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My questions to ye all is.....
If a non fab friend wanted to meet you on a specific day, would you lie to them and say you're doing something else, like you have to work or something but secretly you're meeting up with a fab girl/guy for some debauchery or just meeting for a coffee/lunch?
Would you then tell them the truth and spill the beans about fab or would you tell the truth without giving away the details and say you're meeting up with a fwb and leave fab out of it?
What excuse do you give when going to socials and you're away for a full weekend!!?
Sorry for all the questions but curiosity got the better of me!!!    |
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I don't discuss my sex life with anyone I'm not having sex with.
I've never once had a conversation with a non fab friend or colleague about anything sex related because it's none of their business just as their sex life isn't any of mine.
I don't go away for fab weekends and rarely go to socials.
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Well some of my close friends know i have some fwbs, and know i see them so they will assume any plans are with them without an explanation. Althpugh my friends dont k ow about fab. They think i still meet guys on tinder.
I tell my mum im meeting up with a friend, although i know wshe suspects we dont talk about it. Also tell the ex im going out with mum firends without the kids if he asks what im doing with my child free weekend. As i keep everything away from thr kids so its none of his business. |
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By *bi HaiveMan 23 weeks ago
Forum Mod Cheeseville, Somerset |
I just say sorry I'm busy.
Meeting friends, going to parties or just 'going away for the weekend'. None of my non fab friends are nosy enough to ask for details, which is good, the same as I don't quiz them.on what they're up to.
If anything, I get more questions from Fab friends than anyone else. Swingers do sometimes like to know what other swingers are doing more than they possibly deserve to. 🤔🤦♂️😂😂 |
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""I'm off to have a fab time" then mimic doggy style.
So you're dogging 😅"
No. The international symbol for dogging is something completely different. It's a wanker sign with the other hand winding down a window.
Or something like that |
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""I'm off to have a fab time" then mimic doggy style.
So you're dogging 😅
No. The international symbol for dogging is something completely different. It's a wanker sign with the other hand winding down a window.
Or something like that "
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By *ony MannMan 23 weeks ago
Las Gaviotos, Fuerteventura |
I would just say I'm busy. I'm not telling anyone I swing without a good reason....like taking them to a club.
I did drop a line to someone at work once, she said yes. Its the only time I asked, no problem on that occasion but I imagine there could be. |
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I have other plans that day is a perfectly valid answer.
Generally if someone asks what I'm up to directly I will just tell them though. People in my life know that I don't care for being secretive 💜 |
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By (user no longer on site) 23 weeks ago
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"Umm why wouldn't you just say you are busy /have other plans??
Ah but then they'll ask what you're doing, where you're going etc...
Out with friends. Maybe🤷♀️"
This is what we say 🙌 |
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"My questions to ye all is.....
If a non fab friend wanted to meet you on a specific day, would you lie to them and say you're doing something else, like you have to work or something but secretly you're meeting up with a fab girl/guy for some debauchery or just meeting for a coffee/lunch?
Would you then tell them the truth and spill the beans about fab or would you tell the truth without giving away the details and say you're meeting up with a fwb and leave fab out of it?
What excuse do you give when going to socials and you're away for a full weekend!!?
Sorry for all the questions but curiosity got the better of me!!! "
No point it to telling the truth as it will always come back and bite you in the bum one way or another |
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By (user no longer on site) 23 weeks ago
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"My questions to ye all is.....
If a non fab friend wanted to meet you on a specific day, would you lie to them and say you're doing something else, like you have to work or something but secretly you're meeting up with a fab girl/guy for some debauchery or just meeting for a coffee/lunch?
Would you then tell them the truth and spill the beans about fab or would you tell the truth without giving away the details and say you're meeting up with a fwb and leave fab out of it?
What excuse do you give when going to socials and you're away for a full weekend!!?
Sorry for all the questions but curiosity got the better of me!!! "
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absolutely none of their business 👍 |
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"My questions to ye all is.....
If a non fab friend wanted to meet you on a specific day, would you lie to them and say you're doing something else, like you have to work or something but secretly you're meeting up with a fab girl/guy for some debauchery or just meeting for a coffee/lunch?
Would you then tell them the truth and spill the beans about fab or would you tell the truth without giving away the details and say you're meeting up with a fwb and leave fab out of it?
What excuse do you give when going to socials and you're away for a full weekend!!?
Sorry for all the questions but curiosity got the better of me!!! .
absolutely none of their business 👍"
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I met two female ex colleagues for a meal Monday evening, one bought her new boyfriend along to meet the other girl and me.
I was late and when asked by the single girl what kept me I simply said "fornication". The new boyfriend looked confused and asked did he hear me right? To which the two girls said "Yes" in unison whilst smiling. Nothing more was said. They know about my lifestyle. |
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I'd just say I'm meeting a friend, I'm not lying but I don't need to go into specifics.
I don't tell my friends when I plan a sexy night away with the husband, I just saw we are having a date night - who needs that much detail? |
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"I'd just say I'm meeting a friend, I'm not lying but I don't need to go into specifics.
I don't tell my friends when I plan a sexy night away with the husband, I just saw we are having a date night - who needs that much detail? "
That's true!! Just because they ask questions, it doesn't mean you have to give them any details!! |
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