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If it's because it's same gender sex, you could possibly try a gay sauna or sex venue, to have a potential selection of people and/or just watch.
Be sure about what you want and what your limits are. You could just get around guys and touch each other.
Obviously nobody, each way, may find another attractive, so go for the facilities, without any expectations of guaranteed action.
But there seems to be a reasonable amount of men here who will partake. It's about putting big boy pants on and getting on with it |
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By *ooBulMan 24 weeks ago
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The other person is nervous too!!! Probably.....
Put your hand on your heart close your eyes & think of some situation that made you feel warm & happy, It can be a kiss, meeting family members at a party, your birthday party etc. What ever...
Correct your posture, bend your knees slightly, relax & drop your shoulders, breath in & out (1 breath). Do a total of 8 or 9. Don't rush, do it slowly.
If you've done it right you should feel calm & relaxed. They teach this method to solders fighting in combat when they are nervous or have frozen in their tracks & don't know what to do....
Failing that have a stiff one (drink), assuming you are in a pub if you are early? Lots of tits & teeth.
I personally like a quick stare in a woman's eyes to see if I can have a quick peek at her soul - a bit of warmth? A faint heart never won a fair maiden...
If you don't want to do the last bit breathe & do lots of tits & teeth! You gotta start somewhere right? Good luck mon brave!   |
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"The other person is nervous too!!! Probably.....
Put your hand on your heart close your eyes & think of some situation that made you feel warm & happy, It can be a kiss, meeting family members at a party, your birthday party etc. What ever...
Correct your posture, bend your knees slightly, relax & drop your shoulders, breath in & out (1 breath). Do a total of 8 or 9. Don't rush, do it slowly.
If you've done it right you should feel calm & relaxed. They teach this method to solders fighting in combat when they are nervous or have frozen in their tracks & don't know what to do....
Failing that have a stiff one (drink), assuming you are in a pub if you are early? Lots of tits & teeth.
I personally like a quick stare in a woman's eyes to see if I can have a quick peek at her soul - a bit of warmth? A faint heart never won a fair maiden...
If you don't want to do the last bit breathe & do lots of tits & teeth! You gotta start somewhere right? Good luck mon brave! "
Il try il keep u updated xx |
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