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over a year ago
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"I didn't mean dog had really died it was an example
Well that was a bit mean, I was upset over the poor dog then  "
I was really upset too ruggers crying into my hankie here  |
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By *ugby 123Couple
over a year ago
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"Haha sorry to upset you maybe if it was a hamster it would be acceptable lol"
I heard someone cancelled a meet once as their hamster had fell out of it's wheel....now that one I didn't believe....I mean everyone knows the hamsters only get in the wheel in the middle of the night and the meet was for the daytime.
They must think we are all thick   |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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There are 13000 members online NOW
If just 1% of those members were timewasters or fakes that would be 130 profiles
When you have a wish to meet, ONE timewaster or fake is too many.
So by that theory, yes there are are too many timewasters.
BUT - and here's the thing, it is up to us as individual members to seek and find those that are genuine users that meet OUR requirements.
If you are finding multiple timewasters, I would suggest you are the common link.
Use the site and it's facilities more effectively and you may see where I am coming from. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I may have my wires crossed but I can't believe you killed their dog just because they wouldn't meet! That's so cruel.
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Maybe it was an accident and the dog choked to death on a condom. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I think we should have a feedback option like on ebay so you can see who is reliable and who just likes the idea of doing it but then their arse goes when its time to meet up |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I think we should have a feedback option like on ebay so you can see who is reliable and who just likes the idea of doing it but then their arse goes when its time to meet up "
like you did when we arranged to meet? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I think we should have a feedback option like on ebay so you can see who is reliable and who just likes the idea of doing it but then their arse goes when its time to meet up "
Ive been on ebay since 05 and only use it when I order new stuffs mostly from china most of my feedback says quick payer, not sure i want that on here ty  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I think we should have a feedback option like on ebay so you can see who is reliable and who just likes the idea of doing it but then their arse goes when its time to meet up "
There is an adult site for dogging that has a feedback option. Coincidental that |
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"I think we should have a feedback option like on ebay so you can see who is reliable and who just likes the idea of doing it but then their arse goes when its time to meet up
like you did when we arranged to meet?"
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over a year ago
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Ive never even spoken to you never mind arranged a meet haha but I don't mean you have to leave comments that can be done in the verifications bit just some kind of way of knowing if they are gonna turn up after you've booked a hotel and moved your life about |
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By *ugby 123Couple
over a year ago
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"Ive never even spoken to you never mind arranged a meet haha but I don't mean you have to leave comments that can be done in the verifications bit just some kind of way of knowing if they are gonna turn up after you've booked a hotel and moved your life about "
I think that was his point...anyone can make anything up about someone but it may not be true. |
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"Ive never even spoken to you never mind arranged a meet haha but I don't mean you have to leave comments that can be done in the verifications bit just some kind of way of knowing if they are gonna turn up after you've booked a hotel and moved your life about "
yes but that would always be based on the words of others. It's unworkable |
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"Ive never even spoken to you never mind arranged a meet haha but I don't mean you have to leave comments that can be done in the verifications bit just some kind of way of knowing if they are gonna turn up after you've booked a hotel and moved your life about
yes but that would always be based on the words of others. It's unworkable"
Could tick a box. Met genuine. Or failed to met. Not published veris but tallied. If a user gets multiple negative ticks from differing users then fab can remove there profile. Simple |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Alright then a 'tagging in' option like on facebook that says your where at the location yous agreed on at the time if you don't turn up you get negative feedback on your account
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Haha it's like Chinese whispers this I made 1 comment then it all gets turned into different topics lol x"
That's what makes the forums fun dude! Lots of different people with different views, and takes on humour...
Roll with it!!! |
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"Alright then a 'tagging in' option like on facebook that says your where at the location yous agreed on at the time if you don't turn up you get negative feedback on your account
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What if someone got stuck in traffic and were late? We would have to have a link to the Highways Agency website traffic delays hotspot to prove there
were roadworks en route and a screen dump of their satnav to prove that's the way they were going. |
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"Ive never even spoken to you never mind arranged a meet haha but I don't mean you have to leave comments that can be done in the verifications bit just some kind of way of knowing if they are gonna turn up after you've booked a hotel and moved your life about
yes but that would always be based on the words of others. It's unworkable
Could tick a box. Met genuine. Or failed to met. Not published veris but tallied. If a user gets multiple negative ticks from differing users then fab can remove there profile. Simple"
and what's to stop us ticking your box for no reason? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Could tick a box. Met genuine. Or failed to met. Not published veris but tallied. If a user gets multiple negative ticks from differing users then fab can remove there profile. Simple
and what's to stop us ticking your box for no reason?"
That would count as one tick (sorry you have already clicked this user in the oast 30 days). You would need to amass say 5 negative ticks from 5 seperate users. This would stop people ticking those they dislike through malice. Perhaps fab could message saying you have amassed four ticks for timewasting. If you arrange another meet and gain another negative you will be removed. |
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"Ive never even spoken to you never mind arranged a meet haha but I don't mean you have to leave comments that can be done in the verifications bit just some kind of way of knowing if they are gonna turn up after you've booked a hotel and moved your life about
yes but that would always be based on the words of others. It's unworkable
Could tick a box. Met genuine. Or failed to met. Not published veris but tallied. If a user gets multiple negative ticks from differing users then fab can remove there profile. Simple"
How is that diff to the current system, if you meet someone you leSve a veri, if they fail to turn up you report as failed to show. Why change it when it's same as you are proposing already! |
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Could tick a box. Met genuine. Or failed to met. Not published veris but tallied. If a user gets multiple negative ticks from differing users then fab can remove there profile. Simple
and what's to stop us ticking your box for no reason?
That would count as one tick (sorry you have already clicked this user in the oast 30 days). You would need to amass say 5 negative ticks from 5 seperate users. This would stop people ticking those they dislike through malice. Perhaps fab could message saying you have amassed four ticks for timewasting. If you arrange another meet and gain another negative you will be removed."
What if I meet someone more then once in 30 days and want to tick the genuine box every time? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Could tick a box. Met genuine. Or failed to met. Not published veris but tallied. If a user gets multiple negative ticks from differing users then fab can remove there profile. Simple
and what's to stop us ticking your box for no reason?
That would count as one tick (sorry you have already clicked this user in the oast 30 days). You would need to amass say 5 negative ticks from 5 seperate users. This would stop people ticking those they dislike through malice. Perhaps fab could message saying you have amassed four ticks for timewasting. If you arrange another meet and gain another negative you will be removed."
so you'd get removed for 5 ticks.Even tho you've just stated the first one was bogus.So 4 ticks then? unless you get two bogus ticks. Then you're off after 3
and so on |
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"Ive never even spoken to you never mind arranged a meet haha but I don't mean you have to leave comments that can be done in the verifications bit just some kind of way of knowing if they are gonna turn up after you've booked a hotel and moved your life about
yes but that would always be based on the words of others. It's unworkable
Could tick a box. Met genuine. Or failed to met. Not published veris but tallied. If a user gets multiple negative ticks from differing users then fab can remove there profile. Simple
How is that diff to the current system, if you meet someone you leSve a veri, if they fail to turn up you report as failed to show. Why change it when it's same as you are proposing already!"
My system results in repeat offenders bring fircibly removed from site. This will stop people arranging meets they have no intention of fufilling. If you do genuinely have an excuse and receive a negative its a one off as im sure you eont do ut again! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Alright then a 'tagging in' option like on facebook that says your where at the location yous agreed on at the time if you don't turn up you get negative feedback on your account
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No no no. I've just had my tag taken off! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"
Could tick a box. Met genuine. Or failed to met. Not published veris but tallied. If a user gets multiple negative ticks from differing users then fab can remove there profile. Simple
and what's to stop us ticking your box for no reason?
That would count as one tick (sorry you have already clicked this user in the oast 30 days). You would need to amass say 5 negative ticks from 5 seperate users. This would stop people ticking those they dislike through malice. Perhaps fab could message saying you have amassed four ticks for timewasting. If you arrange another meet and gain another negative you will be removed.
so you'd get removed for 5 ticks.Even tho you've just stated the first one was bogus.So 4 ticks then? unless you get two bogus ticks. Then you're off after 3
and so on"
Perhaps a negative would have to be backed up by evidence a meet was arranged. Easily dine by saving the message. Once you tick and provide proof the negative stands. 5 and your out |
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"Ive never even spoken to you never mind arranged a meet haha but I don't mean you have to leave comments that can be done in the verifications bit just some kind of way of knowing if they are gonna turn up after you've booked a hotel and moved your life about
yes but that would always be based on the words of others. It's unworkable
Could tick a box. Met genuine. Or failed to met. Not published veris but tallied. If a user gets multiple negative ticks from differing users then fab can remove there profile. Simple
How is that diff to the current system, if you meet someone you leSve a veri, if they fail to turn up you report as failed to show. Why change it when it's same as you are proposing already!
My system results in repeat offenders bring fircibly removed from site. This will stop people arranging meets they have no intention of fufilling. If you do genuinely have an excuse and receive a negative its a one off as im sure you eont do ut again!"
And what about disgruntled guys sending these 'tabs' to gals when they don't answer their e-mails? There ain't enough single gals on here as it is without them being hounded off due to deleting/not answering mail! |
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Could tick a box. Met genuine. Or failed to met. Not published veris but tallied. If a user gets multiple negative ticks from differing users then fab can remove there profile. Simple
and what's to stop us ticking your box for no reason?
That would count as one tick (sorry you have already clicked this user in the oast 30 days). You would need to amass say 5 negative ticks from 5 seperate users. This would stop people ticking those they dislike through malice. Perhaps fab could message saying you have amassed four ticks for timewasting. If you arrange another meet and gain another negative you will be removed.
so you'd get removed for 5 ticks.Even tho you've just stated the first one was bogus.So 4 ticks then? unless you get two bogus ticks. Then you're off after 3
and so on
Perhaps a negative would have to be backed up by evidence a meet was arranged. Easily dine by saving the message. Once you tick and provide proof the negative stands. 5 and your out"
Right that's that sorted. Now define a timewaster. As previously stated some don't believe others reasons for failing to turn up. We arrange a meet and my Uncle dies. The last thing on my mind is telling you and if I do you don't believe it. Do I get a tick? |
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"Like I say proof would be needed. Save the message there's the proof. "
But i usually sort my meets out over the phone. That way i know they are really female and not fakes pretending. So there wouldn't be a message to save. |
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Simply have written record of meet arranged. If you both willing to meet each other its no buggy to log in and send a confirmation either direction.
Yes if you were disbelieves you may earn a tick. But this would be a one off and as tour nit a time waster it would not happen again. Perhaps if you do not get another within say 3 months your negative will expire. |
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"Simply have written record of meet arranged. If you both willing to meet each other its no buggy to log in and send a confirmation either direction.
Yes if you were disbelieves you may earn a tick. But this would be a one off and as tour nit a time waster it would not happen again. Perhaps if you do not get another within say 3 months your negative will expire. "
we noticed you don't display your verifications. Neither do we. There's people on here who think we're fake just for doing that. Bottom line is you can't please everyone all the time |
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"Simply have written record of meet arranged. If you both willing to meet each other its no buggy to log in and send a confirmation either direction.
Yes if you were disbelieves you may earn a tick. But this would be a one off and as tour nit a time waster it would not happen again. Perhaps if you do not get another within say 3 months your negative will expire.
we noticed you don't display your verifications. Neither do we. There's people on here who think we're fake just for doing that. Bottom line is you can't please everyone all the time"
This would dispel the need to have verifications displayed. All you'd have are negative or positive ticks. |
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"Ive never even spoken to you never mind arranged a meet haha but I don't mean you have to leave comments that can be done in the verifications bit just some kind of way of knowing if they are gonna turn up after you've booked a hotel and moved your life about
yes but that would always be based on the words of others. It's unworkable
Could tick a box. Met genuine. Or failed to met. Not published veris but tallied. If a user gets multiple negative ticks from differing users then fab can remove there profile. Simple
How is that diff to the current system, if you meet someone you leSve a veri, if they fail to turn up you report as failed to show. Why change it when it's same as you are proposing already!
My system results in repeat offenders bring fircibly removed from site. This will stop people arranging meets they have no intention of fufilling. If you do genuinely have an excuse and receive a negative its a one off as im sure you eont do ut again!"
How do you know the current system doesn't have the same consequences? |
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"Does it? I've seen no system that says you can be banned for failing to turn up at meets. "
Well as you can report someone for failing to turn up, I'd be surprised if there wasnt some sort if consequences. Sure a mod will be along to advise at some point |
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"why has no one mentioned the poor hamster?
The hamster is dead sweetie, you need to let the grief out and move on xx"
but I can't, WE'LL NEVER FORGET YOU HAMMY! |
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"Does it? I've seen no system that says you can be banned for failing to turn up at meets.
Well as you can report someone for failing to turn up, I'd be surprised if there wasnt some sort if consequences. Sure a mod will be along to advise at some point "
I do hope it's Paul Weller. |
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"why has no one mentioned the poor hamster?
The hamster is dead sweetie, you need to let the grief out and move on xx
but I can't, WE'LL NEVER FORGET YOU HAMMY!"
Knew leaving the microwave door open was a mistake. |
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