"If it feels at all like games then I'm not interested. It's tedious and unnecessary. A mutual expression of desire is hot and there's still plenty of anticipation. "
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"I won’t ever chase again. If I’m not getting the same energy in return I’m gone.
…that sounds like you’ve been led down a long road. "
Did a fair bit of chasing in a past life and every time it would start going somewhere they pulled back. They did just enough to keep me chasing but ultimately wasted my time. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP 28 weeks ago
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"I won’t ever chase again. If I’m not getting the same energy in return I’m gone.
…that sounds like you’ve been led down a long road.
Did a fair bit of chasing in a past life and every time it would start going somewhere they pulled back. They did just enough to keep me chasing but ultimately wasted my time. "
It’s that fine balance after that type of thing of not seeming too keen in the future with the next girl. Keeping your pride intact when they do ditch you for someone better.
That type of thing? |
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By *hilloutMan 28 weeks ago
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I've not really been chased before so can't comment 😒 Though I imagine it must be the ego boost and thrilling, particularly if we fancy the one doing the chasing?
I've always done the chasing. It can be very satisfying when the person acknowledges and reciprocates our advances. Disappointing when they're ignored or rebuffed / declined. I imagine it can affect one's confidence if this occurs consistently, or more than once in a short period of time. |
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"I won’t ever chase again. If I’m not getting the same energy in return I’m gone.
…that sounds like you’ve been led down a long road.
Did a fair bit of chasing in a past life and every time it would start going somewhere they pulled back. They did just enough to keep me chasing but ultimately wasted my time.
It’s that fine balance after that type of thing of not seeming too keen in the future with the next girl. Keeping your pride intact when they do ditch you for someone better.
That type of thing? "
Yeah, pretty much. I’m fairly open with how I feel if I like someone but once I’ve told them the ball is in their court. If I don’t feel like they feel the same or at least can see it leading somewhere then I won’t waste my time. |
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"I like the chase 😈
I like the moment in the chase where you unexpectedly switch it round and the hunter becomes the prey...
Cherry x "
I have an amazing fantasy involving a primal prey hide and seek chase thing. It will probably never happen but the thought is 🔥🔥🔥 |
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"I like the chase 😈
I like the moment in the chase where you unexpectedly switch it round and the hunter becomes the prey...
Cherry x
I have an amazing fantasy involving a primal prey hide and seek chase thing. It will probably never happen but the thought is 🔥🔥🔥"
Oh yes! 😈😈😎
If it happens, I'm in
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Neither. I don't chase as a few people doing their best Duncan Norvelle impression have discovered.
I don't want to be chased either. I prefer to take people by the hand and say, "come with me if you want to live!" |
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"Neither. I don't chase as a few people doing their best Duncan Norvelle impression have discovered.
I don't want to be chased either. I prefer to take people by the hand and say, "come with me if you want to live!""
*google Duncan Norvelle.
Was he a sprinter? |
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Hmm, I’m a complicated creature.
I like to be chased, a little bit. Chase too hard and I run for the hills.
I don’t like to chase, but if I have to then I find it keeps my interest.
Then I get bored.
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