"Do people just randomly get culled from fab in a wave of deletion?
You get talking to a newbie and then randomly their account isn’t here anymore. What’s that about?"
No.
It seems random to you not to them.
They either left or they have hidden their profile.
They are here for them. No one else.
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"Do people just randomly get culled from fab in a wave of deletion?
You get talking to a newbie and then randomly their account isn’t here anymore. What’s that about?
No.
It seems random to you not to them.
They either left or they have hidden their profile.
They are here for them. No one else.
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It can’t just be random to me I’m not the centre of the universe.
Do a search for newbies. Within 12 hours I’d say 50% of them don’t exist anymore.
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"It SEEMS random to YOU
But the owner of the account made a deliberate action.
It is NOT random to them. "
Rewind, back on track. I guess what I asking is do these people join up and just leave within a day or is there a system that culls people for some reason. |
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"It SEEMS random to YOU
But the owner of the account made a deliberate action.
It is NOT random to them.
Rewind, back on track. I guess what I asking is do these people join up and just leave within a day or is there a system that culls people for some reason."
There isn't a system that culls people that are using active profiles.
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"It SEEMS random to YOU
But the owner of the account made a deliberate action.
It is NOT random to them.
Rewind, back on track. I guess what I asking is do these people join up and just leave within a day or is there a system that culls people for some reason.
There isn't a system that culls people that are using active profiles.
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"Do people just randomly get culled from fab in a wave of deletion?
You get talking to a newbie and then randomly their account isn’t here anymore. What’s that about?
No.
It seems random to you not to them.
They either left or they have hidden their profile.
They are here for them. No one else.
It can’t just be random to me I’m not the centre of the universe.
Do a search for newbies. Within 12 hours I’d say 50% of them don’t exist anymore.
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They’re all blokes creating junk accounts for fun - posing as single women or couples to bait the naive. They go UNLOS as soon as it gets too much or scared off.
Don’t waste your time, set your filters for Fab subscribers (I.e. have made some commitment by paying) who have been photo verified and have profile photos otherwise you are going get really pissed off |
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"Do people just randomly get culled from fab in a wave of deletion?
You get talking to a newbie and then randomly their account isn’t here anymore. What’s that about?
No.
It seems random to you not to them.
They either left or they have hidden their profile.
They are here for them. No one else.
It can’t just be random to me I’m not the centre of the universe.
Do a search for newbies. Within 12 hours I’d say 50% of them don’t exist anymore.
They’re all blokes creating junk accounts for fun - posing as single women or couples to bait the naive. They go UNLOS as soon as it gets too much or scared off.
Don’t waste your time, set your filters for Fab subscribers (I.e. have made some commitment by paying) who have been photo verified and have profile photos otherwise you are going get really pissed off"
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"Do people just randomly get culled from fab in a wave of deletion?
You get talking to a newbie and then randomly their account isn’t here anymore. What’s that about?
No.
It seems random to you not to them.
They either left or they have hidden their profile.
They are here for them. No one else.
It can’t just be random to me I’m not the centre of the universe.
Do a search for newbies. Within 12 hours I’d say 50% of them don’t exist anymore.
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It can be interesting to do some research like this, observing how a bunch of newbies progresses.
A lot of people aren't sure about swinging, or Fab, until they get here. It can be daunting, overwhelming, disappointing, etc. And a minority come for the wrong reasons, that the site doesn't support or permit.
A group of people want online titillation and not to meet, even if they may say they do. You'll find all sorts here and maybe never understand what many are up to.
The site does throw people out, for breaking its rules, from time to time. |
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"Do people just randomly get culled from fab in a wave of deletion?
You get talking to a newbie and then randomly their account isn’t here anymore. What’s that about?
No.
It seems random to you not to them.
They either left or they have hidden their profile.
They are here for them. No one else.
It can’t just be random to me I’m not the centre of the universe.
Do a search for newbies. Within 12 hours I’d say 50% of them don’t exist anymore.
"
The newbie experience for a woman is... a lot. Really overwhelming. Being bombarded with messages like you wouldn't believe. Mostly stuff that makes you go 
50% doesn't surprise me at all. I bet plenty of people are scared off. |
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Many women join, are bombarded with mail and leave, before they find their filters.
Some are not single
Some just decide it's not for them and for others real life overtakes.
I think its happened to us all at one time, you chat, they vanish. |
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When I first found fab I think I lasted a few hours before deleting.
I didn’t really know what to expect when I joined and I was totally overwhelmed and my eyes were very much opening! 😳😂
I’m sure it’s the same for others. |
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Fab, just like any dating site is not always the best place for mental health. If it wasn't for the forums or the friends I've made on here I would probably leave as well. This site is definitely better than the dating sites. |
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"Many women join, are bombarded with mail and leave, before they find their filters.
Some are not single
Some just decide it's not for them and for others real life overtakes.
I think its happened to us all at one time, you chat, they vanish. "
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So many reasons - cheating and got the guilt, fake accounts admin removed, women overwhelmed with all the unsolicited cock in the box & delete. (A few of my friends did this after being bombarded)
Personally I just don't chat to brand new profiles.
Mrs
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Let’s put it’s this way, yes you may be upset, but at least the bloke on the other end of the phone had a good wank. So take the positives from the situation and smile that you made someone’s day.
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"Let’s put it’s this way, yes you may be upset, but at least the bloke on the other end of the phone had a good wank. So take the positives from the situation and smile that you made someone’s day.
The mr "
Don’t even get that far just introductions |
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"Let’s put it’s this way, yes you may be upset, but at least the bloke on the other end of the phone had a good wank. So take the positives from the situation and smile that you made someone’s day.
The mr
Don’t even get that far just introductions "
Some people will get off on the smallest, strangest things. |
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"It SEEMS random to YOU
But the owner of the account made a deliberate action.
It is NOT random to them. "
this 100% ...
if someone blocks you then they have a reason ... swinging is about preference and attraction most wont like most ... its not a sex on a plate scene its selection or rejection and as there are so so many men and so few couples and women thats alot of rejection |
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