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Does it put you off?
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Seeing vag/cock/arse on a daily basis?
Like I'm guessing if you work at subway you wouldn't fancy one after work....
Do you become a little immune?
I've lost any interest in other penis since joining here, is it just me?
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By *eliWoman 16 weeks ago
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Not really no. I wouldn't say I'm desensitised to it - if it's a photo of someone I'm attracted to I'm still going to find them attractive.
Maybe it's your experience of men on here that have put you off other penis OP? |
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I have cock and vag blindness. I reckon I could see people on the bus with it all hanging out and not even notice.
Things like that have never sparked erotic desire in me and continuous exposure hasn't changed that. |
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"Maybe it's your experience of men on here that have put you off other penis OP? "
Agree.
And perhaps all the other men make you feel like you love what you have a lot more. Totally normal for some people |
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"Not really no. I wouldn't say I'm desensitised to it - if it's a photo of someone I'm attracted to I'm still going to find them attractive.
Maybe it's your experience of men on here that have put you off other penis OP? "
It's very possible, there are some good eggs but my experience of men here isn't the best overall.
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"Maybe it's your experience of men on here that have put you off other penis OP?
Agree.
And perhaps all the other men make you feel like you love what you have a lot more. Totally normal for some people "
I definitely feel this too!
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"Not at all.
I already wasn't interested in strangers' genitals.
No amount of oversaturation of dick pics on here could make me not long to ch0ke on my favourite penii 💜"
I get this side too, it's definitely not put me off "all" as I still enjoy the Mr but it's had an effect on even wanting to get to know another man/man half of couple here.
Totally agree genitals alone have never been a turn on.
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By *bi HaiveMan 16 weeks ago
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Put me off? No.
Am I immune? Also no.
Ammi used to seeing close ups of strangers genitals daily? Yep.
But a person is more than just a crotch shot.
Without anything else to generate interest and/or attraction it's just a crotch shot though. One of many anonymous bits of flesh. |
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I dunno, i’m not looking for cock, sometimes see because of couples on local updates.
Vaginas? I guess it’s mostly tits and ass and lingerie I see in those updates.
Nice pics, monochromes (obviously) and something that’s suggestive but tasteful usually gets my interest.
Been more teased/aroused with someone doing short little videos often with a hint of their lips in them than one with a fist thrashing up or whatever
Then again, there’s times the horn strikes and I want the close up of a woman fingering her wet pussy or to see that on cams.
Maybe I do need both sorts of things.
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"I wasn't necessarily meaning close ups just the general seeing sexy pics everyday."
It’s the same as porn. If you watch too much porn, not sure what too much is, you can become desensitised to it |
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By (user no longer on site) 16 weeks ago
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Sorry. 
Yes and no.
I have no feelings in seeing stuff from people I don’t know, but anyone a might fancy… maybe a get a little aroused 😏
But I can appreciate a strangers picture if it looks sexy, it’s just that it doesn’t do anything more than make me fab it.
I’ve even started to try and fab the photos on the lingerie pages of the catalog now  |
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"Seeing vag/cock/arse on a daily basis?
Like I'm guessing if you work at subway you wouldn't fancy one after work....
Do you become a little immune?
I've lost any interest in other penis since joining here, is it just me?
Mrs "
No, though a photo of a vag may be... stretching it a bit 🫣 |
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By (user no longer on site) 16 weeks ago
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I prefer the subtle images - would prefer not to be faced with someone's profile picture of their genitals as I gulp my coffee in the morning. It's quite different if you are actually hooking up with that person and are about to bump uglies. |
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By *eyeYCouple 16 weeks ago
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There are pictures we find attractive and those we don't..
Definitely love the more erotic over the more graphic!
We have some that may not live up to that ambition but we prefer the classier filth 🔥😈☺️ |
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"I prefer the subtle images - would prefer not to be faced with someone's profile picture of their genitals as I gulp my coffee in the morning. It's quite different if you are actually hooking up with that person and are about to bump uglies."
The main reason I changed my profile pic back was so that people not involved in the contest thread don't have to see it. |
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"I wasn't necessarily meaning close ups just the general seeing sexy pics everyday."
Not really if it’s sexy. I guess I’m interested in good pics, people taking a risk, doing different things and stimulating interest.
Same angle, different bra and panties, maybe not so much
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I don't meet but fully clothed profiles, hoofed up yoga pants or lingerie clad with a hand covering nipples or emoji over pussy is a bit pre-teen.
Yeah variety is good and some non naked are good but not a when they look like a Freemans catalogue or Thomas Cook brochure. |
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"I have cock and vag blindness. I reckon I could see people on the bus with it all hanging out and not even notice.
Things like that have never sparked erotic desire in me and continuous exposure hasn't changed that. "
Hahaha great comment!. If I'm lost in an intriguing thread and I come across a comment with the user's pic a hardened penis or gaping vahjsheen I can't help but skip it, its like walking in on a friend or relative sitting on the toilet, the last thing I'd want to do is stand there staring lol but I guess after doing it long enough one will get used to it and I hope I do I've probably missed some really good comments. x |
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By (user no longer on site) 16 weeks ago
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"I prefer the subtle images - would prefer not to be faced with someone's profile picture of their genitals as I gulp my coffee in the morning. It's quite different if you are actually hooking up with that person and are about to bump uglies.
The main reason I changed my profile pic back was so that people not involved in the contest thread don't have to see it."
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Near Keith still makes me chuckle (especially after a thread where two Forumites said that they could not have sex with a man whose name was Keith).  |
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"I prefer the subtle images - would prefer not to be faced with someone's profile picture of their genitals as I gulp my coffee in the morning. It's quite different if you are actually hooking up with that person and are about to bump uglies.
The main reason I changed my profile pic back was so that people not involved in the contest thread don't have to see it."
Damn, you lied - the dick has reappeared! |
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I haven't lost my interest in men in general, but there are some that make me immediately delete their message. Ie if their profile ie just cock pics and or various objects, however that's their choice to have those pics on their profile.
I have to fancy them and have clicked well with them for me to want to see their pecker.
Obvs I don't meet women, but on our couple profile we've had profiles message or wink us and it's just vag after vag shot. That too is an instant delete.
I get it's a swingers site, but I prefer to think of others as more than just their genitals. |
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"I prefer the subtle images - would prefer not to be faced with someone's profile picture of their genitals as I gulp my coffee in the morning. It's quite different if you are actually hooking up with that person and are about to bump uglies.
The main reason I changed my profile pic back was so that people not involved in the contest thread don't have to see it.
Damn, you lied - the dick has reappeared!"
I did post a comment saying I'd changed it back and put an apology in my status instead! |
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I'm not sure if it would 'put me off' the whole person or pursuit BUT I have a growing loathing of public genital avatars....
We don't make conversation with genitals as a rule so why on here?
Some of them are downright repulsive and repugnant ..... never mind the 'put you offs' |
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"I'm not sure if it would 'put me off' the whole person or pursuit BUT I have a growing loathing of public genital avatars....
We don't make conversation with genitals as a rule so why on here?
Some of them are downright repulsive and repugnant ..... never mind the 'put you offs' "
I'm debating changing mine back again because this still feels wrong. XD |
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"I'm not sure if it would 'put me off' the whole person or pursuit BUT I have a growing loathing of public genital avatars....
We don't make conversation with genitals as a rule so why on here?
Some of them are downright repulsive and repugnant ..... never mind the 'put you offs' "
I'm with you on this I can't hold a conversation with a cock or a vagina.
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"I'm not sure if it would 'put me off' the whole person or pursuit BUT I have a growing loathing of public genital avatars....
We don't make conversation with genitals as a rule so why on here?
Some of them are downright repulsive and repugnant ..... never mind the 'put you offs' "
I agree with Granny... I just don't want to see them.. all of the time! I honestly think men would do much better if they kept them private. |
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By (user no longer on site) 16 weeks ago
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"I'm not sure if it would 'put me off' the whole person or pursuit BUT I have a growing loathing of public genital avatars....
We don't make conversation with genitals as a rule so why on here?
Some of them are downright repulsive and repugnant ..... never mind the 'put you offs' "
Absolutely THIS…either go with the default no picture or upload a proper face shot to your avatar!
In reply to the question no, but then again I only ever go looking for the type of person that attracts me so I guess that helps |
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"I'm not sure if it would 'put me off' the whole person or pursuit BUT I have a growing loathing of public genital avatars....
We don't make conversation with genitals as a rule so why on here?
Some of them are downright repulsive and repugnant ..... never mind the 'put you offs'
I agree with Granny... I just don't want to see them.. all of the time! I honestly think men would do much better if they kept them private."
I usually have mine friends only, which they'll be going back to after this contest thing. |
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I’m completely desensitised to dick and pussy pics. I even know what would be C’s preferred choice now…although sending it in a message, that usually I have to open, isn’t going to work well at all.
I went to a social the other day and I actually said to someone I remember what your nipples look like but had never seen her face until in front of me 🤷🏻♂️
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"I’m completely desensitised to dick and pussy pics. I even know what would be C’s preferred choice now…although sending it in a message, that usually I have to open, isn’t going to work well at all.
I went to a social the other day and I actually said to someone I remember what your nipples look like but had never seen her face until in front of me 🤷🏻♂️
K"
There is something awfully bizarre about interacting socially with someone you've already seen naked in photos, isn't there? |
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If someone has a dick pic or action shot as a profile pic they’ll be instantly deleted so no point wasting time in doing so.
If that’s what they think sells them better than any other body part then they aren’t going to be for us.
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nope, doubt I'll ever tire of seeing those 
