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Change of plans… I’m staying in-in
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By (user no longer on site) OP 20 weeks ago
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So you’ve got a date/social/getogether/plans organised and something b changes and you need to come up with a plan b for yourself, what’s your normal go to. ?
A night in, or do have a friend who’s always available? 🌈
I’m having a party for one at mine tonight.  |
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Had this happen a couple of times recently, just life cropping up and getting in the way. Hoping we’ll re-schedule so no dramas.
I wouldn’t want to be someone’s second choice so I wouldn’t do it to someone else, I’m selective about who I meet so it’s that person/people I was hoping to see, not just someone for the sake of it, so if it’s cancelled it’s a quiet night in for me instead. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP 20 weeks ago
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"Had this happen a couple of times recently, just life cropping up and getting in the way. Hoping we’ll re-schedule so no dramas.
I wouldn’t want to be someone’s second choice so I wouldn’t do it to someone else, I’m selective about who I meet so it’s that person/people I was hoping to see, not just someone for the sake of it, so if it’s cancelled it’s a quiet night in for me instead. "
I was actually thinking about taking myself out and doing something but it’s a little dull when you’re looking forward to letting your hair down. 🙁 |
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Id be throwing a bag in the car and taking off for an adventure somewhere else, my free time is very limited and sacred to me. Staying at home is a weekday thing, weekends are for fun in it's various guises |
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In which case do it, do something nice you enjoy and might not otherwise have done 
It’s rare I have a night at home so I tend to take it and enjoy vegging on the sofa  but if it was cancelled with a bit more notice or I vegged on the sofa more often then I would make alternative non-sexy plans absolutely 
Sorry your plans got cancelled Woody  |
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I'd reach out and see what people's plans were, if I'm free unexpectedly or not, it's nice to use that time to spend with people. It would be friends / family though, not fab. If no one was free I'd treat myself to a takeaway and watch a film. Probably enjoy the fact I don't have to put make up on or kill my feet in a pair of heels for the night. |
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By *opeyXWoman 20 weeks ago
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"So you’ve got a date/social/getogether/plans organised and something b changes and you need to come up with a plan b for yourself, what’s your normal go to. ?
A night in, or do have a friend who’s always available? 🌈
I’m having a party for one at mine tonight. "
Depends on my mood, though had someone leave the site so I'm guessing we're not doing coffee tonight 😂
I'll be staying in mostly I've got plans Saturday and Sunday.
So comfy clothes on, some snacks and Netflix.
And cuddles with the dog. |
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"So you’ve got a date/social/getogether/plans organised and something b changes and you need to come up with a plan b for yourself, what’s your normal go to. ?
A night in, or do have a friend who’s always available? 🌈
I’m having a party for one at mine tonight. "
Thinly veiled brag that someone wanted to meet you. I like it Woody  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP 20 weeks ago
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I’m having a party for one at mine tonight.
Thinly veiled brag that someone wanted to meet you. I like it Woody "
A thinly bailed woe is me … cries alone on a Friday night. |
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I don’t have that friend who is always available but there are 1 or 2 people where we have the kind of relationship where either of us can say hey I’ve been cancelled on, or whatever, movie? FAF? And it’s absolutely fine for either of us to say no , fuck you, I have a hot date!
But sometimes I don’t wanna Plan B. Unexpected adventures , even in your own home , can often be the best |
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By *inx000Couple 20 weeks ago
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"So you’ve got a date/social/getogether/plans organised and something b changes and you need to come up with a plan b for yourself, what’s your normal go to. ?
A night in, or do have a friend who’s always available? 🌈
I’m having a party for one at mine tonight. "
I'd buy a bottle of wine and enjoy my own company with some tunes and maybe a takeaway ☺️
Or maybe ask a friend if they want to go out out. |
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We're staying in-in tonight. Too much going on in the city this weekend. We're on Dad wrangling duty so it's off to the other end of the M62 instead.
I need to make plans for next week, Tues and Weds. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP 20 weeks ago
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"We're staying in-in tonight. Too much going on in the city this weekend. We're on Dad wrangling duty so it's off to the other end of the M62 instead.
I need to make plans for next week, Tues and Weds. "
Oh crap. It’s pride weekend isn’t it!?!?
Who’s going? |
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By (user no longer on site) OP 20 weeks ago
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I’m having a party for one at mine tonight.
I'd buy a bottle of wine and enjoy my own company with some tunes and maybe a takeaway ☺️
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Sounds like my plans. .. with added tears and tissues…. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP 20 weeks ago
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"…..
I’m having a party for one at mine tonight.
I'd buy a bottle of wine and enjoy my own company with some tunes and maybe a takeaway ☺️
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Sounds like my plans. .. with added tears and tissues…."
Haha. That sounds like I’m wanking. Also could happen. |
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By *inx000Couple 20 weeks ago
Manchester |
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I’m having a party for one at mine tonight.
I'd buy a bottle of wine and enjoy my own company with some tunes and maybe a takeaway ☺️
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Sounds like my plans. .. with added tears and tissues…."
Oh Woody 😘 sending positive vibes your way and I'm sure you have plenty of things to look forward to even if today didn't go as planned. |
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By *inx000Couple 20 weeks ago
Manchester |
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I’m having a party for one at mine tonight.
I'd buy a bottle of wine and enjoy my own company with some tunes and maybe a takeaway ☺️
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Sounds like my plans. .. with added tears and tissues….
Haha. That sounds like I’m wanking. Also could happen. "
😏😉
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"We're staying in-in tonight. Too much going on in the city this weekend. We're on Dad wrangling duty so it's off to the other end of the M62 instead.
I need to make plans for next week, Tues and Weds.
Oh crap. It’s pride weekend isn’t it!?!?
Who’s going? "
It IS Pride this weekend, yup. |
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"So you’ve got a date/social/getogether/plans organised and something b changes and you need to come up with a plan b for yourself, what’s your normal go to. ?
A night in, or do have a friend who’s always available? 🌈
I’m having a party for one at mine tonight. "
Party for one at mine too  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP 20 weeks ago
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"So you’ve got a date/social/getogether/plans organised and something b changes and you need to come up with a plan b for yourself, what’s your normal go to. ?
A night in, or do have a friend who’s always available? 🌈
I’m having a party for one at mine tonight.
Party for one at mine too "
I might try it on with myself. |
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By *HUSH-Man 20 weeks ago
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"Stay in.
I’ll put on my headphones 🎧 and listen to music for hours. Dream wave instrumentals if it’s late at night.
Any good recommendations for helping aid sleep? 😴😴"
https://youtu.be/PTZrOq7VpzY?si=-IjdzNUj-Kqy1HcS
This is the kind of thing I listen to. If I’m going through a bout of insomnia I’ll close my eyes and just relax. My mind eventually stops running and I drift off. |
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"So you’ve got a date/social/getogether/plans organised and something b changes and you need to come up with a plan b for yourself, what’s your normal go to. ?
A night in, or do have a friend who’s always available? 🌈
I’m having a party for one at mine tonight.
Party for one at mine too
I might try it on with myself. "
Ooh let me know if you pull 😉😉🤣 |
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"I just stay in and have a biiiiiiiiiiig wank.
What's the difference between a normal one and a big wank? "
I could claim the size of the appendage but that’s got no credibility. Probably the scale of commitment to the cause. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP 20 weeks ago
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"I just stay in and have a biiiiiiiiiiig wank.
What's the difference between a normal one and a big wank?
I could claim the size of the appendage but that’s got no credibility. Probably the scale of commitment to the cause."
I agree, it’s definitely effort made. I get candles out and everything! |
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By (user no longer on site) OP 20 weeks ago
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"So you’ve got a date/social/getogether/plans organised and something b changes and you need to come up with a plan b for yourself, what’s your normal go to. ?
A night in, or do have a friend who’s always available? 🌈
I’m having a party for one at mine tonight.
Party for one at mine too
I might try it on with myself.
Ooh let me know if you pull 😉😉🤣"
I fell asleep on me.  |
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"So you’ve got a date/social/getogether/plans organised and something b changes and you need to come up with a plan b for yourself, what’s your normal go to. ?
A night in, or do have a friend who’s always available? 🌈
I’m having a party for one at mine tonight.
Party for one at mine too
I might try it on with myself.
Ooh let me know if you pull 😉😉🤣
I fell asleep on me. "
Oh dear , I did the same 😍😁🤣 |
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By *eliWoman 20 weeks ago
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Oh Woody, I hope you had a good night regardless.
It depends on how I'm feeling about it. Really meh? Hibernate, film, picky bits. A fuck it attitude? Go and fuck it out of my system. If I'm not fussed just a standard night in. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP 20 weeks ago
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"Oh Woody, I hope you had a good night regardless.
It depends on how I'm feeling about it. Really meh? Hibernate, film, picky bits. A fuck it attitude? Go and fuck it out of my system. If I'm not fussed just a standard night in."
I planned on staying in. Phoned a few people I know to see if they wanted to go out.
- too busy woody. (Bullshit)
Phoned kids - both busy.. then one said they’d come and watch a film with me… then cancelled.
The other is at a party…. ‘Can you pick me up at 1am? taxi dad stays up sober finally getting a call at 3am…. Ffs.
Life eh? |
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"Oh Woody, I hope you had a good night regardless.
It depends on how I'm feeling about it. Really meh? Hibernate, film, picky bits. A fuck it attitude? Go and fuck it out of my system. If I'm not fussed just a standard night in.
I planned on staying in. Phoned a few people I know to see if they wanted to go out.
- too busy woody. (Bullshit)
Phoned kids - both busy.. then one said they’d come and watch a film with me… then cancelled.
The other is at a party…. ‘Can you pick me up at 1am? taxi dad stays up sober finally getting a call at 3am…. Ffs.
Life eh? "
Aah I'd have come and watched a film with you 😘😘 |
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By (user no longer on site) OP 20 weeks ago
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"Oh Woody, I hope you had a good night regardless.
It depends on how I'm feeling about it. Really meh? Hibernate, film, picky bits. A fuck it attitude? Go and fuck it out of my system. If I'm not fussed just a standard night in.
I planned on staying in. Phoned a few people I know to see if they wanted to go out.
- too busy woody. (Bullshit)
Phoned kids - both busy.. then one said they’d come and watch a film with me… then cancelled.
The other is at a party…. ‘Can you pick me up at 1am? taxi dad stays up sober finally getting a call at 3am…. Ffs.
Life eh?
Aah I'd have come and watched a film with you 😘😘"
What film? … also I fell asleep. |
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