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What’s your reason
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What’s your reason for being on fab?
To get meets?
Escapism?
To engage with like minded people?
To just look at the photos and videos?
Or any other reason?
Me personally I have been on and off here for years. Met some amazing people socially.
I don’t use it to meet as much now. |
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A mix of finding out about events, connecting with people who are going and staying in touch with people I've met.
I love the forums too so it's about the randomness and arsing about here.
I maintain a level of unwaivering optimism that one day I'll find a FWB through here but... yeah. |
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By (user no longer on site) 16 weeks ago
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I had hoped it would be to meet lovely like-minded people, for lovely go-with-the-flow sex! But when it turns into a military operation and a competition to see who orgasms the most...I'd rather be f***ing celibate!! |
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By (user no longer on site) 16 weeks ago
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Exhibitionism.. Taking nice photos... Knowledge +curiosity.
The anonymity and freedom to express myself with no judgement or anyone telling me what / how i feel.
I feel free in fab  |
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"Exhibitionism.. Taking nice photos... Knowledge +curiosity.
The anonymity and freedom to express myself with no judgement or anyone telling me what / how i feel.
I feel free in fab "
I'll tell you what, the beauty of a woman is her heart, attitude and mind... |
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To meet folks who are considering dipping their toes in to fetish-based play. Perhaps they bought the "pink handcuffs" from Anne Summers, and it sparked an idea that there are others who know a bit more about this sort of playstyle, and they'd like to know more. I educate and signpost folks where appropriate.
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Apart from just wanting to get out there and have a good time in general, I had no idea what to expect when I found fab.
For me it feels like the door to a whole new world has been opened and I haven't felt so free in a long bloody time.
I feel like a born again virgin and I'm loving it,🤣🤣 |
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By (user no longer on site) 16 weeks ago
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Mainly to show off pics and use the forums as we are so far away from most.
Have found the forums fun for the last 8 years or so but, like most other social media, things have turned a little nasty at times.
We sadly have encountered the 'clique' on here recently who pile in on a post with a herd mentality and who think they are oh so clever so considering stepping back from the forums. |
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Our reasons have changed one the years, right now it's the socials & forums.
We aren't actively seeking to meet that doesn't mean we wouldn't if something pops up but right now there's more important things than meeting others.
Mrs |
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I think at present, it’s become a part of my “scroll-time”, when I need a break or some escapism from life. 
I am too tired, social battery is mostly depleted and sex drive… what is a sex drive? 😂 so not interested in meets at all. |
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By *RWoodyCouple 16 weeks ago
Lincolnshire |
The forum engagements,
The escape from 'normal' life,
The company,
The fun,
The chats about things that you wouldn't want to discuss on other social media.
The prospects of future connections.
J x |
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I have met people on here and on others Connexions ' Swinging heathen so it does work but so hit or miss.
Now I prefer to meet bi-guys who want to see there partner take another cock. That's quite an exciting ride. One guy I meet here I have met his wife with him nothing sexually has happened yet.... it's a slow burner. He sucks me off whilst I tell him what I am going to do to his wife. I am taking and collecting them from the airport at the end of September. I refuse to take money but they are going to invite me around for a meal to say thank you. Meanwhile I carry on flirting low key, passing compliments. Sunday he sent me a text saying she's in the local Tesco. Bump into her start chatting her up. I was there in no time. Sadly she went to Lidl instead. However it shows how keen hw is. He says they talk about another cock but she's not that confident so we will see. |
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Originally we both started on here as singles. Both single parents looking for fulfilment of desires, needs and adventures.
I know from a personal pov I was not only looking for sexaul connections but also to broaden my horizons, get a foot into the wider scene and explore scenarios involving 3 or more. I love that you share different experiences with different people. Its a beautiful thing. I wanted that variety without the judgement or norms of the vanilla world. I knew out there somewhere that there was people who see the world as I do. It was great to see others and understand my desires and outlook on sexual non-monogamy are OK. It was like coming home.
Now our use of Fab is manly to keep up to date with what's going on with clubs, parties and the wider scene. Keep in contact with freinds and acquaintances. And on occasion look out out for some local opportunity for mischief.
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Seriously: As per my bio (IYKYK) I would like to find someone local that is interested in a fwb dynamic at least but open to partners too. I have spent enough time fucking around with people that can’t or won’t meet me. Time to prioritise my real wants and not just getting my dick wet when I can. |
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Still looking for a FWB for me. To do stuff like go to foreign language films in arty-farty venues, have random adventures but also want to snuggle and fuck occasionally too. Also talk about and maybe even watch the footy while naked in bed.
People are too far away 😕 |
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"Still looking for a FWB for me. To do stuff like go to foreign language films in arty-farty venues, have random adventures but also want to snuggle and fuck occasionally too. Also talk about and maybe even watch the footy while naked in bed.
People are too far away 😕"
Distance is a killer on here |
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"Still looking for a FWB for me. To do stuff like go to foreign language films in arty-farty venues, have random adventures but also want to snuggle and fuck occasionally too. Also talk about and maybe even watch the footy while naked in bed.
People are too far away 😕
Distance is a killer on here"
I saw a film the other day that you'd love. If you're interested, I'll message you the title. |
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"Still looking for a FWB for me. To do stuff like go to foreign language films in arty-farty venues, have random adventures but also want to snuggle and fuck occasionally too. Also talk about and maybe even watch the footy while naked in bed.
People are too far away 😕
Distance is a killer on here
I saw a film the other day that you'd love. If you're interested, I'll message you the title. "
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By *MFSMan 16 weeks ago
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Because online dating sites haven't worked for me and I can't be bothered with the BS any more. Finding a FWB (or two) would a good way to pass the time till I happen to bump into The One in the checkout queue at Sainsbury's. |
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It's my main online shopping site.
No, wait. I listen to the music on here.
No that's not it either. The artificial intelligence interface? Better search results?
Colour scheme. I do like the colour scheme. |
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For me, I like the conversation in forums and messages
To admire some of the members photos ( I’m not really bothered about the porn pictures or videos)
It would be nice to meet a man that’s open to talk about sex, doing sex or sometimes have a cuddle and kiss together without it getting awkward |
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By (user no longer on site) 16 weeks ago
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"Exhibitionism.. Taking nice photos... Knowledge +curiosity.
The anonymity and freedom to express myself with no judgement or anyone telling me what / how i feel.
I feel free in fab
I'll tell you what, the beauty of a woman is her heart, attitude and mind..."
 i adore that statement xx |
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By (user no longer on site) 16 weeks ago
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"Mainly to show off pics and use the forums as we are so far away from most.
Have found the forums fun for the last 8 years or so but, like most other social media, things have turned a little nasty at times.
We sadly have encountered the 'clique' on here recently who pile in on a post with a herd mentality and who think they are oh so clever so considering stepping back from the forums."
When the fun stops, stop.... Not worth the MH hit xx |
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By (user no longer on site) 16 weeks ago
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Having been of and on here for years, it started purely as a sex thing.
Then it evolved into a social thing
After that it became an exploration thing.
Now it’s trying to have such magical moments that upon your death bed you’ll remember the lady who you had a fabulous flirty dinner with.
You’ll embrace the night of wild carnal lust in a club with a couple.
You’ll remember the jokes and people you met along the way |
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By (user no longer on site) 16 weeks ago
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To meet interesting, intelligent articulate and attractive people and engage with them in hedonistic pleasure.
And to watch a million videos of sex doggie style. |
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By (user no longer on site) 16 weeks ago
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"Mainly to show off pics and use the forums as we are so far away from most.
Have found the forums fun for the last 8 years or so but, like most other social media, things have turned a little nasty at times.
We sadly have encountered the 'clique' on here recently who pile in on a post with a herd mentality and who think they are oh so clever so considering stepping back from the forums.
When the fun stops, stop.... Not worth the MH hit xx"
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