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By *hilloutMan 12 weeks ago
All over the place! Northwesr, , Southwest |
"Are you happy with your naked self?
No clever angles or lighting, no lingerie covering up bits. Just full on naked and not posed.
Confident?
Happy?
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In a word. YES 😁
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I’m happy with myself naked. Some people probably aren’t and would be critical and comment about my body, but we can’t please everyone. Not that I expose myself to people and that’s why they would comment, before you ask! 😂 |
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By (user no longer on site) 12 weeks ago
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Mostly no, but I also love being naked so it's bitter sweet for me, and would love to be around more naked people just chilling or playing games for example |
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By (user no longer on site) 12 weeks ago
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Nope, I have ugly fat (belly, inner thigh and chins) so I hate being naked in public. I'm always naked at home though. Its a shame as my bestie invites me to the Starker naked disco and Rios but I never go and suffer the fomo |
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Being naked for me like that? No. Hate it. I'll pick at every minor flaw and imperfection until there's nothing left at all.
People I adore and am comfortable with seeing me naked and unposed and relaxed? I like that. I'm happy to be like that with someone. |
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For the sake respectability i conform with societal norms and dress as well as i can in public but in private i get naked as soon as possible. Im no adonis but im comfortable with my body and myself. Ive no problems being naked in company of women or men. Thats the way im wired up.  |
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"Yep. It's the only body of I've got, so....
I felt the same when I was overweight, too."
And dressing up in lingerie feels awkward, like I'm pretending to be something I'm not and that everyone will know. Imposter syndrome, maybe |
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"Mope definitely not
Mrs"
Nope we don't care if people want to judge us that's there problem tbf
It's just a shame there are 2 many judgementals on here
And fat haters
We are what we all are and don't mean we're not fun but ye
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Am I happy? No, I don't think so. I'll always hone in on the bits I don't like, of which there are many.
But perhaps counter-intuitively I'm reasonably confident - I kind of assume if I'm naked with someone they like me enough not to be worried about the bits I'm worried about! |
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By (user no longer on site) 12 weeks ago
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"Are you happy with your naked self?
No clever angles or lighting, no lingerie covering up bits. Just full on naked and not posed.
Confident?
Happy?
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It varies. 80% of the time, I'm confident and mostly happy with how I see myself. The rest of the time, I'm meh. |
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Yes I’m happy, I’m lucky to be slim without the need for the gym and to be honest, I’ve probably never cared what others think anyway. As long as the blinds are down or it’s in a club, the body doesn’t need clothing. |
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Sexually yeah, confident and happy enough. Generally though, no.
I’m more body-confident in the sheets than I am in the streets.
I’m not comfortable enough with my body to go bare-chested at a gig, or in the park. I don’t wear shorts much. But I feel good about being naked with/for a partner. They’ve chosen to get naked with me, and by that point I’ve no hang-ups at all. |
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By *andT2023Couple 12 weeks ago
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I am getting happier with my naked self over time .. i lost lots of weight which leads to more wobble but hey ho i am what i am.
I wouldnt walk down a street naked but i will happily strip off at home x |
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By *aven. OP Woman 12 weeks ago
Not the North West... |
Is how you feel linked to your weight?
I've always thought I'd be happy if I lost x amount of weight or toned up certain areas.
I may have to accept those things are never gonna happen!
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"Is how you feel linked to your weight?
I've always thought I'd be happy if I lost x amount of weight or toned up certain areas.
I may have to accept those things are never gonna happen!
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Strangely of late I've put weight on, always seeked that when younger. Now it's happened I'm not especially happy as it's just gone on my waist 😡. |
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By *andT2023Couple 12 weeks ago
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"Is how you feel linked to your weight?
I've always thought I'd be happy if I lost x amount of weight or toned up certain areas.
I may have to accept those things are never gonna happen!
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I am happier a couple of dress sizes down ..but despite running my thighs are not toned due to the loss . But overall i guess i am happier snd more confident. Others dont seem to mind .
I think its human to always pick on bits we arent 100% happy with . |
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By *aven. OP Woman 12 weeks ago
Not the North West... |
"I’m more confident in lingerie but that doesn’t stop me getting naked "
See I'm not a fan of lingerie, especially the sexy stuff. I feel I'm trying to be something I'm not, why I don't get properly dressed up and wear lots of makeup up. I feel way more confident in a t-shirt and some long socks! 🤣 Sexy at it's finest.
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"Is how you feel linked to your weight?
I've always thought I'd be happy if I lost x amount of weight or toned up certain areas.
I may have to accept those things are never gonna happen!
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Just go on a bulk and lift heavy then you’ve got an excuse |
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By (user no longer on site) 12 weeks ago
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Am I happy with my naked body? No! Am I starting to feel a bit more confident about being naked? Yes.
I've lost nearly 4st during the past 2years, so I am now more comfortable with being naked when I'm alone at home. But still a little shy when I'm in company  I am now able to look at myself naked in the mirror and feel ok about it, while knowing that I still have a way to go, to be back at a healthy weight. One day at a time though... |
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"Is how you feel linked to your weight?
I've always thought I'd be happy if I lost x amount of weight or toned up certain areas.
I may have to accept those things are never gonna happen!
Just go on a bulk and lift heavy then you’ve got an excuse "
I'm on a never ending "bulk"...
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By (user no longer on site) 12 weeks ago
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Yeah, I'm pretty happy with how I look naked. I have noticed I've put on a bit more fat as a result of trying to put muscle on, but like to think it doesn't detract from my overall physique  |
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When I got divorced I never thought anyone would see me naked again. Then i met someone and we came on here and went to clubs and saw people fully dressed and some fully naked. I tried it myself and though and behold, nobody gave two fucks about it. Gave me a massive boost in self confidence and now I don't much care for my own body,it is what it is, take it or leave it. |
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"Are you happy with your naked self?
No clever angles or lighting, no lingerie covering up bits. Just full on naked and not posed.
Confident?
Happy?
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Absolutely not! I hate, and have always hated, every single aspect of my face and body. Literally from head to toe. When I was younger I was always very skinny and that totally fucked my self confidence. My legs and arms have stayed that way but I put weight on my torso which makes me look a weird shape and (in my own eyes) far less desirable from a low point anyway.
I try to take flattering pictures but they end up being forced. I don’t regard myself as good looking and that’s backed up by never, ever having pulled an totty while out.
Like others have said, when I’m doing rudies with someone it’s not really on my mind and I assume they are ok enough with me by then. I have been on nudist beaches and enjoy the feeling of body liberty, but don’t feel good about my body image.
By the way this isn’t a pity post. Just me being honest.
Right. Off to the bakery. I mean gym |
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"Is how you feel linked to your weight?
I've always thought I'd be happy if I lost x amount of weight or toned up certain areas.
I may have to accept those things are never gonna happen!
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For me yes, although I absolutely love finally having tits but the rest feels alien.
Mrs |
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"Are you happy with your naked self?
No clever angles or lighting, no lingerie covering up bits. Just full on naked and not posed.
Confident?
Happy?
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A little more now due to the kindness and tenderness of some of the lady’s I’ve been fortunate to get to know but definitely wasn’t before and hated it. Still not wild about my body but their kind words motivated me to be more pro-active with doing more things that make me feel a bit better about it, if that makes any sense lol  x |
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Definitely not for us. One of us has too many wobbly bits for our own liking and the other too many scars.
Its one of tbe key reasons we havent been to a club as sp many tequire the men to be in nothing other than maybe a towel. |
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"Are you happy with your naked self?
No clever angles or lighting, no lingerie covering up bits. Just full on naked and not posed.
Confident?
Happy?
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I dont know many people are really happy in their own skin |
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"Is how you feel linked to your weight?
I've always thought I'd be happy if I lost x amount of weight or toned up certain areas.
I may have to accept those things are never gonna happen!
Just go on a bulk and lift heavy then you’ve got an excuse
I'm on a never ending "bulk"...
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I’m 6 months into a 3 month bulk and it’s not ending anytime soo. |
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"Is how you feel linked to your weight?
I've always thought I'd be happy if I lost x amount of weight or toned up certain areas.
I may have to accept those things are never gonna happen!
Just go on a bulk and lift heavy then you’ve got an excuse
I'm on a never ending "bulk"...
I’m 6 months into a 3 month bulk and it’s not ending anytime soo. "
A man after my own heart...sorry, I meant stomach... |
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"Played rugby for many years, I learned quite quickly you have what you have and be proud of it! "
Yep. If you’re built like Marcus Smith no amount of training will turn you into Andrew Sheridan. Your body is your life machine - don’t cock around with it too much or it will stop working effectively for you. |
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Well the old grey mare ain't what she used to be.
But I still appear to have a spankable ass and scratchable chest.
And I still occasionally get that look like she's going to devour me.
So I guess I'll do. |
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By *hilloutMan 12 weeks ago
All over the place! Northwesr, , Southwest |
"Is how you feel linked to your weight?
I've always thought I'd be happy if I lost x amount of weight or toned up certain areas.
I may have to accept those things are never gonna happen!
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To some extent, yes. As my form has improved over the past couple of months so has my confidence. It's satisfying to see hard work pay dividends 😁 |
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By *ascaIMan 12 weeks ago
Cheshire Liverpool Manchester |
"I’m content but prefer to be covered up at home. I don’t like glancing at my floppy cock. It looks so sad.
Does he need a hug?"
Bring a defib as well just incase that doesn’t work. |
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By (user no longer on site) 12 weeks ago
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Sometimes yes because I go gym so when I have a pump im happy, but most of the times not as despite some muscle I still have a lot of fat to get rid of to be shredded to the point im happy. But I really enjoy the journey in the gym so that's part of it!!!! |
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I used to be .....
Now if you imagine a balloon that has been going down for ever and it's all soft n wrinkly and it's made out of tripe ........
Doesn't put others off  but having seen better days I don't like peeking much |
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By *ragonbaitCouple 12 weeks ago
Reading and Aberdare |
Prefer it when I'm a bit slimmer/more toned, but TBH as soon as I'm naked with someone I'm very confident.
Recently looked in the mirror of a hotel room and said to H that I hated the way I was looking at the moment ... few hours later at a club I was naked in the middle of a room of about 20 people and not thinking anything of it.
How it feels and works is more important to me I guess.
A x  |
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"If I’ve had a tipple and there’s no mirror… absolutely!
I look better in my head than in reality 😂
Hubby has no issues… I love his confidence.
You look fucking gorgeous! "
Thanks! I’m a little less forgiving of faults… but I act confident when naked in front of others. |
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