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Has age affected your performance?
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When I was in my 20s I was a shit shag, mostly due to inexperience and nerves. When I did manage to get meets (from a site not too dissimilar to Fab), nerves would often get the better of me and I'd end up with unreliable erections or struggle to get it up at all. The opposite of what you'd expect from a horny young man! It's a wonder I had any FWBs back then, but luckily the ones I did have were good at relaxing me and getting the best out of me.
I've noticed as I progressed through my 30s, and now into my 40s, that those issues have not bothered me for a long time. Maybe it's due to more experience and confidence, but overall I feel like I've definitely improved with age, with meets being even more fun now than they used to be.
I wondered if others feel this, or has age had the opposite affect on your performance? |
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By *oo..Woman 13 weeks ago
Boo's World |
Better with age 😊
More horny
More adventurous
More confident
More willing to ask for what I want/need
More intense/passionate
More insatiable
More orgasms
More toys
Still like snacks and romance though 🥰 |
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By *agatoXXXMan 13 weeks ago
Gone and completely forgotten. |
"Better with age 😊
More horny
More adventurous
More confident
More willing to ask for what I want/need
More intense/passionate
More insatiable
More orgasms
More toys
Still like snacks and romance though 🥰 "
I can only guarantee the snacks. |
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By *oo..Woman 13 weeks ago
Boo's World |
"Better with age 😊
More horny
More adventurous
More confident
More willing to ask for what I want/need
More intense/passionate
More insatiable
More orgasms
More toys
Still like snacks and romance though 🥰
I can only guarantee the snacks."
And the car 🤣 |
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I've never given a performance
I'm nearly 68 and post menopause I've had to adapt and anyone who meets me would need to understand that. One of the reasons we don't meet much younger men.
Mr N is doing just fine and needs no help...far from it  |
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Hmm.
Not so much.
Experience and confidence has improved some things. Old injuries and old bones have counted against others.
I would say I'm enjoying sex now more than I did in my younger years, because that's how my brain feels about it right now. But then I have no object permanence, and I was definitely enjoying sex a lot 2 decades ago, too, so I can't say it with confidence 💜 |
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By *agatoXXXMan 13 weeks ago
Gone and completely forgotten. |
"Better with age 😊
More horny
More adventurous
More confident
More willing to ask for what I want/need
More intense/passionate
More insatiable
More orgasms
More toys
Still like snacks and romance though 🥰
I can only guarantee the snacks.
And the car 🤣"
Sadly, she's not mine! Still the best fun I've had on four wheels. |
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"I can be arsed but it's slow sensual .... comfortable sex .... with refreshments.
ffs that made me laugh out loud.
I leave the gymnastics to the kids ... "
Slow and sensual is my preference too, but I like to try a little gymnastics too!! |
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Definitely notice the difference between when we were younger and now.
Now during sex we still bounce around like teenagers, but afterwards we’re like a couple of geriatrics when trying to get off our knees/roll over etc 😂 |
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"Yeah menopause definitely knocked my sexual libido and capability for sex for six. Now I'm coming out the other side, the horn has definitely increased and I'm looking forward to the future  "
That's great to hear  |
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"Hmm.
Not so much.
Experience and confidence has improved some things. Old injuries and old bones have counted against others.
I would say I'm enjoying sex now more than I did in my younger years, because that's how my brain feels about it right now. But then I have no object permanence, and I was definitely enjoying sex a lot 2 decades ago, too, so I can't say it with confidence 💜"
I'm genuinely disappointed... that no one made a joke about their "old bone" yet.
But it's good to hear you're enjoying sex! |
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"40s and 50s are definitely much better than 20s and 30s. More adventurous and confident & , much more opportunities which drives you to stay physically on it "
This is a good way of looking at it! |
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By *aven.Woman 13 weeks ago
Not the North West... |
"I've gone down hill with age.
In my twenties I was hot and energetic and bloody good at the sex. Now I just can't be arsed.
Can't be arsed to have sex or can't be arsed during sex?"
I think once I'm there I put the effort it, I just don't pursue it as much as I used to.
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"I've gone down hill with age.
In my twenties I was hot and energetic and bloody good at the sex. Now I just can't be arsed.
Can't be arsed to have sex or can't be arsed during sex?
I think once I'm there I put the effort it, I just don't pursue it as much as I used to.
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I can relate to this |
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"I last longer but no longer have the cardio to do it. I just end up blowing out my arse and giving up.
Haha I feel that, can last ages but don't want to as is hard work  "
Ages is a bit of stretch but a lot longer than I did a few years back. |
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I'm not sure, I'm open to trying a lot more things than I once was, I'm direct enough to say no not that way try this, I guess I'm much better at getting what I want from it than putting up with mediocre one sided sex.
Mrs
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I've no idea.
I haven't had multiple partners or regular sex throughout the decades so I've nothing to compare to.
My 50s have been the only period in my life that I've had anything resembling a sex life and I haven't had any performance complaints so beyond that I genuinely don't have a clue. |
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By *ailor75Man 13 weeks ago
Brigg, near scunthorpe |
Never had erectio. Problems but sex definitely better with age
Well should I say sex for me. Got better with age lol I can't speak for the ladies iv slept with hahah they might disagree lol |
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"I still haven't got a clue what I'm doing. Ahhh that's why no one wants to meet me "
I’ve always admired you scarlet.
The demographic doesn’t work at all so I’ve never wasted our time by dropping in your box other than daft forum stuff.
Point I’m making is… I forget now
Oh yeah, nice tits. |
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"Better with age 😊
More horny
More adventurous
More confident
More willing to ask for what I want/need
More intense/passionate
More insatiable
More orgasms
More toys
Still like snacks and romance though 🥰 "
Completely agree with this |
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I don't have the body I had 10 years ago, never mind 20 or 30 years ago and haven't seen the inside of a gym in about 35 years but compared to the vast majority of my peers I look bloody brilliant, even if I do say so myself 😊
At 62 I take sildenafil so don't have erection problems and keep shagging fit, as I call it, with my exercise bike and a couple of 4kg dumbells at home. I'm always complimented on my stamina but know enough to not just keep banging away, my foreplay is on point.
As a lover I think I've improved with age in so much as there are things I do now that I'd never have done when younger.
Also, weirdly enough, I used to get stage fright in group scenarios but for the past 5 months or so I'm not bothered at all. I've no idea why 🤷🏾♂️ |
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By (user no longer on site) 13 weeks ago
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As I've aged I've started to think more about longevity, so like to play with the lady more in order to prolong my orgasm and increase the ladies, so they have more so we both enjoy |
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