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By *oy_93 OP Man 11 weeks ago
limassol |
Heyy,
I want to discuss something, why is it so difficult to accept a good compliment from someone?
I doesn’t matter gender or sexuality! A good compliment, is a human act, a “thank you” is enough!
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"I do reply to compliments but I get fed up of then having lots of follow on messages from people who don't fit what I'm looking for and it's clear on my bio what I want"
And it's nice to recieve genuine compliments 😁 |
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"I do reply to compliments but I get fed up of then having lots of follow on messages from people who don't fit what I'm looking for and it's clear on my bio what I want"
Forward the compliments to me. I’ll take them 😂 |
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"I do reply to compliments but I get fed up of then having lots of follow on messages from people who don't fit what I'm looking for and it's clear on my bio what I want
And it's nice to recieve genuine compliments 😁"
You are going to get a compliment from me. Loving the pictures. Amazing physique. Wonderful 👏 😀 |
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The problem is that we are only allowed to be modest and humble in our acceptance of compliments and we must on no account ever believe that we are attractive because of them. If we do we become 'up ourselves '  |
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I literally just said to someone compliments are a turn off for me.
On here most of them are fake or based on only part of an image I have been happy to share. Its by no means a full picture therefore makes the compliment invalid. (There are exceptions but I don't see them often).
In person while the person giving the compliment may absolutely mean it, if i don't see it in myself then it makes me feel uneasy, as if I'm being lied to just to get what they want. I recognise that that is my issue and something I have been working on. I can now respond with thank you instead of some negative response. There is no winning for the other person.
Once I know someone and have got past the above then they can start to make me feel good but its a fine line inside my own head |
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"I just realised a woman complimented me on my trousers in a shop the other day. I didn't thank her I laughed and said "I wish I'd bought two pairs" 🤣"
But wearing 2 pairs at once it's a good look.  |
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"I just realised a woman complimented me on my trousers in a shop the other day. I didn't thank her I laughed and said "I wish I'd bought two pairs" 🤣
But wearing 2 pairs at once it's a good look. "
Saves on packing to go on holiday too |
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"I just realised a woman complimented me on my trousers in a shop the other day. I didn't thank her I laughed and said "I wish I'd bought two pairs" 🤣
But wearing 2 pairs at once it's a good look.
Saves on packing to go on holiday too"
You're a very wise lady.  |
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"I just realised a woman complimented me on my trousers in a shop the other day. I didn't thank her I laughed and said "I wish I'd bought two pairs" 🤣
But wearing 2 pairs at once it's a good look.
Saves on packing to go on holiday too
You're a very wise lady. "
That's what they said at customs when I had to take off four jumpers, two blouses, two pairs of trousers and a skirt |
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"I just realised a woman complimented me on my trousers in a shop the other day. I didn't thank her I laughed and said "I wish I'd bought two pairs" 🤣
But wearing 2 pairs at once it's a good look.
Saves on packing to go on holiday too
You're a very wise lady.
That's what they said at customs when I had to take off four jumpers, two blouses, two pairs of trousers and a skirt"
Bloody perverts those custom guys.  |
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"I can accept some compliments with grace.
When they veer into absolute fiction I won't even pretend to believe them - I don't accept false coin.
You have a fantastic pair of........ eyes. "
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I'm much better at accepting compliments, now that I'm older. In the real world, it's nice to be complimented by a stranger. I often do it myself and I've only ever had positive replies.
If we're talking about on here? Nah. Doesn't mean a thing. They don't know me and they can only see the body part I choose to show, photos of which have been carefully curated to look it's best. "Nice tits" is never going to entice me to thank them, let alone engage.
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"I do reply to compliments but I get fed up of then having lots of follow on messages from people who don't fit what I'm looking for and it's clear on my bio what I want
And it's nice to recieve genuine compliments 😁"
Nice minge |
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"Heyy,
I want to discuss something, why is it so difficult to accept a good compliment from someone?
I doesn’t matter gender or sexuality! A good compliment, is a human act, a “thank you” is enough!
🙏🏼🙏🏼"
100% agree. A compliment is ment as a positive thing. A simple thank you is always appreciated. If that sparks further conversation then great. If not then atleast you know you made someone smile for said compliment. |
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"I do reply to compliments but I get fed up of then having lots of follow on messages from people who don't fit what I'm looking for and it's clear on my bio what I want
And it's nice to recieve genuine compliments 😁
Nice minge"
You've not seen my minge, ive huge hairy flaps  |
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By *essTTWoman 11 weeks ago
Birmingham |
"Heyy,
I want to discuss something, why is it so difficult to accept a good compliment from someone?
I doesn’t matter gender or sexuality! A good compliment, is a human act, a “thank you” is enough!
🙏🏼🙏🏼"
Giving compliements is fine but no one is obligated to say thank you for an unsolicited compliment... |
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By (user no longer on site) 11 weeks ago
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"I don’t do compliments I shrivel up quicker than a cold Willy
It must take hours for your willy to shrivel up
You’d be surprised good sir "
I was paying you a compliment... |
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By *eee93Man 11 weeks ago
Ipswich |
Used ti have a FWB on a couples account in this. Thing is someone would sent a compliment and we / she would say thanks then automatically the person would expect a meet or start getting pushy.
They are very nice if genuinely not just saying whatever to try see some tits lol |
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We're quite self-effacing and modest as a culture and we've got some ingrained gender issues, including men who suffer in silence l. We can shield our tender, sweet selves too much.
I love the raw honesty of sharing compliments. |
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"I don’t do compliments I shrivel up quicker than a cold Willy
It must take hours for your willy to shrivel up
You’d be surprised good sir
I was paying you a compliment...
Ah
Well Ain’t I shit 😂"
Yip. |
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By (user no longer on site) 11 weeks ago
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"I don’t do compliments I shrivel up quicker than a cold Willy
It must take hours for your willy to shrivel up
You’d be surprised good sir
I was paying you a compliment...
Ah
Well Ain’t I shit 😂
Yip. "
Honestly: some people! |
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I like compliments about things I've done. Choices I've made. Achievements and acts of service. I love compliments about those.
Compliments on my appearance, meh. I know how I look. Most of it is genetics and if the most interesting thing about me to someone is my body then we're not going to have anything to talk about.
Except occasionally, in the afterglow and aftermath, when I'm naked and messy and more human than the bimbo look I usually hang around in. I can sometimes take an aesthetic compliment from someone I adore and trust not to be bullshitting me. They've already got what they could want from me, so it removes a lot of that "and why are you saying this" response that my brain usually kicks into 💜 |
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