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No. I think that excessive competition and comparison is negative and too value based. We don’t need to have ‘best’ everything. These are essentially popularity contests and kinda damaging for people’s egos.
We’ve had cocks and boobs I think that’s enough. |
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"No. I think that excessive competition and comparison is negative and too value based. We don’t need to have ‘best’ everything. These are essentially popularity contests and kinda damaging for people’s egos.
We’ve had cocks and boobs I think that’s enough. "
I tend to agree that's why I will not be ranking the thighs one. Just a focused celebration not a competition as such.  |
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By *aven.Woman 15 weeks ago
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"No. I think that excessive competition and comparison is negative and too value based. We don’t need to have ‘best’ everything. These are essentially popularity contests and kinda damaging for people’s egos.
We’ve had cocks and boobs I think that’s enough.
I tend to agree that's why I will not be ranking the thighs one. Just a focused celebration not a competition as such. "
So thigh Thursday, which is every week. |
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By *hillout OP Man 15 weeks ago
All over the place! Northwesr, , Southwest |
"No. I think that excessive competition and comparison is negative and too value based. We don’t need to have ‘best’ everything. These are essentially popularity contests and kinda damaging for people’s egos.
We’ve had cocks and boobs I think that’s enough. "
It's your opinion of course, which I respect.
I will say is that the recent one was overwhelmingly positive overall, both publicly and through private feedback I received.
You'd be a contender my friend! 😁 |
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"No. I think that excessive competition and comparison is negative and too value based. We don’t need to have ‘best’ everything. These are essentially popularity contests and kinda damaging for people’s egos.
We’ve had cocks and boobs I think that’s enough.
I tend to agree that's why I will not be ranking the thighs one. Just a focused celebration not a competition as such.
So thigh Thursday, which is every week."
With balloons and funfair  |
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"No. I think that excessive competition and comparison is negative and too value based. We don’t need to have ‘best’ everything. These are essentially popularity contests and kinda damaging for people’s egos.
We’ve had cocks and boobs I think that’s enough.
It's your opinion of course, which I respect.
I will say is that the recent one was overwhelmingly positive overall, both publicly and through private feedback I received.
You'd be a contender my friend! 😁"
I’m not disputing that they’ve been fun.
I wouldn’t be entering simply because I’m not here to be compared or value judged.
Comparison is something that I think we’re trying hard to avoid, not actively do |
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As fun as the recent ones have been, I feel like there's a danger of the novelty wearing off and the momentum fizzling.
I could be wrong here but it feels to me like the majority of guys are potentially more sensitive about their torsos. It feels like this could squish confidence rather than build it.
I'm probably overthinking it but my gut feeling is no. |
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By *hillout OP Man 15 weeks ago
All over the place! Northwesr, , Southwest |
"Would you like to see a Fab's Best Male Torso competition?
Answer YES or NO
That is all 😁
Yes but im keeping me bra on"
Does that mean we'd finally see some of granny's skin?😁😈 |
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"As fun as the recent ones have been, I feel like there's a danger of the novelty wearing off and the momentum fizzling.
I could be wrong here but it feels to me like the majority of guys are potentially more sensitive about their torsos. It feels like this could squish confidence rather than build it.
I'm probably overthinking it but my gut feeling is no. "
If a fat fucker like me will join in it could encourage other bigger guys to get more involved in the forums.  |
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By *hillout OP Man 15 weeks ago
All over the place! Northwesr, , Southwest |
"As fun as the recent ones have been, I feel like there's a danger of the novelty wearing off and the momentum fizzling.
I could be wrong here but it feels to me like the majority of guys are potentially more sensitive about their torsos. It feels like this could squish confidence rather than build it.
I'm probably overthinking it but my gut feeling is no. "
It's not something that has to be done right away, but more to gauge interest. I don't see how they could be more or less confident than women showing their boobs. |
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No. As Tea and MB said above, it becomes a popularity contest and if someone is in a bad place body confidence wise and such, it can be difficult to watch the “competition”.
And before you lot jump on me, yes I think it was fun with penis but boobs got a bit too much and why can’t we just embrace each ones uniqueness? |
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"Would you like to see a Fab's Best Male Torso competition?
Answer YES or NO
That is all 😁
Yes but im keeping me bra on
Does that mean we'd finally see some of granny's skin?😁😈"
God yes..... fill your boots |
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"As fun as the recent ones have been, I feel like there's a danger of the novelty wearing off and the momentum fizzling.
I could be wrong here but it feels to me like the majority of guys are potentially more sensitive about their torsos. It feels like this could squish confidence rather than build it.
I'm probably overthinking it but my gut feeling is no.
It's not something that has to be done right away, but more to gauge interest. I don't see how they could be more or less confident than women showing their boobs."
Amen to that.
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"No. As Tea and MB said above, it becomes a popularity contest and if someone is in a bad place body confidence wise and such, it can be difficult to watch the “competition”.
And before you lot jump on me, yes I think it was fun with penis but boobs got a bit too much and why can’t we just embrace each ones uniqueness? "
Absolutely, we are all different and some of us may like a beer gut than a gym torso or a little willy than a big monster. On reflection I am out of competitions in whatever guise but might still do a best 3 course meal one as I think I might win it |
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I think it should go ahead.
Those that like the idea of entering their torso can do so.
Those that don't like the idea don't have to join in.
My true take is that I dislike this sort of thread but for my own particular reasons BUT ........
I am TOTALLY against censorship of any kind.
I find the level of censorship over the years in here and in society just leads to a meaningless gush of faux mutual adoration and lovey doveyness.
Banning and censoring does NOT improve relationships one iota |
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"As fun as the recent ones have been, I feel like there's a danger of the novelty wearing off and the momentum fizzling.
I could be wrong here but it feels to me like the majority of guys are potentially more sensitive about their torsos. It feels like this could squish confidence rather than build it.
I'm probably overthinking it but my gut feeling is no.
It's not something that has to be done right away, but more to gauge interest. I don't see how they could be more or less confident than women showing their boobs."
I included a couple of candid photos. But it's easy to crop, use lingerie and hands to get a picture that I'm happy with. There are very few photos of my belly on fab. And not many of my bum. Luckily it's behind me so I don't have to look at it much! 😂
If the interest is there and it happens I think it should be short and sweet. Give advance notice and then run it for 24hrs. |
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I can't see why guys would be willing to show their cocks off, but be worried about their chests???
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It's meant to be fun.
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Look how much fun the girls had with the boobs one.
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Poor Chillout must be knackered.  |
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"No. I think that excessive competition and comparison is negative and too value based. We don’t need to have ‘best’ everything. These are essentially popularity contests and kinda damaging for people’s egos.
We’ve had cocks and boobs I think that’s enough.
I tend to agree that's why I will not be ranking the thighs one. Just a focused celebration not a competition as such.
So thigh Thursday, which is every week."
And so is torso and titty Tuesday.
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"As fun as the recent ones have been, I feel like there's a danger of the novelty wearing off and the momentum fizzling.
I could be wrong here but it feels to me like the majority of guys are potentially more sensitive about their torsos. It feels like this could squish confidence rather than build it.
I'm probably overthinking it but my gut feeling is no. "
I have to agree, dicks, bums and tits are one thing but torsos are going into a grey area for confidence etc, I also would hate to see a best looking person one too.
Just my pennies worth x |
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By *ed OpiumWoman 15 weeks ago
Never Never Land |
"No. I think that excessive competition and comparison is negative and too value based. We don’t need to have ‘best’ everything. These are essentially popularity contests and kinda damaging for people’s egos.
We’ve had cocks and boobs I think that’s enough. "
think it would be nice to have a torso celebration rather than a competition because already people are ruling themselves out on their shape and in reality a lot of the dad bods are hot!!!
and sort of agree ^^^^^^^^^^^^^^ .... |
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"I can't see why guys would be willing to show their cocks off, but be worried about their chests???
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It's meant to be fun.
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Look how much fun the girls had with the boobs one.
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Poor Chillout must be knackered. "
The question was asked. I answered with my honest thoughts. But obviously it's up to people if they wish to take part. |
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By *eliWoman 15 weeks ago
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"No. I think that excessive competition and comparison is negative and too value based. We don’t need to have ‘best’ everything. These are essentially popularity contests and kinda damaging for people’s egos.
We’ve had cocks and boobs I think that’s enough.
think it would be nice to have a torso celebration rather than a competition because already people are ruling themselves out on their shape and in reality a lot of the dad bods are hot!!!
and sort of agree ^^^^^^^^^^^^^^ .... "
Yep. Celebration rather than competition. I get it, it's nice that you had a yellow box and you miss that level of interaction. The threads were fun.
I think too much of a certain type thread at a time is overkill, even more so if it's a competition that drags out for days. |
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By *aven.Woman 15 weeks ago
Not the North West... |
"As fun as the recent ones have been, I feel like there's a danger of the novelty wearing off and the momentum fizzling.
I could be wrong here but it feels to me like the majority of guys are potentially more sensitive about their torsos. It feels like this could squish confidence rather than build it.
I'm probably overthinking it but my gut feeling is no.
It's not something that has to be done right away, but more to gauge interest. I don't see how they could be more or less confident than women showing their boobs."
Men go gaga over any boobs, and women like to be adored, the 34567 boob competition threads proved that.
I don't think men are as bothered, and women aren't gonna fake enthusiasm over every torso on display.
But you know, I'm not fun so I am probably alone in my thoughts.
I'd most likely just leave a sarcastic comment and go about my day.
If people want to make a thread then make a thread.
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By (user no longer on site) 15 weeks ago
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I'm half and half
Probably too soon to do.
And how would people voting be 100% sure that every person entering was 100% genuine and who they said they were?
Doesn't go well when someone has to ruin them for others. 🤔
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By (user no longer on site) 15 weeks ago
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"No. I think that excessive competition and comparison is negative and too value based. We don’t need to have ‘best’ everything. These are essentially popularity contests and kinda damaging for people’s egos.
We’ve had cocks and boobs I think that’s enough. "
I agree with this. I don't personally like the idea of pitting others against each other when it comes to body parts but it's easy to get a bit of FOMO when you don't join in and see everyone else having fun.
But if people who do join in don't mind those comparisons then they're more than welcome to crack on but it wouldn't be for me. |
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"No. As Tea and MB said above, it becomes a popularity contest and if someone is in a bad place body confidence wise and such, it can be difficult to watch the “competition”.
And before you lot jump on me, yes I think it was fun with penis but boobs got a bit too much and why can’t we just embrace each ones uniqueness? "
Yeah, it is true. It *is* a popularity contest and it has always been… so I knew I never stood a chance lol
However, it was fun, and in my view from someone who has never fit into the forum and always have felt like an outsider, I really felt included and enjoyed it!
Just my 2 penneth worth. |
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"No. I think that excessive competition and comparison is negative and too value based. We don’t need to have ‘best’ everything. These are essentially popularity contests and kinda damaging for people’s egos.
We’ve had cocks and boobs I think that’s enough. "
Agree. Maybe in a future but right now, no thank. |
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"These competitions are great fun to some people but are not any fun at all for others. I think they’ve probably run their course now. "
That could be said about ALL of the repetitive threads that appear day after day after day .......
Fun to some. Not to all. And yet they keep coming version 2, 3, 4, 5 ,6
day in day out week after week after week .....
So why object against this thread on those grounds ? |
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By *hillout OP Man 15 weeks ago
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"No. I think that excessive competition and comparison is negative and too value based. We don’t need to have ‘best’ everything. These are essentially popularity contests and kinda damaging for people’s egos.
We’ve had cocks and boobs I think that’s enough.
think it would be nice to have a torso celebration rather than a competition because already people are ruling themselves out on their shape and in reality a lot of the dad bods are hot!!!
and sort of agree ^^^^^^^^^^^^^^ ....
Yep. Celebration rather than competition. I get it, it's nice that you had a yellow box and you miss that level of interaction. The threads were fun.
I think too much of a certain type thread at a time is overkill, even more so if it's a competition that drags out for days. "
I'm well aware of what event fatigue is and even if it were to be done, it wouldn't happen for a while.
The honest replies are appreciated and have been very insightful. |
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"No. I think that excessive competition and comparison are negative and too value based. We don’t need to have ‘best’ everything. These are essentially popularity contests and kinda damaging people’s egos.
We’ve had cocks and boobs I think that’s enough.
think it would be nice to have a torso celebration rather than a competition because already people are ruling themselves out on their shape and in reality a lot of the dad bods are hot!!!
and sort of agree ^^^^^^^^^^^^^^ ....
Yep. Celebration rather than competition. I get it, it's nice that you had a yellow box and you miss that level of interaction. The threads were fun.
I think too much of a certain type thread at a time is overkill, even more so if it's a competition that drags out for days.
I'm well aware of what event fatigue is and even if it were to be done, it wouldn't happen for a while.
The honest replies are appreciated and have been very insightful."
Your thread was amazing OP, a big success, and your handled it masterfully. We are very happy for the gorgeous winners. Big fun for all, but big anxiety trigger for me at least. I have never kept my profile open for so long, posted more photos and getting more messages. Not ready fir a new one I guess, even as a voter. Better to take a breake, wait a bit, and go again. Torso is my favourite place Besides that, one thing is for sure, you should lead it again 💋 |
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"No. I think that excessive competition and comparison is negative and too value based. We don’t need to have ‘best’ everything. These are essentially popularity contests and kinda damaging for people’s egos.
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I will say is that the recent one was overwhelmingly positive overall, both publicly and through private feedback I received"
In fairness though I doubt you heard from anyone who took a knock from that competition.
I actively didn’t take part cos I’m a sensitive little sausage, but still saw that the 3 winners and 2 runners up have boobs nothing like mine. It was a knock. If I felt I’m I’m sure others have too |
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"No. I think that excessive competition and comparison is negative and too value based. We don’t need to have ‘best’ everything. These are essentially popularity contests and kinda damaging for people’s egos.
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I will say is that the recent one was overwhelmingly positive overall, both publicly and through private feedback I received
In fairness though I doubt you heard from anyone who took a knock from that competition.
I actively didn’t take part cos I’m a sensitive little sausage, but still saw that the 3 winners and 2 runners up have boobs nothing like mine. It was a knock. If I felt I’m I’m sure others have too "
From what I noticed, the "winners" came in all different shapes and sizes. Did it not just cement that there is no standard and that all tits are adored?
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By *aizyWoman 15 weeks ago
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"No. I think that excessive competition and comparison is negative and too value based. We don’t need to have ‘best’ everything. These are essentially popularity contests and kinda damaging for people’s egos.
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I will say is that the recent one was overwhelmingly positive overall, both publicly and through private feedback I received
In fairness though I doubt you heard from anyone who took a knock from that competition.
I actively didn’t take part cos I’m a sensitive little sausage, but still saw that the 3 winners and 2 runners up have boobs nothing like mine. It was a knock. If I felt I’m I’m sure others have too "
Tbf Trixie, your magnificent boobs are two of a kind, I would have voted for them!  |
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"No. I think that excessive competition and comparison is negative and too value based. We don’t need to have ‘best’ everything. These are essentially popularity contests and kinda damaging for people’s egos.
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I will say is that the recent one was overwhelmingly positive overall, both publicly and through private feedback I received
In fairness though I doubt you heard from anyone who took a knock from that competition.
I actively didn’t take part cos I’m a sensitive little sausage, but still saw that the 3 winners and 2 runners up have boobs nothing like mine. It was a knock. If I felt I’m I’m sure others have too
From what I noticed, the "winners" came in all different shapes and sizes. Did it not just cement that there is no standard and that all tits are adored?
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Well clearly not, as you can see from what I wrote |
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"No. I think that excessive competition and comparison is negative and too value based. We don’t need to have ‘best’ everything. These are essentially popularity contests and kinda damaging for people’s egos.
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I will say is that the recent one was overwhelmingly positive overall, both publicly and through private feedback I received
In fairness though I doubt you heard from anyone who took a knock from that competition.
I actively didn’t take part cos I’m a sensitive little sausage, but still saw that the 3 winners and 2 runners up have boobs nothing like mine. It was a knock. If I felt I’m I’m sure others have too
Tbf Trixie, your magnificent boobs are two of a kind, I would have voted for them! "
Thank you, you’re always so lovely xx |
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"No. I think that excessive competition and comparison is negative and too value based. We don’t need to have ‘best’ everything. These are essentially popularity contests and kinda damaging for people’s egos.
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I will say is that the recent one was overwhelmingly positive overall, both publicly and through private feedback I received
In fairness though I doubt you heard from anyone who took a knock from that competition.
I actively didn’t take part cos I’m a sensitive little sausage, but still saw that the 3 winners and 2 runners up have boobs nothing like mine. It was a knock. If I felt I’m I’m sure others have too
From what I noticed, the "winners" came in all different shapes and sizes. Did it not just cement that there is no standard and that all tits are adored?
Well clearly not, as you can see from what I wrote "
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The thing about "the best...." Threads where people vote, is where do you stop? Torso? When I think of someone winning a torso comp let's face it, the winners will be probably ripped guys, meaning do you do a dad bod one to make those feel included, do you do a bbw one for the ladies, meaning the slimmer ladies don't stand a chance and then vice versa.
I think as I mentioned boobs and dicks were perfectly fine but I think any other body part is going into a grey area, before you know it, we will be having best looking couple, etc etc. |
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By *ark73XXXMan 15 weeks ago
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"These competitions are great fun to some people but are not any fun at all for others. I think they’ve probably run their course now.
That could be said about ALL of the repetitive threads that appear day after day after day .......
Fun to some. Not to all. And yet they keep coming version 2, 3, 4, 5 ,6
day in day out week after week after week .....
So why object against this thread on those grounds ?"
Because this thread is talking about this particular matter.
If there were other threads about the other things you allude to, then I’d object to those in those threads, possibly using the same grounds.
Ok? |
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By *ark73XXXMan 15 weeks ago
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"No. I think that excessive competition and comparison is negative and too value based. We don’t need to have ‘best’ everything. These are essentially popularity contests and kinda damaging for people’s egos.
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I will say is that the recent one was overwhelmingly positive overall, both publicly and through private feedback I received
In fairness though I doubt you heard from anyone who took a knock from that competition.
I actively didn’t take part cos I’m a sensitive little sausage, but still saw that the 3 winners and 2 runners up have boobs nothing like mine. It was a knock. If I felt I’m I’m sure others have too "
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"No. I think that excessive competition and comparison is negative and too value based. We don’t need to have ‘best’ everything. These are essentially popularity contests and kinda damaging for people’s egos.
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I will say is that the recent one was overwhelmingly positive overall, both publicly and through private feedback I received
In fairness though I doubt you heard from anyone who took a knock from that competition.
I actively didn’t take part cos I’m a sensitive little sausage, but still saw that the 3 winners and 2 runners up have boobs nothing like mine. It was a knock. If I felt I’m I’m sure others have too
Tbf Trixie, your magnificent boobs are two of a kind, I would have voted for them!
Thank you, you’re always so lovely xx"
Agreed you have a wazzoo pair of jugs |
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"These competitions are great fun to some people but are not any fun at all for others. I think they’ve probably run their course now.
That could be said about ALL of the repetitive threads that appear day after day after day .......
Fun to some. Not to all. And yet they keep coming version 2, 3, 4, 5 ,6
day in day out week after week after week .....
So why object against this thread on those grounds ?
Because this thread is talking about this particular matter.
If there were other threads about the other things you allude to, then I’d object to those in those threads, possibly using the same grounds.
Ok? "
I'm not sure what you mean by O.K ?
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By *ark73XXXMan 15 weeks ago
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"These competitions are great fun to some people but are not any fun at all for others. I think they’ve probably run their course now.
That could be said about ALL of the repetitive threads that appear day after day after day .......
Fun to some. Not to all. And yet they keep coming version 2, 3, 4, 5 ,6
day in day out week after week after week .....
So why object against this thread on those grounds ?
Because this thread is talking about this particular matter.
If there were other threads about the other things you allude to, then I’d object to those in those threads, possibly using the same grounds.
Ok?
I'm not sure what you mean by O.K ?
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"In fairness though I doubt you heard from anyone who took a knock from that competition.
I actively didn’t take part cos I’m a sensitive little sausage, but still saw that the 3 winners and 2 runners up have boobs nothing like mine. It was a knock. If I felt I’m I’m sure others have too
From what I noticed, the "winners" came in all different shapes and sizes. Did it not just cement that there is no standard and that all tits are adored?
Well clearly not, as you can see from what I wrote "
Ah Trixie, this has made me sad to read. I'm also in the sensitive sausage camp. Your boobs are beautiful! 😍
I think you and Willy are both right. There were definitely shapes and sizes within the winners. But also not *that* big a range. Not really.
That someone feels a knock isn't necessarily a reason not to do something because we can't control how other people feel. But in hindsight, it taking over the forums for three days was probably excessive.
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By *vaRose43Woman 15 weeks ago
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It could be fun, I mean… I love the torso Tuesday thread. Although it feels rather too soon right now.
Would be nice to see the 3 votes perhaps split into 3 categories. Something like; Athletic, average joe, bbm - and let those who enter choose the category they want to be entered into.
That way there are 3 winners, and all body types are covered. |
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"In fairness though I doubt you heard from anyone who took a knock from that competition.
I actively didn’t take part cos I’m a sensitive little sausage, but still saw that the 3 winners and 2 runners up have boobs nothing like mine. It was a knock. If I felt I’m I’m sure others have too
From what I noticed, the "winners" came in all different shapes and sizes. Did it not just cement that there is no standard and that all tits are adored?
Well clearly not, as you can see from what I wrote
Ah Trixie, this has made me sad to read. I'm also in the sensitive sausage camp. Your boobs are beautiful! 😍
I think you and Willy are both right. There were definitely shapes and sizes within the winners. But also not *that* big a range. Not really.
That someone feels a knock isn't necessarily a reason not to do something because we can't control how other people feel. But in hindsight, it taking over the forums for three days was probably excessive.
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Thank you. I’m sorry I made you feel sad 
I’m not trying to say my feelings should stop all games, I was arguing against the claim that the competition was a positive success for everyone as evidenced by feedback. The feedback the OP received would have been highly selective and not a 360 representation of impact. |
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I will say is that the recent one was overwhelmingly positive overall,
I’m guessing whoever thought / said that doesn’t have daughters "
I have a daughter. Who is her own autonomous person. As am I. Reducing someone to their relationship to someone else is robbing the of their agency. |
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I’m vocally insecure about my body and my appearance. But if people will take part, let them take part. I probably won’t. Who knows maybe it’ll be posted on a day I feel confident. But like, if the OP is asking if there should be a men’s torso competition, and men want to take part, what’s the issue? Same as the penis one. And that one was also something many of us men feel insecure about. It was fun then and if this goes ahead it will also be fun. And like I and others have said- you can always not take part. I probably won’t. But why then deny others that want to take part the opportunity to? |
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"These competitions are great fun to some people but are not any fun at all for others. I think they’ve probably run their course now.
That could be said about ALL of the repetitive threads that appear day after day after day .......
Fun to some. Not to all. And yet they keep coming version 2, 3, 4, 5 ,6
day in day out week after week after week .....
So why object against this thread on those grounds ?
Because this thread is talking about this particular matter.
If there were other threads about the other things you allude to, then I’d object to those in those threads, possibly using the same grounds.
Ok?
I'm not sure what you mean by O.K ?
Just checking that my response is ok with you? "
It makes sense in the context of this thread.
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I'd join, Chillout. Give us a bit of a break though as the promotional side of the campaigns is exhausting.
I know they're not for everyone as stated above but on a whole I think they're a good distraction.
I was chatting to Beyond Purity before about how it was a shambles that we were even competing for best Rear. Everyone knew we didn't have the best arse's on Fab but we didn't care. The faux ego's and faux rivalry was fun(for us) and a welcomed distraction.
I know my photoshopped cock isn't the 2nd best cock in the world, but again, I found the competition amusing.
I also know that I don't have the best torso on Fab, but I'd enter.
Why you ask? Because there is no better feeling than doing the treble on Beyond Purity, whilst I listen to him talk about all the MFF's he's having  |
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I would take part happily.
Also we need to rememeber that it is your fellow forum voters deciding so one person might find someones athletic ripped body or dad body or average body more attractive to them.
Everyone comes in different shapes/forms/ sizes so you never know who might win.
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"O my when did the lounge get so serious......bring back rate my cock threads.....ppl seriously its not that deep or important....
Mr "
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I was actually quite happy to see that the winners came from a variety of shapes and sizes.
I stated it on the very first thread, one of the first responses…. Saying that I wasn’t in because, quite frankly, at 34B I never thought I’d even get a look in. But there were a few responses said I should and I got several messages saying the same.
So quite frankly, and I am sorry if I upset anyone, as that is not the intention, it was quite refreshing to see winners who deviated from the usual standard of large, very voluptuous boobs. That is why I said I felt included and represented. |
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"I was actually quite happy to see that the winners came from a variety of shapes and sizes.
I stated it on the very first thread, one of the first responses…. Saying that I wasn’t in because, quite frankly, at 34B I never thought I’d even get a look in. But there were a few responses said I should and I got several messages saying the same.
So quite frankly, and I am sorry if I upset anyone, as that is not the intention, it was quite refreshing to see winners who deviated from the usual standard of large, very voluptuous boobs. That is why I said I felt included and represented. "
Hiya, if that was a response to me then please do not feel sorry - you have done nothing wrong and I’m glad you felt joy.
From my view, all the winners were remarkably similar - considering how varied breast and nipple size, shape, direction, colouring etc are. It showed that the forum at least has a type. And my private take away was that I am not that type . I am not trying to attack any of the winners or contestants here.
I was responding to the claim that no one felt diminished by it evidenced by feedback being overwhelmingly popular/successful/positive. That claim is demonstrably not true. |
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"O my when did the lounge get so serious......bring back rate my cock threads.....ppl seriously its not that deep or important....
Mr
They’re in the swingers section"
Pickles thanks for the education, I shall now go rate next mans cock, in the swingers section
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"O my when did the lounge get so serious......bring back rate my cock threads.....ppl seriously its not that deep or important....
Mr
I think the Lounge is best when it's a mixture of thoughtful/serious and nonsensical. Start a Rate My Cock thread! Go on! 🐓😈"
I would start a rate my 🐓 thread, but I've disappointed enough women in my life 🤣🤣🤣
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"I was actually quite happy to see that the winners came from a variety of shapes and sizes.
I stated it on the very first thread, one of the first responses…. Saying that I wasn’t in because, quite frankly, at 34B I never thought I’d even get a look in. But there were a few responses said I should and I got several messages saying the same.
So quite frankly, and I am sorry if I upset anyone, as that is not the intention, it was quite refreshing to see winners who deviated from the usual standard of large, very voluptuous boobs. That is why I said I felt included and represented.
Hiya, if that was a response to me then please do not feel sorry - you have done nothing wrong and I’m glad you felt joy.
From my view, all the winners were remarkably similar - considering how varied breast and nipple size, shape, direction, colouring etc are. It showed that the forum at least has a type. And my private take away was that I am not that type . I am not trying to attack any of the winners or contestants here.
I was responding to the claim that no one felt diminished by it evidenced by feedback being overwhelmingly popular/successful/positive. That claim is demonstrably not true. "
I'm not sure where you're getting the winners and runners up being similiar from?
I am nothing like any of the other ladies. I'm the only plus sized one on there , yes my boobs could be a similiar size to one of the runners up, but that literally is it.
I was the biggest one there.
It was also a tits thread and not body type as far as the title of the competition suggested.
I've woken up to comments today telling me I shouldn't have been placed because plus sized isn't the "norm" and winner number 2 is much better body and boob wise.
Read of that what you will , I'm not popular by any means against some of the other ladies that entered either.
Next time go for it, my confidence levels aren't high at all and all my pictures are hidden again.
Put yourself forward , these things never have set winners as it proves.
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"I’m vocally insecure about my body and my appearance. But if people will take part, let them take part. I probably won’t. Who knows maybe it’ll be posted on a day I feel confident. But like, if the OP is asking if there should be a men’s torso competition, and men want to take part, what’s the issue? Same as the penis one. And that one was also something many of us men feel insecure about. It was fun then and if this goes ahead it will also be fun. And like I and others have said- you can always not take part. I probably won’t. But why then deny others that want to take part the opportunity to? "
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I wasn't going to post on this thread as I thought it'd look naff, but the notion that the Best Boobs was a popularity contest doesn't really sit right. I do feel like pointing out that the 2nd place boobs owner is an autistic woman with social anxiety who has never fitted in anywhere, and is a shy poster. Pissing about on here over the last couple of days is the bravest I've ever been on the forum.
I threw myself into it hoping to make people laugh, the way Julie, Mrs KC, and Mrs TMN did, and the overall feedback was that I did, so I'm content.
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"I wasn't going to post on this thread as I thought it'd look naff, but the notion that the Best Boobs was a popularity contest doesn't really sit right. I do feel like pointing out that the 2nd place boobs owner is an autistic woman with social anxiety who has never fitted in anywhere, and is a shy poster. Pissing about on here over the last couple of days is the bravest I've ever been on the forum.
I threw myself into it hoping to make people laugh, the way Julie, Mrs KC, and Mrs TMN did, and the overall feedback was that I did, so I'm content.
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"I wasn't going to post on this thread as I thought it'd look naff, but the notion that the Best Boobs was a popularity contest doesn't really sit right. I do feel like pointing out that the 2nd place boobs owner is an autistic woman with social anxiety who has never fitted in anywhere, and is a shy poster. Pissing about on here over the last couple of days is the bravest I've ever been on the forum.
I threw myself into it hoping to make people laugh, the way Julie, Mrs KC, and Mrs TMN did, and the overall feedback was that I did, so I'm content.
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"I wasn't going to post on this thread as I thought it'd look naff, but the notion that the Best Boobs was a popularity contest doesn't really sit right. I do feel like pointing out that the 2nd place boobs owner is an autistic woman with social anxiety who has never fitted in anywhere, and is a shy poster. Pissing about on here over the last couple of days is the bravest I've ever been on the forum.
I threw myself into it hoping to make people laugh, the way Julie, Mrs KC, and Mrs TMN did, and the overall feedback was that I did, so I'm content.
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You made me laugh ...I was inspired by how you and some of the other ladies took a daft assed competition that could be frankly very objectifying and made it your own with humour, creativity and a fucking amazing attitude
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"Count me in. Not ripped but still hopefully get at least one vote for the little confidence boost
It's not started yet.
This was just to enquire if folks were up for it. "
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"I wasn't going to post on this thread as I thought it'd look naff, but the notion that the Best Boobs was a popularity contest doesn't really sit right. I do feel like pointing out that the 2nd place boobs owner is an autistic woman with social anxiety who has never fitted in anywhere, and is a shy poster. Pissing about on here over the last couple of days is the bravest I've ever been on the forum.
I threw myself into it hoping to make people laugh, the way Julie, Mrs KC, and Mrs TMN did, and the overall feedback was that I did, so I'm content.
You made me laugh ...I was inspired by how you and some of the other ladies took a daft assed competition that could be frankly very objectifying and made it your own with humour, creativity and a fucking amazing attitude
Thank you "
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By *HUSH-Man 15 weeks ago
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What if it wasn’t torso but perhaps guys showing their personal style or something?
For example London Lad 88 had a really popular thread about men wearing suits a few weeks ago that a lot of people enjoyed. Something along those lines where guys have to put clothes on as opposed to taking them off.
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"I was actually quite happy to see that the winners came from a variety of shapes and sizes.
I stated it on the very first thread, one of the first responses…. Saying that I wasn’t in because, quite frankly, at 34B I never thought I’d even get a look in. But there were a few responses said I should and I got several messages saying the same.
So quite frankly, and I am sorry if I upset anyone, as that is not the intention, it was quite refreshing to see winners who deviated from the usual standard of large, very voluptuous boobs. That is why I said I felt included and represented.
Hiya, if that was a response to me then please do not feel sorry - you have done nothing wrong and I’m glad you felt joy.
From my view, all the winners were remarkably similar - considering how varied breast and nipple size, shape, direction, colouring etc are. It showed that the forum at least has a type. And my private take away was that I am not that type . I am not trying to attack any of the winners or contestants here.
I was responding to the claim that no one felt diminished by it evidenced by feedback being overwhelmingly popular/successful/positive. That claim is demonstrably not true.
I'm not sure where you're getting the winners and runners up being similiar from?
I am nothing like any of the other ladies. I'm the only plus sized one on there , yes my boobs could be a similiar size to one of the runners up, but that literally is it.
I was the biggest one there.
It was also a tits thread and not body type as far as the title of the competition suggested.
I've woken up to comments today telling me I shouldn't have been placed because plus sized isn't the "norm" and winner number 2 is much better body and boob wise.
Read of that what you will , I'm not popular by any means against some of the other ladies that entered either.
Next time go for it, my confidence levels aren't high at all and all my pictures are hidden again.
Put yourself forward , these things never have set winners as it proves.
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I’m sorry you’ve had those messages, they shouldn’t have happened and I hope you reported the senders.
I wasn’t talking about body type or anything other than boobs. To me, all the boobs looked similar.
My comments have not been aimed as an attack on anyone. As I’ve said, I was rebutting a claim the op made. I apologise if I’ve caused you distress, that’s not my aim.
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"I wasn't going to post on this thread as I thought it'd look naff, but the notion that the Best Boobs was a popularity contest doesn't really sit right. I do feel like pointing out that the 2nd place boobs owner is an autistic woman with social anxiety who has never fitted in anywhere, and is a shy poster. Pissing about on here over the last couple of days is the bravest I've ever been on the forum.
I threw myself into it hoping to make people laugh, the way Julie, Mrs KC, and Mrs TMN did, and the overall feedback was that I did, so I'm content.
You made me laugh ...I was inspired by how you and some of the other ladies took a daft assed competition that could be frankly very objectifying and made it your own with humour, creativity and a fucking amazing attitude
Thank you "
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"Count me in. Not ripped but still hopefully get at least one vote for the little confidence boost
It's not started yet.
This was just to enquire if folks were up for it. "
Lol yes, it was a simple YES or NO question and love the people who just stuck to answering that! (Mostly blokes!) 😂
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By *ark73XXXMan 15 weeks ago
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"These competitions are great fun to some people but are not any fun at all for others. I think they’ve probably run their course now.
That could be said about ALL of the repetitive threads that appear day after day after day .......
Fun to some. Not to all. And yet they keep coming version 2, 3, 4, 5 ,6
day in day out week after week after week .....
So why object against this thread on those grounds ?
Because this thread is talking about this particular matter.
If there were other threads about the other things you allude to, then I’d object to those in those threads, possibly using the same grounds.
Ok?
I'm not sure what you mean by O.K ?
Just checking that my response is ok with you?
It makes sense in the context of this thread.
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By *hillout OP Man 15 weeks ago
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"Count me in. Not ripped but still hopefully get at least one vote for the little confidence boost
It's not started yet.
This was just to enquire if folks were up for it.
Lol yes, it was a simple YES or NO question and love the people who just stuck to answering that! (Mostly blokes!) 😂
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It was intended as a simple YES or NO question with lighthearted intent.
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Half an hour left for entries now in the 3 course menu competition, have to be in by 8.00pm. Please remember anyone can vote whether you entered a menu or not. Time to tell all your friends to look and enter or just to vote or both. |
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"I'd join, Chillout. Give us a bit of a break though as the promotional side of the campaigns is exhausting.
I know they're not for everyone as stated above but on a whole I think they're a good distraction.
I was chatting to Beyond Purity before about how it was a shambles that we were even competing for best Rear. Everyone knew we didn't have the best arse's on Fab but we didn't care. The faux ego's and faux rivalry was fun(for us) and a welcomed distraction.
I know my photoshopped cock isn't the 2nd best cock in the world, but again, I found the competition amusing.
I also know that I don't have the best torso on Fab, but I'd enter.
Why you ask? Because there is no better feeling than doing the treble on Beyond Purity, whilst I listen to him talk about all the MFF's he's having "
😂😂😂
The treble? I didn’t enter the best cock comp - I didn’t think it was necessary and I couldn’t get a photo of it what with all the hot ladies around it 🤷🏻♂️
Speak for yourself about not having the best arse 🙄
I’ve bitten again haven’t I?! 🤦🏻♂️
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"I'd join, Chillout. Give us a bit of a break though as the promotional side of the campaigns is exhausting.
I know they're not for everyone as stated above but on a whole I think they're a good distraction.
I was chatting to Beyond Purity before about how it was a shambles that we were even competing for best Rear. Everyone knew we didn't have the best arse's on Fab but we didn't care. The faux ego's and faux rivalry was fun(for us) and a welcomed distraction.
I know my photoshopped cock isn't the 2nd best cock in the world, but again, I found the competition amusing.
I also know that I don't have the best torso on Fab, but I'd enter.
Why you ask? Because there is no better feeling than doing the treble on Beyond Purity, whilst I listen to him talk about all the MFF's he's having
😂😂😂
The treble? I didn’t enter the best cock comp - I didn’t think it was necessary and I couldn’t get a photo of it what with all the hot ladies around it 🤷🏻♂️
Speak for yourself about not having the best arse 🙄
I’ve bitten again haven’t I?! 🤦🏻♂️
Bring on the torso Idol!! 🤜🤛"
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"I'm in favour of the "snazziest mobility aid" photo challenge  ♿💪🏻
Can I enter my car dear ?"
If you class it as your mobility aid, then certainly! We're not the sorts to disallow self identification |
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By *agatoXXXMan 15 weeks ago
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"I'm in favour of the "snazziest mobility aid" photo challenge ♿💪🏻
Can I enter my car dear ?
If you class it as your mobility aid, then certainly! We're not the sorts to disallow self identification "
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"I'm in favour of the "snazziest mobility aid" photo challenge ♿💪🏻
Can I enter my car dear ?
If you class it as your mobility aid, then certainly! We're not the sorts to disallow self identification
I hope it's not an Invacar. That is the top trumps of motability vehicles."
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By *hillout OP Man 15 weeks ago
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"I'm in favour of the "snazziest mobility aid" photo challenge ♿💪🏻
Can I enter my car dear ?
If you class it as your mobility aid, then certainly! We're not the sorts to disallow self identification
I hope it's not an Invacar. That is the top trumps of motability vehicles.
Nope. Aston Martin"
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Can I enter my car dear ?
If you class it as your mobility aid, then certainly! We're not the sorts to disallow self identification
I hope it's not an Invacar. That is the top trumps of motability vehicles.
Nope. Aston Martin"
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