"Someone that arranged a meet and almost before I get there and am waiting for their address they gone quiet and blocked me ,after 40 minutes travelling to them . So frustrating , "
There’s an option to report profile with arranged meet, did not turn up. |
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"So tempted to name and shame and take the 5 day ban "
You wouldn't feel any better for it. They wouldn't care, and probably neither would others who message them as the forums are such a small part of Fab...
Best to report, block, and forget about it  |
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"Can you really report someone for not turning up?!?!  "
You can apparently!!! Oh wow… somehow this doesn’t sit well with me. Especially with vulnerable people who could be coerced or pressured to meet. Not saying your particular case, OP, I hasten to add…
As you were. You learn something new every day! |
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"Can you really report someone for not turning up?!?!
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Yes.
Sometimes I report people for actually turning up. It leaves the world utterly confused and discombobulated."
Looking forward to my report then!   |
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By (user no longer on site) 26 weeks ago
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"So tempted to name and shame and take the 5 day ban "
Don’t. Don’t get punished for their shitty attitude.
Yes people are allowed to change their minds, but also they’re allowed to have sone basic manners.  |
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"Can you really report someone for not turning up?!?!
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Yes.
Sometimes I report people for actually turning up. It leaves the world utterly confused and discombobulated.
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Looking forward to my report then! "
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You were far too glamorous yesterday, your Lådyship. |
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I'd feel a right baby to report a 'meet' for not turning up.
I would think FAB have more to do than sort out 'dates' and bruised egos.
It's like complaining to the girl on the till because you don't like your own handbag.
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"Where can I report someone for not being good looking please ?
Good looking is subjective granny😉
Yours is the sexiest silhouette on fab 😁"
Thenk you dear.
I quite often read something I can't remember saying and then realise it's not me , it's some other silhouette  |
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Unfortunately it's a risk of playing the 'game' .
Has happened to me. You just have to have a hissy fit or the grump for half an hour then brush it off and move on.
You'll never know their reasons for doing it and you'd go mad trying to figure it out.
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By *oxy jWoman 26 weeks ago
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admin can do nothing about it they provide the tools they are not responsible for anything else ... ill go as far as to say why did you travel that far without really knowing that to me is silly brain in dick stuff ...
a meet is hard to find and organise people who really meet dont make it easy the turn over as many stones as poss to make sure your real .... |
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"Can you really report someone for not turning up?!?!
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Yes.
Sometimes I report people for actually turning up. It leaves the world utterly confused and discombobulated."
Isn’t this called a ‘verification’ 🤔 |
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Wouldn't give me address talked for a couple hours , told me to get to the station then txt and they could give me the Addy , trusted it like a fool , thing is I got a small heart problem , I'm not allowed to work and I basically spent the last of my money getting there and back , stupid I know , won't be letting the little head rule the big head anymore x |
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For me I would never travel without knowing an address or a meeting place. That’s a red flag for me 🚩
I’m on the fence about reporting someone without 2 sides to the story.
And that’s a lot of work for admin who are doing this voluntarily |
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"Wouldn't give me address talked for a couple hours , told me to get to the station then txt and they could give me the Addy , trusted it like a fool , thing is I got a small heart problem , I'm not allowed to work and I basically spent the last of my money getting there and back , stupid I know , won't be letting the little head rule the big head anymore x "
If you read that back it sounds daft.
Sorry
You were talking to someone for 2 hours and arranged to meet them without an address
Take it as a lesson learned |
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"Wouldn't give me address talked for a couple hours , told me to get to the station then txt and they could give me the Addy , trusted it like a fool , thing is I got a small heart problem , I'm not allowed to work and I basically spent the last of my money getting there and back , stupid I know , won't be letting the little head rule the big head anymore x "
Oh dear 
There's zero chance I'd have even entertained setting off under those circumstances. If it sounds too good to be true it generally is, and this didn't even sound good! On the plus side you'll not be doing it again. Chalk up the experience OP |
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I don't think it matters how long someone's been chatting, if someone arranges to meet they've arranged to meet. If we can get away with not turning up because we've only been chatting a day, let them down but repeat the same in a week, month, the day after, there's hardly point of having the feature. They're still a timewaster, if not some kind of catfish. |
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