What does it take for someone to be struck off your 'list' of those you positively know you want to meet?
For me, if I've agreed to meet someone who then doesn't follow thru on finalising arrangements then it's usually one chance and they're out.
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"I'm not bothered if we have to rearrange, life happens.
I can be put off for good with them doing certain things beforehand, but I'm not saying what. "
I'm going to make an educated guess that kicking a puppy in the face would probably do it. |
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By *aven.Woman 15 weeks ago
Not the North West... |
"I'm not bothered if we have to rearrange, life happens.
I can be put off for good with them doing certain things beforehand, but I'm not saying what.
I'm going to make an educated guess that kicking a puppy in the face would probably do it."
Nah |
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"I'm not bothered if we have to rearrange, life happens.
I can be put off for good with them doing certain things beforehand, but I'm not saying what.
I'm going to make an educated guess that kicking a puppy in the face would probably do it.
Nah"
Wait, someone kicking a puppy in the face wouldn't necessarily rule them out for you? Damn. XD |
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People only get 8 or 9 chances with me. After that they’re on the list of people who only get another few chances. But if they breach that - wow. Big steps. They get ignored until they message again. |
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"What does it take for someone to be struck off your 'list' of those you positively know you want to meet?
For me, if I've agreed to meet someone who then doesn't follow thru on finalising arrangements then it's usually one chance and they're out.
How ruthless or not are you? "
I'm usually quite forgiving on stuff like that, partly because I'm rubbish at myself. I think it's actually the opposite feeling for me - people being a bit *too* keen too quickly. Also if someone says something that I find quite objectionable. |
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"What does it take for someone to be struck off your 'list' of those you positively know you want to meet?
For me, if I've agreed to meet someone who then doesn't follow thru on finalising arrangements then it's usually one chance and they're out.
How ruthless or not are you? "
Definitely this. Super keen at the weekend, arrange a day in the week, not heard anything since Monday... Struck off. |
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By *inaTitzTV/TS 15 weeks ago
Titz Towers, North Notts |
Things come up for people, stuff happens. However, if stuff continues to happen or come up, I lose confidence in them and might leave it a few months before seeing how things are with them. If they still prove problematical, then that's it.  |
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By *batMan 15 weeks ago
Alicante, Spain. (Sometimes in Wales) |
"If they mention crocs or I spot crocs in the background of a picture or they type something that reminds me of crocs.
Gone."
I just viewed all your pics. Guess what I put on to do it??
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