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By *os19 OP Man 16 weeks ago
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Ok you have decided you want a friends with benefits relationship.Could you just meet that person for just sex or would you like to do something before hand like a drink , meal , cinema etc etc etc.As I started this I will go first.For me it would need to feel like a date before I had sex therefore I would like to have a drinks or meal first chat relax enjoy each other company before having sex.
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"My friends with benefits were friends first and then the benefits came later.
Upgrading a fuck buddy to a friend doesn't work the same way for me."
I always presumed the friendship part came first anyway, but I is clueless. |
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"Ok you have decided you want a friends with benefits relationship.Could you just meet that person for just sex or would you like to do something before hand like a drink , meal , cinema etc etc etc.As I started this I will go first.For me it would need to feel like a date before I had sex therefore I would like to have a drinks or meal first chat relax enjoy each other company before having sex.
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If that’s what you want from an FWB OP then go for it.
It will vary for different people but I see a friend with benefits as being a friend first, the benefits are a bonus. Hope you find what you’re looking for  |
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Yes it's always been for me that it's a friendship with a sexual aspect (because love and friendship is more a spectrum than a very limited set of boxes). Always seemed to me the clue is in the name. |
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"Yes it's always been for me that it's a friendship with a sexual aspect (because love and friendship is more a spectrum than a very limited set of boxes). Always seemed to me the clue is in the name."
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I could meet them just for sex on occasion. And other times just for a meal or activity. And other times both. I find it incredibly important that my friends with benefits are friends and make time to do things with me other than sit on my face.  |
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