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By *phroditeWoman
over a year ago
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To me it is a complete turn off, too. In fact I have said to people that I am not going to tell them about what I might wear, nor will I engage in what I might do to them or even what I like or dislike.
It completely ruins any spontaneity and kills the excitement.
Well, for me anyway  |
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By *B9 Queen OP Woman
over a year ago
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"To me it is a complete turn off, too. In fact I have said to people that I am not going to tell them about what I might wear, nor will I engage in what I might do to them or even what I like or dislike.
It completely ruins any spontaneity and kills the excitement.
Well, for me anyway "
Could not agree more! Which is why I say 'snorkel and flippers'. Mostly they take the hint. |
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By *phroditeWoman
over a year ago
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"To me it is a complete turn off, too. In fact I have said to people that I am not going to tell them about what I might wear, nor will I engage in what I might do to them or even what I like or dislike.
It completely ruins any spontaneity and kills the excitement.
Well, for me anyway
Could not agree more! Which is why I say 'snorkel and flippers'. Mostly they take the hint."
Has anybody ever come back with a question relating to watersports? Just curious. |
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By *B9 Queen OP Woman
over a year ago
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"To me it is a complete turn off, too. In fact I have said to people that I am not going to tell them about what I might wear, nor will I engage in what I might do to them or even what I like or dislike.
It completely ruins any spontaneity and kills the excitement.
Well, for me anyway
Could not agree more! Which is why I say 'snorkel and flippers'. Mostly they take the hint.Has anybody ever come back with a question relating to watersports? Just curious."
LOL not yet - but then I would have to ask them to bring a canoe! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Yep!!
Told one guy I was gonna wear my pajamas! He said he wouldn't care. So I did. Lol. X "
Have you got a pic of you in your pyjamas? There would be a lot of people wanting to see you.
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Anyone else (particularly women) get repeatedly asked 'what are you going to wear' for a meet?
My usual response is 'snorkel and flippers'! "
Oh Yes and normally by the guys who cancel lol |
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By *B9 Queen OP Woman
over a year ago
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"Anyone else (particularly women) get repeatedly asked 'what are you going to wear' for a meet?
My usual response is 'snorkel and flippers'!
Oh Yes and normally by the guys who cancel lol"
Sometimes - but not always. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I get asked this on many occasions, in fact most of the people I meet ask it. But I put this down to the fact that its obvious I like to dress up and I think people are just wondering what outfit I will turn up in
I never tell them, mainly because I decide a few hours before.  |
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By *B9 Queen OP Woman
over a year ago
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"I get asked this on many occasions, in fact most of the people I meet ask it. But I put this down to the fact that its obvious I like to dress up and I think people are just wondering what outfit I will turn up in
I never tell them, mainly because I decide a few hours before. "
I just like to dress classy in what I feel good in. I loathe the idea of someone telling me what to wear. |
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By *B9 Queen OP Woman
over a year ago
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"If we are meeting someone in a club I will ask what the dress code is. "
That's a different matter. I tend to meet at mine or sometimes a coffee meet. I don't like some guy insisting on what I wear. And if it is at mine then I don't want to be in skimpies when he arrives and then I feel he's not for me. Harder to say no wearing crotchless panties and little else! Fully clothed and I have the edge - if you like. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"If we are meeting someone in a club I will ask what the dress code is.
That's a different matter. I tend to meet at mine or sometimes a coffee meet. I don't like some guy insisting on what I wear. And if it is at mine then I don't want to be in skimpies when he arrives and then I feel he's not for me. Harder to say no wearing crotchless panties and little else! Fully clothed and I have the edge - if you like."
Makes complete sense. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Anyone else (particularly women) get repeatedly asked 'what are you going to wear' for a meet?
My usual response is 'snorkel and flippers'! "
So you are into water sports lol
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"Yep!!
Told one guy I was gonna wear my pajamas! He said he wouldn't care. So I did. Lol. X
Have you got a pic of you in your pyjamas? There would be a lot of people wanting to see you.
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Nope!! No photos I'm afraid x |
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I never let others dictate what I wear. I have my own certain style and I wear what I like. Most of the time it's just conversation. I'll get guys saying "will you wear ......... You look gorgeous in that", and I just say thanks and leave it at that. What I turn up in will be what I feel like on the night.
The one thing I can assure anyone is that I'll never be naked. I don't like being that exposed. |
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By *B9 Queen OP Woman
over a year ago
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"I never let others dictate what I wear. I have my own certain style and I wear what I like. Most of the time it's just conversation. I'll get guys saying "will you wear ......... You look gorgeous in that", and I just say thanks and leave it at that. What I turn up in will be what I feel like on the night.
The one thing I can assure anyone is that I'll never be naked. I don't like being that exposed. "
Quite how I feel. My ex-hubby never managed to get me to wear what he wanted, why would I for a stranger? |
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Ive never had someone im going to meet ask me that. Maybe cause if they say something like that i dont carry on chatting.
I have had people say to me what would i like to see them in and my favourite response is a bodybag |
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"Why they think I know what I'm going wear tomorrow, let alone next week, is beyond me. "
Caveat; I do not have a meet next week as I am still missing my libido. I must have really pissed it off for it to have buggered off. |
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By *B9 Queen OP Woman
over a year ago
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"Why they think I know what I'm going wear tomorrow, let alone next week, is beyond me. "
I usually get that question as I am getting ready for the meet! By then I know exactly what I am wearing and nothing would make me change my mind. |
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