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If your date told you they were full of cold…
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Many years ago off a different site, I had a meet that was date specific, literally couldn't be put off a few days.
Was warned she was ill but wanted to go ahead.
We chose doggy so she wasn't breathing and coughing in my face...
All worked out well but under other circumstances I'd rearrange. |
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Nope.
I used to get annoyed at the people who dragged themselves in to work with heavy colds and martyred their way through the day. We got sick pay, they weren't indispensible just flaming stay at home for 48 hours |
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If they had made an effort to meet, arranged babysitters etc would happily meet for a social but not play.
Someone with a dribbly, snotty nose isn't exactly a turn on.
But for a social, fine, its a cold not Ebola.  |
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Depends, if it’s someone I know well then I’d tell them I was sick and give them the choice and they do the same.
I’ve met a fwb when I wasn’t well, I’d lost my voice totally. Made for some ‘interesting’ noises  
I also met him when I had covid, l just thought it was a cold. |
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"Would you still meet them?"
Surfing all year round in cold water, eating a wholesome diet of organic vegetarian food and refusing to take the “covid” jab I have an immune system like a steel clad Land Rover.. so yes of course, haven’t had a cold in over 10 years! |
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No.
Certainly not for sex.
Who saliva swaps with someone who can't breath through their nose and is harbouring thousands if not millions of cold viruseseses waiting to invade your body and make you feel like shite.
Even if you weren't going to catch anything you still have to put up with them snotting and snorting everywhere and whining and nose blowing and talking like you are doing them up the notrils |
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By (user no longer on site) 23 weeks ago
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"Depends, if it’s someone I know well then I’d tell them I was sick and give them the choice and they do the same.
I’ve met a fwb when I wasn’t well, I’d lost my voice totally. Made for some ‘interesting’ noises
I also met him when I had covid, l just thought it was a cold."
I wonder what it would be like to have a meal opposite someone on a date and not have to say a single word to eachother. Just looking into someone's eyes whilst eating. Would it form a connection?
I remember when an artist did this where she sat at a table and people sat opposite her and looked directly into her eyes for 10 minutes. Some of them ended up crying.
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It depends what the date involved doing
It depends if they said they were too unwell to make it or thought they shouldn’t or they didn’t want to pass anything on
I would ask them what they wanted to do and talk to them about it. Can always be cancelled and re made |
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"Nope.
I used to get annoyed at the people who dragged themselves in to work with heavy colds and martyred their way through the day. We got sick pay, they weren't indispensible just flaming stay at home for 48 hours "
"Why the hell have you come in?!"
"I get bored at home *cough, sneeze, splutter*" |
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"A first date? No. Probably not a second or third either? A partner? Yes. But I'd change the date slightly so I'm cooking for them."
If it was a partner I'd run them a bath, bathe them, warm the towels, massage their aching muscles, make soup and give medication to.
Cherry Lucozade on tap |
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