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Is this a go or no go what's the next steps if any?
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By *ucksMike OP Man 20 weeks ago
High Wycombe |
So for years I have worked with a woman we have always been close and supportive but in the last year she was closer involved and keen on an area I'm leading.
We would stand for ages in the parking staircase talking and checking in on each other. Occasionally have a hug.
She would message me things like.
"Hey! How r u? Are u in today??"
"I’m sure you will!! I believe in you x"
"You looked really pale today I hope you are ok x"
"H) It didn’t work in g5 until I figured out a way to do it.
M) I'm sure they will finger it out.
H)Finger? Makes sense with a control surface 😂
H) 💋
M) OMG what an awful typo🤦♂️"
This person has now left the company and works for a supplier. We had a little catch up on messages and she said.
H)"I miss your face"
M)"Miss you too, we could grab a coffee what works for you?"
H)"Most mornings or evenings"
Arranged the meeting
M)"Perfect we have a plan can't wait to see you."
H)"Me too"
Am I reading too much into this and when we meet do I push it or do I leave it?
I would love to open up to her about the lifestyle. Hopefully she is wanting to try it. |
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I think you can tell her you valued her friendship when you were working together, but now you don’t see her so much you really miss her, and you’d like to have a relationship with her that’s more than friendship.
If she’s interested, talk to her about your perversions and see if she’s still interested. |
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She has agreed to go for a coffee with you and is perhaps looking to start a relationship. I think mentioning swinging would be a step too far at such an early stage.
Enjoy your catch up together and I hope it leads to more. |
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I hope this goes well for both of you.
Only she knows what she wants and only you know what you want. What anyone else thinks or wants doesn't matter.
The coffee will enable you to TELL her what you are hoping for which seems to be a woman so that you can fulfill your swinging desires.
Being honest with her is better than deceiving her |
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"Lay your cards on the table at the earliest opportunity. Give her the chance to make an informed choice before you get involved. Finding out later (if it gets there) will piss her off massively. "
My thoughts too. Always the short route and what will be will be.
Why hang things out in the hope of getting something you are hiding ?
Cards clearly laid out in front of the coffee! |
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Why hang things out in the hope of getting something you are hiding ?
Are you suggesting he shouldn't unzip his fly in Starbucks ?"
Not at all. He absolutely should! No point in beating around the ... |
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Why hang things out in the hope of getting something you are hiding ?
Are you suggesting he shouldn't unzip his fly in Starbucks ?"
It’s a great way of finding out if she is allergic to cinnamon  |
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By *ucksMike OP Man 19 weeks ago
High Wycombe |
Well thanks for the advice.
So it was all a bit odd and the m none the wiser however.
She brought up the topic of relationships and then asked if I had been with others and the conversation continued. She knows everything about the situation but we never flat out said anything about each other. Maybe in time. |
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"Well thanks for the advice.
So it was all a bit odd and the m none the wiser however.
She brought up the topic of relationships and then asked if I had been with others and the conversation continued. She knows everything about the situation but we never flat out said anything about each other. Maybe in time. "
Unless one of you says something this will go on indefinitely and one day you'll start a 'one that got away' thread. |
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"Id go for the coffee but stop short of arriving at the table with donuts on your cock saying ‘ my hands were full.. you want a donut!?’ Unless you’re absolutely sure she likes donuts….  "
You’re assuming any donuts would be ring donuts. There are other types.
#nutalldonuts |
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