remove pictures once they have been viewed button. You can if you are a paying member. I mostly send to verified and personal who have photos. I don't generally look to see if I have been blocked. If I am never going to meet with them anyway saves me time."
Love the positivity brother 
Even in long drawn out messages for over a week , really youve wasted an hour of you're time and had some fun - if nothing comes from it , jump off the falling horse and straddle another .... |
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"Yes.
1 woman insisted she'd met me before but I'd never seen her in my life.
Maybe that was a more polite way of saying I'm just an ugly runt 😁"
Aye brother , be confident in who you are!
An if all else fails - you could try filters. An if that does'nt help get yourself some make up. It works wonders from what i can see |
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By *cott14Man 20 weeks ago
Essex & SW Exeter/Taunton |
Yes however I put it down to them being intimidated by the luscious autumn mist beard and shiny head and realised they were punching 😈
Ok , perhaps not and it does hurt a little . But in the whole big scheme of things …… meh 🤷♂️ |
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Yes.
I wasnt getting many (any) replies when sent messages and presumed it was because I had my face obscured on profile.
So, I started attaching a face pic to messages.
Now I get ignored AND blocked |
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By (user no longer on site) 19 weeks ago
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Yes but I think it’s because once you send a face pic you’re at the final stages of arranging a meet. This reality hits home and for the time wasters who don’t have any intention to meet, they just block instead.
That we’re all ugly shites.
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We do this, only because there is no other option on fab- I.e. to mark as not interested etc etc.
It just saves sparking up a whole new conversation in a few months time or when they change their name/profile pic or whatever might happen. |
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