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Are you a Risk taker or safe sally ?
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In your life would you say you’ve taken risks …. Lived on the edge pushed boundaries … 
Of are you safe as houses kinda person 
Followed rules
Done things by the book  ?
Personally life hasn’t gone as I’d hoped so lived a very vanilla sort of life
Followed the rules
I suppose in some aspects I’ve taken a few risks but I’m realising that at 32 years old …. My life’s been pretty fucking boring  I’m ready to start spicing it up in and out of the bedroom . 
So tell me are you on a scale of spicy /risky …..
Are you a chicken corma or a vindaloo ? |
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I tend to overanalyse and overthink before committing to things.
That said, I wouldn't say my life has been boring for it. I've done plenty of interesting and exciting things where I've come to the conclusion that trying was more beneficial than just not.
But I also don't bother myself taking risks that I don't think are worth it 💜 |
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I've always been a lot closer to vindaloo when it comes to risk taking, I find it pretty exciting most of the time.
I've been burnt a few times but the good times/ decisions far out way the bad ones.
So I'll carry on in the same way for the foreseeable future,😁 |
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We're opposite ends of the spectrum on this. On a risk scale I'm more that puffer fish sushi that will kill you if prepared incorrectly. Mrs Bang Bang on a food risk scale would be plain white rice.
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I tend to take the risks & break the rules but with a couple of my own rules. Always stay at least two stupid mistakes away from death and don’t risk key relationships.
Never been into pure adrenaline type risks / boundaries, but experiences, travel, adventures, so Theme park Korma & a Phaal for everything else |
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"I used to love a Korma. Lowkey just can’t get enough of coconut.
Anyway I’m not a huge risk taker. Of course I take some. But I weigh up whether the juice is worth the squeeze "
Who doesn’t love a couple of full coconuts   |
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"I tend to overanalyse and overthink before committing to things.
That said, I wouldn't say my life has been boring for it. I've done plenty of interesting and exciting things where I've come to the conclusion that trying was more beneficial than just not.
But I also don't bother myself taking risks that I don't think are worth it 💜"
Yes after an even early in my life I’ve become ver over analytical and think way too much about a lot of things I think that’s what stops me just saying fuck it …. Let’s do this  |
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It depends. At heart I'm a rule follower, a law upholder. When it comes to things that only impact on me I can be ridiculously rash though.
I'll quit my job over the slightest inconvenience and just trust that I'll find something better, on higher pay, doing something more interesting.
When I have money I will invest it on whatever takes my fancy - maybe I will make a killing, maybe I lose my shirt. Either way, I can make more, not the end of the world.
If I get bored where I live or I see a more attractive home I'll up-sticks without a backwards glance (once lived in three towns in seven months).
If I've got time off work or I'm taking a break between jobs I'll book a cheap flight somewhere and trust that I can sort accommodation out when I arrive.
I'm not sure that makes me a risk taker, perhaps I'm just lacking in impulse control. |
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"Depends really what the risk pertains to.
But generally speaking, since I’ve had children, I’m more of a safe Sally. "
That’s an appropriate reason to be more straight line being a parent
I don’t have any responsibilities though so I should be a little more spontaneous and adventurous  |
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I've always considered myself to be a safe pair of hands.
Recently though someone pointed out that a lot of what I do (knowing nothing about my sexual side) hobby and fun are in fact highly risky, I am an adrenaline junkie and I love the fear factor of things, not just sport and high frills, but that nervous energy before a meet or a heavy scene, that pushing new boundaries factor got me to try a lot of new things, also thrill of meeting new people. It's all a huge high for me.
In everyday life though I'm as plain as it comes. |
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When I was younger I was a massive risk taker. To the point it’s quite scary looking back at how daft I’ve been. These days I’m much more cautious. Probably too cautious. But that’s because I like my life quiet and happy. |
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"I used to love a Korma. Lowkey just can’t get enough of coconut.
Anyway I’m not a huge risk taker. Of course I take some. But I weigh up whether the juice is worth the squeeze "
If you squeeze me, a lot of juice comes out. I'm a MASSIVE tomato.
I'm also more a risk taker than not. |
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"Risks are all calculations really - some stats maths I do, makes a risk not a risk !
But the best risk is playing pontoon the card game … that’s risky
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The Adrenalin I feel from playing pass the pigs is enough risk |
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Definitely a risk taker, traveled the world surfing, flown decidedly unairworthy planes across Australia, worked briefly in Antarctica, have taken literally every substance in the world in the pursuit of opening the mind, broken pretty much every limb of my body including the spine and skull after foolishly buying a Ducati or the time I spent 6months yogi training in India and my career of choice instead of following Science turned out to be in the arts.
And now I’m 47 with two assets one in Cornwall one in London and absolutely zero pension.
You could I guess call me a risk taker or retarded 😅😂 |
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"Definitely a risk taker, traveled the world surfing, flown decidedly unairworthy planes across Australia, worked briefly in Antarctica, have taken literally every substance in the world in the pursuit of opening the mind, broken pretty much every limb of my body including the spine and skull after foolishly buying a Ducati or the time I spent 6months yogi training in India and my career of choice instead of following Science turned out to be in the arts.
And now I’m 47 with two assets one in Cornwall one in London and absolutely zero pension.
You could I guess call me a risk taker or retarded 😅😂"
I call you well lived |
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"Definitely a risk taker, traveled the world surfing, flown decidedly unairworthy planes across Australia, worked briefly in Antarctica, have taken literally every substance in the world in the pursuit of opening the mind, broken pretty much every limb of my body including the spine and skull after foolishly buying a Ducati or the time I spent 6months yogi training in India and my career of choice instead of following Science turned out to be in the arts.
And now I’m 47 with two assets one in Cornwall one in London and absolutely zero pension.
You could I guess call me a risk taker or retarded 😅😂
I call you well lived "
I call myself a bit stiff and achey. |
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When I was 12, I decided I'd create a "Den" in the woods at the back of the house. I took my school graph pad (for maths...it had lots of nice squares), an extendable tape measure (pinched from Father's toolbox), writing implements, and a book to lean on.
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Over the course of summer hols, I surveyed several possible locations, making notes about accessibility, secrecy, features, etc.
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Once I had narrowed down a short list, I then set about mapping them. My intention was by beginning of the summer holidays the following year, I'd be in a position to start creating the den.
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The mapping went went, and the holidays ended. That gave me 12 months to choose a candidate site, and then plan what to do with it, in terms of stashed resources, equipment, and the like.
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So I think it's fair to say, I'm a Korma.
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But I then planned "contingencies" as well. So if something untoward happened, I had a plan. Eg discovered, or attacked by wildlife, etc.
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I miss those days 
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The Den was well hidden.
So you could say I was a Korma Chameleon |
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By *lex46TV/TS 15 weeks ago
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I would say I’m a risk taker. Mainly to do with motorbikes I’ve ridden them for almost 45 years, raced them for 35 years including in the Isle of Man. I.ve won a few races and championships but also crashed a lot. A few broken bones but nothing serious.
I’ve also ridden them around South East Asia, which I didn’t think was risky but others did. I’ve done lots of European rides on my own as well.
I run my own business which seems to be very up and down at the moment. I’ll have money for a couple of months and then skint for a while, again I’ve been doing it for 30 years and I’m still here. So I must be doing some things right.
I’ve always been the type of person that says “we’ll worry about it if and when it happens “ I pre plan things but don’t waste energy thinking what if it goes wrong.
This also applies to my dressing, I don’t go out dressed locally but I do when I’m away from home, I also find that exciting .
It has gone against me sometimes, usually with money but I’m definitely not an introvert and I don’t regret anything.
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"In your life would you say you’ve taken risks …. Lived on the edge pushed boundaries …
Of are you safe as houses kinda person
Followed rules
Done things by the book ?
Personally life hasn’t gone as I’d hoped so lived a very vanilla sort of life
Followed the rules
I suppose in some aspects I’ve taken a few risks but I’m realising that at 32 years old …. My life’s been pretty fucking boring I’m ready to start spicing it up in and out of the bedroom .
So tell me are you on a scale of spicy /risky …..
Are you a chicken corma or a vindaloo ? "
Depends what im doing tbh but general life hobbies - risky for sure
Sex life again depends what im doing but you can do dangerous shit safely
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I wouldn't say I am a risk taker in the sense of danger (I'm really clumsy) but I guess with actual life you could say I am, I've moved counties away from family and friends, with only Rubik (first time when I moved from Kent to Essex to be with him and the second we moved together to run a small hotel from Harlow to Crawley). I do tend to listen to my gut now and if I get a bad feeling about something, I tend to not do it. |
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I haven't really explored too much outside of just having fun and giving lots of pleasure.
There was one time myself and a friend were very high and had a threesome with another friend's mother and almost got caught. But that was due to external influences lol.
Overall, I think I'm comfortable with what I enjoy now. Mostly vanilla (and all the various things that entails), but the past couple of years I have ventured into some different porn and that helped discover a little fascination with squirting.
Not the spray across the room sort (although that is hilarious), but the quick burst of cum from rubbing the g-spot can be a lot of fun for me now and I thoroughly enjoy the reactions from it.
I haven't had too much experience with it though, or other things really, to say I've lived dangerously lol.
Little confession, because it's late and my mind in Open Mode lol. I've watched a couple of MTF (TS with a woman) videos out of curiosity and did get slightly turned on by it. I think it was more because I was focused on the great boob job, but the overall vibe seemed okay.
Occasionally the mind wanders about these things, but I'm not sure I would try it. |
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