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"Now you have the first meeting done, the social, you decide you like each other and want to know more about them
What is your perfect second date?"
A repeat of the first one, but with some fucking at the end of it.  |
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"Now you have the first meeting done, the social, you decide you like each other and want to know more about them
What is your perfect second date?
A repeat of the first one, but with some fucking at the end of it. "
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A perfect second date. Probably somewhere to do with something we discussed on the first date. Maybe an activity now that we’ve had that initial meeting. It’s hard to say really for me it will vary from person to person. |
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By (user no longer on site) 23 weeks ago
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Well I guess it would depend on the situation, and those involved, I guess perhaps something different or random that would allow the time together to not be over shadowed by any possible awkwardness and allow a space for communication of each other’s intent and desires |
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By *ir tootMan 23 weeks ago
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"A perfect second date. Probably somewhere to do with something we discussed on the first date. Maybe an activity now that we’ve had that initial meeting. It’s hard to say really for me it will vary from person to person. "
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By *ir tootMan 23 weeks ago
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"April 25. It's not too hot or too cold. You just need a light jacket.
One of my favourite movie quotes. :D"
Not exactly a quote but I love this one
September 28th, daylight. The monsters have overtaken the city. Somehow, I'm still alive... |
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I wouldn't know as I've never actually been on a proper date. I've either got together with friends I'd known for years, or after banging someone I've met on here. I do it all in the wrong order 🤷♀️ |
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By *eliWoman 23 weeks ago
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I'm not sure I have a perfect one - it really depends on the person. How the relationship is building, how long I've known them, how much we talk... you get the idea.
But let's say things are going kind of well and I want to know even more about them... you know, a couple of dates down the line.
I think a perfect fourth date would involve cocktails at an underground bar with booths. All dim lighting and candles. Some nibbly bits. Or a candlelight quartet. Wine. And cheese. An excuse to wear heels. A lovely dress.
And then one of those slightly tipsy and giddy hand holding walks back as the sun is setting.
And then a beautiful hotel room. A shower big enough for two. Fluffy dressing gowns. Room service because I'm not leaving the room until I've learnt even more about them. |
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Not had a second date with anyone other than B. He came round and cooked for me. He brought a pan. I had pans but he was worried I wouldn't have the right sort of pan.
I made banoffee pie for pudding. He hates bananas.
Somehow we made it to a third date. Probably because he looked fit from behind while he did the washing up. 😍 |
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By (user no longer on site) 23 weeks ago
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Depends on the first date.
If it was a coffee shop and cake first date, 1 hour then the second would be dinner.
If the first was dinner then the second needs to be less formal, somewhere less formal.
It's the third date that's the real tell tale. You've seen them once, getting to know you date, the second getting their take on the world. The third is the biggest test because you know what they like and don't like, you know about their family and background. Now you need to tread carefully because if they are vanilla and you've been on Fab and on the scene for a few years you definitely can't slip up just yet. |
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"Now you have the first meeting done, the social, you decide you like each other and want to know more about them
What is your perfect second date?"
Hmmm a no pulled punches, in-depth, two way, investigative interview, held in the shower lol. No I kid as it’s hard to say what the second date would be as I have no set go to Second Date Plan as any choice I made would really depend on what I learnt about them from meeting the first time. I’d probably want to try and keep that vibe or energy going and build off of that so my choices would be tailored to that. Tailored to what I know they like and to what I know I like to make it as much fun as it can be for us both. So I guess no two second dates would be the same x |
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We arrange to do something, then realise we want to fuck each other, even more than we want to do said activity. Then the most immediate solution, which doesn't include police involvement, occurs.
I like those kinds of dates. |
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I think I prefer ‘dating’ fab style - no awkward ‘what shall we do’ / clumsy trip to crazy golf (seriously, no one is ever going to find me attractive given my inability at that game) / worry about eating food and spilling it down me and so on.
All those wonderful things that come with second dates.  |
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By *929Man 23 weeks ago
bedlington |
"Burger King, hopefully get blown in the toilets while wearing the cardboard crown
I have a date at KFC on Wednesday."
As far as I know kfc don’t provide any headwear so best take a cardboard crown in your pocket just in case |
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I’ll report back with a detailed description when I have that perfect date one day 
I’ve had some incredible times and met some truly incredible people that haven’t been dates as such but one day hopefully they may be 🥰 |
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"Burger King, hopefully get blown in the toilets while wearing the cardboard crown
I have a date at KFC on Wednesday.
As far as I know kfc don’t provide any headwear so best take a cardboard crown in your pocket just in case "
I've got a left over Christmas cracker so there's a paper one in there I reckon. |
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Dating traditionally has romantic connotations. A person going with me on a "date" would know in advance there are no romantic connotations. Doesn't mean I value them any less, it just means our expectations are managed and discussed beforehand.
If we go to a nice restaurant, it's not to impress or show off. It's because I like nice food, and we'd have discussed your likes too in advance.
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Probably go to Club AC in London. I like the music, like the vibe and like the folks/demonstrations.
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Which rule out quite a lot of folks, but the ones who are left are on the same wavelength, and that's what matters to me. |
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"The last "date" I had involved watching the football, whilst sitting in bed, eating curry. Clothing was optional. It was a good date ❤️"
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Did that approach curry favour with your partner? Did you both Chaat much? Was there any pillau talk after the sex? |
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