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Read profile or check out pictures?
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Which comes first? I am forever getting into trouble with my sexy sexy Louise for looking at the profile pictures and winking or messaging before reading the profile text!!!
Surely attraction comes first? So acting on the pics alone is a perfectly ok thing to do?
What's the verdict on this and is it really different from man to woman on this subject?  x  |
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By *phroditeWoman
over a year ago
(She/ her) in Sensualityland |
"I don't wink or message before ive read profile..but i will fab a good pic  "
Me, too - I quite often fab pictures, male and female even if I have no intention of ever meeting them. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I was beginning to think I'm the only one who reads the profiles! The pictures are nice, but most are artistic (very nicely posed though) and teasing. Rarely can enough be _iewed in a thumbnail to draw much attention to physical detail; but the personality comes thru loud & clear |
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Am I within the criteria (age range etc...)...and only then
Geographical location local/ish
Profile Good/not good
Green tick Yes/No
How long on site
Look at pics
Read verifications, if _iewable
Seen on Forums
Why spend time going through the motion if I do no fit in the criteria??? |
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By *phroditeWoman
over a year ago
(She/ her) in Sensualityland |
"So reading the profile for likes and dislikes doesn't really come high up on the priority list for most people then?  "
Oh yes it does. An inadequate profile, one that lacks imagination and bores me would mean I would not consider meeting the person. |
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I always read profile first to check what the people are look for, age etc and if we fit or they fit our prefences then I might wink or msg them. I usually look at their pics after reading profile. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Am I within the criteria (age range etc...)...and only then
Geographical location local/ish
Profile Good/not good
Green tick Yes/No
How long on site
Look at pics
Read verifications, if _iewable
Seen on Forums
Why spend time going through the motion if I do no fit in the criteria???"
I am sure you would fit in everyone's criteria Frenchbambi |
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"Am I within the criteria (age range etc...)...and only then
Geographical location local/ish
Profile Good/not good
Green tick Yes/No
How long on site
Look at pics
Read verifications, if _iewable
Seen on Forums
Why spend time going through the motion if I do no fit in the criteria???
I am sure you would fit in everyone's criteria Frenchbambi "
You'd be surprised |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I am sure you would fit in everyone's criteria Frenchbambi
You'd be surprised "
Frenchbambi: I just noticed you changed your avatar (I guess I do look at the photos  |
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By *B9 QueenWoman
over a year ago
Over the rainbow, under the bridge |
"Am I within the criteria (age range etc...)...and only then
Geographical location local/ish
Profile Good/not good
Green tick Yes/No
How long on site
Look at pics
Read verifications, if _iewable
Seen on Forums
Why spend time going through the motion if I do no fit in the criteria???"
That, to me, is just reading the profile - apart from the thing about forums. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I (S) always read the profiles first, but I'm sure that D would go straight for the pics.
Unfortunately, as we still haven't been able to get any pics done to put on our profile, at the moment, the text is the only thing anyone gets to see unless they message us for face pics (which we keep private).
Message to selves .. We've really got to get our fingers, tongues, etc out and get some pics done ... lol
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I look at the pics and then ill skim through the profile. If its caps or ranty I don't bother. I often wink or message sometimes when I haven't read it properly and my OH will say 'you know they're smokers don't you' and ill of course be oblivious to it. I hardly ever read veris so rely on my OH. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Am I within the criteria (age range etc...)...and only then
Geographical location local/ish
Profile Good/not good
Green tick Yes/No
How long on site
Look at pics
Read verifications, if _iewable
Seen on Forums
Why spend time going through the motion if I do no fit in the criteria???"
This!
I'll still perve the pics too - and fab if I like them regardless of any intention to contact/meet - but messaging without a thorough read will normally only end in disaster. |
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By *ENDAROOSCouple
over a year ago
South West London / Surrey |
When browsing for potential meets:
Tend to have a quick peek at the photos and if I like what I see, read the profile and check the age range, location etc.
Then go back and look at the photos again.
If all good add to hotlist so Mr B can have a look.
I often read profiles of those who post in the forums and not look at the photos, just because I am nosey and like to see what they say about themselves. |
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very observant 
Ok! my bad.