Having been here a while because for various reasons my sex life with my partner is all but non existent does anyone else feel inadequate and unattractive because people just don't reply
Is my profile too honest? Is it my size |
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I'm never going to condone cheating at all, but no your lack of meets isn't because of your size.
Many wont entertain cheating, it's a swingers site where couples are open and honest with each other.
Talk to your partner about it, tell her you'd like sex elsewhere because it's becoming an issue discuss other options.
Your chances of finding a meet on here are low.
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You have had 3 meets this year. That’s more than most men get ever
You don’t refer to your size other than “large”
What’s large?
You are at least honest about cheating, many are not, and that’s men and woman
I would actually say keep doing what you did to get the 3 meets where the sex thing happened.
However I would also say speak to your wife. Many partners don’t always feel like sex all the time and days turn to weeks to months etc
Taking your user name as someone who used to stay in hotels a lot you can either:
Become an alcoholic or a heavy drinker
A fitness fanatic
Putting on weight as it’s mostly pub food or convenience food
A cheat as you have time to waste and are bored
There are other options of course including planning romantic breaks or date nights with your partner to try and re ignite that spark |
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I have no idea O.P.
I only know what decision i'd make based on what I see and read about you.
I see you are attached.
I see you would not be on this site except sex is not good at home.
I see one pic of you and it's your cock which has cum dribbled on it.
You want daytimes meets
Maybe a night meet when you are away from home.
Now based on what you offer , I say an emphatic NO .......
The woman ( or couple ) you are looking for, have the following profile.
Hi,
I am a woman looking for a middle aged man for sex every now and then.
I'd like it preferably in the day but I could stretch to a night when he travels.
I am attracted by cock shots from on high especially with a few dribbles of cum on them.
I especially want to meet someone who is frustrated by poor sex at home for various reasons.
I am fine that he's attached as I lack any ounce of jealousy.
I am very discreet and lack any moral concern with regard to being part of marital deception
I'm certainly not looking for swingers with a friendly relaxed attitude to sex, just anyone who'll fuck me really.
My problem is there are just sooooooo many men to choose from.
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"I have no idea O.P.
I only know what decision i'd make based on what I see and read about you.
I see you are attached.
I see you would not be on this site except sex is not good at home.
I see one pic of you and it's your cock which has cum dribbled on it.
You want daytimes meets
Maybe a night meet when you are away from home.
Now based on what you offer , I say an emphatic NO .......
The woman ( or couple ) you are looking for, have the following profile.
Hi,
I am a woman looking for a middle aged man for sex every now and then.
I'd like it preferably in the day but I could stretch to a night when he travels.
I am attracted by cock shots from on high especially with a few dribbles of cum on them.
I especially want to meet someone who is frustrated by poor sex at home for various reasons.
I am fine that he's attached as I lack any ounce of jealousy.
I am very discreet and lack any moral concern with regard to being part of marital deception
I'm certainly not looking for swingers with a friendly relaxed attitude to sex, just anyone who'll fuck me really.
My problem is there are just sooooooo many men to choose from.
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As ever, perfectly put |
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I posted a reply to this the other day. I hate it when they (men) do the smpathy vote quote. I love my wife, but I get none at home.
I'm not intereasted if you have a bit of paper. We're consenting adults. However, I'm not there to give you a smpathy fuck. Nothing shuts my legs quicker. It's a no from me, if you have it on profile, or you say it in person. |
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"Having been here a while because for various reasons my sex life with my partner is all but non existent does anyone else feel inadequate and unattractive because people just don't reply
Is my profile too honest? Is it my size "
In a word OP. No 👍🏻
Good luck with your search |
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"Having been here a while because for various reasons my sex life with my partner is all but non existent does anyone else feel inadequate and unattractive because people just don't reply
Is my profile too honest? Is it my size "
Your profile doesn’t read as “well educated” I’m afraid. I would recommend a rewrite, giving attention to grammar and punctuation, as well as removing the undertone of “I’m not getting any sex from my unwell wife at home, so want to fill my available gaps while I’m out and about with as much sex as possible”…….
Otherwise; search for the swinger clubs local to wherever it is when you’re away with your work. Some people find quick, easy sex in those places, and no Fab profile required at all! 
Hope this helps? |
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Anybody who may find their confidence, esteem etc affected, needs to be careful here, as it's difficult to find good matches.
It's especially hard for single men and those who are cheating. But it's invaluable to be honest.
You just have to be prepared to do the leg work, without any guarantees of anything. When you can say that you are using the tools here to the max, to sell yourself, then you are doing all that's possible, apart from clubs and socials. All men must ask themselves if their pics and bio truly give women all they need to assess and pick them as a potential partner. Can they really know if they find you attractive, as easily as the others here?
If unsure, people move on to the next person who does it better |
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"Having been here a while because for various reasons my sex life with my partner is all but non existent does anyone else feel inadequate and unattractive because people just don't reply
Is my profile too honest? Is it my size "
No |
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By *oxy jWoman 23 weeks ago
somerset |
you cant make people like you ....
swinging is a lifestyle not a free sex for all ... for many its extras and because its extras they have solid preferences and wants ... sexual attraction is key ... most people are not compactable in this lifestyle |
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By *a LunaWoman 23 weeks ago
South Wales |
You can be on Fab or in a room with 100 people. In both scenarios you won’t be everyone’s cup of tea.
But stop worrying about whose cup of tea you are not and concentrate on those who you are. Or just stop worrying about tea all together and do your own thing and live your best life.
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