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Are women the real frauds!!!
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By *am882 OP Man 21 weeks ago
Northampton |
All i see is women talk about men and their dicks out,sending pics etc. but nearly every woman has thier tits or their ‘flower’ 🤣 out!!! They just lead us blokes on and chat so much shit it’s annoying. They are worst then men. They control everything on this site. I get lots of messages from women or couples asking to meet. Which every time leads to nothing and then not replying. All talk and always the victim. Rant over lol but does anyone agree or am I just throwing my dummy out here?!!! |
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I think - given you've suggested it's a possibility - you're throwing your dummy out of the proverbial pram.
Pictures are about catering to the market. Men tend to enjoy explicit pictures more than women do - and so women cater to what we perceive that men want.
What does leading on mean? Is it different from "talking until they feel comfortable to meet?" Ditto "chat so much shit"?
If women are always the victim, what are you doing with this post? |
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By *am882 OP Man 21 weeks ago
Northampton |
"I think - given you've suggested it's a possibility - you're throwing your dummy out of the proverbial pram.
Pictures are about catering to the market. Men tend to enjoy explicit pictures more than women do - and so women cater to what we perceive that men want.
What does leading on mean? Is it different from "talking until they feel comfortable to meet?" Ditto "chat so much shit"?
If women are always the victim, what are you doing with this post?"
Yes I agree with what you’re saying which is why I wanted to post this. It works both ways with pictures. I would never send anyone a dick pic Inless we was seeing each other or in a relationship but I see pictures of women with their legs wide open, with either a finger or a cock inside them! Which most are public for us all to see but. A dick is offensive. I just want to see both sides. I don’t know if I’m honest. If they not comfortable to meet why message asking in the first place asking to! Why not Start the conversation differently and get to know abit about the stranger your inviting round? |
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By *am882 OP Man 21 weeks ago
Northampton |
"I wouldn't day frauds.
They certainly are one of the world's unsolved mysteries.
The female of the species is more deadlier than the male"
Yeah maybe my emotions got the better of me and being a farther to a daughter myself I wouldn’t want to come across as I’m putting all women down or into one category. I like to treat women with respect but it just got the better of me tonight |
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By *am882 OP Man 21 weeks ago
Northampton |
"Not all women have their tits or 'flower' out  "
Correct and I agree! But not all men don’t. 8 or 9 out of ten womens profiles I can prove say NO DICK PICS… but have 4-5 pics of their flower out 😂😂😅👍 |
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By *am882 OP Man 21 weeks ago
Northampton |
"Short answer, no.
Could you Elaborate why you think no please!
Women are amazing, men are absolute fuck wits lol"
Ermm I don’t want to be rude or whatever but that just sums you up as a bloke and tells me everything I need to know about yourself. That’s my opinion Btw |
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"All i see is women talk about men and their dicks out,sending pics etc. but nearly every woman has thier tits or their ‘flower’ 🤣 out!!! They just lead us blokes on and chat so much shit it’s annoying. They are worst then men. They control everything on this site. I get lots of messages from women or couples asking to meet. Which every time leads to nothing and then not replying. All talk and always the victim. Rant over lol but does anyone agree or am I just throwing my dummy out here?!!!"
You sound like you don't like women very much... |
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By *am882 OP Man 21 weeks ago
Northampton |
"Well done for getting lots of messages. You're doing better than most 👏"
I wouldn’t say lots but a few lol. If this is a genuine reply then thank you and appreciate your opinion. Thank you x |
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"I think - given you've suggested it's a possibility - you're throwing your dummy out of the proverbial pram.
Pictures are about catering to the market. Men tend to enjoy explicit pictures more than women do - and so women cater to what we perceive that men want.
What does leading on mean? Is it different from "talking until they feel comfortable to meet?" Ditto "chat so much shit"?
If women are always the victim, what are you doing with this post?
Yes I agree with what you’re saying which is why I wanted to post this. It works both ways with pictures. I would never send anyone a dick pic Inless we was seeing each other or in a relationship but I see pictures of women with their legs wide open, with either a finger or a cock inside them! Which most are public for us all to see but. A dick is offensive. I just want to see both sides. I don’t know if I’m honest. If they not comfortable to meet why message asking in the first place asking to! Why not Start the conversation differently and get to know abit about the stranger your inviting round?"
Men and women are typically aiming at different demographics. So men often say they like to see graphic pictures (yes, I know, not all men etc). While women tend to say they don't.
Your complaint is like asking why Argos sells different things to Boots. They're not aiming at the same market.
I often start to message with the aim of meeting - but that's not a guarantee. It's more like "let's see if there's a possibility." |
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By *am882 OP Man 21 weeks ago
Northampton |
"All i see is women talk about men and their dicks out,sending pics etc. but nearly every woman has thier tits or their ‘flower’ 🤣 out!!! They just lead us blokes on and chat so much shit it’s annoying. They are worst then men. They control everything on this site. I get lots of messages from women or couples asking to meet. Which every time leads to nothing and then not replying. All talk and always the victim. Rant over lol but does anyone agree or am I just throwing my dummy out here?!!!
You sound like you don't like women very much... "
Oh I love women. I have grew up around a family of women with me being the only male and I know how to treat a lady but just think it’s all abit one sided here. I thought it would be a good post. If I’m
Wrong I will hold my hands up and apologise |
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By *am882 OP Man 21 weeks ago
Northampton |
"I think - given you've suggested it's a possibility - you're throwing your dummy out of the proverbial pram.
Pictures are about catering to the market. Men tend to enjoy explicit pictures more than women do - and so women cater to what we perceive that men want.
What does leading on mean? Is it different from "talking until they feel comfortable to meet?" Ditto "chat so much shit"?
If women are always the victim, what are you doing with this post?
Yes I agree with what you’re saying which is why I wanted to post this. It works both ways with pictures. I would never send anyone a dick pic Inless we was seeing each other or in a relationship but I see pictures of women with their legs wide open, with either a finger or a cock inside them! Which most are public for us all to see but. A dick is offensive. I just want to see both sides. I don’t know if I’m honest. If they not comfortable to meet why message asking in the first place asking to! Why not Start the conversation differently and get to know abit about the stranger your inviting round?
Men and women are typically aiming at different demographics. So men often say they like to see graphic pictures (yes, I know, not all men etc). While women tend to say they don't.
Your complaint is like asking why Argos sells different things to Boots. They're not aiming at the same market.
I often start to message with the aim of meeting - but that's not a guarantee. It's more like "let's see if there's a possibility.""
Now from your perspective I understand abit more and get what you mean but I’m not looking to bad mouth all women and act all macho. Just simply getting more knowledge 😂 |
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How would it be a good post? Yes, I get it's your view, and you're entitled to that of course. But there's nothing exactly good about it.Just sounds more like slating women. Also it's called a vagina not a flower  |
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"Not all women have their tits or 'flower' out
Correct and I agree! But not all men don’t. 8 or 9 out of ten womens profiles I can prove say NO DICK PICS… but have 4-5 pics of their flower out 😂😂😅👍"
I don't mind dicks on profiles, I will happily open profiles to look at them. I just don't want it as an introduction on a first message from someone. A photo of it popping up on my screen when I open a message from someone I've never spoken to is not going to make me want to meet them. |
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By *am882 OP Man 21 weeks ago
Northampton |
"How would it be a good post? Yes, I get it's your view, and you're entitled to that of course. But there's nothing exactly good about it.Just sounds more like slating women. Also it's called a vagina not a flower "
I didn’t mean for it to come across as slating women that’s my mistake. Just saying what I see. It works both ways. 😂😂 as I said I’ve grown up and lived with over 8 women. Flower was what they called it |
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"Not all women have their tits or 'flower' out
Correct and I agree! But not all men don’t. 8 or 9 out of ten womens profiles I can prove say NO DICK PICS… but have 4-5 pics of their flower out 😂😂😅👍"
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Maybe they don't like dick pics, just a thought
If you don't like pictures of female genitalia don't respond to the women who have them on their profiles, problem solved! |
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"Short answer, no.
Could you Elaborate why you think no please!
Women are amazing, men are absolute fuck wits lol
Ermm I don’t want to be rude or whatever but that just sums you up as a bloke and tells me everything I need to know about yourself. That’s my opinion Btw "
In my opinion you come across as a bitter individual whose clearly been hurt by a lady |
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By *am882 OP Man 21 weeks ago
Northampton |
"Not all women have their tits or 'flower' out
Correct and I agree! But not all men don’t. 8 or 9 out of ten womens profiles I can prove say NO DICK PICS… but have 4-5 pics of their flower out 😂😂😅👍
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Maybe they don't like dick pics, just a thought
If you don't like pictures of female genitalia don't respond to the women who have them on their profiles, problem solved!"
I didn’t say I don’t like them lol I could look at it all day and find something to do with it and not get bored lol. But surely that goes for women?
I agree with no dick pic on the first opening message |
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"Not all women have their tits or 'flower' out
Correct and I agree! But not all men don’t. 8 or 9 out of ten womens profiles I can prove say NO DICK PICS… but have 4-5 pics of their flower out 😂😂😅👍
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Maybe they don't like dick pics, just a thought
If you don't like pictures of female genitalia don't respond to the women who have them on their profiles, problem solved!
I didn’t say I don’t like them lol I could look at it all day and find something to do with it and not get bored lol. But surely that goes for women?
I agree with no dick pic on the first opening message "
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You're missing my point, there is no double standard. |
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By *am882 OP Man 21 weeks ago
Northampton |
"Short answer, no.
Could you Elaborate why you think no please!
Women are amazing, men are absolute fuck wits lol
Ermm I don’t want to be rude or whatever but that just sums you up as a bloke and tells me everything I need to know about yourself. That’s my opinion Btw
In my opinion you come across as a bitter individual whose clearly been hurt by a lady "
Maybe. But that’s the problem with this world. You can write a few words and people tell a story from it. I think every male alive has been hurt by a women and same as a women has been hurt by a man: if what you say is true and I was hurt by a lady i wouldn’t judge every woman alive based on my past experience with one individual women if that makes sense |
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By *am882 OP Man 21 weeks ago
Northampton |
"Not all women have their tits or 'flower' out
Correct and I agree! But not all men don’t. 8 or 9 out of ten womens profiles I can prove say NO DICK PICS… but have 4-5 pics of their flower out 😂😂😅👍
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Maybe they don't like dick pics, just a thought
If you don't like pictures of female genitalia don't respond to the women who have them on their profiles, problem solved!
I didn’t say I don’t like them lol I could look at it all day and find something to do with it and not get bored lol. But surely that goes for women?
I agree with no dick pic on the first opening message
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You're missing my point, there is no double standard."
What do you mean? |
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By *ir tootMan 21 weeks ago
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"Not all women have their tits or 'flower' out
Correct and I agree! But not all men don’t. 8 or 9 out of ten womens profiles I can prove say NO DICK PICS… but have 4-5 pics of their flower out 😂😂😅👍
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Maybe they don't like dick pics, just a thought
If you don't like pictures of female genitalia don't respond to the women who have them on their profiles, problem solved!
I didn’t say I don’t like them lol I could look at it all day and find something to do with it and not get bored lol. But surely that goes for women?
I agree with no dick pic on the first opening message
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You're missing my point, there is no double standard."
I hope you don't mind but I definitely don't mind your boobs pics!
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"Not all women have their tits or 'flower' out
Correct and I agree! But not all men don’t. 8 or 9 out of ten womens profiles I can prove say NO DICK PICS… but have 4-5 pics of their flower out 😂😂😅👍
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Maybe they don't like dick pics, just a thought
If you don't like pictures of female genitalia don't respond to the women who have them on their profiles, problem solved!
I didn’t say I don’t like them lol I could look at it all day and find something to do with it and not get bored lol. But surely that goes for women?
I agree with no dick pic on the first opening message "
As stated by a previous poster women are generally not wired the same as men. Men tend to be more visually turned on but for most women it is more of a whole package thing.
Just my point of veiw but I don't look at a picture of a penis, a body or a face and think oh I like him lets meet up.
It's more than just physical attraction.
I look at and read a profile and try to gauge something about the person and their personality.
If the profile isn't interesting or it's just a couple of words, it doesnt matter what he looks like I won't be making any effort with that person unless his first message tells me what the profile did not. A great body and little or no personality is not going to work for me. |
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By *am882 OP Man 21 weeks ago
Northampton |
"Not all women have their tits or 'flower' out
Correct and I agree! But not all men don’t. 8 or 9 out of ten womens profiles I can prove say NO DICK PICS… but have 4-5 pics of their flower out 😂😂😅👍
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Maybe they don't like dick pics, just a thought
If you don't like pictures of female genitalia don't respond to the women who have them on their profiles, problem solved!
I didn’t say I don’t like them lol I could look at it all day and find something to do with it and not get bored lol. But surely that goes for women?
I agree with no dick pic on the first opening message
As stated by a previous poster women are generally not wired the same as men. Men tend to be more visually turned on but for most women it is more of a whole package thing.
Just my point of veiw but I don't look at a picture of a penis, a body or a face and think oh I like him lets meet up.
It's more than just physical attraction.
I look at and read a profile and try to gauge something about the person and their personality.
If the profile isn't interesting or it's just a couple of words, it doesnt matter what he looks like I won't be making any effort with that person unless his first message tells me what the profile did not. A great body and little or no personality is not going to work for me. "
Thank you for that. Not only have you made me look at it from your side you have made me think about how I should approach, respond or react to messages when I’m in that position |
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"Not all women have their tits or 'flower' out
Correct and I agree! But not all men don’t. 8 or 9 out of ten womens profiles I can prove say NO DICK PICS… but have 4-5 pics of their flower out 😂😂😅👍
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Maybe they don't like dick pics, just a thought
If you don't like pictures of female genitalia don't respond to the women who have them on their profiles, problem solved!
I didn’t say I don’t like them lol I could look at it all day and find something to do with it and not get bored lol. But surely that goes for women?
I agree with no dick pic on the first opening message
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You're missing my point, there is no double standard.
What do you mean?"
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There isn't necessarily a correlation between what women don't want to see and what they display on their own profiles. |
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"Short answer, no.
Could you Elaborate why you think no please!
Women are amazing, men are absolute fuck wits lol
Ermm I don’t want to be rude or whatever but that just sums you up as a bloke and tells me everything I need to know about yourself. That’s my opinion Btw
In my opinion you come across as a bitter individual whose clearly been hurt by a lady
Maybe. But that’s the problem with this world. You can write a few words and people tell a story from it. I think every male alive has been hurt by a women and same as a women has been hurt by a man: if what you say is true and I was hurt by a lady i wouldn’t judge every woman alive based on my past experience with one individual women if that makes sense "
Makes absolutely no sense no!
I just need you think you need to relax your self and take a step back.
Women are absolutely beautiful and amazing! There's someone out there for everyone, believe me I get more no replies than actual replies.
But it is what it is, put yourself in a ladies perspective, no matter how clearly they define their profile, expectations etc, guaranteed there's always one dude to undermine it all |
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By *am882 OP Man 21 weeks ago
Northampton |
"Short answer, no.
Could you Elaborate why you think no please!
Women are amazing, men are absolute fuck wits lol
Ermm I don’t want to be rude or whatever but that just sums you up as a bloke and tells me everything I need to know about yourself. That’s my opinion Btw
In my opinion you come across as a bitter individual whose clearly been hurt by a lady
Maybe. But that’s the problem with this world. You can write a few words and people tell a story from it. I think every male alive has been hurt by a women and same as a women has been hurt by a man: if what you say is true and I was hurt by a lady i wouldn’t judge every woman alive based on my past experience with one individual women if that makes sense
Makes absolutely no sense no!
I just need you think you need to relax your self and take a step back.
Women are absolutely beautiful and amazing! There's someone out there for everyone, believe me I get more no replies than actual replies.
But it is what it is, put yourself in a ladies perspective, no matter how clearly they define their profile, expectations etc, guaranteed there's always one dude to undermine it all "
Sorry don’t take this the wrong way but you identifying your self as bi-curious makes your opinion invalid. |
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"Short answer, no.
Could you Elaborate why you think no please!
Women are amazing, men are absolute fuck wits lol
Ermm I don’t want to be rude or whatever but that just sums you up as a bloke and tells me everything I need to know about yourself. That’s my opinion Btw
In my opinion you come across as a bitter individual whose clearly been hurt by a lady
Maybe. But that’s the problem with this world. You can write a few words and people tell a story from it. I think every male alive has been hurt by a women and same as a women has been hurt by a man: if what you say is true and I was hurt by a lady i wouldn’t judge every woman alive based on my past experience with one individual women if that makes sense
Makes absolutely no sense no!
I just need you think you need to relax your self and take a step back.
Women are absolutely beautiful and amazing! There's someone out there for everyone, believe me I get more no replies than actual replies.
But it is what it is, put yourself in a ladies perspective, no matter how clearly they define their profile, expectations etc, guaranteed there's always one dude to undermine it all
Sorry don’t take this the wrong way but you identifying your self as bi-curious makes your opinion invalid."
Haha sure it does, you're one insecure individual |
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If I click on a man's profile, I know there's a chance that there will be a photo of his cock. Whether I open the profile and look at the photos is a choice I get to make.
When a man sends message with a dick pic attached, the choice of whether or not I see a penis is taken away from me.
Can you see the difference?
To compare like with like you'd need to talk about women who send vag photos attached to an opening message |
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"Short answer, no.
Could you Elaborate why you think no please!
Women are amazing, men are absolute fuck wits lol
Ermm I don’t want to be rude or whatever but that just sums you up as a bloke and tells me everything I need to know about yourself. That’s my opinion Btw
In my opinion you come across as a bitter individual whose clearly been hurt by a lady
Maybe. But that’s the problem with this world. You can write a few words and people tell a story from it. I think every male alive has been hurt by a women and same as a women has been hurt by a man: if what you say is true and I was hurt by a lady i wouldn’t judge every woman alive based on my past experience with one individual women if that makes sense
Makes absolutely no sense no!
I just need you think you need to relax your self and take a step back.
Women are absolutely beautiful and amazing! There's someone out there for everyone, believe me I get more no replies than actual replies.
But it is what it is, put yourself in a ladies perspective, no matter how clearly they define their profile, expectations etc, guaranteed there's always one dude to undermine it all
Sorry don’t take this the wrong way but you identifying your self as bi-curious makes your opinion invalid."
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By *am882 OP Man 21 weeks ago
Northampton |
"Short answer, no.
Could you Elaborate why you think no please!
Women are amazing, men are absolute fuck wits lol
Ermm I don’t want to be rude or whatever but that just sums you up as a bloke and tells me everything I need to know about yourself. That’s my opinion Btw
In my opinion you come across as a bitter individual whose clearly been hurt by a lady
Maybe. But that’s the problem with this world. You can write a few words and people tell a story from it. I think every male alive has been hurt by a women and same as a women has been hurt by a man: if what you say is true and I was hurt by a lady i wouldn’t judge every woman alive based on my past experience with one individual women if that makes sense
Makes absolutely no sense no!
I just need you think you need to relax your self and take a step back.
Women are absolutely beautiful and amazing! There's someone out there for everyone, believe me I get more no replies than actual replies.
But it is what it is, put yourself in a ladies perspective, no matter how clearly they define their profile, expectations etc, guaranteed there's always one dude to undermine it all
Sorry don’t take this the wrong way but you identifying your self as bi-curious makes your opinion invalid.
Haha sure it does, you're one insecure individual "
Sorry I just think based on that your opinion is biased and wouldn’t mean anything to me. |
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I do agree with Sam ,there are lots of double standards ,I know every one has right to pick and choose whatever they prefer,totally think that’s how it should be,just one typical example ,I read thousands of profiles,some say will not meet married people,then they say example !, had a great day at beach got fucked by 8 guys ,so what did they do ,do a check to see if they on marriage register |
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I agree with the OP, up to a point. It IS a bit rich of women of some women to not want to see cock pics, but then have their legs splayed on their profile pic. But I just giggle. I'm not looking for females/couples so I just bypass their profile.
I think that's your best bet, OP, avoid those type of profiles. X |
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By *am882 OP Man 21 weeks ago
Northampton |
"I agree with the OP, up to a point. It IS a bit rich of women of some women to not want to see cock pics, but then have their legs splayed on their profile pic. But I just giggle. I'm not looking for females/couples so I just bypass their profile.
I think that's your best bet, OP, avoid those type of profiles. X"
Thank you I appreciate your opinion and it’s nice to see a woman who isn’t defensive and is honest. Thank you x |
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"All i see is women talk about men and their dicks out,sending pics etc. but nearly every woman has thier tits or their ‘flower’ 🤣 out!!! They just lead us blokes on and chat so much shit it’s annoying. They are worst then men. They control everything on this site. I get lots of messages from women or couples asking to meet. Which every time leads to nothing and then not replying. All talk and always the victim. Rant over lol but does anyone agree or am I just throwing my dummy out here?!!!"
Men are more Visual and are attracted by what they see than women as a rule.
Mrs M has been let down on several occasions by men who arrange to meet then not show up or just cancel so again this goes across the board.
As for No dick pics, speaking as a couple I the man sort the messages that I show Mrs M and have no interest in seeing dic pics so that would fail straight away so it’s more helpful advice for you rather than double standards.
Oh posts moaning about the audience you world like to attract is also not the best idea….if you are getting lots of messages from different women and after messaging you get the same outcome maybe It could be you are doing something wrong.
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"These flowers, are they lobelia or clematis?
I hear some men have trouble finding the clematis
I blame the maps, the buggers are so vague that it’s near impossible to locate. "
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No.
This thread had a clear agenda and makes a very simple , ill thought out point, that cherry picked it's 'facts' to fit the argument it wanted to create.
It's also divisive and binary setting gender against gender.
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"Not all women have their tits or 'flower' out
Correct and I agree! But not all men don’t. 8 or 9 out of ten womens profiles I can prove say NO DICK PICS… but have 4-5 pics of their flower out 😂😂😅👍"
There is a big, big difference between showing yourself explicitly in pics in your profile… where people can choose if they want to look… and having them shoved under your nose in an intro message |
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By *vaRose43Woman 21 weeks ago
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"These flowers, are they lobelia or clematis?
I hear some men have trouble finding the clematis
I blame the maps, the buggers are so vague that it’s near impossible to locate. "
Is this why some gardeners get confused and end up aggressively scratching the lobelia asking “do you like that baby”  |
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By *orlandaMan 21 weeks ago
North Walsham |
Personally, I wouldn't send a dick pic as an introduction, and I wouldn't expect a tits pic as an initial message. I mean, as introductions go, basically saying "here's a pic of my dick, now would you like to get to know me" is pretty shoddy. I'd much rather rely on my wit, intelligence and charm (tongue in cheek here) first and actually converse with the person before it gets to that stage.
I've never had a lady mess me around on here. The amazing ones I have had the pleasure to meet have all started with a message, and the dick pics only happen if requested and generally only the day before the meeting...if at all.
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"These flowers, are they lobelia or clematis?
I hear some men have trouble finding the clematis
I blame the maps, the buggers are so vague that it’s near impossible to locate.
Is this why some gardeners get confused and end up aggressively scratching the lobelia asking “do you like that baby” "
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I think there’s a big difference between having one or two pictures on your profile and sending nudes totally unsolicited. I’d never send a picture of my flaps unless it was asked for, can I not ask for the same courtesy in return? |
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"All i see is women talk about men and their dicks out,sending pics etc. but nearly every woman has thier tits or their ‘flower’ 🤣 out!!! They just lead us blokes on and chat so much shit it’s annoying. They are worst then men. They control everything on this site. I get lots of messages from women or couples asking to meet. Which every time leads to nothing and then not replying. All talk and always the victim. Rant over lol but does anyone agree or am I just throwing my dummy out here?!!!"
I think you're throwing your dummy out lol... I was more than happy to meet last time I was in Northampton |
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"I think there’s a big difference between having one or two pictures on your profile and sending nudes totally unsolicited. I’d never send a picture of my flaps unless it was asked for, can I not ask for the same courtesy in return?"
Yes you can. And we can ask for whatever we like and that request of non unsolicited messages with explicit photo attachments to not be recieved should not need to be asked.
(Hopefully this is something that’s said in the web site in faqs or something. I dunno)
But. I would argue with the op that there’s an air of hypocrisy or something when we all read how disgusting it is to see dicks everywhere from sone very vocal women when they themselves are showing themselves off in ways very similar.
It tastes very much like double standards sometimes.
I support NO unsolicited pics.
I don’t support ‘Do what I say not what I do’
It’s also interesting that this thread is talking about that and not so much the ‘mostly people talk shit!’ Vibe in the opening post
*Woody himself had just talked a lot of shit. He’s already aware of this. |
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"All i see is women talk about men and their dicks out,sending pics etc. but nearly every woman has thier tits or their ‘flower’ 🤣 out!!! They just lead us blokes on and chat so much shit it’s annoying. They are worst then men. They control everything on this site. I get lots of messages from women or couples asking to meet. Which every time leads to nothing and then not replying. All talk and always the victim. Rant over lol but does anyone agree or am I just throwing my dummy out here?!!!
You sound like you don't like women very much...
Oh I love women. I have grew up around a family of women with me being the only male and I know how to treat a lady but just think it’s all abit one sided here. I thought it would be a good post. If I’m
Wrong I will hold my hands up and apologise "
That sounds far too much like you're trying to be everything to everyone and that you'll take it all back for the sniff of a shag. Have the courage of your convictions. |
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Oh my if you don’t mind me saying I think you are wrong. Yes there are some who like to be difficult on here and controlling. However that is also same with men in my experience. The vast majority are nice people |
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"All i see is women talk about men and their dicks out,sending pics etc. but nearly every woman has thier tits or their ‘flower’ 🤣 out!!! They just lead us blokes on and chat so much shit it’s annoying. They are worst then men. They control everything on this site. I get lots of messages from women or couples asking to meet. Which every time leads to nothing and then not replying. All talk and always the victim. Rant over lol but does anyone agree or am I just throwing my dummy out here?!!!"
Yes but why in heavens name would you dis the one thing that you want to attract here not a good move .
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"I think there’s a big difference between having one or two pictures on your profile and sending nudes totally unsolicited. I’d never send a picture of my flaps unless it was asked for, can I not ask for the same courtesy in return?"
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By *agic.MMan 21 weeks ago
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"The chances are that if “loads of women” are asking to meet you, they’re probably not women at all.
Also “ Flower” 🤮"
Apologies could you please elaborate on that? Are you saying if lots of women express the desire to meet, but are not meeting they are men pretending to be women? Or are you saying that a single man on fab cannot have lots of women wanting to meet them? |
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"The chances are that if “loads of women” are asking to meet you, they’re probably not women at all.
Also “ Flower” 🤮"
This doesn’t really help at all
So what you’re saying is that men can’t have different woman messaging them?
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"The chances are that if “loads of women” are asking to meet you, they’re probably not women at all.
Also “ Flower” 🤮
This doesn’t really help at all
So what you’re saying is that men can’t have different woman messaging them?
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It's not that they "can't", just unlikely that they will... also, it's a well known fact that there are a large number of blokes on the site, who pretend to be women/couples to lead others on "for a laugh".
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Many women complain about getting dick pics - usually unsolicited in an early message. These women are often the ones who don’t have their genitals on show.
Some women like them or aren’t fussed either way. These women are the ones who may well have their genitals on show.
There’s no one women like/women hate. We aren’t a hive with one mind.
OP, look for people you’re compatible with, don’t worry about the rest and accept you won’t be for everyone.
And stop calling it a flower 😞
Although, I’m excited about this research you’re doing to “prove it” - so be sure to report back. |
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"The chances are that if “loads of women” are asking to meet you, they’re probably not women at all.
Also “ Flower” 🤮
Apologies could you please elaborate on that? Are you saying if lots of women express the desire to meet, but are not meeting they are men pretending to be women? Or are you saying that a single man on fab cannot have lots of women wanting to meet them?"
The former. Of course it’s not always the case, hence why I said “probably”. |
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"These flowers, are they lobelia or clematis?"
What's this got to do with flora?
I assummed (as someone familiar with crossword clues) that we were talking about rivers.
Apparently many men appreciate a good flash flood. |
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"The chances are that if “loads of women” are asking to meet you, they’re probably not women at all.
Also “ Flower” 🤮
This doesn’t really help at all
So what you’re saying is that men can’t have different woman messaging them?
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That’s not what I said. But the majority of men don’t have loads of women asking to meet them. |
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"I think there’s a big difference between having one or two pictures on your profile and sending nudes totally unsolicited. I’d never send a picture of my flaps unless it was asked for, can I not ask for the same courtesy in return?
Yes you can. And we can ask for whatever we like and that request of non unsolicited messages with explicit photo attachments to not be recieved should not need to be asked.
(Hopefully this is something that’s said in the web site in faqs or something. I dunno)
But. I would argue with the op that there’s an air of hypocrisy or something when we all read how disgusting it is to see dicks everywhere from sone very vocal women when they themselves are showing themselves off in ways very similar.
It tastes very much like double standards sometimes.
I support NO unsolicited pics.
I don’t support ‘Do what I say not what I do’
It’s also interesting that this thread is talking about that and not so much the ‘mostly people talk shit!’ Vibe in the opening post
*Woody himself had just talked a lot of shit. He’s already aware of this. "
That’s exactly what I had already said in my message, Woody 🤣 |
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"... am I just throwing my dummy out here?!!!"
Yup.
Tits out is not equal to cock out.
In my experience a smaller percentage of women appear to have their genitalia clearly hanging out than men do. I probably see more vagina on the average single male profile than I do on the average single female one.
I also don't particularly mind a nice shot of someone's genitals, but I want it to be somewhere in their gallery where it's on me if I choose to look or sent on request, I don't want to be confronted with it as a profile pic so it's there hanging out next to every single message, and I don't want them sent directly to me without request because I like people who understand the idea of consent.
Perhaps you're getting the people who ask to meet as a way to get wank fodder with no intent to actually meet. These people exist across all demographics. If I get a message from a couple asking to meet in the first message, apart from it just being an instant no, I do tend to assume it's the male half asking.
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But the majority of men don’t have loads of women asking to meet them.
A good point. I wonder how the ratios compare?
Men asking women to meet.
Women asking men to meet."
I haven't sent a single first contact message since the start of 2020.
Every conversation I've had in the last 4½ years has been started by women and couples contacting me.
Some of those have asked to meet. |
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"Not all women have their tits or 'flower' out
Correct and I agree! But not all men don’t. 8 or 9 out of ten womens profiles I can prove say NO DICK PICS… but have 4-5 pics of their flower out 😂😂😅👍
I don't mind dicks on profiles, I will happily open profiles to look at them. I just don't want it as an introduction on a first message from someone. A photo of it popping up on my screen when I open a message from someone I've never spoken to is not going to make me want to meet them. "
This for me too, people can have what they want on their profiles op, that's v different to sending cock shots to me when we've never spoken before.
I don't show too much on my profile either, but for women who do, again they can have what they like on their profiles and that doesn't mean they're obligated to meet anyone either.
Nobody is a fraud for having naked pics or action shots, they still have to be attracted to those they want to meet.
There's a massive difference between having your cock out on your profile and sending it in messages without being asked.
I'm guessing there won't be that many women who send unsolicited vag shots to men they've never messaged before.
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"All i see is women talk about men and their dicks out,sending pics etc. but nearly every woman has thier tits or their ‘flower’ 🤣 out!!! They just lead us blokes on and chat so much shit it’s annoying. They are worst then men. They control everything on this site. I get lots of messages from women or couples asking to meet. Which every time leads to nothing and then not replying. All talk and always the victim. Rant over lol but does anyone agree or am I just throwing my dummy out here?!!!"
The was a young chap called Sam
Who was clearly a frustrated young man
Perhaps he should take a cold shower
As I am quite partial to ogle the female form including the occasional tidy flower
And stop sounding like desperate Dan |
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By (user no longer on site) 21 weeks ago
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"Op call it her taco at least instead of flower 
Everyone loves Mexican food on here but not many are into gardening ffs  "
I like my Tacos neatly packed, full of juice and spicy. That said I am quite partial to a Sansevieria trifasciata |
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By (user no longer on site) 21 weeks ago
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"The chances are that if “loads of women” are asking to meet you, they’re probably not women at all.
Also “ Flower” 🤮
This doesn’t really help at all
So what you’re saying is that men can’t have different woman messaging them?
That’s not what I said. But the majority of men don’t have loads of women asking to meet them. "
Er excuse me I have an ad running in The Daily Bugle seeking a full time secretary to handle all my fab correspondence. It reads thus
International (mature) play boy seeks man or girl Friday to help with general administrative of his hedonistic lifestyle. Duties will include, answering voluminous e mails messages and requests to meet. Organising a very hectic diary of social a intimate meetings together with providing clear an accurate feedback.
Applicants should not be of a shrinking violet disposition as flowers will feature extensively in this role.
Remuneration will be commensurate with experience.
Overwhelming response so far even if I am blowing my own trumpet. |
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We have never had an unsolicited ‘flower pic’ sent to us.
Well only by a man including action shots of his cock inside a ‘flower’
There’s the difference.
Also boob pics definitely aren’t the same as cock pics.
I’m not sure why after seeing a profile with woman’s genitalia on that you then do a word search in their profile for ‘no cock pics’ - to justify in your head you are right 🤷🏻♂️
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By (user no longer on site) 21 weeks ago
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"So it's ok for you to have your chest out on your avatar but not me? 🤨
The tit pics are as bad as dick pics argument never really holds up 💜"
I’ll hold them up for you |
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"So it's ok for you to have your chest out on your avatar but not me? 🤨
The tit pics are as bad as dick pics argument never really holds up 💜
I’ll hold them up for you "
Aahhh that's really supportive of you |
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"So it's ok for you to have your chest out on your avatar but not me? 🤨
The tit pics are as bad as dick pics argument never really holds up 💜
I’ll hold them up for you "
It's okay, mine are only dinky, they don't need much support 💜 |
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"So it's ok for you to have your chest out on your avatar but not me? 🤨
The tit pics are as bad as dick pics argument never really holds up 💜"
It does if you have sexualised women’s bodies to the point that you think boobs are just as sexual as dicks. 🤗 |
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"So it's ok for you to have your chest out on your avatar but not me? 🤨
The tit pics are as bad as dick pics argument never really holds up 💜"
Nope never does. The only difference between mine and men is that I have more fat and other internal gubbins in front of my nipples.
My stomach is also contains extra layers of fat than a male and a uterus. But those differences are ok, but boobs heck no. |
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"... am I just throwing my dummy out here?!!!
Yup.
Tits out is not equal to cock out.
In my experience a smaller percentage of women appear to have their genitalia clearly hanging out than men do. I probably see more vagina on the average single male profile than I do on the average single female one.
I also don't particularly mind a nice shot of someone's genitals, but I want it to be somewhere in their gallery where it's on me if I choose to look or sent on request, I don't want to be confronted with it as a profile pic so it's there hanging out next to every single message, and I don't want them sent directly to me without request because I like people who understand the idea of consent.
Perhaps you're getting the people who ask to meet as a way to get wank fodder with no intent to actually meet. These people exist across all demographics. If I get a message from a couple asking to meet in the first message, apart from it just being an instant no, I do tend to assume it's the male half asking.
Why is a bisexual person's opinion invalid to you?"
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By (user no longer on site) 21 weeks ago
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OP, did this go the way you hoped? If you think the women are 'worst' (I think in the sentence you used it you meant 'worse'), then surely you should be trying men? Are you Fab straight out of interest? Couldn't be arsed to read the previous 100 posts, maybe the answer was there.
I suggest you try FabGuys and see if you are their cup of tea.
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By *eacecoreMan 21 weeks ago
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What an interesting topic, great for getting a varied response.
I usually hang around the chat room, and when cycling the cams, it's usually 99% of the guys willy wangling, and any females on cam it's their face or covered breasts. They say Men are from Mars, and Women are from Venus and this shows how different we really are. I remember the history of the old days when guys got turned on by Women "showing a bit of leg". It's the same now, the majority of Men can get frisky by seeing a pretty face, but imho a lot Women go for guys who can make them laugh, or emit a smidge of intelligence. Men seem to play for their own sexual gratification, whilst for Women it's empowerment (again, that's my opinion not necessarily shared by others)
I think everyone gets time wasters on here, and arranging a meet and having a no show is frustrating for all. The site does have a great verification process for people who do actually meet, plus a report function for no shows. |
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"What an interesting topic, great for getting a varied response.
I usually hang around the chat room, and when cycling the cams, it's usually 99% of the guys willy wangling, and any females on cam it's their face or covered breasts. They say Men are from Mars, and Women are from Venus and this shows how different we really are. I remember the history of the old days when guys got turned on by Women "showing a bit of leg". It's the same now, the majority of Men can get frisky by seeing a pretty face, but imho a lot Women go for guys who can make them laugh, or emit a smidge of intelligence. Men seem to play for their own sexual gratification, whilst for Women it's empowerment (again, that's my opinion not necessarily shared by others)
I think everyone gets time wasters on here, and arranging a meet and having a no show is frustrating for all. The site does have a great verification process for people who do actually meet, plus a report function for no shows."
And here's a man who understands the way most women think and what makes them tick, and I fully agree. Very similar to what I wrote to the OP who, to his credit, thanked me for making him see it from a woman's point of view. |
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"All i see is women talk about men and their dicks out,sending pics etc. but nearly every woman has thier tits or their ‘flower’ 🤣 out!!! They just lead us blokes on and chat so much shit it’s annoying. They are worst then men. They control everything on this site. I get lots of messages from women or couples asking to meet. Which every time leads to nothing and then not replying. All talk and always the victim. Rant over lol but does anyone agree or am I just throwing my dummy out here?!!!"
Surely the easiest option is to more over to fab guys as I can see you being able to change the current construct of men and women in society over night. |
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"All i see is women talk about men and their dicks out,sending pics etc. but nearly every woman has thier tits or their ‘flower’ 🤣 out!!! They just lead us blokes on and chat so much shit it’s annoying. They are worst then men. They control everything on this site. I get lots of messages from women or couples asking to meet. Which every time leads to nothing and then not replying. All talk and always the victim. Rant over lol but does anyone agree or am I just throwing my dummy out here?!!!"
Short answer No
Longer answer No |
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For me wife speaking. I don't care about dick pics on profiles or anything like that it's when you get a message from someone and it's just a dick picture I rather have a face picture sent to me so I know who I'm talking to then down the line I'll ask to see one. Big difference to seeing it on a profile to having one sent without asking just my opinion |
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"All i see is women talk about men and their dicks out,sending pics etc. but nearly every woman has thier tits or their ‘flower’ 🤣 out!!! They just lead us blokes on and chat so much shit it’s annoying. They are worst then men. They control everything on this site. I get lots of messages from women or couples asking to meet. Which every time leads to nothing and then not replying. All talk and always the victim. Rant over lol but does anyone agree or am I just throwing my dummy out here?!!!
Short answer No
Longer answer No"
I see that’s the long and short of it?
Bit like a dick picture? |
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"We have been stud up the last 5 or 6 times on fab looking for an extra bloke - it's easier to get a plummer to turn up than it is a fab meet "
We have had a similar experience, it boggles the mind considering most men on here complain about not getting meets |
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"We have been stud up the last 5 or 6 times on fab looking for an extra bloke - it's easier to get a plummer to turn up than it is a fab meet "
Looking at your profile I just struggle to get my head round why a fella that has managed to get a response from you and you've gone as far as arranging a meet then doesn't turn up - crackers!
I do reckon a sizeable chunk of folk on here (males, females, couples) love the idea of swinging and the thrill of the chase but when it comes to hey lads hey they shit the bed, so to speak.
Takes all sorts, as they say
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By (user no longer on site) 21 weeks ago
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We are so far down this thread I probably won’t reach the OP, and being the female part of a couple I might out matter… but here goes….
Firstly, I see a lot of male nipple ( I like!) but that doesn’t bother me just as it doesn’t with women.
Secondly I don’t care for seeing lots of and explicit full detail of the female intimate area just as I don’t want to see that from men either… hint and teasing is fine!
But I definitely want to see more from a profile… class, teasing…
I (wife) post photos of what I hope teases and leads to interest! I do this because I expect the same.
Posted from the wife’s point of view! |
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"We have been stud up the last 5 or 6 times on fab looking for an extra bloke - it's easier to get a plummer to turn up than it is a fab meet "
If a stud has turned up is that not good? |
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