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By *rPunx OP Man 15 weeks ago
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It's so hard to find meets without verifications, can't get verifications without meets. And unless you've been verified by an existing verifiee you cannot verify others you've met socially. Hmmm seems like a catch 22 situation. |
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I’ll paraphrase the other threads:
You can go on webcam and get verified, so go via the chat rooms here on fab and see if someone will do that for you.
Alternatively go to a local social or club night being advertised here on fab (to ensure fab members are attending and can verify you!) and then you can be verified that way.
A verification is exactly what it says, it confirms you are who you say you are and that you show up when you say you will. It doesn’t have to be a reference or review. That means it doesn’t have to be a “meet”.
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"I would suggest attending one of the many group socials that prevail up and down the country. It's a great way to meet people, imbibe, connect and gain those ever so elusive verifications. 🍀"
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By *rPunx OP Man 15 weeks ago
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"I’ll paraphrase the other threads:
You can go on webcam and get verified, so go via the chat rooms here on fab and see if someone will do that for you.
Alternatively go to a local social or club night being advertised here on fab (to ensure fab members are attending and can verify you!) and then you can be verified that way.
A verification is exactly what it says, it confirms you are who you say you are and that you show up when you say you will. It doesn’t have to be a reference or review. That means it doesn’t have to be a “meet”.
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"It's so hard to find meets without verifications, can't get verifications without meets. And unless you've been verified by an existing verifiee you cannot verify others you've met socially. Hmmm seems like a catch 22 situation. "
I had 5 meets in 2023 not one could verify Plus if you leave but change to a new account you lose your verifications.
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"It's so hard to find meets without verifications, can't get verifications without meets. And unless you've been verified by an existing verifiee you cannot verify others you've met socially. Hmmm seems like a catch 22 situation. "
Granted verifications count however not the be all and end all. Looking back to when I started as a single guy we all get our first verification somewhere. Which means often someone likes what they see enough to give us a shot. Someone did with me and met me. Also not everyone is that bothered by leaving verifications. A lot of the time I wouldn't bother because I just didn't want to seem like a verification hunter.
I totally get what you're saying however my advise is just concentrate on putting your best foot forward and not on worrying about verifications. And as others have said maybe try some clubs or organised socials events to meet others in the real world. You could get a Webcam verification (and that maybe better than nothing) but a lot of people do look at the verifications and I'd say to many it doesn't carry the calibre of a verification where you have met in person and that person has given you thethumbs up.
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Verifications are part of a process here. They are not all of the process
The next question then that’s raised is how many is too many verifications.
If you have a well written profile. Interact in the forums. Play along with the games they have in here. You’ll soon get noticed.
It’s up to you if that is being noticed in a positive or negative light
Some say go to a club or a social, I understand that as a single male that can appear daunting, however it is another step forward.
Verification conundrum of how you get verified is simple really, talk in the cam rooms and ask if someone will verify for you. You’ll see a lot of verifications are by camera |
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It's so easy to get verified, literally pop on cam and ask, pop to a local club and ask, go along to a local social and ask.
It literally takes a small bit of effort on your part.
However getting verified won't then start to increase your chances of meeting.
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The last 7 meets we have arranged have turned into the blokes not turning up.
We have give it a go at supporting accounts with no veryfication's but it's bit us on the arse 7 times
So on that basis we will only look at accounts with veryfication's now
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